{"product_id":"112529","title":"Adult dignity ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQt5IL0P5W563jHMMEkP7W.png?v=1764854627\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Adult dignity \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/154354904\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“I want to be a generous adult who knows how to look after myself.”\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTo keep the line, cherish myself, and focus on happiness\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The new essay by Seo-young Choi, \"To You Who Can't Be Good,\" which has held the number one spot on the bestseller list at bookstores for a long time and has comforted and resonated with countless readers, has finally been published.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Author Seo-young Choi, known for her characteristic honesty and bright energy, has also been pondering the age-old question, \"How can I live well?\" as she grows older, and has been deeply contemplating her attitude toward life.\u003cbr\u003e As I met various people of different genders, ages, and occupations, I naturally learned that the difference between the 'older people' around me and the 'real adults' is 'dignity'.\u003cbr\u003e So, the author, who slowly began to think about dignity from various perspectives, realized that 'dignity' is not a one-dimensional appearance or grand decoration, but rather comes from one's mindset, speech, attitude, posture, beliefs, and gaze. \u003cbr\u003eSo I'm just now realizing that the most important thing is to take care of yourself, train yourself, and find something to learn from everyone.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It's more important how I treat myself than what other people think.\u003cbr\u003e I will savor the momentary happiness without delay, find new things to learn everywhere, and live each day faithfully without being impatient.\u003cbr\u003e If you don't feel anxious and just do one thing a day, you will be satisfied with having spent it meaningfully. These days accumulate to make you stronger than yesterday and build your dignity.\u003cbr\u003e As readers read this book, they will also be able to follow the author's increasingly mature perspective and realize that they must first cherish themselves and treat themselves with dignity.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In this new book, the author has collected new writings on the theme of 'dignity' and several pieces he would like to share with readers, adding new meaning to them. \u003cbr\u003eThe author says that the 'past me' who made mistakes that were too embarrassing to even think about, the 'past me' who was embarrassed when he was young and clumsy, and the 'past me' who constantly struggled to grow and pushed himself out of the world despite all that, came together to become the 'me' of today.\u003cbr\u003e The author's new work, filled with affectionate words that honestly reveal the face of growth and embrace the world beyond one's inner and outer self, will reach out to readers who are a little weary of life and gently pat them on the back.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e prolog\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 1: Don't let go of the tension\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I don't want to be an undignified adult.\u003cbr\u003e A person who walks to the end even if he is scared\u003cbr\u003e Like today without tomorrow\u003cbr\u003e Embrace your past self\u003cbr\u003e minimalist\u003cbr\u003e The talent to find happiness\u003cbr\u003e It's okay to imagine the worst  \u003cbr\u003eHappiness postponed until later\u003cbr\u003e Living deeply\u003cbr\u003e The mind of forty\u003cbr\u003e attitude to survive\u003cbr\u003e To avoid being swayed by money\u003cbr\u003e The silent signals of habit\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 2 Records Remember Me as Me\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e About the days when my heart is hungry\u003cbr\u003e A sense of rest\u003cbr\u003e The meaning of learning\u003cbr\u003e How to broaden your horizons\u003cbr\u003e Someone I want to be like\u003cbr\u003e Become the master of your time\u003cbr\u003e Temperature of the record\u003cbr\u003e An example of life\u003cbr\u003e My home, the home of my heart\u003cbr\u003e A choice that resembles me\u003cbr\u003e Self-care to last a long time\u003cbr\u003e elegant adult\u003cbr\u003e The shadow of complex\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 3: Everyone Has Their Own Weight in Life\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Gracefully, slowly\u003cbr\u003e What lies between my dream and me\u003cbr\u003e A life of show\u003cbr\u003e Don't rely on relationships\u003cbr\u003e Bold abandonment\u003cbr\u003e Questions to Find Hidden Talents\u003cbr\u003e Passing through jealousy\u003cbr\u003e The desire to do well\u003cbr\u003e There is no paradise where you run away\u003cbr\u003e Working mind\u003cbr\u003e Embracing change\u003cbr\u003e The power of consistency\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 4 I want to live giving a little more than I received.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A person who proves his point with his actions  \u003cbr\u003eStraighten your back and raise the corners of your mouth\u003cbr\u003e The weight of liking\u003cbr\u003e Things that can only be seen when they collapse\u003cbr\u003e What it means to be by your side\u003cbr\u003e Be kind to each other\u003cbr\u003e Disappearing relationships\u003cbr\u003e After letting go of the intensity\u003cbr\u003e Mom's Confession\u003cbr\u003e Things I want to pass on\u003cbr\u003e Don't fool me\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Epilogue\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate5656\/MidCate009\/565586068.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e It is clear that the seeds of bad adulthood are planted in everyone.\u003cbr\u003e The moment you become reckless, thinking that you have lived a little longer and experienced a little more, that seed will grow quickly.\u003cbr\u003e Perhaps we can avoid becoming undignified adults by making the effort to listen and be humble as a default, making wise use of the time that has passed.\u003cbr\u003e Everyone gets old, but not everyone becomes an adult.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.17 From “I Don’t Want to Become a Dignified Adult”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I don't think of myself as a complete person now. \u003cbr\u003eI still make mistakes and sometimes I lie down before going to bed and replay the scenes of regretting them.\u003cbr\u003e However, I believe I am making progress in that I am less likely to hate myself than I used to be.\u003cbr\u003e It's okay to be imperfect, and we can be beautiful even with our flaws.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.31 From \"Hugging My Past Self\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Something to give me a little rest before I pass out from exhaustion.\u003cbr\u003e Resting is also a feeling.\u003cbr\u003e If I ignore that feeling and just move forward, I will only become blurred.\u003cbr\u003e Stopping and then returning to daily life by my own choice, without being forced by anyone.\u003cbr\u003e This is my way of thinking about relaxation.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.92 From “The Sense of Rest”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e At first, I thought they were just good people, but as time went by, I realized that the wonderful things I saw were skills they had honed over time and a character they had built up over time. \u003cbr\u003eWhen I meet good people, I feel like I can learn their good thoughts, habits, and healthy desires, and eventually become a good person like them.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.107 From \"People I Want to Be Like\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I often meet people who say they have nothing they like or are good at.\u003cbr\u003e But there are many cases where the things you like and are good at are already integrated into your life.\u003cbr\u003e It's just that I didn't see it properly because I was too used to it or thought it wasn't anything special.\u003cbr\u003e In the questions we overlook, there are my senses I didn't know I had, talents and interests I didn't realize I had.\u003cbr\u003e The moment you realize that, you may find a clue to 'doing something you like and are good at', which had previously felt difficult.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.174 From “Questions to Find Hidden Talents”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e So the world is only visible to the extent that we know.\u003cbr\u003e I judged the world based on my narrow worldly common sense. \u003cbr\u003eThis realization has given me a deeper respect for the people I work with.\u003cbr\u003e Isn't becoming a member of society not simply about quickly learning and becoming good at a job, but rather a process of learning about the complexities of human existence?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I believe that if we treat each other with a little more affection and a little more understanding, the daily struggles we face to make a living will become less daunting than they are now.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.235 From “Be Kind to One Another”\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“Everyone grows older, but not everyone becomes an adult.”\u003cbr\u003e To live more generously and wisely\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e As we live each day diligently, strange people suddenly appear before us.\u003cbr\u003e A coworker who doesn't communicate well, someone who suddenly gets angry on the subway, a villain at a restaurant you go to with friends... They are everywhere, popping up when you let your guard down and leaving you flustered.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe world surrounding author Choi Seo-young was no different.\u003cbr\u003e So the writer began to think carefully about 'how to live well'.\u003cbr\u003e Every time I met someone, regardless of age, gender, or education level, I spent several years finding something to learn from them and making it my own.\u003cbr\u003e I felt the confidence and composure of someone who knew and possessed a lot but did not show it, and I felt a sense of dignity in the weightiness that came from their everyday attitude and speech, rather than their outward achievements.\u003cbr\u003e I also discovered that people who have had a positive influence on the writer have one thing in common: a curiosity to learn something new, to find something to learn from anyone, and to make it their own.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Ultimately, the way to age as a happy person who knows how to look after myself and my surroundings is to 'give myself the opportunity and space to do what I want to do, and be kind to myself.' \u003cbr\u003eAs you slowly follow the author's writing, which delicately expresses emotions while equally illuminating the bright and dark sides of everyday experiences, readers will naturally learn not to postpone momentary happiness, to express their emotions correctly, not to overwork themselves, and to be kind and generous to everyone. 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