The one thing a child who constantly says "No!" and "I don't like it!" needs: "Resilience."

The sound that resonates throughout the house every day: “No”, “I don’t like it!”
“No!” because the shoes don’t fit well.
When I come across something I don't know, I close the book and say, "No!"
A child who cries, gets upset, and quits after failing just once or twice because things don't go as planned.
What could be the problem? What can I do?

Things that seem easy to us are difficult for children.
Everything is still new to them, and they are still learning.
What we need to teach our children at this time is how to fail 'well'.
Everyone experiences failure.
A child who learns not to avoid failure, but to learn to fail well, will be able to get back up again no matter what hardships he or she encounters in the future.


The way to deal with failure ‘well’ is ‘resilience.’


A child who shouts, “It’s okay, we can try again!” and tries again even when their shoes don’t fit well. A child who asks for help when they come across something they don’t understand, “Mommy, what is this? Please tell me.”
These are all actions that children with strong 'resilience' can take.
If you practice overcoming small failures in your daily life by building resilience, you will be able to overcome any major failures you may encounter in the future with ease.


Give your child the secret weapon that will help them succeed not only in their studies and relationships, but in everything else in life: resilience.


▷ Includes special commentary from an education expert! "Failure is a vaccination that builds resilience."

'Resilience' refers to the ability to overcome hardship, adversity, mistakes, or failures without wavering, and to resolve problems to the end, and to use failure as an opportunity to learn and grow.
In that sense, Millie can be called both the 'king of mistakes' and the 'king of resilience'.
Even though you fall and fall again, you don't give up and work hard until you finally achieve your goal.
I usually interpret FAIL as a 'First Attempt In Learning'.
Reading Millie's story, I realized once again that failure and growth are not opposites.


Children who are naturally positive and optimistic, like Millie, also have high resilience.
However, there are ways to increase resilience through acquired skills, regardless of innate temperament.


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No child can live without failing.
(Omitted) Whenever your child fails, comfort, encourage, and support them.
In this environment, children can grow into resilient children who can take on challenges without fear and bounce back even after failure.


▷ Books approved by American teachers and parents!

▶ Explosive Teacher Reviews! A Book Used as an Educational Resource in the US

- This is a picture book that the children in my class really like.
Whenever something difficult comes up, he asks me to bring him this book and read it.
- Everything I usually say to my kids is included here.
Falling down doesn't mean you've failed, just get back up!
- It seemed like the children who read the book accepted that everyone makes mistakes and that there was no need to be discouraged if they made mistakes.

▶ Overflowing Parent Reviews! A Book Approved by American Parents for Boosting Resilience

- Millie's mistakes are so funny and entertaining.
My child, who hates books, asks me to read to him every night these days.

- After reading this book, my child is more comfortable accepting his mistakes.
I think I've come to believe that it doesn't have to be perfect, but it's okay to do it.
- I used to be a mother who would sigh at my child's mistakes, but after reading this book, I started to respond positively to my child's mistakes and challenges.