{"product_id":"112071","title":"The teacher's words that protect me without hurting me ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYEEtCpxTLo8nsw4NhT9z6jXOx3Ot.png?v=1765125346\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e The teacher's words that protect me without hurting me \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/126789478\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eVarious complaints that make teachers difficult\u003cbr\u003e A Wise Response Manual That Will Be Your Shield\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"A Teacher's Speech Technique to Protect Myself Without Getting Hurt\" is the sequel to the number one bestseller in the education field, \"A Teacher's Speech Practice.\" While the previous book dealt with \"classroom conversation techniques\" applicable to classes, student guidance, parent consultations, and peer relationships, this book focuses on \"communication methods with parents outside the classroom,\" which received particularly enthusiastic responses in the previous book.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Teachers face a variety of challenging situations throughout the year.\u003cbr\u003e Among these, what makes it especially difficult for teachers are complaints from parents. \u003cbr\u003eThe author argues that we must first distinguish between \"counseling\" requests from parents seeking advice or cooperation and \"complaints\" from parents demanding what they want. He generously provides wise ways to \"respond\" to complaints, citing real-life examples of cases in which parents interfered with school work and infringed on teachers' authority.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e prolog\u003cbr\u003e How should I say something that crosses the line?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 1.\u003cbr\u003e The minimum skills to protect myself from complaints\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e There is a separate card that will save teachers.\u003cbr\u003e [Shall we practice together?]\u003cbr\u003e How to record incidents and accidents according to the six principles of harm and harm\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Why Teachers Should Explain Themselves\u003cbr\u003e [Educational Stories You Should Know]\u003cbr\u003e How to handle complaints at schools in other countries\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e How to Distinguish Between Complaints and Counseling\u003cbr\u003e [Educational Stories You Should Know]\u003cbr\u003e legitimate educational activities protected by law\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eSchool violence, just hearing it makes my heart sink.\u003cbr\u003e [Educational Stories You Should Know]\u003cbr\u003e School Violence Handling Methods\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Things to remember when a sexual issue arises\u003cbr\u003e [Shall we practice together?]\u003cbr\u003e Sexual Affairs Reporting and Student Guidance\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A relationship that requires putting your heads together for the sake of the child\u003cbr\u003e [Shall we practice together?]\u003cbr\u003e How to Report Problem Behavior to Parents\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 2.\u003cbr\u003e How to Face Parents Confidently\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A 3-Step Speaking Manual for Any Situation\u003cbr\u003e Two things to remember when talking to parents\u003cbr\u003e Magic words that change the listener's attitude\u003cbr\u003e [Shall we practice together?]\u003cbr\u003e Applying a desirable self-portrait frame\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Basic principles of communication between teachers and parents\u003cbr\u003e How to Empower Your Words in Uncomfortable Conversations\u003cbr\u003e Asking for a gentle and legitimate apology\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 3.\u003cbr\u003e Allay Parents' Anxiety\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Parents of good children who are good at yielding\u003cbr\u003e Parents who distrust schools and often misunderstand them\u003cbr\u003e Parents who get angry when they should be apologizing \u003cbr\u003eParents who contact their children unusually frequently\u003cbr\u003e Parents who easily become anxious over trivial matters\u003cbr\u003e Parents who judge based solely on what their children say\u003cbr\u003e Parents worried about their children entering puberty\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 4.\u003cbr\u003e Keep an appropriate distance from your parents.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Parents asking about teachers' private lives\u003cbr\u003e Parents who unintentionally use informal language\u003cbr\u003e Parents who get overly angry\u003cbr\u003e Parents who contact their children late at night\u003cbr\u003e Find a distance that is neither too far nor too close\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 5.\u003cbr\u003e How to Deal with Situations That Put Teachers at a Disadvantage\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Parents who are indifferent and neglectful to their children\u003cbr\u003e Parents whose children are unable to attend school due to health or other reasons\u003cbr\u003e Parents of Aggressive Children Who Bully Their Friends\u003cbr\u003e Parents of children in the assistance class who require special treatment\u003cbr\u003e Parents of children who behave differently at school and at home\u003cbr\u003e [Shall we practice together?]\u003cbr\u003e Communicating your child's school life to parents\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Parents of children who are frequently scolded at school\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 6.\u003cbr\u003e How to take care of your heart without hurting it\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThings Wounded Teachers Should Remember\u003cbr\u003e [Educational Stories You Should Know]\u003cbr\u003e Child Abuse Act and 1395\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Five Tips for Teachers with Glass Mental\u003cbr\u003e The minimum device to prevent injustice\u003cbr\u003e Communication skills that avoid wasteful arguments\u003cbr\u003e If you learn something, nothing is a failure.\u003cbr\u003e [Shall we practice together?]\u003cbr\u003e Find out what my bass is thinking\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A shield for when all else fails\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Epilogue\u003cbr\u003e The weapon that solves problems the easiest way\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate4510\/MidCate006\/450953209.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Please consider this as a minimum safety measure for teachers themselves.\u003cbr\u003e I have never neglected to keep records like this since the horizontal bar incident.\u003cbr\u003e Even now, when I meet a complainant at school, I record every little thing, even the smallest, and leave a short report based on the Six Ws and One Principle.\u003cbr\u003e You know this even if you experience it just once. \u003cbr\u003eHow heartbreaking and terrifying it is to see students' safety accidents, and why the life-saving card that protects me is the record.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"There is a separate card that will save the teacher\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A teacher's basic speaking attitude is to gently draw the line by saying no to things that are not possible.\u003cbr\u003e What if teachers tolerate any behavior just because students want to live freely in the classroom? Students want freedom, but no responsibility.\u003cbr\u003e The same goes for parents.\u003cbr\u003e What cannot be done must be done, and principles must be maintained as principles.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"A 3-Step Speaking Manual for Any Situation\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If the matter is resolved amicably, take care of your mind like this.\u003cbr\u003e That way, the teacher's feelings won't be hurt.\u003cbr\u003e In any situation, if I don't take care of myself and look after myself, my heart gets hurt. \u003cbr\u003eOnce you lose your mind like that, you become discouraged and can't even speak properly.\u003cbr\u003e (syncopation)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I go through all sorts of things at school, but no matter what, no matter what the situation, I never yell or get angry the same way.\u003cbr\u003e There won't be any in the future.\u003cbr\u003e Listen to whatever the other person says.\u003cbr\u003e However, when it's my turn, I don't just let it slide.\u003cbr\u003e An apology is also definitely accepted.\u003cbr\u003e Since you gave me flesh, I will take your bones.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Requesting a Gentle and Just Apology\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e When parents think of the teacher as someone who knows their child's special strengths and charms, they will open their hearts and listen to what the teacher has to say.\u003cbr\u003e It's not about some grand event that captures the hearts of parents.\u003cbr\u003e These small thoughts accumulate and accumulate to create something.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I did this for myself, not for anyone else. \u003cbr\u003eIf I thought I was doing it for the parents, I would end up making up some kind of excuse, but if I thought of it as doing it for myself as a teacher, it wasn't that difficult or hard.\u003cbr\u003e Do these things for yourself, teacher.\u003cbr\u003e If teachers share the love and care they pour into their children with their parents, the rewards will surely come back to them.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Parents Who Judge Based Only on Their Children's Words\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I sometimes meet teachers who say, “This year, all the kids are good.”\u003cbr\u003e It is better not to be too hasty and assume that children are good and will not cause trouble.\u003cbr\u003e It hasn't happened yet, but something incredibly outrageous can happen anytime, anywhere, in any classroom.\u003cbr\u003e Because they are children.\u003cbr\u003e Children are inherently creatures that surprise adults.\u003cbr\u003e For this reason, teachers must try to see children as they are and love them for who they are.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e---From \"Parents of Children Who Act Differently at School and at Home\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I went back to school thinking, 'This would have been the same even if it were another teacher.\u003cbr\u003e It's not that I'm a bad teacher.\u003cbr\u003e I repeated to myself thousands of times, 'I did my best.'\u003cbr\u003e Even now, whenever I feel tired, I say, “I did my best.\u003cbr\u003e I often say to myself, “That’s enough.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Teachers also need these words of comfort.\u003cbr\u003e The person I talk to the most and tell the most stories to is none other than myself.\u003cbr\u003e If I abandon myself and ignore myself, who will take care of me?\u003cbr\u003e I hope that no more teachers will be hurt and leave the classroom.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e ---From \"Things Wounded Teachers Should Remember\"\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \",\"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eHow should I say something that crosses the line?\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eHow to Respond to Parents' Complaints with Confidence\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e * Sequel to the #1 book in the education field\u003cbr\u003e * Mentor to 450,000 teachers in Korea\u003cbr\u003e * 27 years of experience as a current teacher\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Published in January 2023, \"Teacher's Speech Practice\" is recommended as a must-read among teachers and has maintained its number one position in the education field for over a year since its publication.\u003cbr\u003e If this previous work was a book that dealt with classroom conversation methods applied to classes, student guidance, parent consultations, and peer relationships, the new book, \"A Teacher's Speaking Skills to Protect Myself Without Getting Hurt,\" focuses on communication methods with parents outside the classroom, focusing on the parent section that received particularly enthusiastic responses in the previous work.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Teachers face a variety of challenging situations throughout the year.\u003cbr\u003e Among these, what makes it especially difficult for teachers are complaints from parents. \u003cbr\u003eThe author says that we must first distinguish between 'requests for consultation' from parents seeking advice or cooperation and 'complaints' from parents demanding what they want. He generously provides wise ways to 'respond' to complaints by citing real-life examples such as 'parents who distrust the school and often misunderstand it,' 'parents who easily become anxious over trivial matters,' and 'parents who make judgments only by listening to their children.'\u003cbr\u003e Additionally, this book is the first in the trilogy of “Teacher Seonghyo’s Teacher Mentoring,” with the second volume, “Classroom Management Skills,” and the third volume, “Classroom Skills,” scheduled to be published soon thereafter.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eThe weapon that solves problems the easiest way\u003cbr\u003e If you change your words, the other person's mind will change too!\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Since the publication of \"Teacher's Speech Practice,\" the author has received numerous requests to give lectures to teachers from educational institutions across the country, including education offices and elementary and middle schools. During these lectures, he has heard countless heartbreaking stories from teachers. \u003cbr\u003eKnowing that many teachers stand without a shield in the face of parents' sharp words, I wrote this book in the hope that teachers would be able to protect themselves and avoid further harm.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book captures the author's 27 years of experience as a teacher, over 30 bestsellers, and nearly 100 online and offline lectures annually, honing his speaking skills.\u003cbr\u003e From basic speaking skills to protect teachers' authority, to how to deal with the most common types of parental complaints, to educational policies, laws, and systems that are helpful the more you know, to procedures for handling various school incidents and accidents like school violence, these manuals can be applied immediately to complaints that teachers will likely encounter at least once.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Words are the best weapon to move others and solve problems without investing a lot of energy and time.\u003cbr\u003e If you find it difficult or even scary to deal with parents as a teacher, you should definitely read this book. \u003cbr\u003eYou will have the amazing experience of facing any opponent or situation with confidence.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eRaising up wounded teachers\u003cbr\u003e Practical and warm advice from senior teachers\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Since the Seoi Elementary School incident in July 2023, issues related to the decline of teachers' authority have been continuously surfacing.\u003cbr\u003e Teachers across the country have come together to raise their voices for the restoration of teachers' rights, and as a result, systems are gradually being established to protect teachers from parents who interfere with school work and infringe on their rights.\u003cbr\u003e But while the education system is slow to change, teachers are still fighting a tough battle alone.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author cites an incident that shook his teaching career to its core as an example, and advises that teachers should develop the habit of simply recording even minor events as “a minimum safety device for themselves.” \u003cbr\u003eIn doing so, it introduces specific methods such as how to write a simple report on an incident or accident according to the six principles of safety and health, and how to write about how children were safely guided on the class homepage, bulletin board, or in the family newsletter.\u003cbr\u003e Because these explicit records are admissible as evidence in court when problems arise.\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, through articles such as ‘Things that a wounded teacher must remember’ and ‘Five pieces of advice for a teacher with a glass mentality’, he provides warm comfort to the hearts of junior teachers who are ruminating and blaming themselves in the midst of difficulties such as parents’ distrust, school administrators’ indifference, and students’ troubles.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e \"]\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - 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