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Book Introduction
“Elegant words open the door to goodwill.”
Elegant speaking habits that bring success in work and relationships
★★★Practical experience and speaking know-how from an announcer with 17 years of experience
★★★The secrets of a speech instructor recognized by Samsung, Hyundai, Kia, LG, and others are revealed.
Having worked as an announcer for nearly 20 years, and having experienced large-scale lectures and one-on-one speech coaching, the author has observed countless people speaking and been present at moments of change.
The author, with his solid fundamentals honed through extensive broadcasting experience, has deeply empathized with the concerns and fears behind the voices revealed through lectures and coaching, and has come to the conviction that "elegant speech is directly linked to one's attitude toward life."
This book contains specific methods for elegant speaking that will elevate the quality of life, based on various speaking examples the author has personally experienced in educational settings and daily life.
In an age overflowing with fast and provocative expressions, the value of elegant speech shines even brighter.
A person of character speaks elegantly, and elegant words in turn make a person's life more elegant.
It is not just a skill, but an attitude toward life and a power that reveals one's character.
The essence of elegance lies in ‘comfort.’
The author emphasizes that communication with others can occur naturally only when one is comfortable.
So how can we speak with grace? The answer lies not simply in changing our tone of voice, but in our inner attitude and mindset.
The author specifically presents seven speech habits that create an elegant person.
If you want true success in your work and relationships, you must first carefully cultivate the language that reflects your inner self.
The author sincerely tells us how elegant speech can change lives and restore relationships.
This book deals with speaking, but it goes beyond simply teaching you how to speak well.
Rather, it leads readers to ask themselves questions.
'How am I speaking to myself right now?', 'Have my words hurt anyone?', 'Are my words filled with respect and warmth?' The author emphasizes that words are attitude, and that the quality of speech is not simply a skill to be learned and memorized, but rather comes from one's attitude toward life, asking, 'How should I live?'
That's why I highly recommend this book to those who want to live more resiliently, protecting themselves while being considerate of others in their relationships, rather than simply wanting to be good at speaking.
Elegant speaking habits that bring success in work and relationships
★★★Practical experience and speaking know-how from an announcer with 17 years of experience
★★★The secrets of a speech instructor recognized by Samsung, Hyundai, Kia, LG, and others are revealed.
Having worked as an announcer for nearly 20 years, and having experienced large-scale lectures and one-on-one speech coaching, the author has observed countless people speaking and been present at moments of change.
The author, with his solid fundamentals honed through extensive broadcasting experience, has deeply empathized with the concerns and fears behind the voices revealed through lectures and coaching, and has come to the conviction that "elegant speech is directly linked to one's attitude toward life."
This book contains specific methods for elegant speaking that will elevate the quality of life, based on various speaking examples the author has personally experienced in educational settings and daily life.
In an age overflowing with fast and provocative expressions, the value of elegant speech shines even brighter.
A person of character speaks elegantly, and elegant words in turn make a person's life more elegant.
It is not just a skill, but an attitude toward life and a power that reveals one's character.
The essence of elegance lies in ‘comfort.’
The author emphasizes that communication with others can occur naturally only when one is comfortable.
So how can we speak with grace? The answer lies not simply in changing our tone of voice, but in our inner attitude and mindset.
The author specifically presents seven speech habits that create an elegant person.
If you want true success in your work and relationships, you must first carefully cultivate the language that reflects your inner self.
The author sincerely tells us how elegant speech can change lives and restore relationships.
This book deals with speaking, but it goes beyond simply teaching you how to speak well.
Rather, it leads readers to ask themselves questions.
'How am I speaking to myself right now?', 'Have my words hurt anyone?', 'Are my words filled with respect and warmth?' The author emphasizes that words are attitude, and that the quality of speech is not simply a skill to be learned and memorized, but rather comes from one's attitude toward life, asking, 'How should I live?'
That's why I highly recommend this book to those who want to live more resiliently, protecting themselves while being considerate of others in their relationships, rather than simply wanting to be good at speaking.
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Prologue_ Elegant Words, Habits That Make Me Strong
Chapter 1: Quality Words Become Powerful Weapons in Life
· A person of dignity speaks elegantly.
· Words and attitude that surpass appearance and ability
· Classy words are the ticket to opening the door to favor.
· Dignity is persuasiveness.
· The power of words to transform individuals and organizations
· Investing in language assets is a surefire way to succeed.
· Language is the key to where I want to go.
Chapter 2: Graceful Speaking Begins in the Heart
· Why no matter how much you resolve, it's useless
· Break the chains of negative thoughts about yourself.
· Respect yourself and respect others at the same time.
· An elegant person takes good care of his or her emotions.
· From a mind of judgment to a mind of calculation
· Avoid the temptation to package yourself.
Chapter 3: Things You Shouldn't Miss Before You Speak
· The more I acknowledge myself, the freer I become.
· Genuine interest makes for good questions.
· Intention is more important than expression
Silence leads to deeper conversation.
· Speaking with consistent attitude, gestures, and message
· It is vulnerability, not perfection, that connects us.
· Remember that relationships are a long-term battle.
Chapter 4: Seven Speech Habits That Make You an Elegant Person
· Find the voice tone that suits you best.
· Create an environment where you can fully focus on the other person.
· A warm atmosphere comes from warm eyes.
· Convey your message clearly and consistently.
· Always choose words that are considerate of the other person.
· Make natural but restrained gestures.
· Adjust your speaking style depending on the other person.
Chapter 5: Elegance is not innate, it is made.
· You must have your own elegance
The essence of elegance is comfort.
· The constant tug-of-war between the inner and outer worlds
· Finding love within myself
· Keep your eyes and ears in a good environment.
· Build your own language world through writing.
· I dream of being a more beautiful person in 10 years.
Chapter 1: Quality Words Become Powerful Weapons in Life
· A person of dignity speaks elegantly.
· Words and attitude that surpass appearance and ability
· Classy words are the ticket to opening the door to favor.
· Dignity is persuasiveness.
· The power of words to transform individuals and organizations
· Investing in language assets is a surefire way to succeed.
· Language is the key to where I want to go.
Chapter 2: Graceful Speaking Begins in the Heart
· Why no matter how much you resolve, it's useless
· Break the chains of negative thoughts about yourself.
· Respect yourself and respect others at the same time.
· An elegant person takes good care of his or her emotions.
· From a mind of judgment to a mind of calculation
· Avoid the temptation to package yourself.
Chapter 3: Things You Shouldn't Miss Before You Speak
· The more I acknowledge myself, the freer I become.
· Genuine interest makes for good questions.
· Intention is more important than expression
Silence leads to deeper conversation.
· Speaking with consistent attitude, gestures, and message
· It is vulnerability, not perfection, that connects us.
· Remember that relationships are a long-term battle.
Chapter 4: Seven Speech Habits That Make You an Elegant Person
· Find the voice tone that suits you best.
· Create an environment where you can fully focus on the other person.
· A warm atmosphere comes from warm eyes.
· Convey your message clearly and consistently.
· Always choose words that are considerate of the other person.
· Make natural but restrained gestures.
· Adjust your speaking style depending on the other person.
Chapter 5: Elegance is not innate, it is made.
· You must have your own elegance
The essence of elegance is comfort.
· The constant tug-of-war between the inner and outer worlds
· Finding love within myself
· Keep your eyes and ears in a good environment.
· Build your own language world through writing.
· I dream of being a more beautiful person in 10 years.
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** In fact, a study of over 10,000 workplace relationships revealed that when people choose a collaborator, they place more importance on "Will this person be fun to work with?" than on "Will this person be good at their job?"
The conclusion is that people who speak and behave politely have more opportunities to collaborate.
This shows that they value 'trust and enjoyment' when working together more than simple ability.
** When the other person's expressionless reaction and negative beliefs about us overlap, we end up speaking in an increasingly uncomfortable and intimidating way.
So, when you start talking, you need to have a positive trust that 'the other person will look at you comfortably, lovingly, and with interest.'
This belief is the most effective way to reduce excessive tension that comes from speaking.
** Speaking is not just about content.
My attitude, gestures, and facial expressions work in harmony with the content of my words to create a single message.
Only when all these elements align in a positive direction can words be conveyed warmly to the other person.
** The emotions I have experienced due to my own vulnerability become a resource that allows me to empathize with and tenderly embrace someone else's vulnerability when it is revealed.
At this point, vulnerability is definitely not a weakness.
Rather, it is a clear strength.
** So why do we often fail to get to the point? The first reason is that we believe every piece of information is important and must be conveyed without missing a single detail.
Moreover, there are many cases where even the speaker himself does not clearly define what is essential and what is secondary.
Additionally, they worry that expressing their opinions clearly and directly might come across as pushy or arrogant.
** People with a clear message are not just assertive people or people who win with words.
A person who knows himself well.
A person who clearly understands his or her own mind and thoughts, and can express them appropriately by organizing them in his or her own language.
A person who knows himself well speaks with consistency between his inner and outer self in any situation.
It's the most honest version of myself, so I express myself healthily.
** People who give off a sense of confidence and gentleness, and calm and firmness, show what kind of person they are through their actions and attitudes.
Even in uncomfortable or tense situations, their gestures and hand gestures are not hasty or distracting.
** In one video, when asked, “After you leave this world, how do you want to be remembered?” she answered that she would like to be remembered as a “kind person.”
Because she considers 'kindness' to be an important value in life, her warm attitude and personality naturally shine through in her words and actions.
** Above all, life is not always that easy.
A person who constantly fought with himself to maintain peace of mind even while passing through rough, rocky and thorny paths.
And a person who allowed that calm and strong heart to flow to others.
Only such a person possesses true elegance that no one can easily possess and no one can take away.
** Ultimately, my feelings, thoughts, and even my words and actions change depending on what I see.
When my mind is at ease and relaxed, when I have positive emotions and perspectives rather than negative ones, I can have a positive influence on the people I meet.
That's why I try to keep my eyes and ears in a good environment today too.
The conclusion is that people who speak and behave politely have more opportunities to collaborate.
This shows that they value 'trust and enjoyment' when working together more than simple ability.
** When the other person's expressionless reaction and negative beliefs about us overlap, we end up speaking in an increasingly uncomfortable and intimidating way.
So, when you start talking, you need to have a positive trust that 'the other person will look at you comfortably, lovingly, and with interest.'
This belief is the most effective way to reduce excessive tension that comes from speaking.
** Speaking is not just about content.
My attitude, gestures, and facial expressions work in harmony with the content of my words to create a single message.
Only when all these elements align in a positive direction can words be conveyed warmly to the other person.
** The emotions I have experienced due to my own vulnerability become a resource that allows me to empathize with and tenderly embrace someone else's vulnerability when it is revealed.
At this point, vulnerability is definitely not a weakness.
Rather, it is a clear strength.
** So why do we often fail to get to the point? The first reason is that we believe every piece of information is important and must be conveyed without missing a single detail.
Moreover, there are many cases where even the speaker himself does not clearly define what is essential and what is secondary.
Additionally, they worry that expressing their opinions clearly and directly might come across as pushy or arrogant.
** People with a clear message are not just assertive people or people who win with words.
A person who knows himself well.
A person who clearly understands his or her own mind and thoughts, and can express them appropriately by organizing them in his or her own language.
A person who knows himself well speaks with consistency between his inner and outer self in any situation.
It's the most honest version of myself, so I express myself healthily.
** People who give off a sense of confidence and gentleness, and calm and firmness, show what kind of person they are through their actions and attitudes.
Even in uncomfortable or tense situations, their gestures and hand gestures are not hasty or distracting.
** In one video, when asked, “After you leave this world, how do you want to be remembered?” she answered that she would like to be remembered as a “kind person.”
Because she considers 'kindness' to be an important value in life, her warm attitude and personality naturally shine through in her words and actions.
** Above all, life is not always that easy.
A person who constantly fought with himself to maintain peace of mind even while passing through rough, rocky and thorny paths.
And a person who allowed that calm and strong heart to flow to others.
Only such a person possesses true elegance that no one can easily possess and no one can take away.
** Ultimately, my feelings, thoughts, and even my words and actions change depending on what I see.
When my mind is at ease and relaxed, when I have positive emotions and perspectives rather than negative ones, I can have a positive influence on the people I meet.
That's why I try to keep my eyes and ears in a good environment today too.
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Publisher's Review
“Words are the compass of life, showing me the direction I should take.”
Speaking is not just a skill, it is an attitude and quality of life.
He spoke softly but firmly refused,
I become a strong and elegant person who speaks warmly.
As we go through life, everyone has this question at least once.
"Can I trust this person?", "Will they harm me?" Even if they seem normal on the outside, we instinctively become wary when we encounter rude language or a belittling attitude that is unintentionally revealed.
In an increasingly dangerous and complex society, how can we recognize and keep genuine people by our side? And conversely, we find ourselves asking ourselves:
"How do I appear to others?", "How can I convey my true feelings and be perceived as trustworthy?" These questions go beyond mere social etiquette; they directly impact my safety.
There was an expert on a TV show who counseled several couples in crisis.
The host asked.
“What kind of person should I choose to avoid a failed marriage?” The counselor thought for a moment and then answered.
“I can't be 100% sure, but the surest way is to look at the person's language.”
He continued speaking.
“Language is the essence of a person’s spirit, so the words they use and the sentences they construct reveal the texture of their personality.” In other words, speech is not a simple technique, but a vessel that contains a person’s heart, way of life, and attitude toward others.
The author, who has been an announcer and speech instructor for 17 years, still remembers the advice the camera director gave him on a broadcast filming set.
“When you look into the camera lens, imagine that your loved one is inside it.
“Then your eyes will change.” He actually tried it, and he confesses that in that moment, his eyes and expression became surprisingly softer.
It was the moment I realized that, rather than worrying about how I would appear to others, I should try to convey my inner sincerity and infuse warmth into every look and word I say, and that is when I begin to speak with grace and emotion that moves people's hearts.
This book provides a delicate yet warm answer to the question of 'elegant speech' that elevates the quality of life.
It contains ways to clearly convey your feelings without hurting others, ways to speak with confidence even if you're not fluent, and in short, ways to build deeper relationships and shine your presence.
Ultimately, words shape and determine the quality of life.
This book shows how to prepare and convey that language, with the resonance of life.
For those who want to know the true essence of speaking, this book will be the clearest and most friendly guide.
“Words are my attitude toward life.”
Speak gracefully and effortlessly.
There are times when, even when someone speaks clearly and concisely and logically, our hearts are strangely unmoved.
This is when the voice is good and the pronunciation is clear, but it feels cold or distant.
On the other hand, there are people who seem to be awkward and unskilled in speaking, but when you listen to them, you feel at ease and comfortable.
This is because language is not just a means of conveying information; it is a channel of emotion that fully reveals a person's attitude and inner self.
Ultimately, it is not a question of technique whether the warmth of words and the feelings contained within them are conveyed to the other person.
So we often ask ourselves:
What is more important than ‘how you speak’ is ‘with what kind of heart you speak.’
This book consists of a total of five chapters.
Chapter 1, titled "Elegant Words Create the Quality of Life," explores how elegant words can impact individuals and organizations, and how they can become a powerful force that transforms lives.
Chapter 2 emphasizes that elegant speech comes from a good heart, and teaches us how to care for and reflect on our inner selves and emotions.
Chapter 3 identifies points we often miss during conversations and offers practical ways to build strong relationships.
Chapter 4 introduces seven speech habits that will help you grow into an elegant person, and the final chapter, Chapter 5, reminds you that you can cultivate your own elegance through speech.
Another great thing about this book is that it contains specific practical tips to help you naturally develop habits.
The starting point of elegant speech is respect for oneself and others.
From that heart come words, and words in turn lead to attitude.
Ultimately, speaking elegantly becomes a way to make my life more dignified.
What's interesting is that after reading the book, you naturally develop a desire to live with a warmer heart, beyond simply wanting to be good at speaking.
Words are ultimately the heart.
And we realize again that only when that feeling is truly conveyed does a real conversation begin.
Speaking is not just a skill, it is an attitude and quality of life.
He spoke softly but firmly refused,
I become a strong and elegant person who speaks warmly.
As we go through life, everyone has this question at least once.
"Can I trust this person?", "Will they harm me?" Even if they seem normal on the outside, we instinctively become wary when we encounter rude language or a belittling attitude that is unintentionally revealed.
In an increasingly dangerous and complex society, how can we recognize and keep genuine people by our side? And conversely, we find ourselves asking ourselves:
"How do I appear to others?", "How can I convey my true feelings and be perceived as trustworthy?" These questions go beyond mere social etiquette; they directly impact my safety.
There was an expert on a TV show who counseled several couples in crisis.
The host asked.
“What kind of person should I choose to avoid a failed marriage?” The counselor thought for a moment and then answered.
“I can't be 100% sure, but the surest way is to look at the person's language.”
He continued speaking.
“Language is the essence of a person’s spirit, so the words they use and the sentences they construct reveal the texture of their personality.” In other words, speech is not a simple technique, but a vessel that contains a person’s heart, way of life, and attitude toward others.
The author, who has been an announcer and speech instructor for 17 years, still remembers the advice the camera director gave him on a broadcast filming set.
“When you look into the camera lens, imagine that your loved one is inside it.
“Then your eyes will change.” He actually tried it, and he confesses that in that moment, his eyes and expression became surprisingly softer.
It was the moment I realized that, rather than worrying about how I would appear to others, I should try to convey my inner sincerity and infuse warmth into every look and word I say, and that is when I begin to speak with grace and emotion that moves people's hearts.
This book provides a delicate yet warm answer to the question of 'elegant speech' that elevates the quality of life.
It contains ways to clearly convey your feelings without hurting others, ways to speak with confidence even if you're not fluent, and in short, ways to build deeper relationships and shine your presence.
Ultimately, words shape and determine the quality of life.
This book shows how to prepare and convey that language, with the resonance of life.
For those who want to know the true essence of speaking, this book will be the clearest and most friendly guide.
“Words are my attitude toward life.”
Speak gracefully and effortlessly.
There are times when, even when someone speaks clearly and concisely and logically, our hearts are strangely unmoved.
This is when the voice is good and the pronunciation is clear, but it feels cold or distant.
On the other hand, there are people who seem to be awkward and unskilled in speaking, but when you listen to them, you feel at ease and comfortable.
This is because language is not just a means of conveying information; it is a channel of emotion that fully reveals a person's attitude and inner self.
Ultimately, it is not a question of technique whether the warmth of words and the feelings contained within them are conveyed to the other person.
So we often ask ourselves:
What is more important than ‘how you speak’ is ‘with what kind of heart you speak.’
This book consists of a total of five chapters.
Chapter 1, titled "Elegant Words Create the Quality of Life," explores how elegant words can impact individuals and organizations, and how they can become a powerful force that transforms lives.
Chapter 2 emphasizes that elegant speech comes from a good heart, and teaches us how to care for and reflect on our inner selves and emotions.
Chapter 3 identifies points we often miss during conversations and offers practical ways to build strong relationships.
Chapter 4 introduces seven speech habits that will help you grow into an elegant person, and the final chapter, Chapter 5, reminds you that you can cultivate your own elegance through speech.
Another great thing about this book is that it contains specific practical tips to help you naturally develop habits.
The starting point of elegant speech is respect for oneself and others.
From that heart come words, and words in turn lead to attitude.
Ultimately, speaking elegantly becomes a way to make my life more dignified.
What's interesting is that after reading the book, you naturally develop a desire to live with a warmer heart, beyond simply wanting to be good at speaking.
Words are ultimately the heart.
And we realize again that only when that feeling is truly conveyed does a real conversation begin.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 5, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 288 pages | 147*212*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791194655138
- ISBN10: 1194655130
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