
Now I've decided to live cheerfully
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Book Introduction
"The joy of growing old with energy and cheerfulness." "Now I've decided to live cheerfully."
Professor Lee Ho-seon and Director Kim Sa-rang, Korea's leading mentors, share their tips for aging healthily and joyfully, both physically and mentally.
Health is a basic condition for living a happy life.
And as the age of centenarians approaches, interest in and consumption of 'healthy living' among middle-aged and older people are increasing.
At this time, a 'healthy life' does not simply mean a state of being free of disease, but rather means maintaining a state of physical and mental harmony and living a pleasant and enjoyable life.
The two authors realized the importance of living a healthy life with a cheerful mind and wrote this book to provide essential life advice to middle-aged and older people.
Professor Ho-seon Lee, who has been thinking about old age while working as the director of the Korea Senior Counseling Center and has been communicating with middle-aged and older people through lectures for middle-aged and older people and running the YouTube channel [Lee Ho-seon's As You Get Older], provides advice on positive anger, self-esteem, dopamine fasting, and other things to help you feel more cheerful and joyful than you do now, based on his experience and life know-how.
Director Kim Sa-rang received training at the Department of Family Medicine at Seoul National University Hospital, worked as a family medicine specialist at a hospital specializing in cancer patients, and appeared on numerous TV programs to share health information. Based on this experience, she has included health information and practices for healthy aging.
Through this one book, readers can learn how to age happily while maintaining a healthy body and mind.
Professor Lee Ho-seon and Director Kim Sa-rang, Korea's leading mentors, share their tips for aging healthily and joyfully, both physically and mentally.
Health is a basic condition for living a happy life.
And as the age of centenarians approaches, interest in and consumption of 'healthy living' among middle-aged and older people are increasing.
At this time, a 'healthy life' does not simply mean a state of being free of disease, but rather means maintaining a state of physical and mental harmony and living a pleasant and enjoyable life.
The two authors realized the importance of living a healthy life with a cheerful mind and wrote this book to provide essential life advice to middle-aged and older people.
Professor Ho-seon Lee, who has been thinking about old age while working as the director of the Korea Senior Counseling Center and has been communicating with middle-aged and older people through lectures for middle-aged and older people and running the YouTube channel [Lee Ho-seon's As You Get Older], provides advice on positive anger, self-esteem, dopamine fasting, and other things to help you feel more cheerful and joyful than you do now, based on his experience and life know-how.
Director Kim Sa-rang received training at the Department of Family Medicine at Seoul National University Hospital, worked as a family medicine specialist at a hospital specializing in cancer patients, and appeared on numerous TV programs to share health information. Based on this experience, she has included health information and practices for healthy aging.
Through this one book, readers can learn how to age happily while maintaining a healthy body and mind.
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Prologue - The Joy of Growing Old with Cheer and Cheerfulness
Chapter 1: Now I've Decided to Live Freely
▶ Instead of eating expensive food at the hospital, eat cup ramen by the Han River.
▶ Exercise for health can harm your health.
A life without self-reflection has no freedom.
▶ Don't worry about what other people think and hang out with young people.
▶ Clean cotton underwear instead of floral mesh
▶ When the gravity of aging hits your butt
▶ Build your own comfort assets
▶ The art of tireless human relations
Chapter 2 Now I've decided to live energetically.
▶ If you fall when you get older, it's over.
▶ Muscle Deficiency and Obesity: A Collaboration of Disillusionment
▶ As you get older, it becomes harder to eat.
▶ Your trusted health knowledge is being shattered.
▶ Why did you stop eating meat while eating kimchi?
▶ If your body's muscles are weak, your mind's muscles will also collapse.
▶ How to Practice a Sustainable Protein Diet
Chapter 3 Now I've decided to live happily.
▶ Positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle.
▶ To you who is misunderstood because of that guy's temper
▶ If your weight is holding your self-esteem back
Dopamine fasting is trending in Silicon Valley.
▶ Mental victory is madness
▶ Let go of your anxiety with your mouth, not your mind.
▶ Burn your jealousy and set off fireworks of success.
▶ A straight mind begins with a straight back.
Chapter 4 Now I've decided to live with a new spirit.
▶ People who know how to have fun can have fun alone.
▶ Parallel Theory of Exercise and Marriage
▶ Don't be fooled by the trap of standards.
▶ Learn breathing techniques right now
▶ That I live in a world where there is no right answer
▶ You must know sadness to know joy.
▶ Even if you dance a dance, dance your own dance
Chapter 1: Now I've Decided to Live Freely
▶ Instead of eating expensive food at the hospital, eat cup ramen by the Han River.
▶ Exercise for health can harm your health.
A life without self-reflection has no freedom.
▶ Don't worry about what other people think and hang out with young people.
▶ Clean cotton underwear instead of floral mesh
▶ When the gravity of aging hits your butt
▶ Build your own comfort assets
▶ The art of tireless human relations
Chapter 2 Now I've decided to live energetically.
▶ If you fall when you get older, it's over.
▶ Muscle Deficiency and Obesity: A Collaboration of Disillusionment
▶ As you get older, it becomes harder to eat.
▶ Your trusted health knowledge is being shattered.
▶ Why did you stop eating meat while eating kimchi?
▶ If your body's muscles are weak, your mind's muscles will also collapse.
▶ How to Practice a Sustainable Protein Diet
Chapter 3 Now I've decided to live happily.
▶ Positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle.
▶ To you who is misunderstood because of that guy's temper
▶ If your weight is holding your self-esteem back
Dopamine fasting is trending in Silicon Valley.
▶ Mental victory is madness
▶ Let go of your anxiety with your mouth, not your mind.
▶ Burn your jealousy and set off fireworks of success.
▶ A straight mind begins with a straight back.
Chapter 4 Now I've decided to live with a new spirit.
▶ People who know how to have fun can have fun alone.
▶ Parallel Theory of Exercise and Marriage
▶ Don't be fooled by the trap of standards.
▶ Learn breathing techniques right now
▶ That I live in a world where there is no right answer
▶ You must know sadness to know joy.
▶ Even if you dance a dance, dance your own dance
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Into the book
Healthy lifestyle habits and positive mental habits are essential not just for living a long life, but for a high quality of life.
What matters is not how long you live, but how you live.
Whether the jar of life called 'I' will become a space for storage and maturation or a space for neglect and decay is determined by the habits we choose.
--- p.4 From the "Prologue"
As we get older, we need to find inspiration in our own lives, not in those of others.
You have to be excited without worrying about what others think.
I hope that as time goes by, you will meet and examine your true self and see how beautiful your existence is.
I hope that from today onwards, a breeze will blow through your lives.
I wish you the winds of balance, health, joy, and new life.
--- p.8 From "Prologue"
As we get older, we find ourselves looking for underwear that is more comfortable in size and shape.
My preference for clean cotton underwear over floral mesh underwear is probably the fruit of my life experience that simple, hygienic, neat, and practical choices are the best.
Rather than giving up on style, you pursue something that is both stylish and comfortable.
--- p.37 From “Clean cotton underwear, not floral mesh”
As we live, we form countless relationships, and through them, we sometimes become closer and sometimes grow distant.
Managing distance is important to maintaining positive relationships with people for the long term.
For a healthy relationship, it's best to keep physical distance from people who make you feel uncomfortable.
Moreover, if the relationship is not good, if you think, 'I shouldn't think about this person,' you will only think about that person.
In times like these, it's good to keep a physical distance and get away for a while.
--- p.54 From “The Art of Tireless Human Relationships”
Although there are many different types of kimchi, the most commonly eaten type, cabbage kimchi, is high in sodium and increases the intake of rice and carbohydrates.
It goes without saying that various soups and stews made with kimchi are not only high in sodium but also a major culprit in increasing carbohydrate intake.
--- p.78 From “Why did you stop eating meat while eating kimchi?”
If you are always angry, it is a disease.
But anyone can get angry at some point in life.
If you say you don't get angry, you're not human.
Anger is often considered a negative emotion, but when expressed effectively, it can help us navigate life.
But did you know that there are many different types of anger? If we define "anger" as a sudden outburst of anger, there are as many as ten different types.
--- p.90 From “Positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle”
Although anger is generally perceived as a negative emotion, when expressed and managed appropriately, it can contribute to achieving personal goals, improving relationships, or solving problems.
The good thing about positive anger is that it fuels problem-solving.
It's an emotion that arises when a situation feels unfair or wrong, but it can be a powerful motivator to recognize the problem and work to resolve it.
--- p.90 From “Positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle”
Are you worried about how you'll spend your long leisure time? So, you need to practice enjoying yourself on your own.
Of course, whether young or old, humans need to be able to play well by themselves and with others.
But learning how to play alone becomes more important as you get older.
Why? As we age, the number of people surrounding us decreases.
Now, even if you want to play together, the other person is either busy, sick, or dead.
--- pp.150-151 From "People who know how to play have fun alone"
Can there be a "standard diet that works for everyone"? There are so many different diets out there.
There are many different diets out there, including low-carb, high-fat diets, intermittent fasting, a diet where you only drink protein shakes for a few days, and a diet where you only eat chicken breast and brown rice.
To be healthy, you need to find a diet that suits you among the many diets available and practice it.
A diet that doesn't suit you can actually make you lose your health, even if you're trying to be healthy.
Just as one man may be the best husband to one person and the worst to another, diet can be good or bad for one's health.
--- pp.163-164 From “Don’t be fooled by the trap called standards”
If we all know that we are free and that we deserve to be welcomed, we can begin to act as healers, even while bearing the scars of the wounds we have endured throughout our lives.
Just thinking about it makes your heart swell. Even a tone-deaf person can sing, and a beat-deaf person can keep time.
In a place where everyone is happy, even those who are tone-deaf or beat-deaf can join in the cheering and dance at the party.
Even if I have to dance, I have to dance my own dance.
I hope you escape the hell of gaze and discover that you have your own unique style, even if it is simple.
What matters is not how long you live, but how you live.
Whether the jar of life called 'I' will become a space for storage and maturation or a space for neglect and decay is determined by the habits we choose.
--- p.4 From the "Prologue"
As we get older, we need to find inspiration in our own lives, not in those of others.
You have to be excited without worrying about what others think.
I hope that as time goes by, you will meet and examine your true self and see how beautiful your existence is.
I hope that from today onwards, a breeze will blow through your lives.
I wish you the winds of balance, health, joy, and new life.
--- p.8 From "Prologue"
As we get older, we find ourselves looking for underwear that is more comfortable in size and shape.
My preference for clean cotton underwear over floral mesh underwear is probably the fruit of my life experience that simple, hygienic, neat, and practical choices are the best.
Rather than giving up on style, you pursue something that is both stylish and comfortable.
--- p.37 From “Clean cotton underwear, not floral mesh”
As we live, we form countless relationships, and through them, we sometimes become closer and sometimes grow distant.
Managing distance is important to maintaining positive relationships with people for the long term.
For a healthy relationship, it's best to keep physical distance from people who make you feel uncomfortable.
Moreover, if the relationship is not good, if you think, 'I shouldn't think about this person,' you will only think about that person.
In times like these, it's good to keep a physical distance and get away for a while.
--- p.54 From “The Art of Tireless Human Relationships”
Although there are many different types of kimchi, the most commonly eaten type, cabbage kimchi, is high in sodium and increases the intake of rice and carbohydrates.
It goes without saying that various soups and stews made with kimchi are not only high in sodium but also a major culprit in increasing carbohydrate intake.
--- p.78 From “Why did you stop eating meat while eating kimchi?”
If you are always angry, it is a disease.
But anyone can get angry at some point in life.
If you say you don't get angry, you're not human.
Anger is often considered a negative emotion, but when expressed effectively, it can help us navigate life.
But did you know that there are many different types of anger? If we define "anger" as a sudden outburst of anger, there are as many as ten different types.
--- p.90 From “Positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle”
Although anger is generally perceived as a negative emotion, when expressed and managed appropriately, it can contribute to achieving personal goals, improving relationships, or solving problems.
The good thing about positive anger is that it fuels problem-solving.
It's an emotion that arises when a situation feels unfair or wrong, but it can be a powerful motivator to recognize the problem and work to resolve it.
--- p.90 From “Positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle”
Are you worried about how you'll spend your long leisure time? So, you need to practice enjoying yourself on your own.
Of course, whether young or old, humans need to be able to play well by themselves and with others.
But learning how to play alone becomes more important as you get older.
Why? As we age, the number of people surrounding us decreases.
Now, even if you want to play together, the other person is either busy, sick, or dead.
--- pp.150-151 From "People who know how to play have fun alone"
Can there be a "standard diet that works for everyone"? There are so many different diets out there.
There are many different diets out there, including low-carb, high-fat diets, intermittent fasting, a diet where you only drink protein shakes for a few days, and a diet where you only eat chicken breast and brown rice.
To be healthy, you need to find a diet that suits you among the many diets available and practice it.
A diet that doesn't suit you can actually make you lose your health, even if you're trying to be healthy.
Just as one man may be the best husband to one person and the worst to another, diet can be good or bad for one's health.
--- pp.163-164 From “Don’t be fooled by the trap called standards”
If we all know that we are free and that we deserve to be welcomed, we can begin to act as healers, even while bearing the scars of the wounds we have endured throughout our lives.
Just thinking about it makes your heart swell. Even a tone-deaf person can sing, and a beat-deaf person can keep time.
In a place where everyone is happy, even those who are tone-deaf or beat-deaf can join in the cheering and dance at the party.
Even if I have to dance, I have to dance my own dance.
I hope you escape the hell of gaze and discover that you have your own unique style, even if it is simple.
--- p.199 From “Even if you dance a dance, dance your own dance”
Publisher's Review
Professor Lee Ho-seon, a leading mentor in Korea, and Director Kim Sa-rang, a health expert
Two experts share advice for middle-aged and older adults to live a light and cheerful life!
Professor Lee Ho-seon, a senior counseling expert who has communicated with the public through broadcasting, and Director Kim Sa-rang, a doctor and broadcaster who has provided realistic health advice, appeared on a TV program together and reflected on the lives of middle-aged and older adults.
This book contains the authors' delightful and realistic answers to the question, "Can't we age healthily and joyfully?" that everyone who crosses the threshold of middle age has asked themselves at least once.
Drawing on their respective expertise and experiences, the two authors offer practical and specific ways to simultaneously care for both physical and mental health.
Professor Lee Ho-seon goes beyond simple comfort and advice to offer techniques for managing emotions, helping people deal with the most common emotional issues in middle-aged and older adults: anxiety, loneliness, anger, and low self-esteem.
It covers everything from how to use anger positively to how to restore low self-esteem and how to communicate to relieve anxiety, offering tips on how to live a happy life in middle age.
Meanwhile, Director Kim Sa-rang addresses diseases that threaten the health of middle-aged and older adults, such as obesity, sarcopenia, and diabetes, and suggests ways to prevent each disease.
It presents elements for a healthy life in middle age and older adults, such as protein intake, carbohydrate control, and muscle preservation, and suggests practical methods to help change lifestyle habits.
For those who are both physically and mentally exhausted, “I have decided to live cheerfully” is not just a simple pledge, but a declaration for a cheerful and enjoyable life.
“Growing old can’t be more fun!”
Solitude, loneliness, anxiety, depression, lethargy… A "pleasant mind solution" to soothe wavering emotions.
Middle-aged life is unfamiliar to everyone.
The busy daily life suddenly becomes quiet, relationships become looser, and one day, loneliness suddenly rears its head.
Anxiety and lethargy that were once dismissed as 'personality issues' have now crept deep into our daily lives, leaving us feeling exhausted and depressed for no particular reason.
Professor Lee Ho-seon focuses on exactly these changes in middle-aged and older people.
In "Now I've Decided to Live Cheerfully," Professor Lee Ho-seon, based on his extensive counseling experience, identifies the most common psychological symptoms experienced by middle-aged people, such as anxiety, depression, anger, and loneliness, and shares "mental muscle training methods" to help them manage and recover from their emotions rather than suppress them.
This book is not just a simple list of comfort or emotions.
As the expression 'positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle' suggests, it suggests a way to accept emotions as they are and express them in a healthy way.
When readers feel low self-esteem, feel inferiority complex, feel anxious or jealous, this book will help them reorganize their emotions and learn specific attitudes for taking care of themselves.
In particular, the cheerful yet sharp messages such as “Mental victory is madness,” “Burn out jealousy and set off fireworks of success,” and “Let go of anxiety with your mouth, not your mind” not only help you enjoy life, but also find answers to life’s worries.
In this way, "Now I've Decided to Live Cheerfully" is a practical 'mind solution' that helps you hold on to your wavering heart at the turning point of middle age.
When life becomes burdensome and relationships feel isolating, this book will offer warm comfort and practical direction.
“In the age of centenarians, a second youth begins!”
Obesity, sarcopenia, diabetes, hypertension… A "vital health solution" to combat chronic diseases that plague middle-aged and older adults.
As we enter middle age, our bodies are no longer what they used to be.
I feel tired for no reason, sleep less, eat less, but gain weight easily.
Muscles are lost, fat is gained, and one day at the hospital, you suddenly hear, “You have high blood pressure,” or “You have early-stage diabetes.”
"Now I've Decided to Live Cheerfully" offers practical health solutions to address these physical changes and the shadow of chronic illness in midlife.
Based on her extensive clinical experience and numerous cases of middle-aged and older patients, Director Kim Sa-rang provides information on diseases commonly diagnosed in middle-aged and older people, and corrects misunderstandings about health information.
It presents realistic health solutions that readers can implement in their daily lives, including muscle-building exercises and diets to prevent sarcopenia, a condition in which muscle mass and strength decrease, and diet methods to reduce body fat without harming one's health.
It also reveals the truth about health information that middle-aged and older people often misunderstand, such as that meat is bad for you or that eating a lot of protein is good for your health.
Through this, readers can check whether there are any errors in the health information they know and learn various practices for a healthier life.
Two experts share advice for middle-aged and older adults to live a light and cheerful life!
Professor Lee Ho-seon, a senior counseling expert who has communicated with the public through broadcasting, and Director Kim Sa-rang, a doctor and broadcaster who has provided realistic health advice, appeared on a TV program together and reflected on the lives of middle-aged and older adults.
This book contains the authors' delightful and realistic answers to the question, "Can't we age healthily and joyfully?" that everyone who crosses the threshold of middle age has asked themselves at least once.
Drawing on their respective expertise and experiences, the two authors offer practical and specific ways to simultaneously care for both physical and mental health.
Professor Lee Ho-seon goes beyond simple comfort and advice to offer techniques for managing emotions, helping people deal with the most common emotional issues in middle-aged and older adults: anxiety, loneliness, anger, and low self-esteem.
It covers everything from how to use anger positively to how to restore low self-esteem and how to communicate to relieve anxiety, offering tips on how to live a happy life in middle age.
Meanwhile, Director Kim Sa-rang addresses diseases that threaten the health of middle-aged and older adults, such as obesity, sarcopenia, and diabetes, and suggests ways to prevent each disease.
It presents elements for a healthy life in middle age and older adults, such as protein intake, carbohydrate control, and muscle preservation, and suggests practical methods to help change lifestyle habits.
For those who are both physically and mentally exhausted, “I have decided to live cheerfully” is not just a simple pledge, but a declaration for a cheerful and enjoyable life.
“Growing old can’t be more fun!”
Solitude, loneliness, anxiety, depression, lethargy… A "pleasant mind solution" to soothe wavering emotions.
Middle-aged life is unfamiliar to everyone.
The busy daily life suddenly becomes quiet, relationships become looser, and one day, loneliness suddenly rears its head.
Anxiety and lethargy that were once dismissed as 'personality issues' have now crept deep into our daily lives, leaving us feeling exhausted and depressed for no particular reason.
Professor Lee Ho-seon focuses on exactly these changes in middle-aged and older people.
In "Now I've Decided to Live Cheerfully," Professor Lee Ho-seon, based on his extensive counseling experience, identifies the most common psychological symptoms experienced by middle-aged people, such as anxiety, depression, anger, and loneliness, and shares "mental muscle training methods" to help them manage and recover from their emotions rather than suppress them.
This book is not just a simple list of comfort or emotions.
As the expression 'positive anger is a psychological thigh muscle' suggests, it suggests a way to accept emotions as they are and express them in a healthy way.
When readers feel low self-esteem, feel inferiority complex, feel anxious or jealous, this book will help them reorganize their emotions and learn specific attitudes for taking care of themselves.
In particular, the cheerful yet sharp messages such as “Mental victory is madness,” “Burn out jealousy and set off fireworks of success,” and “Let go of anxiety with your mouth, not your mind” not only help you enjoy life, but also find answers to life’s worries.
In this way, "Now I've Decided to Live Cheerfully" is a practical 'mind solution' that helps you hold on to your wavering heart at the turning point of middle age.
When life becomes burdensome and relationships feel isolating, this book will offer warm comfort and practical direction.
“In the age of centenarians, a second youth begins!”
Obesity, sarcopenia, diabetes, hypertension… A "vital health solution" to combat chronic diseases that plague middle-aged and older adults.
As we enter middle age, our bodies are no longer what they used to be.
I feel tired for no reason, sleep less, eat less, but gain weight easily.
Muscles are lost, fat is gained, and one day at the hospital, you suddenly hear, “You have high blood pressure,” or “You have early-stage diabetes.”
"Now I've Decided to Live Cheerfully" offers practical health solutions to address these physical changes and the shadow of chronic illness in midlife.
Based on her extensive clinical experience and numerous cases of middle-aged and older patients, Director Kim Sa-rang provides information on diseases commonly diagnosed in middle-aged and older people, and corrects misunderstandings about health information.
It presents realistic health solutions that readers can implement in their daily lives, including muscle-building exercises and diets to prevent sarcopenia, a condition in which muscle mass and strength decrease, and diet methods to reduce body fat without harming one's health.
It also reveals the truth about health information that middle-aged and older people often misunderstand, such as that meat is bad for you or that eating a lot of protein is good for your health.
Through this, readers can check whether there are any errors in the health information they know and learn various practices for a healthier life.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: June 30, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 208 pages | 280g | 140*205*14mm
- ISBN13: 9791168273313
- ISBN10: 1168273315
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