
The 5-second rule
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An Amazon bestseller immediately after publication #1 Bestseller in the Amazon Motivational Category TEDx's Most Popular Talks That Changed 10 Million Lives The power of quick decisions that will get you started! 'I have to wake up now if I don't want to be late…' ‘I need to exercise to lose weight…’ ‘I need to speak my mind in meetings to get results…’ I should be getting ready for work, but I press the timer button and pull the blanket back over my head to try to sleep in the rest of the time. I decided to go on a diet, but it was too late at night to leave the house again to go to the gym. I want to repair my relationships with my family and coworkers, but I'm afraid of how they'll react before I even bring it up. In the end, you end up living a life where you can't do anything and are far from what you want. It's not about anyone in particular. It's our story. Even for the author, who wanted to cultivate his own life more than anyone else, beginnings and changes were objects of fear. All she had was an empty bank account, a business on the verge of bankruptcy, a broken career, a broken home, and alcoholism. To overcome the difficult times when she couldn't be with her children, who were her everything, she received counseling from psychiatrists and other specialists, but sustaining change was never easy. The "5-Second Rule," which allows you to initiate and sustain change in this very moment, was created by chance. A rocket launch scene on TV provided the hint. Hearing the familiar five-second countdown, the author, who had difficulty even waking up in the morning, planned to kick out of bed like a rocket launch. The next morning, luckily, I remembered my plan, and I was able to actually have the morning I had planned, as if it were a lie. These five seconds changed just one thing, but they changed the greatest thing. It was none other than "yourself." In "The 5-Second Rule," Mel Robbins, a top TEDx speaker and bestselling author, shares the concrete testimonies of countless people who have chosen change without hesitation, along with cutting-edge research, to teach you how to transform your inertial life into the life you desire—in other words, how to become your own hero. |
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How to start practicing the 5-second rule
Part 1: The 5-Second Rule
Chapter 1: 5 Seconds to Change Your Life
Chapter 2: Discovering the 5-Second Rule
Chapter 3: What the 5-Second Rule Changes
Chapter 4: The 5-Second Rule Q&A
Part 2: The Power of Courage
Chapter 5: Courage in Daily Life
Chapter 6 Why Are You Waiting?
Chapter 7 I Never Feel Like Doing That
Part 3: The Courage to Change Your Behavior
Before we begin_How to become the most productive person
Chapter 8: Principles for a Healthy Life
Chapter 9: The Morning Routine That Rules Everyday Life
Chapter 10: The Two Faces of Procrastination
Part 4: The Courage to Change Your Mind
Before we begin_How to become the happiest person
Chapter 11: Worry is a Habit
Chapter 12: Understanding Anxiety
Chapter 13: The Anchor of Thought that Overcomes Fear
Part 5: The Courage to Change Everything
Before we begin, how to become a person with a high sense of accomplishment
Chapter 14: Confidence Begins with Small Victories
Chapter 15: Passion is Outside the Box
Chapter 16: The Right Time Is Now
Conclusion_My Power
Part 1: The 5-Second Rule
Chapter 1: 5 Seconds to Change Your Life
Chapter 2: Discovering the 5-Second Rule
Chapter 3: What the 5-Second Rule Changes
Chapter 4: The 5-Second Rule Q&A
Part 2: The Power of Courage
Chapter 5: Courage in Daily Life
Chapter 6 Why Are You Waiting?
Chapter 7 I Never Feel Like Doing That
Part 3: The Courage to Change Your Behavior
Before we begin_How to become the most productive person
Chapter 8: Principles for a Healthy Life
Chapter 9: The Morning Routine That Rules Everyday Life
Chapter 10: The Two Faces of Procrastination
Part 4: The Courage to Change Your Mind
Before we begin_How to become the happiest person
Chapter 11: Worry is a Habit
Chapter 12: Understanding Anxiety
Chapter 13: The Anchor of Thought that Overcomes Fear
Part 5: The Courage to Change Everything
Before we begin, how to become a person with a high sense of accomplishment
Chapter 14: Confidence Begins with Small Victories
Chapter 15: Passion is Outside the Box
Chapter 16: The Right Time Is Now
Conclusion_My Power
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It disrupts the inertial thinking that follows conventional thinking patterns and exercises what psychologists call 'self-control'.
While counting, our brain shifts its focus from finding excuses to moving in a new direction.
Instead of stopping to think, when you move your body, physiological changes occur, and your mind synchronizes with these changes._Pages 47-48
The countdown process is also what researchers call a "starting ritual."
Beginning rituals interrupt inertial thought patterns and induce new, positive thought patterns.
When you master the 5-second rule, your thought patterns are reprogrammed.
Plus, you learn new behavior patterns.
Instead of reacting instinctively with worry, hesitation, and fear, you will find yourself acting courageously and instinctively.
As time goes by, you will find other things too.
It's true confidence and pride.
True confidence and pride come from cherishing your goals and achieving small successes that matter to you._Page 80
Are you waiting for someone to ask for your opinion, push you, choose you, or suddenly thrust you into the spotlight? Or are you finding the courage to step forward? Are you waiting until you feel ready? Waiting for the right moment, for confidence, for the desire to do it, for qualifications, for more experience?
There are no second chances, no timeouts.
Let's not wait any longer.
If not now, then never.
Waiting is not just procrastination.
It's a much more dangerous thing.
Because they are deliberately trying to convince you that now is not the right time.
It's like actively doing something that goes against your dreams._Page 112
It takes courage to start something, and it takes courage to continue doing it.
Of course, it takes courage to tell the world about it.
All it takes to lose weight is courage.
Because the gap between your current weight and your desired weight seems so large, you don't know how much exercise you need to do.
Simply put, it's because I feel like the gap between who I am now and who I want to be is so big that it's impossible to bridge that gap.
It's normal to have such thoughts, but allowing them to fill your head is a form of self-abuse._Page 160
Professor Sune Carlson has studied how CEOs achieve extraordinary results.
What was the secret behind these highly influential CEOs? They worked from home for about 90 minutes.
Because I had a chance to focus.
He replied that he was interrupted every 20 minutes in the office.
As mentioned earlier, distractions clearly have a negative impact on productivity._Page 184
Counting backwards '5, 4, 3, 2, 1' and then putting effort into it will shift the gears of your thinking and stimulate your prefrontal cortex, helping you take action.
Every time you use the 5-second rule, it will become easier and easier to stop procrastinating and just get started.
The secret to finishing anything is to tell yourself and then get started.
Even if you don't feel like doing it, if you make it a habit to act anyway and finish with this mindset, you will get what you want._Page 204
Simply put, anxiety is a state of tension, so it's much easier to convince your mind that feeling nervous is just excitement than to try to calm down.
In experiments that involved everything from singing to giving a lecture on camera to taking a math test, subjects who said they were "excited" performed better on every task than those who said they were "anxious."
While counting, our brain shifts its focus from finding excuses to moving in a new direction.
Instead of stopping to think, when you move your body, physiological changes occur, and your mind synchronizes with these changes._Pages 47-48
The countdown process is also what researchers call a "starting ritual."
Beginning rituals interrupt inertial thought patterns and induce new, positive thought patterns.
When you master the 5-second rule, your thought patterns are reprogrammed.
Plus, you learn new behavior patterns.
Instead of reacting instinctively with worry, hesitation, and fear, you will find yourself acting courageously and instinctively.
As time goes by, you will find other things too.
It's true confidence and pride.
True confidence and pride come from cherishing your goals and achieving small successes that matter to you._Page 80
Are you waiting for someone to ask for your opinion, push you, choose you, or suddenly thrust you into the spotlight? Or are you finding the courage to step forward? Are you waiting until you feel ready? Waiting for the right moment, for confidence, for the desire to do it, for qualifications, for more experience?
There are no second chances, no timeouts.
Let's not wait any longer.
If not now, then never.
Waiting is not just procrastination.
It's a much more dangerous thing.
Because they are deliberately trying to convince you that now is not the right time.
It's like actively doing something that goes against your dreams._Page 112
It takes courage to start something, and it takes courage to continue doing it.
Of course, it takes courage to tell the world about it.
All it takes to lose weight is courage.
Because the gap between your current weight and your desired weight seems so large, you don't know how much exercise you need to do.
Simply put, it's because I feel like the gap between who I am now and who I want to be is so big that it's impossible to bridge that gap.
It's normal to have such thoughts, but allowing them to fill your head is a form of self-abuse._Page 160
Professor Sune Carlson has studied how CEOs achieve extraordinary results.
What was the secret behind these highly influential CEOs? They worked from home for about 90 minutes.
Because I had a chance to focus.
He replied that he was interrupted every 20 minutes in the office.
As mentioned earlier, distractions clearly have a negative impact on productivity._Page 184
Counting backwards '5, 4, 3, 2, 1' and then putting effort into it will shift the gears of your thinking and stimulate your prefrontal cortex, helping you take action.
Every time you use the 5-second rule, it will become easier and easier to stop procrastinating and just get started.
The secret to finishing anything is to tell yourself and then get started.
Even if you don't feel like doing it, if you make it a habit to act anyway and finish with this mindset, you will get what you want._Page 204
Simply put, anxiety is a state of tension, so it's much easier to convince your mind that feeling nervous is just excitement than to try to calm down.
In experiments that involved everything from singing to giving a lecture on camera to taking a math test, subjects who said they were "excited" performed better on every task than those who said they were "anxious."
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Publisher's Review
It will change your life
If you are looking for one person
Look in the mirror now!
I should be getting ready for work, but I press the timer button and pull the blanket back over my head to try to sleep in the rest of the time.
I decided to go on a diet, but it was too late at night to leave the house again to go to the gym.
I want to repair my relationships with my family and coworkers, but I'm afraid of how they'll react before I even bring it up.
In the end, you end up living a life where you can't do anything and are far from what you want.
It's not about anyone in particular.
It's our story.
Even for the author, who wanted to cultivate his own life more than anyone else, beginnings and changes were objects of fear.
All she had was an empty bank account, a business on the verge of bankruptcy, a broken career, a broken home, and alcoholism.
To overcome the difficult times when she couldn't be with her children, who were her everything, she received counseling from psychiatrists and other specialists, but sustaining change was never easy.
The "5-Second Rule," which allows you to initiate and sustain change in this very moment, was created by chance. A rocket launch scene on TV provided the hint.
Hearing the familiar five-second countdown, the author, who had difficulty even waking up in the morning, planned to kick out of bed like a rocket launch.
The next morning, luckily, I remembered my plan, and I was able to actually have the morning I had planned, as if it were a lie.
These five seconds changed just one thing, but they changed the greatest thing.
It was none other than "yourself." In "The 5-Second Rule," Mel Robbins, a top TEDx speaker and bestselling author, shares the concrete testimonies of countless people who have chosen change without hesitation, along with cutting-edge research, to teach you how to transform your life from inertia into the life you desire—in other words, how to become your own hero.
Waiting for the right time is useless.
Decide to start now!
In December 1955, a black woman refused to give up her bus seat to a white male passenger.
It was a time when racial discrimination was legally permitted.
Her spur-of-the-moment decision to keep her seat was surprisingly unplanned or well-thought-out.
The protagonist of this incident, which became the starting point of the civil rights movement, was not born as a great hero who would change the world from the beginning.
Rosa Parks, who lived a difficult life with her social activist husband, was an ordinary citizen.
What we need now is Rosa Parks' "decision to act."
We fear and worry about problems much smaller than those that plagued Rosa Parks.
The sound of the alarm waking you up in the morning is like that, and the meeting where new ideas are discussed is like that.
It stimulates our fears, makes us worry, and ultimately makes us give up on trying to change.
Countless innovations that could have changed the world have disappeared in the name of making the perfect choice.
We call the ability to do difficult or scary things 'courage.'
This book is filled with fascinating testimonies of those who, faced with the countless challenges we face every day, courageously transformed their daily lives, their lives, and the world.
Thoughts cannot move the body,
When you move your body, your thoughts follow!
The secret to finishing anything is to tell yourself and then get started.
The principle of the '5-second rule' proposed by the author is simple.
It's about pushing yourself beyond the thinking stage and into action.
The key is to count backwards: '5, 4, 3, 2, 1'.
After counting backwards, you can start as if you were launching a rocket.
This is related to what is called 'self-control' in psychology.
The 5-second countdown disrupts the inertial thinking that follows conventional thinking patterns, forcing our brains to focus on action instead of making excuses.
The author also says that pushing yourself to perform simple actions creates a chain reaction that increases your confidence and productivity.
Momentum comes when you push yourself to take small actions that improve your life.
5-4-3-2-1-start!
The moment you choose to act
Change begins
Deciding what to do in life is not a big deal.
It's a very small thing.
But in that moment of hesitation, we decide not to take action on small things.
Fear and doubt quickly take hold in our minds, instantly creating excuses for not speaking or acting.
Even a single moment of hesitation triggers a psychological system designed to block action.
If you're reading this book, you've probably come face to face with the fears, anxieties, habits, emotions, and excuses that have haunted and plagued you for years.
And you'll realize that you've wasted countless precious hours each day reflecting on the absurd situations you've encountered and waiting for things to change.
But there's no need to regret missing those 5 seconds that could change your daily life.
There are still countless 5 seconds left in our lives.
The author asserts that the '5-second rule' will end meaningless time.
The moment you feel the instinct to take action toward your goal, count backwards from '5-4-3-2-1' and move your body.
This book will give you the courage to start now, to stop being afraid of making decisions, no matter what the circumstances, and to become your own hero.
If you are looking for one person
Look in the mirror now!
I should be getting ready for work, but I press the timer button and pull the blanket back over my head to try to sleep in the rest of the time.
I decided to go on a diet, but it was too late at night to leave the house again to go to the gym.
I want to repair my relationships with my family and coworkers, but I'm afraid of how they'll react before I even bring it up.
In the end, you end up living a life where you can't do anything and are far from what you want.
It's not about anyone in particular.
It's our story.
Even for the author, who wanted to cultivate his own life more than anyone else, beginnings and changes were objects of fear.
All she had was an empty bank account, a business on the verge of bankruptcy, a broken career, a broken home, and alcoholism.
To overcome the difficult times when she couldn't be with her children, who were her everything, she received counseling from psychiatrists and other specialists, but sustaining change was never easy.
The "5-Second Rule," which allows you to initiate and sustain change in this very moment, was created by chance. A rocket launch scene on TV provided the hint.
Hearing the familiar five-second countdown, the author, who had difficulty even waking up in the morning, planned to kick out of bed like a rocket launch.
The next morning, luckily, I remembered my plan, and I was able to actually have the morning I had planned, as if it were a lie.
These five seconds changed just one thing, but they changed the greatest thing.
It was none other than "yourself." In "The 5-Second Rule," Mel Robbins, a top TEDx speaker and bestselling author, shares the concrete testimonies of countless people who have chosen change without hesitation, along with cutting-edge research, to teach you how to transform your life from inertia into the life you desire—in other words, how to become your own hero.
Waiting for the right time is useless.
Decide to start now!
In December 1955, a black woman refused to give up her bus seat to a white male passenger.
It was a time when racial discrimination was legally permitted.
Her spur-of-the-moment decision to keep her seat was surprisingly unplanned or well-thought-out.
The protagonist of this incident, which became the starting point of the civil rights movement, was not born as a great hero who would change the world from the beginning.
Rosa Parks, who lived a difficult life with her social activist husband, was an ordinary citizen.
What we need now is Rosa Parks' "decision to act."
We fear and worry about problems much smaller than those that plagued Rosa Parks.
The sound of the alarm waking you up in the morning is like that, and the meeting where new ideas are discussed is like that.
It stimulates our fears, makes us worry, and ultimately makes us give up on trying to change.
Countless innovations that could have changed the world have disappeared in the name of making the perfect choice.
We call the ability to do difficult or scary things 'courage.'
This book is filled with fascinating testimonies of those who, faced with the countless challenges we face every day, courageously transformed their daily lives, their lives, and the world.
Thoughts cannot move the body,
When you move your body, your thoughts follow!
The secret to finishing anything is to tell yourself and then get started.
The principle of the '5-second rule' proposed by the author is simple.
It's about pushing yourself beyond the thinking stage and into action.
The key is to count backwards: '5, 4, 3, 2, 1'.
After counting backwards, you can start as if you were launching a rocket.
This is related to what is called 'self-control' in psychology.
The 5-second countdown disrupts the inertial thinking that follows conventional thinking patterns, forcing our brains to focus on action instead of making excuses.
The author also says that pushing yourself to perform simple actions creates a chain reaction that increases your confidence and productivity.
Momentum comes when you push yourself to take small actions that improve your life.
5-4-3-2-1-start!
The moment you choose to act
Change begins
Deciding what to do in life is not a big deal.
It's a very small thing.
But in that moment of hesitation, we decide not to take action on small things.
Fear and doubt quickly take hold in our minds, instantly creating excuses for not speaking or acting.
Even a single moment of hesitation triggers a psychological system designed to block action.
If you're reading this book, you've probably come face to face with the fears, anxieties, habits, emotions, and excuses that have haunted and plagued you for years.
And you'll realize that you've wasted countless precious hours each day reflecting on the absurd situations you've encountered and waiting for things to change.
But there's no need to regret missing those 5 seconds that could change your daily life.
There are still countless 5 seconds left in our lives.
The author asserts that the '5-second rule' will end meaningless time.
The moment you feel the instinct to take action toward your goal, count backwards from '5-4-3-2-1' and move your body.
This book will give you the courage to start now, to stop being afraid of making decisions, no matter what the circumstances, and to become your own hero.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 1, 2017
- Page count, weight, size: 328 pages | 510g | 153*224*30mm
- ISBN13: 9791157842049
- ISBN10: 1157842046
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