The family is the first institution given to mankind by God.
It is a system permitted for humans who must live together, and it is the beginning of a true community.
Community is a realm of life that is set apart for human beings to exist as human beings.
But is it easy for two people to become one? Do they just become one automatically when they get married? Becoming one is incredibly difficult, so to become one, you have to suffer to the death.
However, the reason God created a community called family is because it is an inevitable process of perfecting the shape and form that He created.
--- p.19~20

The family does not operate on worldly principles.
Even if you are naked and ashamed, even if you have flaws and weaknesses, the home is the place that covers you and hides you.
Home is not a place to criticize each other.
If the world is a place where you feel ashamed of being naked even when you're wearing clothes, then home should be a comfortable place where you don't have to feel ashamed of being naked.
God allowed us to experience this through the institution of the family.
Home should be a place where we can wash our wounds and comfort ourselves, no matter how bloody we may be when we return from the outside world.
Home is a repair shop that always repairs and sends out cleanly, even if it comes in broken and battered from the outside.
Who is the repairman at this time? None other than the helping spouse.
--- p.20~21

Unless our families are restored, we cannot experience true salvation.
So God established the church to rebuild broken families.
The family completes the history of salvation on this earth by restoring love for one another as Jesus Christ loved the church, that is, by becoming the church of the family.
This is God's amazing plan.
There is nothing more important to Satan than shaking up families and churches.
So, our first goal is to destroy our families, and our second goal is to shake up our churches so that they become a source of suffering rather than hope in this land.
But let us not forget that the family and the church are the two pillars that protect and sustain this world.
--- p.69

Who is marriage for? These days, people say they marry for themselves.
So, that's something no one wants to do.
Because I'm most comfortable being alone.
We have entered an era where no one is comfortable with the idea of ​​marriage and child-rearing.
What's the problem? The starting point of the marriage is wrong.
We must start with the understanding that marriage is not for me.
Why not for me? The sinner's purpose is to please me.
But there is no end to what pleases me.
Humans were not originally designed that way.
Humans are designed to experience true happiness and joy when those they love are happy.
--- p.94~95

Are you a family just because you live in the same house? Can you truly say you're a family just because you're married? No.
A true family is possible only under one faith.
It is difficult to navigate these difficult times without experiencing the power of family, the strength of the home, which God gave us as a gift before the church.
Our faith must begin in our families.
If we do not build a rock-solid faith from home, we will end up as hypocritical religious people.
So make the difficult choices, the damaging choices, the tough choices.
Walk the narrow path that leads to the narrow gate.
I hope you walk that path of faith to the end.
Someone who sees you struggling and not losing faith may choose to join God's family because of you.

--- p.168~171