Jeong Eun-pyo, who still dreams of becoming an actor, answers when asked about his dream to become an actor.
Although he experiences many different lives through acting, he shines even more when he is with his family and is the best father and husband.
His driving force is his family, and at the center of his family is Kim Ha-yan, who calls him 'my perfect love.'


This book is the story of Jeong Eun-pyo and Kim Ha-yan, a couple who, in an age when families are falling apart and love is dulling, cherish and support each other, and honestly express their feelings, and who cast a spell every morning to live happily.

In the sentences of Jeong Eun-pyo and Kim Ha-yan, which may seem crude at first glance and not grand or elegant, we once again realize what happiness is.
Jeong Eun-pyo, who returns after finishing filming, orders a savory soybean paste stew, but Kim Ha-yan makes kimchi stew because she doesn't have any tofu.
The perfect happiness of serving a thick scrambled egg on a seemingly shabby table.
Let us also raise our spoons at this couple's table.

I went to a lecture a while ago and someone asked me what my dream was.
Actually, I was embarrassed to be asked about my dream at the age of almost sixty, but my dream is still to become an actor.
Of course, I'm still learning now, but I want to continue learning until I die.

--- p.29

Even after that, there were still financial difficulties and small challenges, but once I got over the big one, most situations didn't seem so difficult.
These days, when my juniors tell me they're having a hard time, I try to tell them to just hang in there.
If you persevere and work hard in that position, I think an opportunity will definitely come.

--- p.42

You were among the many audience members at that time, and I ended up marrying Kim Ha-yan, who fell in love with me, so I can't help but call it a life's work.
The best work of my life!!!!!!!
--- p.46

Someone once asked me when I felt successful.
I answered that I felt successful when I worked at a company, received a salary, and could buy as much shrimp crackers as I wanted at any time.

--- p.74

As if to compensate for the short relationship, you still live your life centered around me, and that's why I always feel like I'm dating after getting married.
I've been dating a boyfriend who's been accommodating me for 22 years now.

--- p.97

I don't think of children as objects we should own and teach.
I think we are living together and growing together.
Raising three children, I feel like we are finally becoming adults.
--- p.131

There are things you realize as you get older.
Things that we only realize after they have passed pile up one by one.
My methods aren't always right, but I'm grateful that through countless trials and errors and struggles, my children and I grow.
That there is someone close to me who understands my heart and intentions.

--- p.152

Even when I have something to say, I start to think a little more and be more careful.
Even so, I am still a mother who gets angry often and has a lot to say, and a mother who still feels like she is learning from her children every day and growing with them.

--- p.157

It's been almost two years since I last said "I love you," as easily as breathing, and I can't think of any other way to express how I felt then.

--- p.162

It may not be a big deal, but the emotion a parent feels when they see their child achieve something they thought they couldn't do is indescribable.

--- p.177

Kids will know too.
That mom and dad always respect and admire each other, even when they say childish things to each other or play pranks on each other.
But if someone who doesn't know sees it, it will definitely be like that.
Those guys are crazy.

--- p.195

My husband and I seem to be growing more and more in love as we live together.
Perhaps it is because we both try to give more to each other.

--- p.220

We respect each other's ideas, but we don't easily give up on our own.
But the conclusion always comes down to one thing.
I hope my children will be people who know gratitude.
I hope that our children will grow up to be people who don't take for granted what their parents give them, but who are grateful and know how to express and share that gratitude.

--- p.221

A happy home is a foretaste of heaven.
This is my favorite phrase.
I am living in heaven now.
Are you living in heaven?

--- p.234