{"product_id":"129256","title":"quiet resolution ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQtgpSsSv7X3eHtkegrLwJ.png?v=1764868003\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e quiet resolution \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/153937055\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eA new work by Lee Hwa-yeol, author of \"A Day That Never Ends\" and \"Getting the Study Divorced\"!\u003cbr\u003e “On preserving dignity in the language of my life”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Montaigne said, 'Philosophy is learning to die.'\u003cbr\u003e So how can we, the living, learn to take that last step that we can never reach?”\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e One day, author Lee Hwa-yeol hears that her mother-in-law, Arlette, has applied for assisted death at a Swiss assisted death agency.\u003cbr\u003e \"Quiet Resolution\" is a book that records the three months spent preparing for farewell, from deciding to assist with dying to accompanying my mother-in-law on her final journey, and the sense of life awakened by death.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “A year ago, my mother-in-law chose assisted dying in Switzerland.\u003cbr\u003e The decision was a huge shock, as it was neither terminal nor seriously ill.\u003cbr\u003e (…) She put down her instinct to live in order to maintain the dignity of ‘humanity.’ \u003cbr\u003e“It was not resignation, but a conviction to remain true to oneself until the end.” _From the opening remarks\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author observes the journey of a being who wanted to remain himself until the end, and raises questions about the process of aging that gradually erodes the subjectivity of life and the dignity that must be preserved within it.\u003cbr\u003e And he recorded in everyday language the aging and death that no human being can avoid.\u003cbr\u003e Just as everyone's life is different, everyone's attitude toward death is also different.\u003cbr\u003e For some, life is a 'desire not to die', but for others, death is 'the final sentence that completes life'.\u003cbr\u003e When we are young, death seems like something that has nothing to do with us, so we are not interested in it, and as we get older, many people turn away from it out of fear.\u003cbr\u003e But the author says that when we think about death, life becomes clearer.\u003cbr\u003e It is also said that whether we prepare for death or not, we will eventually die the way we lived. \u003cbr\u003eA foolish person should be foolish, a decisive person should be decisive.\u003cbr\u003e We cannot know while we are alive whether death will be peaceful or painful, but that is why we must always think about death and prepare for it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Author Lee Hwa-yeol, who expresses the 'philosophy embedded in life' in a simple and witty way, poses the questions 'How will we grow old and die?' and 'What is a life that maintains dignity without dependence?' in her seventh essay, 'Quiet Resolution.'\u003cbr\u003e And through this, I ask the readers:\u003cbr\u003e Is this the life I wanted?\u003cbr\u003e How do you love and what do you want to leave behind?\u003cbr\u003e How do I prepare for a breakup?\u003cbr\u003e What kind of life is a life that leaves well?\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Opening remarks\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 1.\u003cbr\u003e Humans have their own language in the face of death.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Old man walking on the road\u003cbr\u003e A product of conditions\u003cbr\u003e Paid condolences  \u003cbr\u003eDecision to remain as myself\u003cbr\u003e Cookie's Comfort\u003cbr\u003e Champagne on Thursday I\u003cbr\u003e Festival and Death\u003cbr\u003e Friendly prison, uncomfortable freedom\u003cbr\u003e On the elegance of existence\u003cbr\u003e sediment of time\u003cbr\u003e Time to feel with your fingertips\u003cbr\u003e The Art of Refusal\u003cbr\u003e The Silence of the Old Man\u003cbr\u003e The Rules of a Perfect and Fair Life\u003cbr\u003e Champagne on Thursday II\u003cbr\u003e The moment you fall in love, mourning begins.\u003cbr\u003e A love deeper than death\u003cbr\u003e The weight of dignity\u003cbr\u003e How to accept death\u003cbr\u003e The paradox of waiting\u003cbr\u003e Sorting out one's relationship with oneself\u003cbr\u003e Spider Woman\u003cbr\u003e Country house memories\u003cbr\u003e Melancholy of Time\u003cbr\u003e Belle Mer, Belle Pie\u003cbr\u003e A taste that never goes away\u003cbr\u003e The power of dependence\u003cbr\u003e The Taste of Time\u003cbr\u003e Beautiful Street\u003cbr\u003e I'd rather not do that.\u003cbr\u003e Life becomes clearer when we think about death.\u003cbr\u003e bread dough\u003cbr\u003e Father's death notice\u003cbr\u003e Geppetto's Tomb\u003cbr\u003e Thursday Champagne III\u003cbr\u003e The date has been set.\u003cbr\u003e Champagne on Thursday IV\u003cbr\u003e quiet resolution\u003cbr\u003e The Last Supper\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 2.\u003cbr\u003e Just as no two lives are the same, no two old ages are the same.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A journey from which there will be no return \u003cbr\u003eAs if there were nothing\u003cbr\u003e Rewind time\u003cbr\u003e Arlette's recipe\u003cbr\u003e empty house\u003cbr\u003e Absence and presence\u003cbr\u003e The croaking of a tree frog\u003cbr\u003e What's sad is not a lonely death.\u003cbr\u003e Garden of Memories\u003cbr\u003e A dream I can't escape from\u003cbr\u003e Practice leaving\u003cbr\u003e Father's phone number\u003cbr\u003e Mother and I\u003cbr\u003e wedding dish set\u003cbr\u003e Thoughts on Jjajangmyeon\u003cbr\u003e What We Talk About When We Talk About Death\u003cbr\u003e From earth to heaven\u003cbr\u003e Mother's will\u003cbr\u003e piano lessons\u003cbr\u003e 105th birthday party\u003cbr\u003e Organizing the remains\u003cbr\u003e The scenery I love\u003cbr\u003e Connecting with Evolving Humanity\u003cbr\u003e Dear guests\u003cbr\u003e Old age has its own doors.\u003cbr\u003e Moving day\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate5644\/MidCate007\/564368023.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e After that day, Arlette said.\u003cbr\u003e “I’m never going to the hospital again.” At that time, I had no idea what she meant by her firm tone.\u003cbr\u003e I just thought of it as the stubbornness of a picky old man.\u003cbr\u003e But that meant that he would not entrust himself to medical care and forcibly prolong his life. \u003cbr\u003eIt was a declaration of refusal to wait for death while tied to a device, a determination to remain true to oneself until the end.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.30\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “I am useless now.” Her kitchen, no longer able to bake pies, has lost its warmth.\u003cbr\u003e Now she can't survive without a caregiver and a housekeeper.\u003cbr\u003e Perhaps what is more frightening than death is watching yourself die a little bit every day.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.32\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e People don't want to stay in front of the uncomfortable mirror of old age for too long.\u003cbr\u003e We also forget that it has its own life and story.\u003cbr\u003e He takes care of me like a child, but doesn't talk to me.\u003cbr\u003e It may seem like consideration, but it's actually avoidance.\u003cbr\u003e The simplest way to bring an older person out of a silent room is to make eye contact and ask a question.\u003cbr\u003e People don't ask questions.\u003cbr\u003e Without even being able to tell your own story properly.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.61\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAid in death, literally, is the act of assisting a loved one in their death.\u003cbr\u003e The mind tells us that we must end the suffering, but we cannot be completely free from the guilt of complicity in death.\u003cbr\u003e What if Arlette had chosen to end her life alone, without this painful process, keeping all her time hidden within herself and leaving her loved ones outside?\u003cbr\u003e The guilt and fear may have lessened, but the loss of being denied time together would have been greater.\u003cbr\u003e This farewell practice is a painful and painful time, but it is comforting to know that we will be together until the end.\u003cbr\u003e At least we have time to see them off.\u003cbr\u003e --- pp.72-73\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e How we face death is not a question of who makes the decision, but rather how we accept it with peace.\u003cbr\u003e Death is not the opposite of life, but another shadow of life. \u003cbr\u003eJust as we welcome guests who may come at any time, we must live our lives preparing for death.\u003cbr\u003e To borrow Zygmunt Bauman's ideas, accepting death is like 'taking the poison from the thorn of death.'\u003cbr\u003e The way you accept death ultimately resembles the attitude you have taken toward life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.83\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The reason why humans become alienated even from themselves may be because they have lost the ability to stop and exist.\u003cbr\u003e Some silences are not empty, but filled with answers.\u003cbr\u003e It's better to relax than to win.\u003cbr\u003e Knowing how to hear silence, even as you become less sensitive to sound as you age.\u003cbr\u003e How often have we stayed in silence?\u003cbr\u003e I look at the sea of ​​clouds spread out beyond the window.\u003cbr\u003e This life seems to be a journey that asks not what we leave behind, but how lightly we can leave it.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.192\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eEach person has his or her own language in the face of death.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAs the author comes to understand her mother-in-law's suffering, she finally respects her own decision to have assisted dying in order to preserve her dignity.\u003cbr\u003e Still, the sadness and fear of having to part with a loved one was immense.\u003cbr\u003e Moreover, in France, where the author resides, just like in Korea, neither euthanasia (getting to death with the help of a doctor) nor assisted death (getting the help of a doctor but pressing the final button yourself) is permitted, so the author feels a strong sense of guilt as he prepares for both 'receiving approval for death' and 'crossing the border', wondering if he is assisting in death.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Is there really nothing we can do?”\u003cbr\u003e “This is not life.\u003cbr\u003e You know that too.\u003cbr\u003e “All I can do is end this suffering while I’m still lucid.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e During the three months of unfamiliar and endless waiting, my mother-in-law never wavered. \u003cbr\u003eAs she, who loved her life so much and never fare-free or ran a red light, decided to cross the border and travel to remain herself, even at the risk of breaking the law, the author realizes that the way she accepts death ultimately resembles her attitude toward life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 《Quiet Resolution》 is not a book that argues for or against assisted dying or euthanasia.\u003cbr\u003e The question is not 'Which choice is right?' but 'Can you maintain your dignity and be the master of your own life until the end?'\u003cbr\u003e Even without being philosophers, we can prepare for death through the language of our own lives.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHow will we grow old and how will we die!\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Throughout our lives, we compare ourselves to our ‘past’ or our ‘youth.’\u003cbr\u003e (…) The moment the omniscient illusion that physical problems can be fixed is shattered, we begin to understand aging. \u003cbr\u003e“If we live based on ‘future’ and ‘old age,’ will we be able to better endure the feeling of decline little by little every day?” _ From the text\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If, as I said before, we die as we have lived, how should we grow old?\u003cbr\u003e The author observes the various attitudes toward life as people approach old age and says, \"Old age has its own unique doors.\"\u003cbr\u003e A door that gently adapts to life, a door that requires a password to enter, a door that is firmly locked.\u003cbr\u003e We are preoccupied with how to stay young and what to do to live healthier, but we are not interested in aging, or what we call old age.\u003cbr\u003e We often forget that just as no two lives are the same, no two old ages are the same.\u003cbr\u003e However, everyone is faced with the question of how far they can maintain their 'dignity' and 'freedom' in old age. \u003cbr\u003eWe worry about dying alone, but what we really need is to ask ourselves how we can rely on others before old age comes.\u003cbr\u003e Ultimately, this question comes back to 'How should I live now?' and 'How do I want to live in the 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