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It's okay if living is a mess sometimes
It's okay if living is a mess sometimes
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"Even on a messy day, you're still precious."

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Author Yoon Geul's new work, "It's Okay to Sometimes Be a Mess in Life"

My heart goes out to you who is striving for happiness again.

Author Yoon Geul, who received much love from readers for 『I hope your anxiety doesn't last long』 and 『I just hope you're doing well』, has returned with a new work after about two years.

This new book, "It's Okay to Sometimes Be a Mess", contains a calm message of comfort for those who are struggling to find happiness again.
Starting with Chapter 1, “There must have been feelings you couldn’t shake off,” Chapter 2, “There must have been thoughts you couldn’t let go of,” Chapter 3, “Everything will get better as you go around,” and Chapter 4, “I hope you don’t wander alone for too long,” it gently conveys that even the times you fell and collapsed were a part of you, and that despite that, you are still a good enough person.

"After passing through days that felt difficult
"I hope you can finally be happy."

Even the messy times eventually brought you here.
Holding small miracles that no one knew about
You will definitely laugh again.
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Prologue: Even though it's a mess, it'll get better again.

Chapter 1, there must have been feelings that couldn't be suppressed

22 Signs Your Heart Is Hurt
Mismatched Puzzle 23
Why don't you know? 24
25 People to Organize
Always lose 26
This is why it can't help but hurt 27
If only love was a little more affectionate 28
Unknown recipient 29
30 Things That Come After a Breakup
They say this summer is going to be particularly hot. 31
Goodbye 32
If you don't keep it in your heart, 33
34 people who were 80%
There are also unresolved difficulties 35
Understanding and Feeling Regret 36
People don't change easily 37
38 Ways to Avoid Being Miserable in Love
Let's forget about better things 39
Forgetting is 40
How to Spot a Good Person 41
Net 42
Let go of obsession 43
Relationship validity period 44
Season 45
Be a good person 46
Wish 47
When Your Heart Won't Listen 48
Beware of small cracks 49
No need to match everything 50
51 Poisonous Things Between People
52 Characteristics of Hating Someone
He's just that kind of person 53
54 Necessary Attitudes in Interpersonal Relationships
55 People Who Are Kind Only to Themselves
56 Things People Need to Say to Someone Tired of People
2:6:2 Rule 57
The End of a Relationship 58
I hate you 59
Let's just wrap things up 60
61 Symptoms of Tiredness
Don't Waste Your Sincerity 62
63 People who fit and people who don't fit
Don't be hurt by everything you say 64
66 Characteristics of a Narcissist
Why is that so 68
I'll take care of it 69
Don't do what you're told not to do 70
It's about this much 71
Warm Heart 72
Don't lose your preciousness 73
Good is good 74
Let's take care of our hearts 75
76 I will be dull and unhappy
It's better to quit 77
It was worth it 78
79. Organizing Relationships
Best Revenge 80
Let's turn the steering wheel 81

Chapter 2, There must have been thoughts you couldn't stop thinking about

Don't worry 84
I know it's not good, but 85
86 When you work hard but people don't follow through
Flowers blooming between rocks 87
Still, it was good to come this far 88
In the end, it's all about stamina 89
Step back 90
Ordinary Life 91
Some happiness depends on the mind 92
I wish for misfortune 93
True Affirmation 94
There is no moment without meaning 95
I learned something else 96
Just make better mistakes 97
Let's get along well 98
It would be a life worth living 99
100 May You Love Yourself as You Are
Finding Center 101
The Best Kindness 102
Adults thought so 103
Living Flexibly 104
Let's leave it alone 105
Let's Run Away 106
107 Things to Throw Away
Deviation 108
109 Reasons It's Okay to Be a Mess
Heart Temperature 110
Look into your heart often 111
Anyway, it's strange 112
Not ruined 113
114 If you don't want to break easily
Trampled on the heart 116
The mind protects its master 117
It'll get better 118
Happiness is Every Day 119
Let's live like this 120
Let's shift our gaze 122
Supporters 123
Strong Shield 124
Take care of your self-esteem 125
Every emotion has a reason 126
It had to be that way 127
If you've done enough, that's enough. 128
That's how it increases 129
There is no set answer 130
131 Things You Relate to as You Get Older
132 to avoid jet lag
15 seconds 133
134 in progress
Don't worry 135
Finally, Order 136
Just live and see 137
It's Okay to Have a Tangled Day 138
Let's simplify things a little 139
It's really nothing 140
Let's Make a Day Your Brain Will Remember 141
May all happiness and good fortune be yours 142
So, writing 143

Chapter 3, Everything will get better as it goes around and around

Even though it looks insignificant, 146
It was the best at that time 147
What I Really Want 148
Each has its own creases and stains 149
150 Don't let your mood become your attitude
There are other options too 151
Fighting 152
How to Survive Each Day 153
There are no adults who are cool from the start 154
155 Things That Make Your Relationships Sick
156 to become a better person
A man loves what he loves. 157
That kind of thing happens too 158
159 Characteristics of Resilient People
Let's read it carefully and choose 160
Crumbs 161
A Man Like a Rock 162
Still Shining 163
Maybe it's happiness 164
It might be a bit bad 165
166 Self-Destructive Behaviors
Emotions pass, truth remains 167
Let's move 168
You have to do something different to make a difference 169
Just have to do it 170
This world exists because you exist 171
Let's Live with Integrity 172
Necessary Decision 173
If it doesn't seem like it, 174
Characteristics of a Strong-Minded Person 175
Pause 176
Sometimes it's better to lose 177
I see, you think so 178
The Man Without Corners 179
It all comes back later 180
181 Thoughts on Creating a Solid Daily Life
I don't know either, but 182
Bang 183
I guess he wanted to protect it that way. 184
If you keep going, it becomes dangerous 185
Always fit 186
Let's keep giving strength 187
188 Surprisingly Effective Behaviors
Self-love is salvation 189
190 Truths for Living Well
It's Not a Wasted Effort 192
There is no life without worries 193
194 Worries You Need to Let Go of Right Now
195 Reasons Why Those Who Have Failed Can't Help But Succeed
To You Who Endure 196
Don't get involved 197
Don't Lean 198
199 If you don't want to regret it later
Something unexpectedly good will happen 200
I'm still saving today 201
How much more so for you? 202
203 With a Straight Mind

Chapter 4, I hope you don't wander alone for too long.

That's a good thing 206
Clear Weather in My Heart 207
Circulating well 208
Let's smile more often 209
How to Live a Positive Life 210
We Who Are Now Will Never Come Again 213
There's a secret 214
There is no such thing as a word that stays without a reason 215
You have to have something you like 216
Living a Life with One Good Memory 217
Cartoon Movie 218
Strong Heart 219
What Grandma Always Says 220
Things Mom Told Me 221
How to Avoid Being Hated, According to Dad 222
Like a flower in a greenhouse 223
Self-Esteem Boost 224
It's discharged 226
You must protect yourself 227
228 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger
Muddy Water 229
That's how I became 230
It must have been a mess 231
People are difficult 232
A Kind of Affection 233
Good words, when used excessively, can be toxic. 234
My People 235
236 to the fates
As long as we're both good, that's enough 237
This feeling right now 238
The Man Who Speaks Well 239
Affectionate Person 240
15th 241
Do your best every day 242
It's all in the mind 243
Life can't always be a highway 244
Passing through the tunnel 245
Little Peace 246
Fox Rain 247
Signs of Happiness 248
Let's create something to look forward to 249
250 Characteristics of People Who Are Getting Better and Better
He is already a dazzling person, but 251
Signals from the World 252
That's enough 253
254 Things That Will Happen to You and Your Loved Ones
Like a fruit 255
1/4 Eternity 256
I will be the happiest piece of space dust 257
I hope you sleep well 258
Other Ways to Say I Love You 259
Like Yunseul on the Han River 260
Decalcomania 262
Happiness can become a habit 263
Good Night, Sweet Dreams 264
Now I know pretty much everything 265
It won't be easy, but still 266
Thank you for your hard work 267

Epilogue: Be Happy Without Anything

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Into the book
Let go of the past and be happier in the future.
I hope you don't mind too much.
I hope you now realize that it wasn't all your fault.
--- p.33

I really hate that mindset of thinking that I am a complexly good person and that others are simply bad people.
Selfish, petty, and absurd.
--- p.55

May you never abandon yourself in the name of love.
May your precious heart not be wasted in a distant place.
--- p.77

Usually, a breakdown starts with something that is passed over as okay.
--- p.111

If you've been feeling a heavy burden mentally and emotionally for a long time, it may be wise to look in a different direction.
There are many more ways to live life well than you might think.
--- p.122

Most words and actions committed under the influence of emotion cannot be undone, and regretting them later is meaningless.
--- p.133

If you are forcing yourself to maintain it and often feel limited, there are other options.
It's okay to consider it.
--- p.151

Setting priorities is an important thing in life.
And in your life, you must always be number one.
So, let's put aside the thought of sacrificing ourselves for something else.
--- p.171

No matter how hard it is, it all passes.
Even the most tedious and difficult days eventually come to an end.
The pain will fade and the wounds will fade.
And so, warm days come again.
--- p.191

Even if it's slow, be sure, even if it's impatient, be honest, even if it's tiring, be affectionate.
No matter how much you shake, you must not lose your center.
--- p.203

May you be granted a life where you don't have to struggle so hard to live.
--- p.223

In the end, it all comes down to how you think.
If you think of simple things as complicated, they will become complicated, and if you think of complex things as simple, they will become simple.
How you handle the situation depends on your mindset.
--- p.243

Publisher's Review
That every moment I've walked so far wasn't in vain.
Even wandering was proof of being alive.
The sincerity of author Yoon Geul, who has embraced the hearts of 170,000 readers.
It's Okay to Sometimes Be a Mess


Author Yoon Geul, who has comforted countless readers' anxiety and depression, returns to us after two years with her third essay, "It's Okay to Sometimes Be a Mess."

In his previous works, “I Hope Your Anxiety Doesn’t Last Long” and “I Just Want You to Get Along,” he quietly embraced the wounds of life, and through this book, he delivers even deeper and more solid comfort.

Even on an imperfect day,
Even during the countless times I stumbled,
We were alive every day.
And that fact alone was admirable enough.

This book is not ashamed of the days that fell apart,
Embracing even the awkward moments
This is a record for you who are trying to take another step forward.

After the awkward days,
I hope you can finally be kind to yourself.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: May 2, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 272 pages | 128*188*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791191369656
- ISBN10: 119136965X

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