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Book Introduction
★★★ Conversation Skills 32 from a Psychiatrist with 600,000 YouTubers ★★★
It flows smoothly as you say
The psychology of conversation
There are people who naturally bring about the desired results no matter who they talk to.
A recently published book by a psychiatrist reveals that very secret.
In Japan, it became a bestseller immediately after publication, and the author's YouTube channel gained between 500,000 and 600,000 subscribers.
Why should we learn "speaking" from a psychiatrist? A psychiatrist's most important tool is none other than "speaking."
Especially when dealing with patients who have difficulty communicating even with their families, the conversation skills honed become the key to opening the other person's heart.
The author states that “there are rules to words that capture people’s hearts,” and introduces 32 conversation techniques that anyone can use.
Now, let's master the skill and experience the power of conversation to get what you want and turn life around for you.
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The psychiatrist's conversation skills are all on my side.
Why are psychiatrists' conversation skills helpful in work and life?
? Humans are social animals, so it's advantageous to have strong communication skills.
Conversational skills are a skill, not a talent.
Psychiatrists also use "techniques" when talking to patients.
? A psychiatrist's conversation skills make life work for me.
01 From now on, 'trustworthy people' will succeed.
* Let's find out more!
Chapter 1: The Success or Failure of a Conversation Depends on Preparation
02 Commonalities Between Psychiatric Treatment and Dialogue
03 You must set goals before talking.
Column Psychiatrist's Dialogue Goals
04 To have a successful conversation, you must gain trust before starting the conversation.
What Psychiatrists Should Keep in Mind to Gain Patients' Trust
05 Prior disclosure is important in all industries.
06 Decide in advance how the conversation will unfold.
07 The Influence of Time and Place on Conversation
Why aren't psychiatrists influenced by their patients?
Chapter 2: Understand Your Personality and Characteristics Before Conversation
08 Before talking, figure out what kind of person you are.
09 No one can escape the influence of family.
10 How are you currently influenced by your surroundings?
11 The influence of each period and generation in life
12. 'Ego', 'Superego', and 'Libido' Appear in Conversation
13 Analyze your 'tendencies' before talking.
Let's understand our own 'ego', 'superego', and 'libido'.
14 We unconsciously fabricate human relationships.
15. Find out what kind of person the other person is in advance.
What if you meet someone with narcissistic personality disorder?
Chapter 3: How You Listen to a Conversation Determines Everything
16 I am not the main character in this conversation.
How do psychiatrists respect their patients?
17 Humans are animals that prefer to 'speak' rather than 'listen'.
18 The other party already has a lot of information
19 What attitude should I have when listening to a story?
20 The time to speak is when the six points are met!
How do psychiatrists train their listeners to 'listen' and 'speak'?
Chapter 4: The Art of Conversation: Putting Everyone on My Side, as Practiced by Psychiatrists
21 Psychiatrists operate through conversation.
22 Conversations should also change depending on gender.
23. Calmly assess your current situation.
Commonalities Between Infants and Children and Psychiatric Patients
24 Never use technical terms or difficult words.
25. Adapt to the other person's brain processing speed and working memory capacity.
26. Talk while reconstructing what the other person said.
27 Turn negative words into positive ones and return them back to you.
Techniques for turning psychiatrist words into positive ones
Accept the column 'as is'
28 Three Conversation Skills That Will Show Your Opinion a New Perspective
How do psychiatrists learn metacognition?
29 Before getting into the main topic, let's have a 'small talk'.
30 Most questions have correct answers
31. Deliberately stop talking before reaching a goal.
32. Enlighten others with the Socratic methodology.
How to bring about enlightenment without pushing the other person?
Conclusion_ All relationships begin with words!
Translator's Note: A Psychiatrist's Conversational Method is a Weapon Necessary for Living Life
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The biggest factor is the spread of social media.
In the past, even if you were taken advantage of by a Type A person and suffered losses, you would only complain to those around you and it was difficult to spread rumors.
But now, rumors spread in the blink of an eye on social media.
Moreover, once a rumor spreads on social media, it remains online forever and spreads in the medium to long term.
--- p.27
Trust relationships tend to increase with increasing number of simple contacts (mere exposure effect).
And this number of contacts also includes 'virtual conversations' that we communicate through YouTube, eye contact, email, etc.
Most patients who visit the clinic for the first time say, “It doesn’t seem like it’s our first time meeting.”
I've had enough contact with you through YouTube that it's easy to say this without thinking.
--- p.50~51
Since humans are also animals, they are influenced by various surrounding environments.
Naturally, the atmosphere and visual information of a place will have a huge impact.
As explained above, it is important to first clearly define the goal of the conversation, and then choose a location based on that goal.
--- p.69
The time it takes to feel pleasure while talking is approximately 30 seconds to 1 minute.
If the conversation goes beyond 1 minute and 30 seconds, I start to feel uncomfortable.
Therefore, it is better to interject yourself into the conversation by summarizing what the other person said before they feel offended.
--- p.130
As this example shows, the enlightenment that can be gained through Socrates' methodology is not something that is directly taught by the conversation partner, but rather something that is derived from one's own thoughts.
Rather than denying the other person's opinion in order to change their thinking, we need to ask questions repeatedly to help them realize it on their own.
In fact, this technique is also the basis of 'cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)'.
Publisher's Review
To a psychiatrist
Why You Should Take Speaking Classes
“Speaking Classes Taught by a Psychiatrist,” which became a bestseller immediately after its publication in Japan, has finally been published in Korea.
Author psychiatrist Yusuke Masuda emphasizes that “a psychiatrist’s conversation skills are an essential weapon for modern people.”
True conversation is about understanding the other person's true feelings and conveying your own human side without misunderstanding.
Humans can hide their true feelings, but at the same time, they have the power to see through lies.
Moreover, with the development of social media, lies and hypocrisy are quickly exposed, and rumors spread online do not easily disappear and spread.
Ultimately, only honest and trustworthy conversations survive.
If you can talk to someone like a psychiatrist, you can ease their anxiety and worries and gain greater trust.
This is also a powerful weapon in workplace relationships, bringing about results beyond simple performance.
It is a power that can never be obtained through conversations that only pursue immediate profits.
To live life
The Art of Conversation: An Essential Weapon
So why should we take a class on "Speaking to a Psychiatrist"? The author offers four reasons.
First, since humans are social animals, the ability to communicate is essential for survival.
Second, conversation is not an innate talent, but a skill that anyone can learn.
Third, psychiatrists also use sophisticated techniques in their conversations with patients.
Fourth, the technology sometimes has the power to turn the enemy to your side.
The book contains 32 conversation secrets that will capture people's hearts, including how to check your personality and characteristics before starting a conversation, what to prepare for, the skill of 'listening' which is as important as speaking, and conversation methods according to gender.
Being good at speaking means developing the ability to get what you want.
Especially if you learn the honest and resonant communication skills of a psychiatrist, you will not only achieve the results you want at work and at home, but you will also be able to live your life on your own terms.
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