PART 1 _ Sex education for dads and moms together
01- Is it not a sin for a father to fail to provide sex education?
02- As I raise a child, I am now 46 years old.
03- How to Become a 0.3% Dad
04- Just watch it and it will grow on its own.
05- Is it difficult to watch adult videos because I can't verify my age?
06- Where on earth did the Nth Room monster come from?
07- When you get an erection, you have to sing the national anthem?
08- Dad sitting with his son while urinating, is he doing the right thing?
09- Why do people post pictures of their bodies on Danpem?
10- Is it okay to give condoms to children?
11- Can you avoid crimes caused by sexual exploitation?
12- What's wrong with 'I am a natural person'?
13- Do we need guidelines for dating and loving?
14- What if you find a message on social media that suggests prostitution?
15- How can we prevent online games that seem dangerous?
16- Cigarettes, drugs, proxy buying… what’s next?

PART 2 _ Whyme Sex Education Guide
01- Checking Your Child's Temperament and Inclination _ 95
02- "Why Me Sex Education 1: Curious About My Body!" Usage Guide _ 103
03- "Why Me Sex Education 2: Don't Worry Alone!" Usage Guide _ 109
04- Principles and Approaches Parents Must Observe When Providing Sex Education _ 112

PART 3 _ 25 Questions Parents Ask the Most
01- My middle school son masturbates? I think my child is a bit early.
02- My child doesn't know much, so wouldn't sex education be too stimulating?
03- My son cuts or pulls out his hair. Why does he do that?
04- Why does my son cover up and not show off?
05- My child doesn't answer questions about sex.
06- My child avoids physical contact.
07- Now the child is a little uncomfortable.
How long should I continue to be physically intimate?
08- What does the expression 'jinggeureo' mean to your son?
09- Shower time is getting longer! We've removed all the locks on our doors.
10- My son searched for 'suicide' on his birthday. What on earth is going on?
11- My son always complains about being wronged. How should I start a conversation?
12- My son saw the scene of a couple having sex.
What should I do?
13- My daughter's phone started showing a strange notification message.
14- My child is averse to sex education.
15- When having sex, there must be evidence that the other person consented. Do we really have to go this far?
16- I think my child had sex with his girlfriend.
17- Is it true that if you're going to do it, it's better to instruct them to use contraception safely?
18- The child is involved in a sexual crime.
help!
19- I tried on my mom's underwear and hid it under the bed.
What should I do?
20- My son is watching gay porn. What should I do?
21- My child kept taking hidden camera photos.
22- My middle school daughter is rumored to be a porn star on the internet.
23- I think my child grew up too quickly.
24- I feel uncomfortable because of the sexual issues that are happening these days.
25- My child is too obsessed with his smartphone.
How should we control it?

A personalized sex education guide tailored to your child's temperament and personality!

When a child begins to show signs of secondary sexual characteristics or puberty, parents become anxious.
Looking at the various issues that are exploding in society, I intuitively feel that this is a time when sex education is even more necessary.
Especially when you see and hear about issues related to sexual crimes, there are so many incidents and accidents that are dizzying and difficult to even understand.
But it's really not easy to provide sex education.

Besides, when you actually get home, the child who takes off his clothes and runs around looks so young.
How on earth do I even begin to establish boundaries for a child like this? Even if they ask questions about sex, I have no idea how to address them. And even if they don't ask questions at all, I worry that they might be too ignorant and end up in trouble.
What is clear is that there will come a day when my child will see sexually explicit material and become interested in masturbation or sexual intercourse.
It is impossible to unconditionally prevent someone from seeing you, preventing them from meeting you, and taking away their smartphone.


The most important thing in these situations is to provide education tailored to the child's situation. Sex education can easily lead to excessive interest or distorted information, and can even burden or shock children.
It is not a good idea to assume that your child will understand the topic because he or she is this old, or to overexplain things by attaching too much meaning to something you overheard or said.
This is because each child learner has different environments, including whether or not they have sexual characteristics, the intensity of their pubertal emotions, their level of media use, their level of interest in sex, and their accessibility to sex information.
Rather than simply basing the topic on age, we need to consider the various factors mentioned above to select a topic that is appropriate for the child and determine the intensity with which the topic will be addressed.


The "Why Me Sex Education" series was written with these points as the foundation.
Above all, it was expressed gently so that children would not be surprised when they opened the book.
Basically, we were wary of the sexuality and strong expressions and graphics that could be excessively suggestive, which were pointed out in past sex education textbooks.
Additionally, it was designed so that parents can check their child's temperament and tendencies and provide step-by-step sex education tailored to their child's level.
Parents are the only ones who directly encounter their children, share their daily lives with them, and know their child's changes and stories from the past.
The best way is for parents to select topics that they think would be suitable for education and present them to their children.


We've gathered all the real concerns parents with sons have raised on the spot!

You will feel a different sense of why sex education and media education are important than in the past.
Now is not the time to grow up by learning things in moderation.
It is commonly said that we live in an era of 'hyper-connectivity', and it is an era where we can even find love in second-hand transactions.
We live in an age where children can see comments made by special rapists or child sex offenders without any suspicion.
With the environment changing so rapidly, the parental generation is bound to be confused.
It is clear that sex education implemented in public schools alone cannot keep up with this environment.
Now, you can blow away all those worries in one go with the 『Why Me Sex Education』 series.


『Why Me Sex Education 1』 covers the physical structure of men and women, changes in the body such as ejaculation and wet dreams that occur during secondary sexual characteristics, and the concepts of sex and sexual relations.
It also explains appropriate coping methods to boys who are easily embarrassed by things like erections or wet dreams in their daily lives.
In "Why Me Sex Education 2," we thoroughly reveal the dangerous truths that children must know, including pornography (sexual exploitation material), dating, contraception and responsibility, as well as prostitution, body cams, and dating violence that can lead to children being involved in crime.
It also presents a correct perspective on love and sexual relations, and fosters gender sensitivity to detect discrimination and imbalance caused by gender differences in daily life from a gender equality perspective, thereby providing direction for men and women to live in healthy relationships.
We provide honest and clear solutions based on real questions from young people.


The author majored in media in college and entered the film industry.
However, on-site, sexist remarks and sexual harassment occurred frequently.
The author, who had been sensitive to sexual issues since childhood due to the influence of his mother, a school nurse, had no choice but to leave the field.
After leaving the film industry, the author turned his attention to the field of sex education at his mother's urging. Now, he actively conducts eye-level sex education for the new generation, meeting with countless children and parents across the country.
Because there are still many areas in which sex education in schools needs to be realistically improved, he has become a popular lecturer that parents flock to.


The author says that sex education for adolescents is especially important for finding self-centeredness amidst indiscriminate media exposure.
In a recent interview, he described the current situation this way:
“Recently, when children see hidden camera footage of sexual intercourse, which has become a social issue, they sometimes mistake it for Korean pornography.
Children who have no standards for gender may think, 'This is real.'
I tell you not to click.
The woman in the video is a living, breathing being from my neighborhood, and she tells us that she is a victim.
“It’s about helping children empathize with the pain of the victim and recognize that it is a crime.”

review

★ I really liked how they explained in detail and reassured children about things that parents find difficult to talk about, from a child's perspective.
It may be the child's first time, but it's also the first time as a parent, so I've been flustered and angry because I didn't know how to react and educate them.
The information and realistic examples in the book helped me find direction for proper sex education.
This book is perfectly suited to our country's circumstances.
★ The part that said you shouldn't be the perpetrator, but you shouldn't be the victim either was very impressive.
All this time, I never told my son that he could be a victim too, and I always told him to be careful with his actions.
In fact, it seems that parents in their 30s and 40s are not aware of the reality of children these days.
This book was a great help as it provided realistic and detailed methods to look into the world of children.
★ I thought this was a really thoughtful book, as it even taught children how to gently reject someone so that it doesn't cause problems in relationships. Along with issues like school violence and digital crime, everyday rejection and communication skills are also very important concerns for children.
I really liked that you explained it so kindly and without missing even that part.
★ The most important thing, whether it's a novel or an educational book, is that it must be fun.
I think that way I can read the book all the way through without putting it down.
This is a fun book for children and parents to read together.
★ You don't have to hide this book away.
The overall design and picture are not excessive, but have a soft and warm tone.
It's something that even kindergarteners can watch without any resistance.
I can feel that they are trying to be considerate of the children's feelings.
There are many exaggerated parts in school sex education materials that can be surprising to children, but this book is the best sex education book that you can show your children with confidence.