Preface (Author and Mother) _ Sex education for sons, fun and peaceful
Preface (Author's Son)_ Introducing my mother

Part 1: Because I'm a son, I need more sex education.
10 Key Principles for Your Son's Sex Education
Rule 1: Sex education for sons is no different.
Principle 2: Sex education comes first from parents.
Rule 3: Conversations about sex begin immediately after birth.
Principle 4: The starting point for sex education is to talk about everyday life first.
Principle 5: The core of sex education is not sexual knowledge, but the right to self-determination.
Principle 6: Sex education must expand beyond sex education to include gender education.
Rule 7: Parents, check your own gender sensitivity.
Principle 8: Have a balanced view of gender
Principle 9: Raise awareness of gender equality by saying, "Everyone has it," not "Some have it."
Principle 10: It Takes a Village to Educate a Child About Sex

Part 2: Sex education begins with parents.
- 13 Sex Education Lessons for Pre-Adolescents
Sex Education for Your Son 1: Start with Body Education
Sex Education for Sons 2: Teach Your Child to Respect Others Even When Exercising with Family Members
Sex Education for Sons 3: Don't Let Your Child Intimate Just Because He's Pretty
Sex Education for Sons 4: From a young age, teach your child the correct names of his genitals.
Explain sex to your son using the 5 blocks of sex education.
Sex Education for Your Son 6: Don't Put Too Much Meaning on Masturbation in Toddlers
Sex Education for Your Son 7 Don't Follow Gender Stereotypes When Buying Clothes and Toys for Your Child
Son's Sex Education 8: Separate Bath Time from Mom
Sex Education for Sons 9 What if my child shows interest in a friend of the opposite sex?
10 Sex Education for Sons It's a misconception that fathers should be the ones to educate their sons about sex.
Sex Education for Your Son 11 When You're Worried About Your Child's Sexual Identity
Sex Education for My Son 12 How do I explain homosexuality to my child?
Sex Education for Sons 13 What should a child do when he sees his parents having sex?

Part 3: Sex Education Brings Parents and Children Closer
- 13 Sex Education Tips for Adolescents
When Should I Start Teaching My Son About Secondary Sexual Characteristics?
When you think it's too late to teach your son sex, it's actually the fastest time.
Sex Education for Sons 16 Respect Party for Sons “Thank you, penis!”
Sex Education for Sons 17: Develop an attitude of respect for female secondary sexual characteristics.
Son's Sex Education 18 Hate speech is never allowed under any circumstances!
Sex Education for Sons 19 When to Talk to Your Child About Your Sexual Experiences
Sex Education for My Son 20 How should I deal with my child's masturbation?
Sex Education for Sons 21: Don't try to stop him from watching pornography, but instead help him develop his judgment.
Son's Sex Education 22 When Your Child is Caught Masturbating or Watching Porn
Sex Education for Sons 23 When My Child Starts Dating for the First Time
Son's Sex Education 24 How much physical contact can a child have with a friend?
Son Sex Education 25 What if you find a condom in your child's pocket?
Son's Sex Education 26: Teach Your Child About Planned Sex in Contraception Education

As a son of a fourth generation, I need more sexual violence education.
17 Things Parents Need to Know About Sexual Violence
Son's Sex Education 27 In the new era brought about by 'MeToo'
Sex Education for Sons 28 Sexual violence isn't just a concern for parents with daughters.
Sex Education for My Son 29 My Child Could Become a Perpetrator
What are the common misconceptions of perpetrators in their son's sex education?
Start your son's sex education with 31 "feeling training."
Sex Education for Sons 32 “Don’t do ~” isn’t enough
Sex Education for Sons 33: Beware of Strangers? Known People Are More Dangerous
Son's Sex Education 34 Survival itself is important
Son's Sex Education 35 From Victim Prevention Education to Perpetrator Prevention Education
Sex Education for Sons 36 Is bullying a sign of liking a boy?
Sex Education for Your Son 37: Shift Your Perspective on Sexual Violence
Finding out about the 38 Sexual Violence Index for your son's sex education
Sex Education for Sons 39 What are the symptoms of sexual abuse in children?
Sex Education for Sons 40 What if my child has been sexually assaulted?
Son Sex Education 41 When preparing for investigation and trial?
Sex Education for Sons 42 Psychological Healing Is Needed for Both Children and Parents
Son's Sex Education 43 Gender Violence is Sexual Violence

Part 5: What questions do adolescent boys ask about sex?
22 Questions Teenage Boys Ask
Question 1: When your adolescent child asks you a question
Question 2: I have sexual fantasies too often. Should I control myself?
Question 3: Is it good to date a lot?
Question 4: What should I do if I get an erection while I'm with my girlfriend?
Question 5: Does masturbating too much cause any health problems?
Question 6: If a woman has a lot of sexual experience, does the color of her genitals or nipples change?
Question 7: Will exercise make my penis bigger?
Question 8: My genitals look strange. Should I get surgery?
Question 9: My sexual orientation seems different from others. Is that weird?
Question 10: At what age can you have sex?
Question 11: Is it a good idea to always carry a condom with you?
Question 12: Can I use other contraceptive methods besides condoms?
Question 13: If I don't ejaculate inside the vagina, won't I not get pregnant?
Question 14: I can't stop watching porn. What should I do?
Question 15: Does a woman bleed when she first has sex?
Question 16 I want to kiss my boyfriend
Question 17: What exactly is a woman's period?
Question 18: Is abortion bad?
Question 19: Have I been sexually assaulted?
Question 20: When I touched her, she stayed still, but now she's calling me sexually harassing.
Question 21 My friends tease me, saying I look like a girl.
Question 22: Is it a problem to make hate speech even among friends?

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Recommended Sex Education Books
Introducing recommended sex education videos

“Son, what are you doing with the door closed?”
Son Kyung-yi's Top Sex Education Expert, Recognized by 300,000 Parents, Students, and Working Adults: Her Son-Raising Method

I made a promise after giving birth to my son.
He said that he would raise his son to be a 'good man', unlike his patriarchal father and husband.
That's why we started sex education.
I talked to my child about his body when he couldn't understand words yet, and when he had a crush on a girl in kindergarten, I helped him figure out how to get along with her. Before he reached puberty, I taught him etiquette about masturbation and ejaculation, and when he was in middle and high school, I talked to him about everything from pornography to sex.
In addition, correct sexual awareness and gender sensitivity were always considered important in this process.
More than 20 years have passed since I started providing sex education in everyday life.
In order to raise my son well, I studied sex education and parenting education on my own and now, after 17 years, I am known as the best sex education expert.

The video, "Mother and Son Sex Education Counseling Center," in which the author and her son, who is also her best friend, openly discussed sex, became a hot topic, reaching over 300,000 views.
Those who attended the author's lecture responded explosively, saying, "I raised my son without knowing what was important," "I want to raise my child like this," and "I wish I could have a conversation about sex with my mom and dad." She even earned the nickname "Mom from the 51st Century."

In particular, with the rise of the Me Too movement, a campaign to reveal the truth about sexual violence, there has been even greater interest in it.
Many parents have become aware that their sons could also become victims of sexual violence, or even perpetrators of sexual violence, and have come to believe that 'sexual education for sons is important' in order to prevent sexual violence.
In keeping with this trend, the author published a must-read book on sex education for sons, "How to Educate Your Son on Sex Without Being Embarrassed and with a Smile," which is a must-read for parents with sons these days.

Our sons must now live in a society where gender equality awareness is stronger than when their parents were young.
Furthermore, we must prepare for a future in which gender equality awareness will become even stronger.
If you are a parent who doesn't know what to do while watching your son's visit to his parents, read this book.
Through this book, you will be able to understand new sex education methods that are suitable for the new era as times have changed.
Furthermore, you will be able to find answers to help your son live as a better man with women.


“A child’s sexual awareness determines his life!”
The key is 'sexual self-determination' and 'gender sensitivity.'

When I talk about sex education for my son, my face turns red.
Even ordinary parents often do not receive proper sex education, and mothers are at a loss and embarrassed about having to provide sex education to their sons who have different sexes.
However, as I encounter incidents every day where the reputation I had built up over time is suddenly ruined by the Me Too movement, I am realizing the need for sex education to the point where my son's sexual awareness from a young age is affecting his life.

Nowadays, sex education for sons can be likened to a stick that is tilted to only one side.
While daughters are taught sex education that makes them passive and reluctant about sex, sons are taught sex education that makes them irresponsible and prioritizes their own desires over sex.
Overall, it is geared towards hiding the surname and warning of danger.
To straighten this tilted pole, parents must first recognize that they need to provide their sons with sex education differently from before.

The author said, “Sex is fundamentally based on ‘relationships,’ so it is not something that can just flash by in a country or society and end.
Parents who know their child's developmental process can establish consistent training routines at home.
The core of this sex education is to practice ‘sexual decision-making power,’ which means that I have the right to decide my own sexual behavior, and ‘gender sensitivity,’ which means understanding and adapting to the other person’s gender,” he said.
Sex education that simply conveys sexual knowledge is no longer meaningful; it must focus on sexual awareness and gender equality.

Furthermore, parents and children who can talk openly about sex have the advantage of being able to easily discuss other topics during the sensitive period of adolescence.
This is because parents gain a sense of intimacy with their children through talking about sex, allowing them to talk about anything.

This book provides parents who have been frustrated because they do not know how to educate their sons about sex, with tips on how to help them develop sound sexual awareness and solutions for helping them develop their sexual judgment.


“From early childhood sex education to adolescence sex education
“Sex education coaching!”
A New Sex Education Guide for Parents of Young Sons

“Grades are good, but sex education comes first.” “We should have started this type of sex education a long time ago.” “When I have a son, I should teach him sex like this.” Anyone who has heard the author’s lectures has given them such rave reviews.
The book contains the realistic concerns of parents and boys the author encountered in the field over 17 years, as well as prescriptions proven through tens of thousands of cases.
This book contains the specific and vivid information on how to educate your son about sex that you can learn through lectures.

Part 1 presents 10 core principles for sex education for sons, Part 2 presents 14 sex education tips for pre-puberty, Part 3 presents 13 sex education tips for adolescence, Part 4 presents 17 facts parents of sons need to know about sexual violence, and finally Part 5 presents 22 questions for adolescent boys.
Starting with sex education in infancy and adolescence, it provides detailed explanations of 'what is correct sexual awareness', 'why gender equality is important', and 'how to provide gender education', making it a new sex education guide for parents and educators.
It is full of tips that the author actually used when educating his son about sex, such as a respect party to celebrate secondary sexual characteristics, a love report card, and masturbation etiquette, so you can use them yourself.

Children tend to find sex education difficult, but this book provides a clear guide that allows you to educate your children about sex accurately and honestly, so that you can do it with a smile and without being embarrassed.