To my parents
To the children
Five personality characters
Read it like this

Before we begin: Diagnosing your personality type
Egogram Analysis Sheet

PART 1: Speak with firmness

1 To a friend who doesn't follow the rules
2 To a friend who suddenly starts a fight
3 To a friend who is noisy and disruptive to class
4 To a friend who is not sincere in group activities
5 To a friend who doesn't return things he borrowed
6 To a friend who talks while tapping
7 To my friend who keeps calling me a nickname I hate
8 To a friend who encourages bad behavior
9 To my friend who talks bad about me behind my back
10 To a friend who told my secret to someone else

PART 2: Speaking with Empathy through 'Inclusion'

1 To a friend who confesses that he likes me
2 To a friend who looks lonely because he is alone
3 To a friend who wants to help
4 To a friend you want to praise
5 To a friend who is hurting from bumping into someone
To a friend who lost in the 6th presidential election
7 To a friend who is worried about his appearance complex
8 To a friend who is upset because he can't control his emotions
9 To a friend who is upset because of a mistake
10 To a friend with different tastes than me

PART 3: Speaking Coherently with 'Calmness'

1 Friends who each have different interests in what they want to do
2 To friends who discuss different opinions
3 To a friend who is sick
4 To a friend who is curious about my experience and opinion
5 To a friend who asks what I did during vacation
6 To a friend who buys things for me
7 To a friend who asks for directions
8 To my friend who doubts me

PART 4: Expressing Emotions with Honesty

1 To a friend who makes fun of your appearance or clothes
2 To my friend who is giving me medicine
3 To a friend who secretly asks me to buy it for him
4 To a friend who asks for a favor you don't want
5 To a friend who forces you to do something you don't want to do
6 To a friend who only thinks about himself
7 To my friend who keeps borrowing my stuff
8 To a friend who suddenly cancels an appointment
9 To a friend who has apologized but still does not want to reconcile
10 Friends you want to join in the conversation

PART 5: Speaking with a 'nod'

1 To a friend who doesn't accept an apology
2 To a friend who feels distant
3 To a friend who looks upset
4 To a friend who told me not to post pictures taken together
5 To a friend who refuses my request
6 To a friend who is upset by my mistake
7 To a friend who is serious about interrupting when you are speaking
8 To my friend who seeks my cooperation

Appendix 1: Strengthening Low-Character Characters
Appendix 2: One Daily Practice for Each Personality Type

Situational Conversation Skills: Understanding Five Personality Characters

There are many moments when I worry about what to say to a friend who is always picking on me, a friend who secretly asks me to buy things for him, or a friend who confesses his feelings for me.
In this book, you will practice conveying what you want to say more effectively by choosing the appropriate character for each situation among the five personality characters: Hwa-geun-i, To-yong-i, Calm-i, Honest-i, and Nod-i.
For example, when exchanging opinions with several people, speak with a calm and composed attitude, when someone is rude, speak with a firm and fiery temper, and when a friend needs empathy, speak with a considerate and tolerant attitude.
Remember that being kind and nice isn't always the right answer!

Practice speaking with vivid dialogue that can be used in real life.

You can't make the lines your own just by reading them with your eyes.
This book's unique speaking solution is to actually speak out loud! Observe carefully how the cartoon characters speak, and imagine yourself as each character, repeating key lines over and over again.
It is only effective if you practice as if it were a real-life situation.
For example, Hwa-geun's line, "Don't be a pickpocket!" is said with a serious expression and firm tone of voice, while Nod-gi's line, "If you have any complaints, tell me." is said with a cautious attitude and a nodding tone of voice.

From broadening your thinking to speaking coaching based on your personality type.

'Violence, nickname, complex, taste, rejection, stubbornness, belief... ...' We've included questions worth thinking about in relation to keywords for each situation.
By organizing my thoughts on various topics, I'll be able to better convey my opinions when I have a conversation about them. Two appendices are included at the end of the book.
First, we will introduce words and actions to strengthen the personality character with the lowest score in the egogram diagnosis. If you do not practice regularly, you will not be able to immediately say the appropriate words when you need to communicate using that character.
Second, I've organized a daily one-word practice for each personality type.
Read along, recalling each situation.