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","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYEEtCq9GW4KrKp9mqS70kJRIrmCQ.png?v=1765125195\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e You can't raise a child to be a monster who only studies well. \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/160768937\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003ch5\u003e\u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eWhat kind of person do you want your child to become?\u003cbr\u003e Our children are not monsters who only study well,\u003cbr\u003e Educating children to become masters of their own lives!\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The '4-year-old exam', which has an unfamiliar name, is causing controversy.\u003cbr\u003e It vividly shows the bleak reality of the Korean education system.\u003cbr\u003e Education that causes suffering to both parents and children.\u003cbr\u003e I know this isn't the right way, but I feel like something bad will happen to my child if I don't do it.\u003cbr\u003e It is true that elite supremacy contributed to our country's growth, but now Korea is facing a great crisis due to the monstrous elite group and the educational environment that only nurtures monstrous elites.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The book, \"You Can't Raise Your Child to Be a Monster Who Only Studyes Well,\" is about \"true education\" that allows children to grow into upright adults on their own, rather than an education that focuses solely on grades. \u003cbr\u003eThis book vividly tells the author's story of how, after realizing that she was turning into a monster because of her children's education, she struggled to find a completely different way of raising them, not only for her children but also for herself.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The educational policy that minimizes parental interference while allowing children to grow up properly and make important choices in their lives, and the resulting positive outcomes, leave a deep impression along with a sense of enlightenment.\u003cbr\u003e We have compiled a comprehensive introduction to education-related books that parents in Korea must read, as discovered while leading the activities of the self-reflective reading movement, ‘Our Breathing Ground.’\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Recommendation 4\u003cbr\u003e PROLOG 8 Seeing a world ruled by monsters\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 1: Sophie Becomes a Monster\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 2 Who Makes Us Monsters?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Win unconditionally 39 \u003cbr\u003eTrust No One 49\u003cbr\u003e You are just 'words' 57\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 3: To avoid becoming a monster\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Asking Questions 68\u003cbr\u003e Thinking about the future 75\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 4: Raising People\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e From 'Well done' to 'Congratulations' 88\u003cbr\u003e What it means to be the master of your own life 94\u003cbr\u003e Between Love and Violence 99\u003cbr\u003e Being Iron 103\u003cbr\u003e How to Overcome Disappointment with Yourself 114\u003cbr\u003e Finding Your Dream 119\u003cbr\u003e Circling the Earth 128\u003cbr\u003e Raising Children Without Comparison 134\u003cbr\u003e Swaying Flower 139\u003cbr\u003e Children Who Grow on Their Own 145\u003cbr\u003e How Internal Order Is Established 150\u003cbr\u003e The Principle of Words Becoming Seeds 154\u003cbr\u003e Order 159, not speed or direction\u003cbr\u003e The World's Best Environment 164\u003cbr\u003e We were all children once 167\u003cbr\u003e What's Not in Our House and What's in Our House 171\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 5: Books We Loved\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e What Kind of Being Are Children? - Ellen Kay, The Century of Children, p. 183\u003cbr\u003e What Are We Losing? - Erich Fromm, \"Why I Repeat Apathy\" 190  \u003cbr\u003eWhy do schools exist? - John Holt, Why Children Fail, 198\u003cbr\u003e How is True Learning Possible? - Ellen Langer, The Mindful Learning Revolution, p. 203\u003cbr\u003e What is the reality of South Korea? - Lee Seung-wook, Shin Hee-kyung, and Kim Eun-san, \"Parents of the Republic of Korea\" 211\u003cbr\u003e This is not just Seo Yi-cho's case - Kim Hyun-soo, \"The Birth of a Monster Parent\" 218\u003cbr\u003e Reviving the Broken Continuity - Jean Ridloff, In Search of the Lost Archetypes of Parenting, p. 223\u003cbr\u003e A New Perspective on Parenting - Pamela Druckerman, Like a French Child 229\u003cbr\u003e If you want to know how to truly love children\u003cbr\u003e - Janusz Korczak, How to Love Children 234\u003cbr\u003e How strict and harsh education drives a child to death\u003cbr\u003e - Hermann Hesse, Beneath the Wheel 239\u003cbr\u003e Let's Lead the Korean Education Revolution! - Kim Nu-ri, \"Competitive Education is Barbaric\" 244\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 6: The Story of Three Children\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eY's Story of Silently Going His Own Way, Part 255\u003cbr\u003e Self-Esteem-Boosting P Story 262\u003cbr\u003e Very Happy J Story 266\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e EPILOGUE You Can't Raise Your Child to Be a Monster Who Only Studyes 270\u003cbr\u003e Appendix: Usumteo Story 280\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate5947\/MidCate002\/594616746.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Life is not a space filled with 'things to do'.\u003cbr\u003e 'Things to do' are just one of the many elements that fill the vast space called life, but they are not everything.\u003cbr\u003e But at some point, I was raising my children as if accomplishing those things was my whole life.\u003cbr\u003e Because of this, we have forgotten the other elements, such as love and trust for each other, support and encouragement.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.30\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Needless to say, the reason we live a life without a single friend is because the second motto of the Squid Game, “Trust no one,” exists in our society. \u003cbr\u003eIn a society where the belief that you cannot survive if you do not win is prevalent, trusting someone is a shortcut to 'elimination'.\u003cbr\u003e This overall social atmosphere naturally affects parents raising children.\u003cbr\u003e How can parents be free from the fact that their children have to survive in the squid game?\u003cbr\u003e The parent community is an invisible battlefield.\u003cbr\u003e The network of parents is a strategic alliance to win the war.\u003cbr\u003e So, although we share information, we cannot honestly discuss the numerous questions that arise while raising children.\u003cbr\u003e There is no one to consult with regarding the numerous problems that people face while raising children.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.53\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Saying “congratulations” is fundamentally different from saying “well done.” \u003cbr\u003eThe former is used in a situation where you fully acknowledge that all of the results are solely due to you, while the latter is used under the premise that some of the results are also due to the person giving the praise.\u003cbr\u003e Because it is a phrase used when something taught has been done well.\u003cbr\u003e In fact, parents teach their children a lot in their daily lives.\u003cbr\u003e So it is natural to use the word 'well done'.\u003cbr\u003e It's just that at the time, I was so obsessed with giving the initiative back to the children that I decided to change \"good job\" to \"congratulations.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.90\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Come to think of it, the kids and I were fundamentally prone to violence.\u003cbr\u003e This means that the balance of power is broken. \u003cbr\u003eBecause young children are absolutely weak and have no choice but to depend on me as their mother, and I am the absolute strong one who protects them.\u003cbr\u003e Besides, my relationship with my children is a very private one.\u003cbr\u003e In the public sphere, even if the balance of power is broken, it is not easy for it to escalate into a violent situation, but the power imbalance in the private sphere is different.\u003cbr\u003e Because it is not revealed to the outside.\u003cbr\u003e A secret, private sphere, in a state of disrupted balance of power! It was under such conditions that my violence quietly reared its head.\u003cbr\u003e Like mold that blooms in damp places.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.101\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eFor example, we can tell children what kind of place this world is, what kind of being a human is, what it means to live, and what love is, but in the end, the definition of all these things that are ultimately built in their heads or hearts is up to the children themselves.\u003cbr\u003e This means that each child will be different and that no two children will have the same definition.\u003cbr\u003e What we are saying is that each person will come to their own conclusions by mixing in countless things other than what we teach.\u003cbr\u003e Maybe every moment, without anyone knowing.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.151\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e One of the most pressing issues currently affecting Korean society is the 'decline of the elite.'\u003cbr\u003e The practice of forming cartels based on school ties and regionalism and privatizing power and economic interests has already been pointed out countless times. \u003cbr\u003eThe emergence of the new term \"trash elite,\" specifically targeting high-ranking officials, journalists, executives of large corporations, and members of the legal profession centered around the prosecution, reflects the nationwide anger and concern over their irresponsible, incompetent, and power-oriented behavior.\u003cbr\u003e The author fundamentally questions what this shocking reality, this deep public concern that \"it's not just one president who's weird,\" means.\u003cbr\u003e And, borrowing the insight of Professor Kim Nu-ri of Chung-Ang University, the answer is found in none other than ‘Korea’s hyper-competitive education.’\u003cbr\u003e It also raises the sharp question of what kind of adults the children who are 'best trained' to be number one in a classroom where competition and the logic of superiority dominate will become.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A series of events, such as the recent Martial Law Incident of December 3, provide a horrifying answer to this question. \u003cbr\u003eThe author assesses that this incident had such a shocking effect that it threatened the very existence of the nation that the elites should be thankful that they had been merely hypocritical and irresponsible until now.\u003cbr\u003e The Korean education system, which appeared to be nurturing intelligent and capable leaders on the surface, has in fact been collectively producing \"monsters\" who are self-centered, blinded by money and power, obsessed with superiority and privilege, and intent on building their own world.\u003cbr\u003e What is even more depressing is the reality that these systems are not stopping and are only getting worse.\u003cbr\u003e The social atmosphere that forces early competition called 'gosi' on 4-year-olds, let alone 7-year-olds, is leading to tragic results such as depression in children as well as adolescents. \u003cbr\u003eThe arduous process of raising a child into a fully formed adult is becoming a time of suffering that is several times, even dozens of times more difficult in the hyper-competitive society of South Korea.\u003cbr\u003e So, parents' sighs cannot help but deepen.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"You Can't Raise Your Children to Be Monsters Who Only Study Well\" is more than a simple social indictment; it's a stern warning to all parents and educators of this era, and at the same time, a powerful call to action.\u003cbr\u003e As individuals who have experienced the ills of our society's competitive education system throughout their lives, we emphasize that we must no longer allow our children to grow up to be \"study-obsessed monsters\" and continue this irresponsible lineage of elites.\u003cbr\u003e Hope does not come from external reforms or appointments by an incompetent government. \u003cbr\u003eRather, we, as victims and subjects of competitive education, must directly reject this flawed system and create a social environment that can nurture the next generation with well-rounded personalities.\u003cbr\u003e The author's vivid experiences in raising children, as well as the true meaning of education discovered through collaboration with like-minded individuals, shine as a clear solution to overcome the crisis facing South Korea.\u003cbr\u003e Although these efforts may not produce immediate, visible results, I am confident they will be sufficient to lay the groundwork for a new era of growth and advancement for the Republic of Korea and to empower our children to become the stars of that stage.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \"]\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eDate of issue:\u003c\/strong\u003e November 5, 2025\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 308 pages | 150*210*18mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9791193110843\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 119311084X \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43893999599658,"sku":"112015","price":32.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/e2cbf80b05ef86d76687141de0ac27c8.jpg?v=1765428346","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/112015","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}