prolog.
The son has a reason

Part 1.
Raising a son
: The troubles of a son's mother that a daughter's mother doesn't know about

01.
Why on earth does my son do that?
: If you are having a hard time because of your son, please know this.
02.
Why Sons Seem More Deficient Than Daughters
: Don't compare, but first understand your son's characteristics.
03.
The most difficult thing about raising a son
: Moments of dilemma when it's hard to be angry or hold back
04.
Will my son change if I scold him?
: The fundamental reason why we keep getting angry and regretting things
@SonTV: 3 Things Parents Who Get Along Well with Their Sons Have in Common

Part 2.
Son, Mom, this is why it's hard.
How to resolve conflict with your son

01.
Once a person speaks, shouldn't he understand?
: The moment when parental authority falls
02.
Why do you have to be scary to listen to me?
Corporal punishment can be contagious
03.
Aren't you anxious about not doing your homework?
: Learning to Motivate Your Son
04.
Why are you being so aggressive when I didn't even teach you?
: A violent mind drawn to fighting games
05.
Can't you see what the other person doesn't like?
: Logic over empathy
06.
Why don't you tell me what happened at school?
: How to get closer to your son
07.
Where did you learn to say that?
: The mind of a son who uses foul language
08.
Is there no way to do anything on time?
: Look at your mother's feelings first
09.
Do you only do that in front of your grandmother?
: How a child's behavior changes when there is support
@SonTV: How to deal with a child who always wants a reward

Part 3.
My son needs 'behavioral parenting'
: How to Raise a Child with Appropriate Acceptance and Firmness

CHAPTER 1.
temperament

01.
A son who has a hard time waiting
How to Develop Your 'Ability to Delay Gratification'
02.
A son who always brags about everything
: How to properly utilize the advantages of bluffing
03.
A son running to the edge of distraction
: How to Love Your Own Temperament
04. My son has ADHD and tic symptoms.
: How to relieve your child's symptoms
05.
A son with high anxiety and fear
: How to create a sense of stability and trust
06.
Coaching Your Son to Get What He Wants
: How to properly reject a child's desires
07.
My son hates going to new places
: How to deal well with sensitive characteristics
08.
A son who has difficulty controlling his anger
: How to Handle Anger Outbursts Without Getting Involved
@SonTV: How to Ignite Your Son's Will to Study

CHAPTER 2.
communication

09.
A son who doesn't listen at all
: How to develop your ability to change
10.
A son who obeys his parents only after being beaten
How to Change a Child Without Conflict
11.
A son who is aware of foul language among his friends
: How to effectively control profanity
12.
A son who chooses to act mischievously
: How to Respond Well to Pranks and Teasing
13.
A son who only listens when he gets angry
How to deal with a child without getting angry
14.
The lying son
: How to know your son's feelings
@SonTV: Parents of children with high self-esteem never nag like this.

CHAPTER 3.
Sociality

15.
A son who fights with his younger brother every day
: How to prevent emotional rifts from building between siblings
16.
A son who is in combative conflict with his parents
How to Reduce Conflicts with Your Son
17.
A son who can't handle negative emotions
: How to accept your own mind without distorting it
18.
A son who gets irritated often
: How to avoid being trapped in feelings of inferiority and alienation
19.
A son who can't ask for help
: How to Instill Faith in the World
20.
A son who always feels wronged by his mother's words
: How to acknowledge your feelings and control your actions
21.
A son who cries out loud when he loses an argument
: How to Deal with Competitiveness
22.
A son who thinks discipline is submission
: How to reduce impulsive control
23.
A son who does not accept instructions
: How to fix the mother-son relationship
24.
My son is becoming more and more secretive
: How to Deal with Your Teenage Son
@SonTV: 4 Essential Sex Education Tips for Your Son

Part 4.
The illusion that this is all because of the game
: 6-Step Strategy to Break Game Problems

Step 1.
Why do I get angry when my son only plays games?
: A Look into Parents' Feelings About Gaming
Step 2.
Why does my son like games so much?
: Understanding the psychology of a son addicted to games
Step 3.
Is my son addicted to gaming?
: Let's start by looking at the relationship between mother and son.
Step 4.
Are games only harmful?
: Refreshing your perception of games
Step 5.
How should I control the game?
: How to limit game time without conflict
Step 6.
Can your child self-regulate their game?
: Recovering from the daily life ruined by games
@SonTV: A Simple Way to Establish Mom's Authority

Part 5.
Parents' educational perspectives that influence self-efficacy
: How to Improve Your Son's Learning Ability and Self-Esteem

01.
Will your skills improve if you force yourself to do something?
: It is important to develop a sense of efficacy through strengths.
02.
How can I develop my son's self-esteem?
: A person cannot go beyond the identity he has established for himself.
03.
How is a son's identity formed?
: Building self-esteem through appropriate intervention
04.
How can our perception of studying change?
: The Miracle of Small Success

Epilogue | To adults living in a society that hates children

"Is my disobedient son the problem? Or am I the problem, the one who just keeps getting angry?"
A mother feels helpless as her son remains unchanged no matter how much she says.
Now is the time for decisive action!
With 700,000 subscribers, "Son TV" shares its unique know-how.

“Oh my! A son? Raising a son isn’t easy. Are you okay?”

When I say I have a son, I hear voices of concern, big and small, from those around me.
Because of these words, even before giving birth, I worry that it might be a boy.
In reality, most parents raising sons have many worries.
I'm worried that my son might get hurt while playing rough, that he might get into violent fights with his friends, that he might become addicted to games, that he might ruin the atmosphere in the classroom, etc.


It's often difficult for a mother to be overwhelmed by her son's overflowing energy and competitive spirit, his unwillingness to listen to what he says, and his blunt expressions.
I often get angry at my child and yell at him without realizing it, and then blame myself.
I'm always confused as to whether the problem is my son who doesn't listen or me who just gets angry.
I feel helpless because my son doesn't change no matter how much I tell him.
In countless books and broadcasts, experts say, "Don't get angry, but empathize with your child." However, many parents complain that this language of empathy doesn't seem to work with their own children.


Director Choi Min-jun, Korea's leading expert on raising sons and host of the YouTube channel "Son TV" with 700,000 subscribers, says that we must face the reality that it is not easy to raise a son well with warmth and love alone.
It is important to empathize with your child's feelings, but when raising a son, it is essential to practice 'behavioral parenting', which involves correcting the child with appropriate acceptance and firmness.

The Fundamentals of Son Coaching: "Behavioral Parenting" Over "Empathetic Parenting"
How to Raise Your Son Properly with Appropriate Acceptance and Firmness
The ultimate solution to nurture natural strengths and correct behavioral problems.

'Behavioral parenting' means giving clear instructions to a child without showing anger or appeals, and showing them through actions when the child does not follow them.
That is, it is a method that can be used to warmly restrain the child without attacking him.
Because excessive empathy often prevents children from responding appropriately to their words and actions, 'behavioral parenting' is essential to correct misbehavior.
In the book, the author offers specific ways to change bad behavior and build strengths without hurting your son.
If parents also treat their children with 'behavioral parenting' without unnecessary emotional exhaustion, their self-reproach will decrease.


This book contains the author's unique insights, developed through counseling with countless mothers of sons and through education specifically for boys.
Not only does it suggest methods for understanding your son's temperament, speaking skills, emotional coaching, game control, and developing self-efficacy, it also includes a selection of popular content that received a great response on "Son TV."

While books on raising sons are constantly being published in the publishing market, the author's clear insights and unparalleled know-how, as demonstrated on the "Son TV" channel, are difficult for any expert to match.
This book is a compilation of the author's son coaching secrets, which have garnered the enthusiastic support and trust of 700,000 subscribers. It will be a must-read for all parents of sons from infancy to the beginning of puberty.


We must acknowledge our son's innate characteristics.
Grow up as a child who loves his or her own temperament!

"Son TV," renowned as the best educational channel, is loved by a wide range of subscribers, including parents raising sons, parents raising daughters, and wives who have difficulty understanding their husbands.
In addition to providing tips on raising children, it also serves as an influential channel for understanding the difficulties parents face while raising young children and broadening their understanding of others through psychological approaches.
Although the view that gender differences are caused by social environment is stronger than ever, children clearly have their own innate temperament.
Therefore, it is a big task for parents to properly educate their sons in the midst of changing social consciousness.
When parents understand their son's characteristics, acknowledge the differences, and provide coaching tailored to their child, they will be able to change their son without hurting him.


When you see your son's innate qualities as they are, he will come to love his own temperament.
Additionally, self-efficacy grows as you develop your given strengths.
Pointing out a child's shortcomings and limiting thoughts and experiences about their identity should not come first.
The author says that the most important essence of education is 'instilling an identity that allows one to have correct expectations about oneself.'
If a child has established a proper identity for himself, he will accept himself as he is and will naturally grow into a winged being.