{"product_id":"129257","title":"Complete understanding of love ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQtgpSsSvQWTfxkQRQ1f0U.png?v=1764868099\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Complete understanding of love \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/147570418\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eHumanities-Psychology Newsletter\u003cbr\u003e 5,000 cumulative paid readers\u003cbr\u003e A reasonable choice for a YouTube channel with 150,000 subscribers\u003cbr\u003e Daniel's First Essay\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Why do I feel anxious the more I love?\u003cbr\u003e If you want to love properly, you have to embody\u003cbr\u003e 5 Unchanging Love Skills\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Daniel, an influencer with 150,000 subscribers, a newsletter writer with 5,000 cumulative paid readers, and an average repeat purchase rate of over 80%, has finally published his first book in print.\u003cbr\u003e Drawing on the thoughts of Carl Gustav Jung, Sigmund Freud, Alfred Adler, and existentialist philosophers, he has provided insight and comfort to countless people. He has now written down stories that could not be fully captured on video.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\"Understanding Love\" contains realistic content essential to modern people who are tired of love, shaken by interpersonal relationships, and wandering, having lost themselves.\u003cbr\u003e Why do we lose ourselves and cling to others when we fall in love? Why do delayed replies leave us feeling abandoned? Why do we constantly test and confirm our love even when we're in love? The author uses delicate and refined language to unravel the complex inner workings of modern people, who often distort love, and guides them to understand and recover their emotions.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book is a strong companion on the journey from “me who wants to be loved” to “me who can love.”\u003cbr\u003e If you've ever felt lost in a recurring pattern of emotions, this book will offer you the wisdom to pause, find your bearings, and get back on the right path.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 1: The Inconvenient Truth About Love: Falling in Love\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 1: Things We Think Are Love, But They're Not\u003cbr\u003e _The Hidden Meaning of the Pygmalion Story and Romance\u003cbr\u003e _4 symptoms that 99% of people think are love, but are not\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e More than half of lovers break up like this.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 2: The First Things That Happen When You Fall in Love: Projection and Abstraction\u003cbr\u003e When we fall in love, the first thing we do is project.\u003cbr\u003e _The first cause that leads all human relationships to destruction\u003cbr\u003e Pygmalionism, loving statues rather than people\u003cbr\u003e _The blind spot of idealizing the other person\u003cbr\u003e _A rose is not something that blooms all the time, but something that blooms and then falls.\u003cbr\u003e When will the Renaissance of Love come?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e Common characteristics of people who make their partners leave\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 3: The Second Thing That Happens When You Fall in Love: Invasion \u003cbr\u003eLove that destroys everyday life is not love.\u003cbr\u003e _The sooner you can say \"I've changed\" after dating, the better\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e A person who appears to be a good person on the outside but is dangerous on the inside\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 4: The Third Thing That Happens When You Fall in Love: Possessiveness\u003cbr\u003e _The impact of childhood memories on us\u003cbr\u003e _How Attachment Styles Affect Love\u003cbr\u003e Things that are easy to think of as love but aren't\u003cbr\u003e _He who commands and he who obeys\u003cbr\u003e _Modern people obsessed with possessions\u003cbr\u003e Why Native Americans Live Happier Than City People\u003cbr\u003e The Inconvenient Truth About Women Who Say \"I Like Handsome Men Who Stay Home\"\u003cbr\u003e _Market exchange system, market relations system\u003cbr\u003e _Characteristics of people who have unhappy relationships and marriages, no matter who they meet\u003cbr\u003e _Characteristics of people who have happy relationships and marriages no matter who they meet\u003cbr\u003e _Characteristics of people who seem like good people but are actually the most dangerous \u003cbr\u003e_It's not about receiving and giving, it's about giving and receiving\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e Things that are easy to think of as love, but in fact are not love\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 5: The Fourth Thing That Happens When You Fall in Love: Identification\u003cbr\u003e _The surprising reason why lovers choose to break up\u003cbr\u003e _The purpose of parenting, the purpose of relationships\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e Characteristics of people who shine more after marriage\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 2: Being in Love\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 6: Becoming a Good Dating Partner and a Good Parent\u003cbr\u003e _Blue pills and red pills\u003cbr\u003e _Blue love and red love\u003cbr\u003e _The heart is painted red\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 7: The Red Potion Against False Projection and Idealization\u003cbr\u003e _Renaissance of Love\u003cbr\u003e _If you ask me what love is\u003cbr\u003e _How to set the right 'ideal type'\u003cbr\u003e The most effective way to maintain a romantic relationship without arguments\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e 99% of men and women do this when they are truly in love.\u003cbr\u003e 99% of couples break up because of 'this'\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eChapter 8: Red Potion for Intrusive Thoughts\u003cbr\u003e _The Prince on a White Horse, the girl in my dreams\u003cbr\u003e _The little me and the big me\u003cbr\u003e _It's okay if it's just okay\u003cbr\u003e _The only difference between simple boredom and a breakup\u003cbr\u003e _Developing solitude\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e The crucial difference between boredom and falling out of love\u003cbr\u003e The most important criterion for determining a woman's worth\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 9: The Red Potion for Wrongful Possessiveness\u003cbr\u003e _Can you catch the flowing water?\u003cbr\u003e Why women are more vulnerable than men in interpersonal relationships\u003cbr\u003e _The love that is received too much is not love\u003cbr\u003e _The only way to save yourself and your relationships\u003cbr\u003e _Throw away the engine schematics\u003cbr\u003e _Why does blue look blue?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e What Attractive People and Stock Market Investors Have in Common\u003cbr\u003e How to Maximize Your Self-Esteem and Life Satisfaction in Just 2 Weeks\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 10: The Red Potion for Foolish Bonding\u003cbr\u003e _Good parents, good people \u003cbr\u003e_Individualization Task 1 Consistency\u003cbr\u003e _Individualization Task 2: Not feeling betrayed by the other person's independence\u003cbr\u003e _Individualization Task 3: Developing Patience for Growth\u003cbr\u003e _Individualization Task 4 Resilience\u003cbr\u003e _Personalization Task 5: Establishing Core Values\u003cbr\u003e _Individualization Task 6: True Empathy\u003cbr\u003e _Individualization Assignment 7 Just an okay person\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e The most important qualities of an ideal spouse\u003cbr\u003e Three criteria to determine if someone is worth dating seriously\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 11: If Love Had a Panacea\u003cbr\u003e What is self-deception?\u003cbr\u003e _The last prescription\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [Daniel's video content worth referencing]\u003cbr\u003e Characteristics of people who shine more after marriage\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate5369\/MidCate006\/536852237.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e The reason we suffer in human relationships, the first cause that leads all human relationships to ruin, is 'my wrong expectations of others.'\u003cbr\u003e False expectations about others are also a typical projection phenomenon.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e--- p.49\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Having excessive expectations and fantasies about something is a sign of immaturity.\u003cbr\u003e Conversely, the more specialized and skilled you are at something, the less expectations you have about it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.54\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Falling in love and putting aside your own work and easily ruining your daily life is not a desirable attitude for maintaining a steady love.\u003cbr\u003e To truly love, you must be able to respect not only the other person's daily life and growth, but also your own daily life and growth.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.75\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If love requires someone to completely lose themselves, then it is not true love.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.91\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A person who doesn't know how to give everything he has will never get the chance to be with someone he wants for a long time.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.110\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The purpose of all human relationships is not 'oneness' but growth as a better individual, a more mature independent being.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.119\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eBefore you can even think about what you want to receive, you must first define what you can contribute to the person you desire.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.148\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The first step to becoming an adult is to accept that things are just okay.\u003cbr\u003e That's the beginning of loving you, me, and our relationship.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.163\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Adults should be able to become independent from their parents and become their own parents.\u003cbr\u003e The ability to become a mother and father to others, and to become one's own parent, is what Carl Gustav Jung, the founder of analytical psychology, called \"growth\" in its true sense, and he defined it with the expression \"individuation.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.199\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Love is an inner journey that begins with getting to know you and ends with getting to know myself.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.201\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eWhy are we lonely even when we love?\u003cbr\u003e Daniel's own starting from this question\u003cbr\u003e Intense reflection and solid insight\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eInterest in love, romance, and marriage remains strong, to the point where recent low marriage and birth rates pale in comparison.\u003cbr\u003e This is proven by the fact that any YouTube channel that uses 'love' or 'relationship' as a keyword gets 2-3 times more clicks and views.\u003cbr\u003e But just because humans are interested in and like love doesn't mean they're good at it.\u003cbr\u003e Most people want to love, but they have trouble finding love.\u003cbr\u003e This is because many modern people do not understand the principles of love and the dynamics of human relationships.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003e99% of people mistake it for love\u003cbr\u003e Four Signs of Emotions That Aren't Love\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e When you meet an attractive person and fall in love, your heart races.\u003cbr\u003e We too easily idealize others, spend all day thinking about them, and even feel the need to monopolize them.\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, they even have an irrational desire to identify with themselves and the other person. \u003cbr\u003eThe problem is that when the other person doesn't meet our expectations or we become accustomed to them over time, we often mistakenly think, 'Oh, I don't love that person anymore.'\u003cbr\u003e Or, some people who want to possess love beyond material things, as if they want to lock the other person in their own safe.\u003cbr\u003e Even though I don't feel happy that the person is locked in my safe.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e To those who try to possess love and distort relationships by falling into the illusion of emotions, the author quietly offers the wisdom to look at love again with understanding rather than obsession, and with respect rather than identification.\u003cbr\u003e Are you a person who loves (Have) or a person who loves (Do)? Was it love I wanted, or was it an emotion that confines people? The author's questions force us to reconsider that boundary.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe repeated hurt is not because of 'that person'\u003cbr\u003e It might be because of 'my feelings'\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eMany books on the subject of love focus on 'how to be loved'.\u003cbr\u003e But this book raises the question, 'How to love?'\u003cbr\u003e \"Understanding Love\" deals with \"how to give love well,\" and further, \"how the parties involved can love well.\"\u003cbr\u003e It explains how to become a person who gives love to others, rather than how to be loved by others.\u003cbr\u003e By learning this, you can establish a clearer self-identity and become firmly rooted in the various human relationships surrounding you.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author talks about a mature person who exists fully in love, rather than a person who loses himself through love.\u003cbr\u003e It quietly reminds us that love is not an emotion that is completed through others, but an emotion that begins only when we understand ourselves. \u003cbr\u003eThis book will be an essential guide for those who want to love without pain in an age where love is difficult. \u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eDate of issue:\u003c\/strong\u003e June 16, 2025\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 252 pages | 128*188*20mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9791194507192\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 1194507190 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43890293899306,"sku":"129257","price":33.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/41b9ebecdab5f9414c4e1322991b5b0b.jpg?v=1765294297","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/129257","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}