Kim Jong-won's Real Parent Study
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Book Introduction
- A word from MD
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Happy parenting completed through hard workThe first handwritten book by author Kim Jong-won, a mentor to 300,000 parents.
Contains 101 parenting messages to help you become a good parent.
The author says that you must make the parenting methods you have read and learned your own by writing for 10 minutes a day.
Experience 101 messages that help parents and children grow happily together.
September 5, 2023. Lee Joo-eun, PD of Home Life
I read parenting books, listened to lectures, and received parenting education.
It was difficult for you to readily say that you were a good parent!
Starting today, copy "Kim Jong-won's 101 Happy Parenting Messages."
★ The first handwritten book by author Kim Jong-won, a mentor to 300,000 parents who has consistently emphasized handwriting.
★ A must-read for children's education, a compilation of author Kim Jong-won's core messages in 101 essays.
We live in a world where parenting methods are pouring out everywhere.
From books to YouTube videos and even offline lectures, you can literally fill 24 hours with parenting education.
That's all? You don't even have to go far.
The popularity of "parenting coaching programs" has made it possible to get instant solutions just by turning on the television, and even people without children are consuming parenting content that reminds them of their own childhood.
But why is raising children still so difficult?
Even if I split up my time and study various parenting methods, my child never gets what I want.
It's a series of heartbreaking things.
Regarding this, author Kim Jong-won, a mentor to 300,000 parents and an expert in humanities education, says this:
“Because it is not mine yet.
The answer lies in the transcription.
(Omitted) If parents clearly state their intentions, their children will not be swayed by any wind.”
Yes, that's right.
It doesn't matter how much time and money we've spent on 'learning parenting skills'.
If you don't 'write it down', it's nothing more than something that quickly evaporates in the hectic parenting environment.
In order to properly apply the parenting methods you have learned through reading in real life, you must write them down.
By writing down a philosophical message with my own hands and digesting it through my words and actions, it can truly become 'my own.'
“Transcription is the least intellectual act that all parents should do.
Here are 101 messages that will be at the core of it.”
"Kim Jong-won's Real Parenting Study" is the first handwritten book by author Kim Jong-won, who has emphasized "handwriting" at every moment.
The author, who has studied humanities and child education for 30 years, wrote over 80 books, and accumulated wisdom through dozens of times that amount of thought, has compiled the core insights that parents should take to heart into 101 messages for happy parenting.
These are 'real' messages whose effectiveness has been proven through sharing experiences with many parents.
If you've tried to be a good parent, but found yourself stuck in a routine of increasingly greater guilt and stress, then you should copy this book right now.
You will be able to break free from the past of hating yourself and your child and welcome a happy present.
It was difficult for you to readily say that you were a good parent!
Starting today, copy "Kim Jong-won's 101 Happy Parenting Messages."
★ The first handwritten book by author Kim Jong-won, a mentor to 300,000 parents who has consistently emphasized handwriting.
★ A must-read for children's education, a compilation of author Kim Jong-won's core messages in 101 essays.
We live in a world where parenting methods are pouring out everywhere.
From books to YouTube videos and even offline lectures, you can literally fill 24 hours with parenting education.
That's all? You don't even have to go far.
The popularity of "parenting coaching programs" has made it possible to get instant solutions just by turning on the television, and even people without children are consuming parenting content that reminds them of their own childhood.
But why is raising children still so difficult?
Even if I split up my time and study various parenting methods, my child never gets what I want.
It's a series of heartbreaking things.
Regarding this, author Kim Jong-won, a mentor to 300,000 parents and an expert in humanities education, says this:
“Because it is not mine yet.
The answer lies in the transcription.
(Omitted) If parents clearly state their intentions, their children will not be swayed by any wind.”
Yes, that's right.
It doesn't matter how much time and money we've spent on 'learning parenting skills'.
If you don't 'write it down', it's nothing more than something that quickly evaporates in the hectic parenting environment.
In order to properly apply the parenting methods you have learned through reading in real life, you must write them down.
By writing down a philosophical message with my own hands and digesting it through my words and actions, it can truly become 'my own.'
“Transcription is the least intellectual act that all parents should do.
Here are 101 messages that will be at the core of it.”
"Kim Jong-won's Real Parenting Study" is the first handwritten book by author Kim Jong-won, who has emphasized "handwriting" at every moment.
The author, who has studied humanities and child education for 30 years, wrote over 80 books, and accumulated wisdom through dozens of times that amount of thought, has compiled the core insights that parents should take to heart into 101 messages for happy parenting.
These are 'real' messages whose effectiveness has been proven through sharing experiences with many parents.
If you've tried to be a good parent, but found yourself stuck in a routine of increasingly greater guilt and stress, then you should copy this book right now.
You will be able to break free from the past of hating yourself and your child and welcome a happy present.
- You can preview some of the book's contents.
Preview
index
prolog
PART 1.
We are parents
If a child were given the opportunity to choose his or her parents,
A parent with a strong inner self is the best textbook.
Parenting is unwavering when you set the right goals.
Great parents even as they are now
Talkative parents, uninitiated parents, overbearing parents
The parents a child wants
If you change your perspective and view on children,
The Lesson of the Red Rabbit in a Child's Imagination
Parental selfishness creates children without individuality.
Parents need comfort and encouragement too.
If you value your child's small actions,
Parents' concern is their child's self-confidence.
The support a child needs as he grows up
If you trust and wait for your child's stride,
Why You Should Find Reasons in Your Child's Words and Behavior
Two loves to beautifully conclude parenting
My child's present is much better than my past.
Eyes are the language of the heart
Why Parents Should Study
Parents are the best teachers for a child.
If you love your child, set him free.
PART 2.
For children who will grow up to be members of society
Etiquette is something that accumulates more and more the more you use it.
The power of a child who knows how to maintain public order
The effect of a single lie
A child who is genuinely happy about the happiness of others
The reason I can live well is
Humility is the final piece to a beautiful life.
The world never forgets goodwill.
If you want to lead your child into the world of study
A child accustomed to rewards loses his autonomy.
Instead of blaming others, take care of yourself.
A child who calls for sharing rather than competition
A child learns only what his parents show him.
If your child is having a hard time because of his friends
To get a passive child to take a step forward
Good people and easy people are different
A child who moves according to his own thoughts
A child who shines brighter than the sun
If you don't want your child to be hurt by the world's words,
A special child because he is different
If you love nature, you will always find enlightenment.
PART 3.
Principles to establish before becoming an adult
Three Questions to Build Your Parenting Philosophy
What I want to pass on to my children
Conditions for a dignified life
Necessary and sufficient conditions for 'competence'
Self-esteem is inherited
If you live with good thoughts
The most beautiful scenery in the world
Why Parents Should Express Their Emotions Clearly
Repetition creates habits, and habits create the future.
When not to ask a child's wishes
There is no life that is trivial from the beginning.
If you think it can be done, everything changes.
There is no problem that can be solved by getting angry.
The power to make children practice
Why You Need to Create Space in Your Child's Life
Rather than giving too many choices,
Make your principles clear
Parents who teach their children about challenges are great.
How to Increase Your Child's Sense of Ability
If you want your child to grow up to be a good adult
PART 4.
A word from a parent who becomes a light in a child's life
I hope you don't say a single word in vain.
Vocabulary is not important when it comes to expressing love.
Think twice before you speak
A child who grew up hearing warm words
The effects of positive words
Use the magic word 'thanks' often.
"I couldn't do it" instead of "I didn't do it"
A child grows as much as his parents believe in him.
Words to restore your relationship with your child
The Importance of Empathy
A word that tells us the value of 'the end'
To become the master of your own life
So that mistakes do not turn into failures
4-Step Questions to Help You Let Go of Anger
Three Tips for Raising Children to Think for Themselves
Questions that awaken gratitude
Three Questions for True Reading
Three Questions to Foster Creativity
Is it for the child or for the parents?
The importance of 'value for tomorrow'
PART 5.
A single word from a parent that ruins a child's life
I'd rather listen quietly than give great advice.
The words you habitually spit out determine your life.
Words that hinder a child's potential and challenges
Words that scare children
Words that encourage competition
Words that plant guilt in a child's life
Words that ignore a child's dreams
Words that devalue a child
Parents must lower their voices so that their children will listen.
If you don't understand, it's only going to be hard for you.
Parents who always have negative words on their lips
If you only emphasize studying,
The Trap of Expected and Promising Players
The dangers of the phrase "born with it"
Gossip about family
A child who grew up hearing coercive language
Parents' speaking habits that ruin their children's ability to express themselves
Words that ruin a child's performance
The dangers of urging children
Applause for the wrong kid
PART 1.
We are parents
If a child were given the opportunity to choose his or her parents,
A parent with a strong inner self is the best textbook.
Parenting is unwavering when you set the right goals.
Great parents even as they are now
Talkative parents, uninitiated parents, overbearing parents
The parents a child wants
If you change your perspective and view on children,
The Lesson of the Red Rabbit in a Child's Imagination
Parental selfishness creates children without individuality.
Parents need comfort and encouragement too.
If you value your child's small actions,
Parents' concern is their child's self-confidence.
The support a child needs as he grows up
If you trust and wait for your child's stride,
Why You Should Find Reasons in Your Child's Words and Behavior
Two loves to beautifully conclude parenting
My child's present is much better than my past.
Eyes are the language of the heart
Why Parents Should Study
Parents are the best teachers for a child.
If you love your child, set him free.
PART 2.
For children who will grow up to be members of society
Etiquette is something that accumulates more and more the more you use it.
The power of a child who knows how to maintain public order
The effect of a single lie
A child who is genuinely happy about the happiness of others
The reason I can live well is
Humility is the final piece to a beautiful life.
The world never forgets goodwill.
If you want to lead your child into the world of study
A child accustomed to rewards loses his autonomy.
Instead of blaming others, take care of yourself.
A child who calls for sharing rather than competition
A child learns only what his parents show him.
If your child is having a hard time because of his friends
To get a passive child to take a step forward
Good people and easy people are different
A child who moves according to his own thoughts
A child who shines brighter than the sun
If you don't want your child to be hurt by the world's words,
A special child because he is different
If you love nature, you will always find enlightenment.
PART 3.
Principles to establish before becoming an adult
Three Questions to Build Your Parenting Philosophy
What I want to pass on to my children
Conditions for a dignified life
Necessary and sufficient conditions for 'competence'
Self-esteem is inherited
If you live with good thoughts
The most beautiful scenery in the world
Why Parents Should Express Their Emotions Clearly
Repetition creates habits, and habits create the future.
When not to ask a child's wishes
There is no life that is trivial from the beginning.
If you think it can be done, everything changes.
There is no problem that can be solved by getting angry.
The power to make children practice
Why You Need to Create Space in Your Child's Life
Rather than giving too many choices,
Make your principles clear
Parents who teach their children about challenges are great.
How to Increase Your Child's Sense of Ability
If you want your child to grow up to be a good adult
PART 4.
A word from a parent who becomes a light in a child's life
I hope you don't say a single word in vain.
Vocabulary is not important when it comes to expressing love.
Think twice before you speak
A child who grew up hearing warm words
The effects of positive words
Use the magic word 'thanks' often.
"I couldn't do it" instead of "I didn't do it"
A child grows as much as his parents believe in him.
Words to restore your relationship with your child
The Importance of Empathy
A word that tells us the value of 'the end'
To become the master of your own life
So that mistakes do not turn into failures
4-Step Questions to Help You Let Go of Anger
Three Tips for Raising Children to Think for Themselves
Questions that awaken gratitude
Three Questions for True Reading
Three Questions to Foster Creativity
Is it for the child or for the parents?
The importance of 'value for tomorrow'
PART 5.
A single word from a parent that ruins a child's life
I'd rather listen quietly than give great advice.
The words you habitually spit out determine your life.
Words that hinder a child's potential and challenges
Words that scare children
Words that encourage competition
Words that plant guilt in a child's life
Words that ignore a child's dreams
Words that devalue a child
Parents must lower their voices so that their children will listen.
If you don't understand, it's only going to be hard for you.
Parents who always have negative words on their lips
If you only emphasize studying,
The Trap of Expected and Promising Players
The dangers of the phrase "born with it"
Gossip about family
A child who grew up hearing coercive language
Parents' speaking habits that ruin their children's ability to express themselves
Words that ruin a child's performance
The dangers of urging children
Applause for the wrong kid
Detailed image
Into the book
If you look at the comments on the various social media platforms I run and the YouTube videos I appear in, you'll see many people who have experienced such mystical transformations.
This is a change that only those who do not simply read the text I guide but read it aloud, transcribe it, and internalize it in their own words and writing can experience.
---From the "Prologue"
If you can confidently answer the question, "If my child had the opportunity to choose his or her parents, would he or she choose me?", you are a good parent.
However, if you are not confident in your answer, I hope you will use this as an opportunity to reflect on yourself as a parent.
We must always remember that we are each other's most precious guests.
---From "If a child were given the chance to choose his or her parents"
The parents a child wants are warm parents at home, not warm parents outside the home.
The parents a child needs are great parents at home, not great parents outside the home.
---From "The Parents Children Want"
A child's every day should be a lesson in learning the value of a 'life of order'.
A child who maintains order even when no one is watching will be able to experience the feeling of changing the world for the better.
---From "The Power of a Child Who Knows How to Maintain Public Order"
Good words like joy, praise, congratulations, and positivity are the 'channels of wisdom' that transform the world's joy into my own, and the 'magic words' that gift true relationships.
Good language makes a good life.
---From "A Child Who Is Truly Happy at the Happiness of Others"
A good start determines a good result.
You have to be great from the start to get good results.
I will put everything into the beginning and the process.
I will pass on the best that is within me to my child.
---From "What I Want to Pass on to My Children"
Just as a child who has just learned to walk cannot immediately run, and a child who has just learned to read cannot immediately read, becoming proficient in something requires passing through the delicate framework of time.
Becoming proficient is entirely up to the child to do on his own during this time.
Parents must walk this path together with love and patience.
---From “Necessary and Sufficient Conditions for ‘Skill’”
A parent's words are the roadmap for a child's life.
Parents' words have the greatest influence on whether a child will walk the path of happiness or the path of unhappiness.
That is why parents' words are life to their children.
Don't waste a single word of the day.
---From "I hope you don't say a single word in vain"
“I’m sure you’ll do better on the next test.” Rather than talking about your child’s score, help them imagine the “value of tomorrow” that the sweat they’ve shed so far will bring.
A child who has expectations for his or her future does not give up easily, no matter how difficult it may be.
---From "The Importance of 'Tomorrow's Value'"
“Study hard like your friend.” “I heard the kid next door is good at sports.” “I wish I had a son like that.” Parents often say these things in everyday life, either subconsciously or as a form of shock therapy, to belittle and devalue their children by comparing them to others.
Children who grow up hearing these words not only have low self-esteem, but also gradually lose love and trust for their parents.
Would you be okay with your child growing up like that?
This is a change that only those who do not simply read the text I guide but read it aloud, transcribe it, and internalize it in their own words and writing can experience.
---From the "Prologue"
If you can confidently answer the question, "If my child had the opportunity to choose his or her parents, would he or she choose me?", you are a good parent.
However, if you are not confident in your answer, I hope you will use this as an opportunity to reflect on yourself as a parent.
We must always remember that we are each other's most precious guests.
---From "If a child were given the chance to choose his or her parents"
The parents a child wants are warm parents at home, not warm parents outside the home.
The parents a child needs are great parents at home, not great parents outside the home.
---From "The Parents Children Want"
A child's every day should be a lesson in learning the value of a 'life of order'.
A child who maintains order even when no one is watching will be able to experience the feeling of changing the world for the better.
---From "The Power of a Child Who Knows How to Maintain Public Order"
Good words like joy, praise, congratulations, and positivity are the 'channels of wisdom' that transform the world's joy into my own, and the 'magic words' that gift true relationships.
Good language makes a good life.
---From "A Child Who Is Truly Happy at the Happiness of Others"
A good start determines a good result.
You have to be great from the start to get good results.
I will put everything into the beginning and the process.
I will pass on the best that is within me to my child.
---From "What I Want to Pass on to My Children"
Just as a child who has just learned to walk cannot immediately run, and a child who has just learned to read cannot immediately read, becoming proficient in something requires passing through the delicate framework of time.
Becoming proficient is entirely up to the child to do on his own during this time.
Parents must walk this path together with love and patience.
---From “Necessary and Sufficient Conditions for ‘Skill’”
A parent's words are the roadmap for a child's life.
Parents' words have the greatest influence on whether a child will walk the path of happiness or the path of unhappiness.
That is why parents' words are life to their children.
Don't waste a single word of the day.
---From "I hope you don't say a single word in vain"
“I’m sure you’ll do better on the next test.” Rather than talking about your child’s score, help them imagine the “value of tomorrow” that the sweat they’ve shed so far will bring.
A child who has expectations for his or her future does not give up easily, no matter how difficult it may be.
---From "The Importance of 'Tomorrow's Value'"
“Study hard like your friend.” “I heard the kid next door is good at sports.” “I wish I had a son like that.” Parents often say these things in everyday life, either subconsciously or as a form of shock therapy, to belittle and devalue their children by comparing them to others.
Children who grow up hearing these words not only have low self-esteem, but also gradually lose love and trust for their parents.
Would you be okay with your child growing up like that?
---From "Words that Devalue Children"
Publisher's Review
From the philosophy that parents must have
Learn vocabulary you can use right away today!
Everything for the happiness of parents and children
This book, subtitled 'The Miracle of 10 Minutes of Writing a Day That Makes Both Parents and Children Happy', contains author Kim Jong-won's message of happy parenting on the left side of the text, and a space for readers to write their own notes on the right side of the text.
From the philosophy that those who have the new title of 'parent' should take to heart to practical language skills that can be applied immediately in real life, we have condensed 101 messages on how to become a good parent into 5 parts.
Chapter 1, "We Are Parents," introduces the daily philosophy that parents should have. Chapter 2, "For Children Who Will Grow Up to Become Members of Society," covers the qualities needed for children who must build social relationships outside of their parents. Chapter 3, "Principles That Must Be Established Before Becoming Adults," covers the principles for children to grow up well as human beings.
Chapter 4, “A Word from a Parent That Lights a Child’s Life” and Chapter 5, “A Word from a Parent That Ruins a Child’s Life,” introduce which words from parents can save or ruin a child.
Educating children is not a task that can be completed in a few hours through one-sided teaching.
This is a 24-hour, life-related issue that requires the leading role of parents, and a 'philosophical message' that affects all aspects of life is essential.
Therefore, in 『Kim Jong-won's Real Parenting Study』, you can encounter valuable values that help not only children but also parents grow into upright adults.
I recommend this book, which begins with the parents and creates a miracle in their children, as a must-read for every family.
10 minutes of writing a day,
It is a time to grow as a ‘parent’
An invaluable time to recover your true self!
Writing is a time of immersion in which I receive a message and embody it in my words and actions.
Through these 10-minute daily transcriptions, you will be able to experience a growing confidence day by day in what you should bring out from within yourself to your child.
I am confident that you will experience amazing moments where you will realize the depth of your child's growth through changes in his or her facial expressions and language.
Also, before we are parents, we are also the one and only 'me' in this world.
However, when raising a child, you become so tired and exhausted that you end up forgetting your own existence. In times like these, what is even more necessary is ‘dedication.’
In a time of constant, hectic work, 10 minutes of daily writing will provide a ray of leisure and tranquility. This time will be a time for growth as a parent and a time of healing and recovery as an individual.
It's okay if you're not confident in your handwriting.
The illustrations by 'Mrs. Songeum', who depicts the daily lives of parents and children in a warm style, are beautiful in themselves, and with a sensuous design, anyone can easily complete their own pretty handwritten book.
If you need true healing from the exhaustion of parenting, open up "Kim Jong-won's Real Parenting Study" and focus on copying each word.
Just as a short break gives you the strength to get back on your feet, if you spend 10 minutes a day writing down happy parenting messages, you will once again find the strength and space to spend the day face-to-face with your child.
Learn vocabulary you can use right away today!
Everything for the happiness of parents and children
This book, subtitled 'The Miracle of 10 Minutes of Writing a Day That Makes Both Parents and Children Happy', contains author Kim Jong-won's message of happy parenting on the left side of the text, and a space for readers to write their own notes on the right side of the text.
From the philosophy that those who have the new title of 'parent' should take to heart to practical language skills that can be applied immediately in real life, we have condensed 101 messages on how to become a good parent into 5 parts.
Chapter 1, "We Are Parents," introduces the daily philosophy that parents should have. Chapter 2, "For Children Who Will Grow Up to Become Members of Society," covers the qualities needed for children who must build social relationships outside of their parents. Chapter 3, "Principles That Must Be Established Before Becoming Adults," covers the principles for children to grow up well as human beings.
Chapter 4, “A Word from a Parent That Lights a Child’s Life” and Chapter 5, “A Word from a Parent That Ruins a Child’s Life,” introduce which words from parents can save or ruin a child.
Educating children is not a task that can be completed in a few hours through one-sided teaching.
This is a 24-hour, life-related issue that requires the leading role of parents, and a 'philosophical message' that affects all aspects of life is essential.
Therefore, in 『Kim Jong-won's Real Parenting Study』, you can encounter valuable values that help not only children but also parents grow into upright adults.
I recommend this book, which begins with the parents and creates a miracle in their children, as a must-read for every family.
10 minutes of writing a day,
It is a time to grow as a ‘parent’
An invaluable time to recover your true self!
Writing is a time of immersion in which I receive a message and embody it in my words and actions.
Through these 10-minute daily transcriptions, you will be able to experience a growing confidence day by day in what you should bring out from within yourself to your child.
I am confident that you will experience amazing moments where you will realize the depth of your child's growth through changes in his or her facial expressions and language.
Also, before we are parents, we are also the one and only 'me' in this world.
However, when raising a child, you become so tired and exhausted that you end up forgetting your own existence. In times like these, what is even more necessary is ‘dedication.’
In a time of constant, hectic work, 10 minutes of daily writing will provide a ray of leisure and tranquility. This time will be a time for growth as a parent and a time of healing and recovery as an individual.
It's okay if you're not confident in your handwriting.
The illustrations by 'Mrs. Songeum', who depicts the daily lives of parents and children in a warm style, are beautiful in themselves, and with a sensuous design, anyone can easily complete their own pretty handwritten book.
If you need true healing from the exhaustion of parenting, open up "Kim Jong-won's Real Parenting Study" and focus on copying each word.
Just as a short break gives you the strength to get back on your feet, if you spend 10 minutes a day writing down happy parenting messages, you will once again find the strength and space to spend the day face-to-face with your child.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: August 29, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 228 pages | 488g | 150*203*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791168030688
- ISBN10: 1168030684
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