
Virtue Project classes that build self-esteem and self-efficacy
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Book Introduction
"The One and Only" by Kwon Young-ae, a teacher, "The Virtue Project"
"A child who can do it, a child who believes in himself, the beginning of change."
Parents who complained, "I don't know why children are born without a manual," the Virtue Project is that manual.
It will help guide children to a happy life.
_Oprah Winfrey
A global character education program that can be used in any home.
_UN
I fully support the Virtue Project.
Because it brings out the universal virtues within people.
_Dalai Lama
The Virtue Project, unanimously recommended by the UN, the Dalai Lama, and Oprah Winfrey! In a small North American town in the 1970s, a clinical psychotherapist transformed the most difficult children in a particularly chaotic classroom in just a few months, without a single yell.
This is Linda Cavalin Popoff, founder of the Virtue Project.
As the children's great changes were noticed, her teaching method spread throughout the local community, and based on this experience, she launched the Virtue Project in 1991.
The Virtue Project was recognized by the UN in 1994 as “a global character education program that can be used in homes across all cultures.”
Afterwards, it was recognized by world-renowned figures such as the Dalai Lama and Oprah Winfrey as an excellent character education program that guides people on the path to living happily as themselves.
*All royalties from this book will be donated to Naver Happy Bean's 'Children and Youth Life Support' and the non-profit Virtue Foundation for the underprivileged.
"A child who can do it, a child who believes in himself, the beginning of change."
Parents who complained, "I don't know why children are born without a manual," the Virtue Project is that manual.
It will help guide children to a happy life.
_Oprah Winfrey
A global character education program that can be used in any home.
_UN
I fully support the Virtue Project.
Because it brings out the universal virtues within people.
_Dalai Lama
The Virtue Project, unanimously recommended by the UN, the Dalai Lama, and Oprah Winfrey! In a small North American town in the 1970s, a clinical psychotherapist transformed the most difficult children in a particularly chaotic classroom in just a few months, without a single yell.
This is Linda Cavalin Popoff, founder of the Virtue Project.
As the children's great changes were noticed, her teaching method spread throughout the local community, and based on this experience, she launched the Virtue Project in 1991.
The Virtue Project was recognized by the UN in 1994 as “a global character education program that can be used in homes across all cultures.”
Afterwards, it was recognized by world-renowned figures such as the Dalai Lama and Oprah Winfrey as an excellent character education program that guides people on the path to living happily as themselves.
*All royalties from this book will be donated to Naver Happy Bean's 'Children and Youth Life Support' and the non-profit Virtue Foundation for the underprivileged.
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index
I.
Children Changed by the Virtue Project
01.
Changes That Started in My Life · 12
02.
A Miracle Begins in a Child's Life · 24
03.
It's unfair to get scolded when you do something wrong · 32
04.
I'll keep this book of virtues with me until I die. · 38
05.
I'm crying because I feel sorry for my teacher · 50
06.
Becoming a Living Great Person · 56
07.
Were you sad that you couldn't have a birthday party? · 62
08.
I'll be with you next year too · 67
09.
A Classroom That Doesn't Need Praise Stickers · 73
II.
Fatigue, lethargy, anger.
What is the source of such things?
01.
Conscious Brain, Unconscious Brain · 80
02.
The 1 Percent Who Eats 99 Percent of Life · 85
03.
A place where tired and exhausted people are confined · 91
04.
Eating Your Self-Esteem · 96
05.
Fear Sucks Life's Energy · 102
III.
Energy Conversion System Virtu Project
01.
The Two Faces of Energy · 110
02.
More Important Than Medication or Psychotherapy · 117
03.
The Power of Building Self-Esteem · 125
04.
Energy Stored in the Unconscious · 134
05.
Energy Conversion Systems · 145
06.
Unconscious Conversion System · 150
07.
Self-Esteem Transformation System · 157
IV.
Virtue Project: Children Creating Change on Their Own
01.
Children don't change through nagging or teaching · 166
02.
What Comes First in a Child's Heart · 172
03.
Victim Mode, Chooser Mode · 177
04.
Energy and Action, the Power of Unity · 184
05.
Is my child 73 or 173? · 192
06.
Recognizing 99% of Me from 1% of Me · 200
07.
Just knowing makes a difference · 208
V.
Virtue Project I Met
01.
What is the Virtue Project? · 218
02.
The Essence of Relationships, Genshai · 227
03.
60 Seconds of My Life · 233
04.
The Four Pillars of the Virtue Project · 240
05.
The Essence of Character Education · 246
06.
The Four Powers of the Virtue Project · 252
07.
The System That Restores Me · 259
VI.
Virtue Project's Five Strategies
01.
What Virtue Words Give Children (Strategy 1: Speaking the Language of Virtue) · 268
·Words of Virtue Become Habits · 270
· Asking for Virtuous Behavior When Mistakes Are Made · 276
· Four Miracle Sentences · 281
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 290
02.
Giving Courage Instead of Shame (Strategy 2: Recognizing Learning Moments) · 318
·Gaze, Awareness, Reinterpretation·318
· Giving courage instead of shame · 324
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 329
03.
There's Authority Within a Child, Too (Strategy 3: Building a Fence of Virtue) · 340
·The Fence of Virtue, the Boundary for Mutual Respect · 343
The Fence the Children Wanted, the Fence I Wanted · 346
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 352
04.
Finding What's Most Precious (Strategy 4: Honoring Spiritual Values) · 357
· Spirituality: Recognizing the Most Precious Thing in My Life · 357
· Spirituality is the purpose of life · 360
· Spirituality is an encounter with my own existence · 367
·Finding Your Why (Value)·372
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 375
05.
Being Together (5 Strategies, Experiencing Mental Companionship) · 380
· Mental Companionship: How to Be Together Without Being Swayed · 380
· Accompanying a child · 381
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 390
VII.
Changes in Teachers Who Experienced the Virtue Project
01.
A Miracle on Christmas Eve · 404
02.
Teacher Saved Me! · 407
03.
The Miracle in Our Class That Happened in Five Days · 413
04.
The Best Training of My Life · 417
05.
I'll forgive you because even Mom didn't know. · 419
06.
Finding a path that won't stop even when shaken · 421
07.
Invitation to Happiness · 425
VIII.
I'm curious about the Virtue Project
01.
What's the difference between praising and awakening virtue? · 442
02.
Are other gratitude training programs more effective than virtue training? 445
03.
Aren't the Virtue Cards too difficult? The more I read them, the more difficult they become. · 448
04.
I'm not used to being praised for my virtues · 451
05.
Can I use virtues other than the 52? · 454
06.
What about children who can't read Korean? · 456
07.
Where can I learn about Virtue Project? · 458
Epilogue · 460
supplement
Here's how to dig for and polish the gems of your heart with the Virtu Project hands-on activity: 465
Children Changed by the Virtue Project
01.
Changes That Started in My Life · 12
02.
A Miracle Begins in a Child's Life · 24
03.
It's unfair to get scolded when you do something wrong · 32
04.
I'll keep this book of virtues with me until I die. · 38
05.
I'm crying because I feel sorry for my teacher · 50
06.
Becoming a Living Great Person · 56
07.
Were you sad that you couldn't have a birthday party? · 62
08.
I'll be with you next year too · 67
09.
A Classroom That Doesn't Need Praise Stickers · 73
II.
Fatigue, lethargy, anger.
What is the source of such things?
01.
Conscious Brain, Unconscious Brain · 80
02.
The 1 Percent Who Eats 99 Percent of Life · 85
03.
A place where tired and exhausted people are confined · 91
04.
Eating Your Self-Esteem · 96
05.
Fear Sucks Life's Energy · 102
III.
Energy Conversion System Virtu Project
01.
The Two Faces of Energy · 110
02.
More Important Than Medication or Psychotherapy · 117
03.
The Power of Building Self-Esteem · 125
04.
Energy Stored in the Unconscious · 134
05.
Energy Conversion Systems · 145
06.
Unconscious Conversion System · 150
07.
Self-Esteem Transformation System · 157
IV.
Virtue Project: Children Creating Change on Their Own
01.
Children don't change through nagging or teaching · 166
02.
What Comes First in a Child's Heart · 172
03.
Victim Mode, Chooser Mode · 177
04.
Energy and Action, the Power of Unity · 184
05.
Is my child 73 or 173? · 192
06.
Recognizing 99% of Me from 1% of Me · 200
07.
Just knowing makes a difference · 208
V.
Virtue Project I Met
01.
What is the Virtue Project? · 218
02.
The Essence of Relationships, Genshai · 227
03.
60 Seconds of My Life · 233
04.
The Four Pillars of the Virtue Project · 240
05.
The Essence of Character Education · 246
06.
The Four Powers of the Virtue Project · 252
07.
The System That Restores Me · 259
VI.
Virtue Project's Five Strategies
01.
What Virtue Words Give Children (Strategy 1: Speaking the Language of Virtue) · 268
·Words of Virtue Become Habits · 270
· Asking for Virtuous Behavior When Mistakes Are Made · 276
· Four Miracle Sentences · 281
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 290
02.
Giving Courage Instead of Shame (Strategy 2: Recognizing Learning Moments) · 318
·Gaze, Awareness, Reinterpretation·318
· Giving courage instead of shame · 324
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 329
03.
There's Authority Within a Child, Too (Strategy 3: Building a Fence of Virtue) · 340
·The Fence of Virtue, the Boundary for Mutual Respect · 343
The Fence the Children Wanted, the Fence I Wanted · 346
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 352
04.
Finding What's Most Precious (Strategy 4: Honoring Spiritual Values) · 357
· Spirituality: Recognizing the Most Precious Thing in My Life · 357
· Spirituality is the purpose of life · 360
· Spirituality is an encounter with my own existence · 367
·Finding Your Why (Value)·372
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 375
05.
Being Together (5 Strategies, Experiencing Mental Companionship) · 380
· Mental Companionship: How to Be Together Without Being Swayed · 380
· Accompanying a child · 381
| Teacher and Parent Practice | · 390
VII.
Changes in Teachers Who Experienced the Virtue Project
01.
A Miracle on Christmas Eve · 404
02.
Teacher Saved Me! · 407
03.
The Miracle in Our Class That Happened in Five Days · 413
04.
The Best Training of My Life · 417
05.
I'll forgive you because even Mom didn't know. · 419
06.
Finding a path that won't stop even when shaken · 421
07.
Invitation to Happiness · 425
VIII.
I'm curious about the Virtue Project
01.
What's the difference between praising and awakening virtue? · 442
02.
Are other gratitude training programs more effective than virtue training? 445
03.
Aren't the Virtue Cards too difficult? The more I read them, the more difficult they become. · 448
04.
I'm not used to being praised for my virtues · 451
05.
Can I use virtues other than the 52? · 454
06.
What about children who can't read Korean? · 456
07.
Where can I learn about Virtue Project? · 458
Epilogue · 460
supplement
Here's how to dig for and polish the gems of your heart with the Virtu Project hands-on activity: 465
Into the book
From the following year onwards, I transformed into a strict teacher.
As soon as I met the children on the first day of March, I wrote my name on the blackboard and silently wrote down ten rules.
And he explained in detail the penalties that would follow if the rules were broken.
The children were frozen, and I felt calm at the sight of them frozen in place.
It even felt like I was leading the children well.
And if a child broke even one of the ten rules, he was immediately called out and punished as a demonstration case, as if he was waiting for someone to do something wrong.
Sometimes they verbally abused me, sometimes they punished me, and sometimes they made me clean up.
To maintain a strict appearance, I did not wear a skirt.
I mostly wore pantsuits.
When the second semester began, the children's suppressed anger would eventually explode out over one problem or another.
It was common for children to fight and their angry parents to come running to school.
As a teacher, I was getting more and more tired.
-From the text
The problem is when I don't know if I'm on the path of fear.
Even if you are sick, tired, and feel like you might collapse, the only way to go is to believe that it is the only way.
We have the power to step out of the path of fear.
I must realize right now that I have chosen the path of fear.
-From the text
“My son has had a hard time going to school.
We never talked about school once.
But starting from the third week of March, whenever I opened the door, he would come in saying, 'Mom, my teacher said I was virtuous.'
The next day, 'Mom, my teacher said I can also awaken virtue.' Without missing a single day, I repeated these three stories: Mom, my teacher, and virtue.
And then the child started to change.
…”
-From the text
“I met the teacher this year, and many of my bad habits that I couldn’t change before have been corrected because I was taught virtue without being scolded.
It's amazing.
Before, I used to play first, but now I do my homework before playing.
I also had to sincerely apologize to my friends.
When I do something wrong, I awaken virtue like a teacher
If you give me some, I want to do better and I feel better.
I really want to change and become good at it, so I wonder why no one uses this method.
“The more I think about it, the more I feel wronged that I have to grow up getting scolded and cursed at every day.”
-From the text
I also didn't get angry or yell at Joo-hwan.
Scolding a child when he makes a mistake like that will only reinforce his shame.
Shame eats away at spontaneity.
It destroys all desire to try hard on one's own.
Rather, it is a moment when we need words that give us courage and awaken our dulled conscience.
“Joo-hwan, it’s not your fault.
"Your virtues are asleep, so you can awaken them. Which virtues would you like to awaken? The teacher believes in you!"
The child didn't react at all.
One day, I even snickered.
It seemed like Joo-hwan was listening to my heart.
'This teacher is funny! Virtue, I don't have that.
I'm not interested!'
Still, I treated Ju-hwan to the Virtue Jewel without rest for a month.
During the daily temperature check time when I went home, Joo-hwan shook my hand and patted me on the shoulder.
And he spoke softly into my ear.
“Ju-hwan, you are a greater person than you think.
You were born with 52 virtues.
Among them, the virtues of kindness, consideration, and understanding will soon awaken.
The teacher is waiting to see what virtue you will awaken first.
“I also wonder what kind of diamond our Joo-hwan will make.”
As soon as I met the children on the first day of March, I wrote my name on the blackboard and silently wrote down ten rules.
And he explained in detail the penalties that would follow if the rules were broken.
The children were frozen, and I felt calm at the sight of them frozen in place.
It even felt like I was leading the children well.
And if a child broke even one of the ten rules, he was immediately called out and punished as a demonstration case, as if he was waiting for someone to do something wrong.
Sometimes they verbally abused me, sometimes they punished me, and sometimes they made me clean up.
To maintain a strict appearance, I did not wear a skirt.
I mostly wore pantsuits.
When the second semester began, the children's suppressed anger would eventually explode out over one problem or another.
It was common for children to fight and their angry parents to come running to school.
As a teacher, I was getting more and more tired.
-From the text
The problem is when I don't know if I'm on the path of fear.
Even if you are sick, tired, and feel like you might collapse, the only way to go is to believe that it is the only way.
We have the power to step out of the path of fear.
I must realize right now that I have chosen the path of fear.
-From the text
“My son has had a hard time going to school.
We never talked about school once.
But starting from the third week of March, whenever I opened the door, he would come in saying, 'Mom, my teacher said I was virtuous.'
The next day, 'Mom, my teacher said I can also awaken virtue.' Without missing a single day, I repeated these three stories: Mom, my teacher, and virtue.
And then the child started to change.
…”
-From the text
“I met the teacher this year, and many of my bad habits that I couldn’t change before have been corrected because I was taught virtue without being scolded.
It's amazing.
Before, I used to play first, but now I do my homework before playing.
I also had to sincerely apologize to my friends.
When I do something wrong, I awaken virtue like a teacher
If you give me some, I want to do better and I feel better.
I really want to change and become good at it, so I wonder why no one uses this method.
“The more I think about it, the more I feel wronged that I have to grow up getting scolded and cursed at every day.”
-From the text
I also didn't get angry or yell at Joo-hwan.
Scolding a child when he makes a mistake like that will only reinforce his shame.
Shame eats away at spontaneity.
It destroys all desire to try hard on one's own.
Rather, it is a moment when we need words that give us courage and awaken our dulled conscience.
“Joo-hwan, it’s not your fault.
"Your virtues are asleep, so you can awaken them. Which virtues would you like to awaken? The teacher believes in you!"
The child didn't react at all.
One day, I even snickered.
It seemed like Joo-hwan was listening to my heart.
'This teacher is funny! Virtue, I don't have that.
I'm not interested!'
Still, I treated Ju-hwan to the Virtue Jewel without rest for a month.
During the daily temperature check time when I went home, Joo-hwan shook my hand and patted me on the shoulder.
And he spoke softly into my ear.
“Ju-hwan, you are a greater person than you think.
You were born with 52 virtues.
Among them, the virtues of kindness, consideration, and understanding will soon awaken.
The teacher is waiting to see what virtue you will awaken first.
“I also wonder what kind of diamond our Joo-hwan will make.”
--- From the text
Publisher's Review
A child who can do it, a child who believes in me,
Virtue Project: Building Self-Esteem and Efficacy
Parents and teachers read all kinds of books, listen to lectures, and try all kinds of educational methods to give their children the best.
However, sometimes children do not respond to these efforts and even become more passive.
Children who don't study on their own unless you get angry or nag them, children who only move to avoid getting scolded.
Are children really like that? What's the problem?
The core message of the Virtue Project, “Children are originally jewels,” is not to teach and discipline children about their right and wrongs, but to help children discover the jewels of virtue within themselves and polish them to become their own strengths.
Also, rather than scolding them for repeated wrongdoings, mistakes, or failures, it helps them overcome them by finding and repeatedly training the inner virtues that will help them overcome them.
Not because of anyone or anything, but because you want it and create it with your own power.
It is not a method of teaching and disciplining, or instilling in children by adults, but a self-directed method of discovering and growing the potential already within children.
The Virtue Project is not just a generous education.
First, help children believe in themselves and regain their self-direction.
Children who are respected and who are convinced that they deserve respect strive to become respectable people.
Children who want to behave and behave in a way that better suits the way their parents or teachers see them behave will choose to stick to their principles and achieve their goals.
So, the Virtue Project class is an education that creates ‘can-do children’ who increase self-efficacy.
Virtue Project: A Sustainable and Easy-to-Use Implementation Manual
Children with low self-esteem, lack of motivation, and impatience: the beginning of change.
Education is not achieved through mind and will alone.
We need a sustainable implementation manual that is easy for children, parents, and teachers to use.
The Virtue Project is an easy-to-implement manual that helps children, parents, and teachers create the changes they want.
The author, a young teacher who was lenient and unable to follow through, then tried to control the children with strict discipline, believing it was right, but neither the children nor himself were happy.
After trying hundreds of teaching methods, he discovered the Virtue Project and created a classroom that touched and moved the hearts of children.
The 2016 book, "The One and Only One", which contained that story, was a bestseller for several weeks immediately after its publication and deeply moved the audience.
The repercussions spread to the extent that it was featured in various media outlets and on KBS's [Lecture 100 Degrees Celsius].
After that, interest and inquiries about the Virtue Project continued, and a book was published that contains various implementation manuals and detailed methodologies for the Virtue Project that can be easily utilized by children, parents, and teachers, as well as the aspects of oneself that must be reflected upon first in order to properly utilize the Virtue Project, perspectives on looking at children, major principles, and vivid experiences of people who learned and practiced the Virtue Project.
This book begins with core content that will help weary parents and teachers restore self-esteem and energy, and then provides a sustainable, easy-to-implement manual that can be used to change any child's life, anytime, and in any situation, to increase self-esteem and self-efficacy.
Parents and teachers who love their children but are increasingly exhausted can experience change simply by following the manual.
“My son has had a hard time going to school.
We never talked about school once.
But starting from the third week of March, whenever I opened the door, he would come in saying, 'Mom, my teacher said I was virtuous.'
The next day, 'Mom, my teacher said I can also awaken virtue.' Without missing a single day, I repeated these three stories: Mom, my teacher, and virtue.
And then the child started to change.
…”
After meeting the Virtue Project, children began to discover and shine with their own natural self-esteem, sense of efficacy, and happiness.
The Virtue Project is the starting point and fundamental solution for the transformation from a helpless child, an avoidant child, and a child who cannot control their anger to a child who trusts themselves and is capable.
As with the previous work, all royalties from “Virtue Project Class: Building Self-Esteem and Self-Efficacy” will be donated to children and adolescents in difficult situations.
Virtue Project: Building Self-Esteem and Efficacy
Parents and teachers read all kinds of books, listen to lectures, and try all kinds of educational methods to give their children the best.
However, sometimes children do not respond to these efforts and even become more passive.
Children who don't study on their own unless you get angry or nag them, children who only move to avoid getting scolded.
Are children really like that? What's the problem?
The core message of the Virtue Project, “Children are originally jewels,” is not to teach and discipline children about their right and wrongs, but to help children discover the jewels of virtue within themselves and polish them to become their own strengths.
Also, rather than scolding them for repeated wrongdoings, mistakes, or failures, it helps them overcome them by finding and repeatedly training the inner virtues that will help them overcome them.
Not because of anyone or anything, but because you want it and create it with your own power.
It is not a method of teaching and disciplining, or instilling in children by adults, but a self-directed method of discovering and growing the potential already within children.
The Virtue Project is not just a generous education.
First, help children believe in themselves and regain their self-direction.
Children who are respected and who are convinced that they deserve respect strive to become respectable people.
Children who want to behave and behave in a way that better suits the way their parents or teachers see them behave will choose to stick to their principles and achieve their goals.
So, the Virtue Project class is an education that creates ‘can-do children’ who increase self-efficacy.
Virtue Project: A Sustainable and Easy-to-Use Implementation Manual
Children with low self-esteem, lack of motivation, and impatience: the beginning of change.
Education is not achieved through mind and will alone.
We need a sustainable implementation manual that is easy for children, parents, and teachers to use.
The Virtue Project is an easy-to-implement manual that helps children, parents, and teachers create the changes they want.
The author, a young teacher who was lenient and unable to follow through, then tried to control the children with strict discipline, believing it was right, but neither the children nor himself were happy.
After trying hundreds of teaching methods, he discovered the Virtue Project and created a classroom that touched and moved the hearts of children.
The 2016 book, "The One and Only One", which contained that story, was a bestseller for several weeks immediately after its publication and deeply moved the audience.
The repercussions spread to the extent that it was featured in various media outlets and on KBS's [Lecture 100 Degrees Celsius].
After that, interest and inquiries about the Virtue Project continued, and a book was published that contains various implementation manuals and detailed methodologies for the Virtue Project that can be easily utilized by children, parents, and teachers, as well as the aspects of oneself that must be reflected upon first in order to properly utilize the Virtue Project, perspectives on looking at children, major principles, and vivid experiences of people who learned and practiced the Virtue Project.
This book begins with core content that will help weary parents and teachers restore self-esteem and energy, and then provides a sustainable, easy-to-implement manual that can be used to change any child's life, anytime, and in any situation, to increase self-esteem and self-efficacy.
Parents and teachers who love their children but are increasingly exhausted can experience change simply by following the manual.
“My son has had a hard time going to school.
We never talked about school once.
But starting from the third week of March, whenever I opened the door, he would come in saying, 'Mom, my teacher said I was virtuous.'
The next day, 'Mom, my teacher said I can also awaken virtue.' Without missing a single day, I repeated these three stories: Mom, my teacher, and virtue.
And then the child started to change.
…”
After meeting the Virtue Project, children began to discover and shine with their own natural self-esteem, sense of efficacy, and happiness.
The Virtue Project is the starting point and fundamental solution for the transformation from a helpless child, an avoidant child, and a child who cannot control their anger to a child who trusts themselves and is capable.
As with the previous work, all royalties from “Virtue Project Class: Building Self-Esteem and Self-Efficacy” will be donated to children and adolescents in difficult situations.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: January 3, 2018
- Page count, weight, size: 484 pages | 674g | 150*215*24mm
- ISBN13: 9788965134855
- ISBN10: 8965134854
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