★ The Relationship Bible That 1 Million People Resonated With ★
So that you will no longer be anxious in front of love,
Realistic advice that cuts to the heart of relationships

Many people accept the other person as fate and start falling in love hastily before they even know themselves properly.
We feel anxious and swayed by the other person's actions and emotions, but we repeat the same mistakes without understanding the essence of the problem.
How can we love without worrying, hesitating, or hurting?

"Things I Wish I Knew Before I Loved You" is the "most realistic love solution" from Kim Dal, a relationship expert and bestselling author with over 500 million cumulative views.
From how to recognize your partner's sincerity early in a relationship, to conversation techniques that deepen your relationship, to the standards for a regret-free breakup and reunion.
From the beginning to the end of love, the essential advice you need to know is compiled in one book.
Because it's practical advice that penetrates the essence of relationships rather than vague comfort, you'll definitely find helpful insights here and there.

This book is a revised and expanded edition of Love Like Trash, which comprehensively reworks the original manuscript and reinforces more practical advice.
While maintaining the core principles of its immediate bestseller, this new book offers deeper psychological insights and concrete strategies, making it a more complete relationship bible.
If you don't want to be plagued by anxiety while in love, if you're afraid to start a new relationship because of the hurt you've endured, this is the book for you.

However, many people, without knowing themselves well, too easily accept the other person as fate and try to achieve love too hastily.
Being swayed by the other person's actions and emotions, and feeling anxious about how to react.
In this book, I delve deeper into the real-world issues I hadn't fully experienced in the past, and I've written about everything I've experienced and realized, from the beginning of love to real-life situations and even married life, which I hadn't dealt with before.
If you find relationships difficult, if you are struggling with love, I encourage you to open this book, page by page, and ask yourself these questions.
There is no right answer in love, but there is definitely a better answer.
--- From pp.5-7 "Prologue"

Regardless of gender, people who are bad at dating have one thing in common.
It's simply 'lack of experience.'
People who are bad at dating have a hard time making decisions and end up dating one person for a long time.
After dating seriously for at least a year or two and breaking up, there is a long hiatus.
And then again, we get into a similar type of serious relationship.
This approach isn't necessarily bad.
It might be a good fit for people who prefer a stable relationship.
However, if these encounters are repeated, the scope of experience will narrow, and opportunities to learn new things or diversify perspectives will inevitably be limited.
--- p.23 “Among the facts that 7 out of 10 people are mistaken about,

Everyone has traumas, big or small.
In particular, people who have bad memories of relationships are prone to being obsessed with the idea that their relationship will fail again this time.
But we must abandon this very idea.
In this regard, keep in mind two important facts:
First, the people you have met so far and the people you will meet in the future are completely different people.
Second, my attitude ultimately determines the other person's attitude.
--- p.57 From “If You Have Love Trauma”

“Why do I never get better at blind dates?”
This is something that people who have blind dates that don't go as well as they expected often worry about.

The most important thing in a blind date is to let go of the burden of thinking, 'I have to look good.'
There's no need to try so hard to make a good impression on people who don't get along with you.
If it doesn't work out with this person, you can just go on the next blind date.
If you feel like you don't fit in from the first impression, don't force it.
There is no need to go.
The other person may not like me, and I may not like the other person either.
It's just that I didn't meet my person on this blind date.
There is no need to get caught up in the thought that 'I am always bad at blind dates'.
--- From pp.65-66, “Differences in the gaze between men and women on a blind date”

Trying to look at someone else's phone never brings positive results.
Because you already suspect or are convinced that the other person has done something wrong.
In situations like this, you end up finding something with the attitude of trying to find even the smallest clue.
If you can't resist the urge to look at someone's phone, you need to ask yourself:
If what I suspect is actually inside your phone, are you ready to accept that?
If you're suspicious of someone's behavior, the answer is to end the relationship rather than checking their phone or questioning them.

--- p.132 From “Never Check Your Lover’s Cell Phone”