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How Parenting Becomes a Weapon for LifeA new work by author Kim Seon-mi, author of "Bad Parenting," after four years.
This time, the author talks about his personal growth experience through 20 years of parenting through books.
This book, which honestly records the history of growing up together in a warm and friendly tone, tells us that ‘parenting skills’ are ‘life skills’ and introduces 100 laws of success.
December 1, 2023. PD Lee Joo-eun of Home Life
A new work from Kim Seon-mi, author of "Bad Parenting," after four years.
Early admission to Yonsei University + 20x salary increase
A mother's crazy experience of raising a child well and contributing to society
“How Parenting Becomes a Weapon in Life!”
A new work by Kim Seon-mi, the author of 『Bad Parenting』, which was loved by 500,000 readers, after 4 years.
"100 Rules of Parenting" is a book that finally organizes the 100 rules of success that have been accumulated step by step through 20 years of parenting experience.
The author, who has followed the path of reading, practice, and growth, once again proves the principle of 'a well-grown child + a successful mother' and grabs mothers by the scruff of the neck.
Ha-eun, who grew up through books, achieved the result of 'early admission to Yonsei University', and while raising her child, she also achieved 'quantum jump' growth as a mother, achieving the miracle of a 20-fold increase in annual salary over 15 years.
What my child's college entrance exam proved was not simply the "prestigious university signboard," but the answer to fostering the power to achieve a desired goal on one's own with will and passion.
“Why can’t I be someone, or someone die, no matter what?” This book is the answer to this question I’ve been asked countless times, and it’s a vivid report based on 20 years of observation on how parenting becomes a weapon in life.
How a mother and her child grew together in this crazy, heart-pounding, ultra-hyper-realistic journey, where pain and joy, frustration and hope, frustration and excitement are constantly intertwined, is recorded in detail in 100 records of internal strength.
While appreciating the author's depth of knowledge in his warm and friendly tone, you can also confirm the proposition that "when a mother's world expands, the child naturally grows well."
Early admission to Yonsei University + 20x salary increase
A mother's crazy experience of raising a child well and contributing to society
“How Parenting Becomes a Weapon in Life!”
A new work by Kim Seon-mi, the author of 『Bad Parenting』, which was loved by 500,000 readers, after 4 years.
"100 Rules of Parenting" is a book that finally organizes the 100 rules of success that have been accumulated step by step through 20 years of parenting experience.
The author, who has followed the path of reading, practice, and growth, once again proves the principle of 'a well-grown child + a successful mother' and grabs mothers by the scruff of the neck.
Ha-eun, who grew up through books, achieved the result of 'early admission to Yonsei University', and while raising her child, she also achieved 'quantum jump' growth as a mother, achieving the miracle of a 20-fold increase in annual salary over 15 years.
What my child's college entrance exam proved was not simply the "prestigious university signboard," but the answer to fostering the power to achieve a desired goal on one's own with will and passion.
“Why can’t I be someone, or someone die, no matter what?” This book is the answer to this question I’ve been asked countless times, and it’s a vivid report based on 20 years of observation on how parenting becomes a weapon in life.
How a mother and her child grew together in this crazy, heart-pounding, ultra-hyper-realistic journey, where pain and joy, frustration and hope, frustration and excitement are constantly intertwined, is recorded in detail in 100 records of internal strength.
While appreciating the author's depth of knowledge in his warm and friendly tone, you can also confirm the proposition that "when a mother's world expands, the child naturally grows well."
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Preview
index
Prologue: ‘Parenting skills’ were ‘life skills’!
* English skills
Internal Energy 001 “Honey, you studied abroad in the US, right?”
Internal energy 002 Don't spend money when your child is young
Internal Strength 003: Mothers who raise children find English easy.
Internal 004 Picture Books Become Children's "Cultural Capital"
The Secret to Reading Skills That Will Help You Pass the CSAT
Internal Energy 006: Creating a System That Can Be Used Consistently
The problem with 007 isn't whether there are subtitles, but rather the amount of exposure.
Why an English DVD in the era of OTT?
Internal Energy 009 Ha-eun's Life English Book
Internal Energy 010 Ha-eun's Life English DVD
* Private education skills
Internal Energy 011 No need to waver, don't be swept away
If you want to prioritize 'life' rather than 'first semester' of internal energy 012
Internal Energy 013 Why outsource the experience of achievement to an academy?
Internal Energy 014 Optimal Balance Between Risk and Benefit
The Secret of a Child Who Gets Better as He Goes Up in Grade 015
Internal Energy 016 Grab my child by the nape of his neck
Internal energy 017 I can't handle the aftermath, I have to handle it first
Internal energy 018 Don't think it's too late, let's do it together
Internal Skill 019 “Why do I have to study?” When my child asks
Internal energy 020 If you don't go crazy with parenting, neither the mother nor the child will go crazy.
* Investment skills
Internal Energy 021: This is what "Clear Money Laundering" is all about.
Internal Skill 022: The Attitudes of the Rich People I've Met About Money
Internal Strength 023: Will you live as a 'slave to money' or as a 'controller of money'?
Internal Energy 024 Living Money Study for Children
Internal Skill 025: Sharing Wisdom Brings Money
Internal Strength 026 The period of childcare should not be wasted.
Internal Energy 027 Should I use it for 'things' or 'experiences'?
Internal energy 028 Private education expenses 26 trillion won, what about retirement planning?
Internal Energy 029 Reduce maintenance costs and increase development costs.
Internal energy 030 It seems like it's given at first glance, but it's something that you get much more from.
* Reading skills
Internal energy 031 The quality changes when the quantity is full.
Internal Energy 032 In front of the bookshelf is a forest of thoughts
Internal Skill 033: The Insight that Leads to Wise Choices
Internal Skill 034 Having Your Own Question Mark
Internal Energy 035 Why I Buy and Read Paper Books
Internal Energy 036 A book to read only for fun
Internal energy 037 Let's spread it out, anywhere
Internal energy 038 'Reading internal energy' is 'Life internal energy'
Internal Energy 039: The miracle of breaking the stone in your chest
Internal energy level 040: Read 100 books a year. If you're going to do it, do it right.
* Record internal energy
Internal Skill 041: Profitable Writing: The Starting Point
Internal Energy 042 A sympathetic article that will bring tears, a runny nose, and laughter
Internal Energy 043 Like a hyena wandering in search of 'writing material'
Internal Energy 044 Today, Recording My Child
Internal Energy 045: The Key to Conquering the World: Magnetization
Internal Energy 046 It's okay to hold on to difficult emotions through writing.
Internal Energy 047: The Virtuous Cycle of 'Reading' and 'Writing'
Internal energy 048 Retreat is not regression, but progress
Internal Energy 049 The Key to Desperation is the Will to Change
I have to use 050 internal energy to get it, I have to use it to get it
* Relationship skills
Internal Energy 051 Social Distancing Rules for Children by Age
Internal Strength 052: The power of love and respect is ultimately the 'power of relationships'
Internal Energy 053: Infinite Praise and Freedom Move People
Internal energy 054 A noble person can appear anytime and anywhere.
Internal energy 055 The difficult problem of parenting, solved simply
Internal energy 056 It's worth fighting, I have to fight
Internal energy 057 Parenting internal energy becomes relationship internal energy
Internal energy 058: A technique for fighting on the same side
If you teach your child well at home, there will be no trouble at school.
Internal energy 060 No matter how much you say, it's not harmful
* Housekeeping skills
Internal Energy 061: The Correlation Between Small Happiness and Great Growth
Internal Energy 062 Kim Seon-mi's "Theory of Profitable Business"
Internal energy 063 It is 'real' only when I do it with my own body and hands.
Internal Energy 064 A child is the food that his mother feeds him.
Level 065: Stop eating processed foods and outside food, and eat healthy home-cooked meals.
Internal Energy 066 There are only two things: 'things I want to do' and 'things I don't want to do'.
Internal Energy 067: Why I'm Unifying My Home Interior and Living with White
Internal Skill 068: "Studying Life" is an opportunity to increase your work.
Internal Energy 069: Extreme Emptiness, the Value of Minimalism
Internal energy level 070: The ultimate master of housekeeping, the ultimate master of organization
* Mental strength
The era of IQ is over, the era of MQ has arrived.
Internal energy 072 The courage to change 'Chance' into 'Choice'
Internal energy 073 Parenting is damage control
Internal Energy 074 Don't run away from me or throw me away
Internal Strength 075 Positive Affirmations are Healthy Gaslighting
Internal Skill 076 How to Deal with Your Child's Lies
Internal Energy 077: Mental Health Management Tips for Children Preparing for College Entrance Exams
Internal Energy 078 If you are suffering from depression and lethargy
Internal Skill 079 A person of action, not a person of thought
Internal energy 080 Don't be a woman who expects, but a woman who is expected
* Immersive inner strength
Internal Energy 081: Start with a book and immerse yourself in anything.
Internal Skill 082 Parenting is a time of growth and immersion.
Internal Energy 083: How to Maintain and Expand Your Focus
Internal Energy 084: Why You Should Take Your Child's Smartphone Away
Level 085: You have to play hard to become deeply immersed.
Internal energy 086 The incredible effect of full-time immersion
Internal Energy 087: Practice and Immersion to Overcome Talent
Internal Energy 088: The Beginning of Immersion: Routine, Not Will
Level 089 Ha Eun-mam's 4 Stages of Immersion
When you reach the level of immersion of 090 internal energy, the world becomes easier.
* Life skills
Internal Strength 091 Golf, parenting, and life are all miserable training.
Internal Energy 092 The driving force behind my achievements is anxiety and fear.
Level 093 I am the mother and I am the one who is ahead.
Internal Energy 094: The Power of 'Immediate Execution or Not'
Internal energy 095 Now is the time to cope
Internal Energy 096 I have no intention of changing the world.
As your 'parenting skills' increase, your 'life skills' also improve.
Internal energy 098 If it's not hard, it's downhill
Internal energy 099 Life will be messed up
100 internal energy, intense heaven, languid hell
* English skills
Internal Energy 001 “Honey, you studied abroad in the US, right?”
Internal energy 002 Don't spend money when your child is young
Internal Strength 003: Mothers who raise children find English easy.
Internal 004 Picture Books Become Children's "Cultural Capital"
The Secret to Reading Skills That Will Help You Pass the CSAT
Internal Energy 006: Creating a System That Can Be Used Consistently
The problem with 007 isn't whether there are subtitles, but rather the amount of exposure.
Why an English DVD in the era of OTT?
Internal Energy 009 Ha-eun's Life English Book
Internal Energy 010 Ha-eun's Life English DVD
* Private education skills
Internal Energy 011 No need to waver, don't be swept away
If you want to prioritize 'life' rather than 'first semester' of internal energy 012
Internal Energy 013 Why outsource the experience of achievement to an academy?
Internal Energy 014 Optimal Balance Between Risk and Benefit
The Secret of a Child Who Gets Better as He Goes Up in Grade 015
Internal Energy 016 Grab my child by the nape of his neck
Internal energy 017 I can't handle the aftermath, I have to handle it first
Internal energy 018 Don't think it's too late, let's do it together
Internal Skill 019 “Why do I have to study?” When my child asks
Internal energy 020 If you don't go crazy with parenting, neither the mother nor the child will go crazy.
* Investment skills
Internal Energy 021: This is what "Clear Money Laundering" is all about.
Internal Skill 022: The Attitudes of the Rich People I've Met About Money
Internal Strength 023: Will you live as a 'slave to money' or as a 'controller of money'?
Internal Energy 024 Living Money Study for Children
Internal Skill 025: Sharing Wisdom Brings Money
Internal Strength 026 The period of childcare should not be wasted.
Internal Energy 027 Should I use it for 'things' or 'experiences'?
Internal energy 028 Private education expenses 26 trillion won, what about retirement planning?
Internal Energy 029 Reduce maintenance costs and increase development costs.
Internal energy 030 It seems like it's given at first glance, but it's something that you get much more from.
* Reading skills
Internal energy 031 The quality changes when the quantity is full.
Internal Energy 032 In front of the bookshelf is a forest of thoughts
Internal Skill 033: The Insight that Leads to Wise Choices
Internal Skill 034 Having Your Own Question Mark
Internal Energy 035 Why I Buy and Read Paper Books
Internal Energy 036 A book to read only for fun
Internal energy 037 Let's spread it out, anywhere
Internal energy 038 'Reading internal energy' is 'Life internal energy'
Internal Energy 039: The miracle of breaking the stone in your chest
Internal energy level 040: Read 100 books a year. If you're going to do it, do it right.
* Record internal energy
Internal Skill 041: Profitable Writing: The Starting Point
Internal Energy 042 A sympathetic article that will bring tears, a runny nose, and laughter
Internal Energy 043 Like a hyena wandering in search of 'writing material'
Internal Energy 044 Today, Recording My Child
Internal Energy 045: The Key to Conquering the World: Magnetization
Internal Energy 046 It's okay to hold on to difficult emotions through writing.
Internal Energy 047: The Virtuous Cycle of 'Reading' and 'Writing'
Internal energy 048 Retreat is not regression, but progress
Internal Energy 049 The Key to Desperation is the Will to Change
I have to use 050 internal energy to get it, I have to use it to get it
* Relationship skills
Internal Energy 051 Social Distancing Rules for Children by Age
Internal Strength 052: The power of love and respect is ultimately the 'power of relationships'
Internal Energy 053: Infinite Praise and Freedom Move People
Internal energy 054 A noble person can appear anytime and anywhere.
Internal energy 055 The difficult problem of parenting, solved simply
Internal energy 056 It's worth fighting, I have to fight
Internal energy 057 Parenting internal energy becomes relationship internal energy
Internal energy 058: A technique for fighting on the same side
If you teach your child well at home, there will be no trouble at school.
Internal energy 060 No matter how much you say, it's not harmful
* Housekeeping skills
Internal Energy 061: The Correlation Between Small Happiness and Great Growth
Internal Energy 062 Kim Seon-mi's "Theory of Profitable Business"
Internal energy 063 It is 'real' only when I do it with my own body and hands.
Internal Energy 064 A child is the food that his mother feeds him.
Level 065: Stop eating processed foods and outside food, and eat healthy home-cooked meals.
Internal Energy 066 There are only two things: 'things I want to do' and 'things I don't want to do'.
Internal Energy 067: Why I'm Unifying My Home Interior and Living with White
Internal Skill 068: "Studying Life" is an opportunity to increase your work.
Internal Energy 069: Extreme Emptiness, the Value of Minimalism
Internal energy level 070: The ultimate master of housekeeping, the ultimate master of organization
* Mental strength
The era of IQ is over, the era of MQ has arrived.
Internal energy 072 The courage to change 'Chance' into 'Choice'
Internal energy 073 Parenting is damage control
Internal Energy 074 Don't run away from me or throw me away
Internal Strength 075 Positive Affirmations are Healthy Gaslighting
Internal Skill 076 How to Deal with Your Child's Lies
Internal Energy 077: Mental Health Management Tips for Children Preparing for College Entrance Exams
Internal Energy 078 If you are suffering from depression and lethargy
Internal Skill 079 A person of action, not a person of thought
Internal energy 080 Don't be a woman who expects, but a woman who is expected
* Immersive inner strength
Internal Energy 081: Start with a book and immerse yourself in anything.
Internal Skill 082 Parenting is a time of growth and immersion.
Internal Energy 083: How to Maintain and Expand Your Focus
Internal Energy 084: Why You Should Take Your Child's Smartphone Away
Level 085: You have to play hard to become deeply immersed.
Internal energy 086 The incredible effect of full-time immersion
Internal Energy 087: Practice and Immersion to Overcome Talent
Internal Energy 088: The Beginning of Immersion: Routine, Not Will
Level 089 Ha Eun-mam's 4 Stages of Immersion
When you reach the level of immersion of 090 internal energy, the world becomes easier.
* Life skills
Internal Strength 091 Golf, parenting, and life are all miserable training.
Internal Energy 092 The driving force behind my achievements is anxiety and fear.
Level 093 I am the mother and I am the one who is ahead.
Internal Energy 094: The Power of 'Immediate Execution or Not'
Internal energy 095 Now is the time to cope
Internal Energy 096 I have no intention of changing the world.
As your 'parenting skills' increase, your 'life skills' also improve.
Internal energy 098 If it's not hard, it's downhill
Internal energy 099 Life will be messed up
100 internal energy, intense heaven, languid hell
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Into the book
I heard that the hottest English kindergarten in Gangnam these days costs 2.3 million won a month. They're spending their own money anyway, so it's none of my business, but is that worth it? Absolutely not.
In English, you don't have to spend 'money', you have to spend 'time'.
Math requires a quick, immersive learning like a cheetah, and English requires a slow, long exposure like a sloth, to truly become a child's possession.
And what good would it do if a child went to a kindergarten and was just good at speaking? Isn't the content, the substance, the key? Even if your pronunciation isn't quite right, if your words are rich and creative, and even have a compelling worldview, everyone will listen.
It's the same whether it's Korean or English.
If your language is to be heard, monetized, employed, and used, it must emerge from a diverse spectrum of thought. It must fill your mind, not your mouth.
---From "Don't Spend Money When Your Child is Young" in English
My view on private education is that the return on investment should be significantly better.
The reason for opposing early private education is that it is difficult to achieve results in proportion to the time and money invested, and it is not something that can be expected.
When it needs to take root deep in the ground with the sun, wind, water, and love, we shouldn't be urging it to bear fruit quickly by pouring on chemical fertilizers.
I guess we can tie the knot.
But it doesn't take long for it to wither away.
Neither the tree nor the farmer knew that its roots were rotting because it did not receive the farmer's love.
When trees that have survived and endured without fertilizer in the open field are bearing abundant fruit, you should not raise them to become lifeless and withered trees.
As time goes by, I begin to think that parenting is a 'balance game'.
The point is that a mother's role is to find the optimal balance between risk and benefit.
If the benefits outweigh the risks, then that choice is the one you should make.
If it's the other way around, you shouldn't send your child down that path.
Rather than wasting energy gathering information on private academies from a young age and paying back-breaking tuition fees while depriving children of the opportunity to read, write, think, and explore on their own, it is more efficient to accumulate the money and intellect to support them when they really need it.
---From "The Optimal Balance Between Risk and Benefit in Private Education"
My definition of a 'good rich person' is someone who earns a lot honestly, uses it for good, and 'makes money flow' through me.
That is, to prevent the money that comes into me from staying there.
Making money by leveraging my abilities, investing when I have the time, and being willing to help where it's needed, creating a big flow.
This is truly 'clean money laundering', attracting the world's money and purifying it.
So, it's 'white filtering'.
The goal is not to become rich and live a luxurious life, but to create great energy through 'money flow' and to create a positive influence through that great energy.
---From "This is what clean money laundering is like" in "Investment Techniques"
We live in a digital world where even trying to stop someone won't work.
If you let your guard down, you are likely to become a ‘slave to the media’ or a ‘slave to the digital world.’
Why, in this day and age, do we insist on reading paper books instead of e-books? It's simple.
Because I don't want to lose control of my life.
This is the one thing I hold tightly in my hand, that I can never lose: the editorial authority over the text I read and interpret.
When I read a paper book, I become a director.
Focus, zoom in, crop, paste, add, and stretch to your heart's content.
Whenever a word I like, a sentence that makes my heart flutter, a person I respect, or a thought I want to be like appears, I underline it, circle it, mark it with a triangle or a square, write it in the space above, below, and next to it with a ballpoint pen, and in short, I read it with a bang.
---From "Reading Skills: Why I Buy and Read Paper Books"
Why do I "need" to write down the daily routine of parenting, where yesterday feels like today, today feels like tomorrow, and tomorrow will soon be the day after tomorrow? I'm already so busy and distracted, I can't even keep up. If I don't write it down and review it, I'll end up making "requests" today rather than expressing my admiration for my child's progress from yesterday.
I can't thank the wonderful child who has gone through this amazing time of growth, and I keep demanding and being greedy.
If true motherhood is to take root within me, I must write it down.
I have to 'at least' keep a record.
That way it gets better.
Being able to record, reflect, chew over, reminisce, and introspect is the only way to become a better mother.
---From "Recording Internal Strength 'Today, Recording My Child'"
These are the two most important things I've learned over 20 years of parenting.
First, the child is not ‘listening’ to the mother’s words (written as ‘words’ but read as ‘nagging’), but is ‘watching’ the mother’s actions and life.
Second, children do not 'change' by being scolded and taught, but simply 'reveal' their inherently good nature and conscience.
That's why parenting is such a difficult and challenging field.
Where else can you find such brutal realism, where a mother's physical strength, speech, attitude, gaze, energy, spirit, and even skills are all exposed and exposed 24 hours a day! There's nowhere to turn.
There is no place to hide.
That's why mothers must establish a mature personality and a good conscience.
---From "Relationship Skills: 'The Difficult Problem of Parenting, Simply Solved'"
Life is a long, arduous, and long-term uphill climb, but if you look closely, it is a series of countless zigzag upward graphs.
Even if life seems like it's falling into a pit of despair, if you look closely, there are countless fun, exciting, and touching moments.
As much as I know, study, and prepare, those refreshing, thrilling, tear-jerking moments are visible and palpable! Don't let them pass you by without noticing them. Feel them all, every grain of sand, and fully enjoy them.
Whether you're a crazy bitch jumping rope or going crazy, raise your child well and fly away.
In English, you don't have to spend 'money', you have to spend 'time'.
Math requires a quick, immersive learning like a cheetah, and English requires a slow, long exposure like a sloth, to truly become a child's possession.
And what good would it do if a child went to a kindergarten and was just good at speaking? Isn't the content, the substance, the key? Even if your pronunciation isn't quite right, if your words are rich and creative, and even have a compelling worldview, everyone will listen.
It's the same whether it's Korean or English.
If your language is to be heard, monetized, employed, and used, it must emerge from a diverse spectrum of thought. It must fill your mind, not your mouth.
---From "Don't Spend Money When Your Child is Young" in English
My view on private education is that the return on investment should be significantly better.
The reason for opposing early private education is that it is difficult to achieve results in proportion to the time and money invested, and it is not something that can be expected.
When it needs to take root deep in the ground with the sun, wind, water, and love, we shouldn't be urging it to bear fruit quickly by pouring on chemical fertilizers.
I guess we can tie the knot.
But it doesn't take long for it to wither away.
Neither the tree nor the farmer knew that its roots were rotting because it did not receive the farmer's love.
When trees that have survived and endured without fertilizer in the open field are bearing abundant fruit, you should not raise them to become lifeless and withered trees.
As time goes by, I begin to think that parenting is a 'balance game'.
The point is that a mother's role is to find the optimal balance between risk and benefit.
If the benefits outweigh the risks, then that choice is the one you should make.
If it's the other way around, you shouldn't send your child down that path.
Rather than wasting energy gathering information on private academies from a young age and paying back-breaking tuition fees while depriving children of the opportunity to read, write, think, and explore on their own, it is more efficient to accumulate the money and intellect to support them when they really need it.
---From "The Optimal Balance Between Risk and Benefit in Private Education"
My definition of a 'good rich person' is someone who earns a lot honestly, uses it for good, and 'makes money flow' through me.
That is, to prevent the money that comes into me from staying there.
Making money by leveraging my abilities, investing when I have the time, and being willing to help where it's needed, creating a big flow.
This is truly 'clean money laundering', attracting the world's money and purifying it.
So, it's 'white filtering'.
The goal is not to become rich and live a luxurious life, but to create great energy through 'money flow' and to create a positive influence through that great energy.
---From "This is what clean money laundering is like" in "Investment Techniques"
We live in a digital world where even trying to stop someone won't work.
If you let your guard down, you are likely to become a ‘slave to the media’ or a ‘slave to the digital world.’
Why, in this day and age, do we insist on reading paper books instead of e-books? It's simple.
Because I don't want to lose control of my life.
This is the one thing I hold tightly in my hand, that I can never lose: the editorial authority over the text I read and interpret.
When I read a paper book, I become a director.
Focus, zoom in, crop, paste, add, and stretch to your heart's content.
Whenever a word I like, a sentence that makes my heart flutter, a person I respect, or a thought I want to be like appears, I underline it, circle it, mark it with a triangle or a square, write it in the space above, below, and next to it with a ballpoint pen, and in short, I read it with a bang.
---From "Reading Skills: Why I Buy and Read Paper Books"
Why do I "need" to write down the daily routine of parenting, where yesterday feels like today, today feels like tomorrow, and tomorrow will soon be the day after tomorrow? I'm already so busy and distracted, I can't even keep up. If I don't write it down and review it, I'll end up making "requests" today rather than expressing my admiration for my child's progress from yesterday.
I can't thank the wonderful child who has gone through this amazing time of growth, and I keep demanding and being greedy.
If true motherhood is to take root within me, I must write it down.
I have to 'at least' keep a record.
That way it gets better.
Being able to record, reflect, chew over, reminisce, and introspect is the only way to become a better mother.
---From "Recording Internal Strength 'Today, Recording My Child'"
These are the two most important things I've learned over 20 years of parenting.
First, the child is not ‘listening’ to the mother’s words (written as ‘words’ but read as ‘nagging’), but is ‘watching’ the mother’s actions and life.
Second, children do not 'change' by being scolded and taught, but simply 'reveal' their inherently good nature and conscience.
That's why parenting is such a difficult and challenging field.
Where else can you find such brutal realism, where a mother's physical strength, speech, attitude, gaze, energy, spirit, and even skills are all exposed and exposed 24 hours a day! There's nowhere to turn.
There is no place to hide.
That's why mothers must establish a mature personality and a good conscience.
---From "Relationship Skills: 'The Difficult Problem of Parenting, Simply Solved'"
Life is a long, arduous, and long-term uphill climb, but if you look closely, it is a series of countless zigzag upward graphs.
Even if life seems like it's falling into a pit of despair, if you look closely, there are countless fun, exciting, and touching moments.
As much as I know, study, and prepare, those refreshing, thrilling, tear-jerking moments are visible and palpable! Don't let them pass you by without noticing them. Feel them all, every grain of sand, and fully enjoy them.
Whether you're a crazy bitch jumping rope or going crazy, raise your child well and fly away.
---From "Life's inner strength: 'If it's not hard, it's downhill'"
Publisher's Review
All-round parenting muscle training × Authentic mom development book
“The skill of raising children is the skill of life!”
Holding the card called 'book parenting' that anyone could see had to be thrown out, I bet bravely and without any end in sight.
Twenty years later, she returned, having successfully accomplished the seemingly incompatible tasks of being a "well-raised child" and a "successful mother"! "All the effort I put into raising my child ended up raising me well, too!"
'Book parenting', which involves reading a large number of used books, is no longer a trick, but a symbol of a proper 'dog out of the woods' and the only hope.
The period of raising children, where mothers read books together and roll around with their children instead of sending them to academies or institutions, is not a time of career break or pause, but a time of surprising growth for mothers themselves.
The astonishing principles and explosive power of "Childcare + My Childcare"! "The time I was able to raise Ha-eun, who came to my rescue, and raise young Seon-mi at the same time was truly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity!"
This book is a guide to how to properly navigate the tedious, difficult, tedious, lonely, and hopeless period of parenting without escaping into virtual reality, and how to transform it into a time of dazzling growth.
It is a parenting book that is essential for navigating the chaotic times without wavering, and it is also a development book that allows mothers to continuously train themselves.
Raising an all-weather warrior with '100-level internal energy'
Korea's first mother-child training center
“If the routine itself is difficult, has a lot of material, and is tight, it is bound to fail.
“The key to English exposure is to find a speed that you can maintain and repeat it like a machine.” _ English skills
“If you give something to others, whether it be material goods, pleasure, or wisdom, money is bound to come in.
This is the conclusion I personally realized while my annual salary increased 20-fold over the past 15 years.” _ Financial management skills
"Where else can you find such brutal realism, where a mother's physical strength, speech, attitude, gaze, energy, and even spirit are all exposed and exposed 24 hours a day? There's nowhere to turn.
There is no place to hide.” _ Relationship skills
The author has unraveled the secrets of success, discovered one by one through 20 years of experience in parenting, in 100 chapters.
It contains a total of 10 carefully selected skills that are essential for raising children and myself: English skills, private education skills, financial skills, reading skills, record-keeping skills, relationship skills, housekeeping skills, mental skills, immersion skills, and life skills.
This is a training center for mothers and children that nurtures all-weather warriors with a true level of '100-level internal energy'.
Day after day, month after month, year after year, over a period of 20 years, the inner strength that has been built up like layers of different colors can never be destroyed or scattered in vain.
What's even more wonderful is that a mother's world, which has grown so much, creates a bright future for her child.
As we navigate the long tunnel of parenting, the proposition engraved in every cell of our being is, "As a mother's world expands, her child naturally thrives." I hope you experience this joy of growing together, this joy of shared growth, before you die.
“The skill of raising children is the skill of life!”
Holding the card called 'book parenting' that anyone could see had to be thrown out, I bet bravely and without any end in sight.
Twenty years later, she returned, having successfully accomplished the seemingly incompatible tasks of being a "well-raised child" and a "successful mother"! "All the effort I put into raising my child ended up raising me well, too!"
'Book parenting', which involves reading a large number of used books, is no longer a trick, but a symbol of a proper 'dog out of the woods' and the only hope.
The period of raising children, where mothers read books together and roll around with their children instead of sending them to academies or institutions, is not a time of career break or pause, but a time of surprising growth for mothers themselves.
The astonishing principles and explosive power of "Childcare + My Childcare"! "The time I was able to raise Ha-eun, who came to my rescue, and raise young Seon-mi at the same time was truly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity!"
This book is a guide to how to properly navigate the tedious, difficult, tedious, lonely, and hopeless period of parenting without escaping into virtual reality, and how to transform it into a time of dazzling growth.
It is a parenting book that is essential for navigating the chaotic times without wavering, and it is also a development book that allows mothers to continuously train themselves.
Raising an all-weather warrior with '100-level internal energy'
Korea's first mother-child training center
“If the routine itself is difficult, has a lot of material, and is tight, it is bound to fail.
“The key to English exposure is to find a speed that you can maintain and repeat it like a machine.” _ English skills
“If you give something to others, whether it be material goods, pleasure, or wisdom, money is bound to come in.
This is the conclusion I personally realized while my annual salary increased 20-fold over the past 15 years.” _ Financial management skills
"Where else can you find such brutal realism, where a mother's physical strength, speech, attitude, gaze, energy, and even spirit are all exposed and exposed 24 hours a day? There's nowhere to turn.
There is no place to hide.” _ Relationship skills
The author has unraveled the secrets of success, discovered one by one through 20 years of experience in parenting, in 100 chapters.
It contains a total of 10 carefully selected skills that are essential for raising children and myself: English skills, private education skills, financial skills, reading skills, record-keeping skills, relationship skills, housekeeping skills, mental skills, immersion skills, and life skills.
This is a training center for mothers and children that nurtures all-weather warriors with a true level of '100-level internal energy'.
Day after day, month after month, year after year, over a period of 20 years, the inner strength that has been built up like layers of different colors can never be destroyed or scattered in vain.
What's even more wonderful is that a mother's world, which has grown so much, creates a bright future for her child.
As we navigate the long tunnel of parenting, the proposition engraved in every cell of our being is, "As a mother's world expands, her child naturally thrives." I hope you experience this joy of growing together, this joy of shared growth, before you die.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Publication date: November 24, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 296 pages | 348g | 132*200*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791198516206
- ISBN10: 1198516208
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