
Where does the strength to live come from?
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Book Introduction
* Highly recommended by Professor Jeong Hee-won of the Department of Geriatrics at Seoul Asan Medical Center
You can forget the number 65.
Our old age is becoming increasingly healthier over the decades_Jeong Hee-won
A book that transforms aging into the most meaningful experience in life! _Daniel Pink
Thanks to you, I've come to happily wait for the passage of time. _Oliver Burkeman
“What keeps you out of bed after 65?”
In-Depth Report from a National Christopher Award-Winning Biologist and Geriatrician
How Blue Zone Elders Live to 100 Without Disease or Dementia
Now, 'middle age' means reaching the middle part of life.
If you're approaching the age of fifty, it means you have as many days left as you've lived so far.
But when it's time to prepare for the second act of life, many people prepare to end their lives too early.
Most of us hesitate in front of kiosks, become discouraged and say, "I'm finished now," and minimize our lives by treating retirement as a spare moment.
"Where Does the Strength to Live Come From?" is a book for everyone who wants to live productively and satisfyingly until the end of their lives.
Professor Jeong Hee-won of Seoul Asan Medical Center said, “Thinking of aging as something to avoid or an enemy to be eradicated is as harmful as smoking a pack of cigarettes every day for the rest of your life.”
But most people are afraid of the age after 65, when they are considered elderly.
The same was true for author Marcy Cottrell Hall, an eight-time award-winning biologist who was recognized in academic circles and had a harmonious family and positive relationships.
He experiences an experience where he falls at the entrance of a supermarket, breaks both his arms, and is forced to live without help from someone.
What was most painful was being treated like an 'invisible person' by people.
Experiencing firsthand what it feels like to be ignored and isolated as an older person, he realizes that many people, including himself, are surprisingly indifferent to preparing for aging.
While some old people are bedridden and regretful, others live a flourishing life in their old age, as the hard work they have put in bears fruit.
What makes this difference? A National Christopher Medal-winning gerontologist and biologist delves into the question through a year-long, in-depth investigation into the "Blue Zones," where many people live to be 100 and beyond, disease- and dementia-free, and thrive.
The book is filled with the secrets of the elders who made twilight the peak of their lives.
It vividly conveys the wise advice of elders who have lived for nearly a century, while also scientifically explaining how our bodies and brains age, helping us open up the second, third, and beyond of life.
"Where Does the Strength to Live Come From?" is a must-read not only for those in middle age, but for everyone facing the certain future of aging.
Because this book is not about aging, but about how each day can shine.
There is no set future, but one thing is certain.
Those who accept time as a gift will be given more time.
You can forget the number 65.
Our old age is becoming increasingly healthier over the decades_Jeong Hee-won
A book that transforms aging into the most meaningful experience in life! _Daniel Pink
Thanks to you, I've come to happily wait for the passage of time. _Oliver Burkeman
“What keeps you out of bed after 65?”
In-Depth Report from a National Christopher Award-Winning Biologist and Geriatrician
How Blue Zone Elders Live to 100 Without Disease or Dementia
Now, 'middle age' means reaching the middle part of life.
If you're approaching the age of fifty, it means you have as many days left as you've lived so far.
But when it's time to prepare for the second act of life, many people prepare to end their lives too early.
Most of us hesitate in front of kiosks, become discouraged and say, "I'm finished now," and minimize our lives by treating retirement as a spare moment.
"Where Does the Strength to Live Come From?" is a book for everyone who wants to live productively and satisfyingly until the end of their lives.
Professor Jeong Hee-won of Seoul Asan Medical Center said, “Thinking of aging as something to avoid or an enemy to be eradicated is as harmful as smoking a pack of cigarettes every day for the rest of your life.”
But most people are afraid of the age after 65, when they are considered elderly.
The same was true for author Marcy Cottrell Hall, an eight-time award-winning biologist who was recognized in academic circles and had a harmonious family and positive relationships.
He experiences an experience where he falls at the entrance of a supermarket, breaks both his arms, and is forced to live without help from someone.
What was most painful was being treated like an 'invisible person' by people.
Experiencing firsthand what it feels like to be ignored and isolated as an older person, he realizes that many people, including himself, are surprisingly indifferent to preparing for aging.
While some old people are bedridden and regretful, others live a flourishing life in their old age, as the hard work they have put in bears fruit.
What makes this difference? A National Christopher Medal-winning gerontologist and biologist delves into the question through a year-long, in-depth investigation into the "Blue Zones," where many people live to be 100 and beyond, disease- and dementia-free, and thrive.
The book is filled with the secrets of the elders who made twilight the peak of their lives.
It vividly conveys the wise advice of elders who have lived for nearly a century, while also scientifically explaining how our bodies and brains age, helping us open up the second, third, and beyond of life.
"Where Does the Strength to Live Come From?" is a must-read not only for those in middle age, but for everyone facing the certain future of aging.
Because this book is not about aging, but about how each day can shine.
There is no set future, but one thing is certain.
Those who accept time as a gift will be given more time.
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index
Praise poured in for this book
A tribute to this book
Entering
Growing Old Isn't Easy_Elizabeth Ekstrom
A Map and Compass for the Journey of Aging_Marci Cottrell Hall
Part 1.
Purpose: A reason to get out of bed every morning
A higher goal than pleasure
Why We Should Live with Purpose
If every day given to us is a gift
To change until death
The moment when laughing it off is the only solution
When life doesn't go your way, just turn the page.
How Retirement Becomes Old Age's Biggest Crisis
So that no one is erased from society
The moment you fall into pity, joy runs away.
There is no one who is okay being alone.
How to prevent dementia right here, right now
Part 2.
Adaptability: As the door to youth closes, the door to old age opens.
The determination to live happily wherever you are
Why We Don't Need to Fear Death
There are only two things that matter in life: love and time.
How to Accept Loss as Part of Love
Gifts always stay within us
The moment you wake up, another opportunity presents itself.
As we live, our inventory of life becomes richer.
A prescription to spend time in nature
There is a country for old men
History never ends
The light will shine again at any moment
Ending a wonderful trip
Part 3.
Planning: Only those who prepare for today can have tomorrow.
Leading causes of death in people aged 65 and over
Bladder, Kidneys, and Reproductive Organs: Three Factors That Determine Quality of Life
70 percent of cardiovascular disease is preventable
Resilient people don't age quickly.
The Benefits of the Mediterranean Diet and the Amazing World of Microbes
How to protect yourself from disease
You don't have to endure pain unconditionally.
To restore subjectivity in treatment
Ethical Wills: A Legacy to Your Loved Ones
One thing to remember when caring for someone: you are not alone.
A simple way to add 7.5 years to your life
Going out
So that we can grow old together happily_Elizabeth Ekstrom
Why the Journey to Aging Can Be Joyful
A tribute to this book
Entering
Growing Old Isn't Easy_Elizabeth Ekstrom
A Map and Compass for the Journey of Aging_Marci Cottrell Hall
Part 1.
Purpose: A reason to get out of bed every morning
A higher goal than pleasure
Why We Should Live with Purpose
If every day given to us is a gift
To change until death
The moment when laughing it off is the only solution
When life doesn't go your way, just turn the page.
How Retirement Becomes Old Age's Biggest Crisis
So that no one is erased from society
The moment you fall into pity, joy runs away.
There is no one who is okay being alone.
How to prevent dementia right here, right now
Part 2.
Adaptability: As the door to youth closes, the door to old age opens.
The determination to live happily wherever you are
Why We Don't Need to Fear Death
There are only two things that matter in life: love and time.
How to Accept Loss as Part of Love
Gifts always stay within us
The moment you wake up, another opportunity presents itself.
As we live, our inventory of life becomes richer.
A prescription to spend time in nature
There is a country for old men
History never ends
The light will shine again at any moment
Ending a wonderful trip
Part 3.
Planning: Only those who prepare for today can have tomorrow.
Leading causes of death in people aged 65 and over
Bladder, Kidneys, and Reproductive Organs: Three Factors That Determine Quality of Life
70 percent of cardiovascular disease is preventable
Resilient people don't age quickly.
The Benefits of the Mediterranean Diet and the Amazing World of Microbes
How to protect yourself from disease
You don't have to endure pain unconditionally.
To restore subjectivity in treatment
Ethical Wills: A Legacy to Your Loved Ones
One thing to remember when caring for someone: you are not alone.
A simple way to add 7.5 years to your life
Going out
So that we can grow old together happily_Elizabeth Ekstrom
Why the Journey to Aging Can Be Joyful
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Josh continued his thoughts in more depth.
“Everyone is bound to feel sorry for themselves.
A beggar who feels sorry for himself.
But that shouldn't be the case.
Self-centeredness is a major cause of unhappiness.
If you focus too much on yourself, you will become distant from others.
When people are obsessed only with their own needs and desires, they become anxious and restless.
“You have to overcome that.”
“How?” I asked Josh, remembering the times I struggled with broken arms and often wallowed in self-pity.
“It’s simple.
You just have to get out of yourself.
Wouldn't it be much better to do good to others at that time?
“Think about and practice ways to improve the lives of others!”
---From "Part 1 - A Goal Higher than Pleasure"
Centenarians who live to be over 100 years old usually have great decision-making skills.
They know what they want and go straight for it.
But when life forces you to adapt, embrace change with flexibility.
They also easily win the favor of others.
This quote, describing a centenarian living in Okinawa, Japan, one of the Blue Zones, says it all.
People who have lived well for a long time walk their own path with dignity, but when life throws a punch, they respond flexibly.
We must learn from the wisdom of older people who maintain their autonomy through adaptability.
---From "Part 1 - To Change Until Death"
“There are two things I consider important in life.
“It’s about not retiring and planning for the future,” Bob emphasized.
“Whatever you do, make a plan.
Write down your plan and check it from time to time.
Draw a line through each task you have completed.
Feel free to modify the plan if necessary.
Try to work as systematically as possible.
There are things I tried but didn't succeed.
I went bankrupt twice.
There have been many times when I have encountered serious problems.
But I never gave up.
Every time, I changed direction slightly and paved the way.
And I came back to find the values that were important to me, the beliefs that I pursue.”
---From "Part 1 - When Life Doesn't Go Your Way, Just Turn the Page"
Don and Barbara are preparing for their eighth anniversary in two months.
The love shared between two people does not erase the sorrow of losing a spouse or shorten the time it takes for the wound to heal.
But before they knew it, sadness had melted into their lives, adding richness and gratitude to their lives.
On the shelf next to Barbara, an elaborate wooden falcon sculpture caught my eye.
Barbara noticed my gaze and spoke.
“Isn’t it beautiful? Frank really loved hawks.
Whenever I see that statue, I always think of Frank.
There's something Frank said to me when he found out he was dying.
'There are only two important assets in life: love and time.
“You can tell a lot about a person by where they spend their time and love.”
---From "Part 2 - The only two things that matter in life are love and time"
“Every morning I wake up feeling grateful.
“Because there are souls who had to leave without being able to greet a new day,” Karen said.
“The moment you wake up, you are given another chance.
I go up to the plate again and swing the bat.
Someday I'll hit a home run.
As long as I have the strength to make a change, I will keep trying.”
---From "Part 2 - Another opportunity comes the moment you wake up"
Just from what we've discussed so far, you can guess how high Sweden's level of welfare for the elderly is.
But that's not all.
Sweden offers a range of home visiting services to reduce the negative impact of social determinants on health.
Among them, the service called ‘Citizen Repairman’ was particularly impressive.
They visit the homes of seniors and help with household chores, such as hanging curtains or changing lightbulbs, to reduce the risk of falls.
For older adults at high risk for falls, changing lightbulbs and cleaning gutters can be done with a simple phone call, without having to climb a ladder.
Moreover, the cost is fully covered by the government.
---From "Part 2 - There is a country for old men"
I met some wonderful people while I was on sabbatical.
Dr. Ken Rockwood, who works at Dalhousie University in Nova Scotia, Canada, was one of them.
Dr. Lockwood approached frailty from a slightly different perspective.
The doctor defined frailty as an "accumulation of deficits" rather than a specific symptom, and developed a criterion called the "clinical frailty score," which is used to measure "very healthy (vigorous, energetic, and motivated)".
They range in health from 'exercising regularly and being one of the healthiest people in their age group' to 'severely frail (not able to do anything for themselves and approaching the end of their lives).
It was divided into grades ranging from 'a state where even minor illnesses cannot be overcome' to 'a state where even minor illnesses cannot be overcome'.
“Everyone is bound to feel sorry for themselves.
A beggar who feels sorry for himself.
But that shouldn't be the case.
Self-centeredness is a major cause of unhappiness.
If you focus too much on yourself, you will become distant from others.
When people are obsessed only with their own needs and desires, they become anxious and restless.
“You have to overcome that.”
“How?” I asked Josh, remembering the times I struggled with broken arms and often wallowed in self-pity.
“It’s simple.
You just have to get out of yourself.
Wouldn't it be much better to do good to others at that time?
“Think about and practice ways to improve the lives of others!”
---From "Part 1 - A Goal Higher than Pleasure"
Centenarians who live to be over 100 years old usually have great decision-making skills.
They know what they want and go straight for it.
But when life forces you to adapt, embrace change with flexibility.
They also easily win the favor of others.
This quote, describing a centenarian living in Okinawa, Japan, one of the Blue Zones, says it all.
People who have lived well for a long time walk their own path with dignity, but when life throws a punch, they respond flexibly.
We must learn from the wisdom of older people who maintain their autonomy through adaptability.
---From "Part 1 - To Change Until Death"
“There are two things I consider important in life.
“It’s about not retiring and planning for the future,” Bob emphasized.
“Whatever you do, make a plan.
Write down your plan and check it from time to time.
Draw a line through each task you have completed.
Feel free to modify the plan if necessary.
Try to work as systematically as possible.
There are things I tried but didn't succeed.
I went bankrupt twice.
There have been many times when I have encountered serious problems.
But I never gave up.
Every time, I changed direction slightly and paved the way.
And I came back to find the values that were important to me, the beliefs that I pursue.”
---From "Part 1 - When Life Doesn't Go Your Way, Just Turn the Page"
Don and Barbara are preparing for their eighth anniversary in two months.
The love shared between two people does not erase the sorrow of losing a spouse or shorten the time it takes for the wound to heal.
But before they knew it, sadness had melted into their lives, adding richness and gratitude to their lives.
On the shelf next to Barbara, an elaborate wooden falcon sculpture caught my eye.
Barbara noticed my gaze and spoke.
“Isn’t it beautiful? Frank really loved hawks.
Whenever I see that statue, I always think of Frank.
There's something Frank said to me when he found out he was dying.
'There are only two important assets in life: love and time.
“You can tell a lot about a person by where they spend their time and love.”
---From "Part 2 - The only two things that matter in life are love and time"
“Every morning I wake up feeling grateful.
“Because there are souls who had to leave without being able to greet a new day,” Karen said.
“The moment you wake up, you are given another chance.
I go up to the plate again and swing the bat.
Someday I'll hit a home run.
As long as I have the strength to make a change, I will keep trying.”
---From "Part 2 - Another opportunity comes the moment you wake up"
Just from what we've discussed so far, you can guess how high Sweden's level of welfare for the elderly is.
But that's not all.
Sweden offers a range of home visiting services to reduce the negative impact of social determinants on health.
Among them, the service called ‘Citizen Repairman’ was particularly impressive.
They visit the homes of seniors and help with household chores, such as hanging curtains or changing lightbulbs, to reduce the risk of falls.
For older adults at high risk for falls, changing lightbulbs and cleaning gutters can be done with a simple phone call, without having to climb a ladder.
Moreover, the cost is fully covered by the government.
---From "Part 2 - There is a country for old men"
I met some wonderful people while I was on sabbatical.
Dr. Ken Rockwood, who works at Dalhousie University in Nova Scotia, Canada, was one of them.
Dr. Lockwood approached frailty from a slightly different perspective.
The doctor defined frailty as an "accumulation of deficits" rather than a specific symptom, and developed a criterion called the "clinical frailty score," which is used to measure "very healthy (vigorous, energetic, and motivated)".
They range in health from 'exercising regularly and being one of the healthiest people in their age group' to 'severely frail (not able to do anything for themselves and approaching the end of their lives).
It was divided into grades ranging from 'a state where even minor illnesses cannot be overcome' to 'a state where even minor illnesses cannot be overcome'.
---From "Part 3 - People with resilience do not age quickly"
Publisher's Review
Life doesn't look back.
A book that you can take out and look at whenever you feel shaken during the long journey of life.
The brilliant advice of the elders who made twilight the peak of life.
A rabbi who serves as a youth guru at 98, a 94-year-old woman who says she lived a successful life despite surviving the Holocaust and the death of her son, a businessman who became the largest whole grain food supplier in the United States at age 80, a 106-year-old man who is busy answering phone calls all day long…
Healthy and happy seniors from around the world share their brilliant wisdom on how to make your twilight years the highlight of your life.
Whenever I think about old age, there are more than a few things that come to mind.
Separation from loved ones, alienation from society, loss of purpose, and even an aging body.
Many people build walls around old age, trying to avoid it, believing that a dark future is inevitable, and so they fail to fully enjoy the present.
But we have predecessors who have walked the journey of aging first, and who are walking that journey very healthily and happily.
When facing an unwanted separation from a loved one, it is more comforting to hear the stories of those who endured such a devastating loss and lived through it with love than to memorize the five stages of grief.
Barbara Roberts, Oregon's first female governor, said, "There are only two important things in life: love and time," even after losing the love of her life.
Time takes away love, but at the same time, it also melts sadness into life, adding richness and gratitude to it.
As we age, our physical abilities may not be the same as before.
The doctor's words that I must endure the pain because it is a degenerative disease are frustrating, but the 94-year-old's words that I must bravely adapt to change are very persuasive.
At 94, Lily Cohen still believes life is beautiful and says it's okay to feel low.
Because when your body becomes weak and you can do less, you can focus on the most enjoyable things you can still do.
There is a saying that “when an old person dies, it is like a library burning down.”
In "Where Does the Strength to Live Come From?", we have collected brilliant stories that should not be forgotten.
Add to this the helpful advice of two experts who show us how to apply these special cases to our own unique lives, and we have a complete map to aging happily, right here, right now.
The map points the way to greatness, each in its own way.
“When the door of youth closes, the door of old age opens.”
Things that change when you remember that you are getting older
'Memento mori' is a saying that means "remember that you must die," and is a proverb that reminds us of the preciousness of life by facing death.
Similarly, when we accept that we are inevitably getting older, our every day becomes special.
It is strange that our society avoids aging, the most certain future given to all, even more than death.
But a healthy and happy eighty-year-old is the result of decades of hard work.
The sooner you start preparing for aging, the longer you can be healthy and happy.
"Where Does the Power to Live Come From?" introduces three ways to live a more productive and satisfying life as you age.
Part 1, “Purpose: A Reason to Get Out of Bed Every Morning,” covers how to live a fulfilling life with purpose until the day you close your eyes.
We live meaningful lives when we move beyond simply pursuing pleasure and take responsibility for influencing the lives of others.
Part 2, “Adaptability: When the Door to Youth Closes, the Door to Old Age Opens,” teaches you how to cheerfully adapt to any change in life with an open and flexible attitude.
When we become realists who respond to change with an open and resolute mindset, rather than naysayers who cling to the old ways of life, we can find happiness in any situation.
Part 3, “Planning: Only those who prepare for today can have tomorrow,” introduces various ways to prepare for aging.
It's full of practical methods to maintain brain health and prevent deterioration, as well as the right mindset to cope with aging.
Accept the inevitable changes, but don't change what doesn't need to be changed.
And we must believe that time certainly has gifts for us.
The moment the door of youth closes, the door of old age opens.
There is no need to stand in front of a closed door for a long time.
When we part with the days that have passed and embrace the days to come, new doors will always open before us.
A book that you can take out and look at whenever you feel shaken during the long journey of life.
The brilliant advice of the elders who made twilight the peak of life.
A rabbi who serves as a youth guru at 98, a 94-year-old woman who says she lived a successful life despite surviving the Holocaust and the death of her son, a businessman who became the largest whole grain food supplier in the United States at age 80, a 106-year-old man who is busy answering phone calls all day long…
Healthy and happy seniors from around the world share their brilliant wisdom on how to make your twilight years the highlight of your life.
Whenever I think about old age, there are more than a few things that come to mind.
Separation from loved ones, alienation from society, loss of purpose, and even an aging body.
Many people build walls around old age, trying to avoid it, believing that a dark future is inevitable, and so they fail to fully enjoy the present.
But we have predecessors who have walked the journey of aging first, and who are walking that journey very healthily and happily.
When facing an unwanted separation from a loved one, it is more comforting to hear the stories of those who endured such a devastating loss and lived through it with love than to memorize the five stages of grief.
Barbara Roberts, Oregon's first female governor, said, "There are only two important things in life: love and time," even after losing the love of her life.
Time takes away love, but at the same time, it also melts sadness into life, adding richness and gratitude to it.
As we age, our physical abilities may not be the same as before.
The doctor's words that I must endure the pain because it is a degenerative disease are frustrating, but the 94-year-old's words that I must bravely adapt to change are very persuasive.
At 94, Lily Cohen still believes life is beautiful and says it's okay to feel low.
Because when your body becomes weak and you can do less, you can focus on the most enjoyable things you can still do.
There is a saying that “when an old person dies, it is like a library burning down.”
In "Where Does the Strength to Live Come From?", we have collected brilliant stories that should not be forgotten.
Add to this the helpful advice of two experts who show us how to apply these special cases to our own unique lives, and we have a complete map to aging happily, right here, right now.
The map points the way to greatness, each in its own way.
“When the door of youth closes, the door of old age opens.”
Things that change when you remember that you are getting older
'Memento mori' is a saying that means "remember that you must die," and is a proverb that reminds us of the preciousness of life by facing death.
Similarly, when we accept that we are inevitably getting older, our every day becomes special.
It is strange that our society avoids aging, the most certain future given to all, even more than death.
But a healthy and happy eighty-year-old is the result of decades of hard work.
The sooner you start preparing for aging, the longer you can be healthy and happy.
"Where Does the Power to Live Come From?" introduces three ways to live a more productive and satisfying life as you age.
Part 1, “Purpose: A Reason to Get Out of Bed Every Morning,” covers how to live a fulfilling life with purpose until the day you close your eyes.
We live meaningful lives when we move beyond simply pursuing pleasure and take responsibility for influencing the lives of others.
Part 2, “Adaptability: When the Door to Youth Closes, the Door to Old Age Opens,” teaches you how to cheerfully adapt to any change in life with an open and flexible attitude.
When we become realists who respond to change with an open and resolute mindset, rather than naysayers who cling to the old ways of life, we can find happiness in any situation.
Part 3, “Planning: Only those who prepare for today can have tomorrow,” introduces various ways to prepare for aging.
It's full of practical methods to maintain brain health and prevent deterioration, as well as the right mindset to cope with aging.
Accept the inevitable changes, but don't change what doesn't need to be changed.
And we must believe that time certainly has gifts for us.
The moment the door of youth closes, the door of old age opens.
There is no need to stand in front of a closed door for a long time.
When we part with the days that have passed and embrace the days to come, new doors will always open before us.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: February 28, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 372 pages | 512g | 145*210*30mm
- ISBN13: 9791192097749
- ISBN10: 1192097742
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