Today in January, do something you've never done before.
February Be aggressive!
March is all about pretending to be confident
In April, the more precious a person is, the more he or she is treated like a cactus.
You were born in May with a probability of 1 in 300 million.
June is almost over
If you hate me in July, it means you love me in the end.
There is no next life after August.
Let's be reborn in this life!
September Our lives are all someone's footnotes
October Self-esteem is like a bank balance.
Being shaken in November is proof that you're alive
In December, I have a strong me.

“At a time when you expect support from others,
“Can’t I just cheer for myself?”

★Flower phrases loved by 200,000 readers on Instagram
★The hotly anticipated 50,000-copy bestseller, "You Don't Need to Be Loved by Everyone"
Lee Pyeong's new work
★Meet the author with 1.2 million Instagram followers (operating over 50 channels) and his '365 Languages ​​of Self-Confidence (Perpetual Calendar)'
★27,000 Instagram followers, a perpetual calendar with beautiful illustrations by illustrator Mori!

An aphorism to let go of premature expectations of others and cheer for myself.

Why does the pain in interpersonal relationships persist? Many scholars, experts, religious leaders, and countless others agree that the reason is "our expectations of others."
Author Lee Pyeong, who gained popularity seven years ago when she started posting about ending relationships on Instagram, has published the best-selling books "You Don't Need to Be Loved by Everyone" (50,000 copies) and "I'm Ending a Relationship" (40,000 copies).
His new work for 2023, "Talk to Me Like Handing Over Flowers," is a perpetual calendar created with the intention of letting go of "expectations of others," the very source of suffering, and "supporting myself."

While his previous works focused on cutting off difficult relationships, this new work focuses on listening to the voice of one's heart, understanding why one is having a hard time, accepting oneself as one is, and developing a positive mindset for a better life.
Like the content in the previous work, it includes writings in which the author tells stories that people could not tell for fear of being hated, as if it were cider, as well as deep writings that have come from long reading, and immortal aphorisms that do not change with the passage of time.
The Instagram account he runs (@ii_pyeong @ennie_pyeong @flower_pyeong) is 90% filled with new posts that have never been published before, and although it is a 365-day calendar, it is full of good sentences that can be engraved in your heart page by page like a regular book.

Start your day by recharging your self-esteem for one minute every morning.

The person who gets scolded by someone every morning vs.
Someone who receives sincere encouragement from someone every morning.
How will the futures of these two people differ? The former will, quite naturally, spend his days feeling intimidated, while the latter will spend his days feeling psychologically secure.
It is also predictable that the future will be completely different.
The author says that the only solution to the fundamental problem of human relationships, 'my relationship with myself', is 'language'.
No matter how difficult things may be, if you have the inner strength to recharge yourself by entering the beautiful world of language, you can show resilience and get back up again.
Let's start the day by recharging our self-esteem for one minute every morning through "Talking to Me Like Giving Flowers."
As one day, two days, three days, 365 days pass by, you will be able to feel your inner self becoming stronger like the rings of a tree.

Our attitude toward life, where wounds are the default, day by day

In a competitive society where failure to prove one's worth leads to elimination, is it possible to live without pain? The author urges us to acknowledge that our lives begin with wounds from birth.
Rather than trying to live a life without scars, it is said that if you acknowledge and accept that there are bound to be scars, your heart will feel much lighter.
I also encourage you to spend your energy changing yourself rather than trying to change others, and to be a good person for yourself rather than trying to be a good person to be loved by others.


As such, the author's message not only contains encouraging content, but also contains insights that we want to underline, such as attitudes toward life, values, and philosophy.
Another point of interest is the ability to see the famous quotes from well-known figures such as Nietzsche, Aristotle, Lao Tzu, Shakespeare, Sima Qian, and Diogenes.
Additionally, this calendar contains illustrations of four seasonal flowers by Mori, one of the authors of the 『THE POSTER BOOK』 (published by Arte) series, who is loved by many people.
Our lives are filled with wounds, but let's start each day with "Talk to Me Like Giving Flowers," a book filled with heart-warming sentences and beautiful illustrations.
You will be able to approach life with a much lighter heart.

▶“Life is inherently arbitrary and the world is inherently unfair.
Hurt is the default value in life.
“If you admit this, you’re a real adult.” (February 16)
▶In the time it takes to expect others to change, let's try again to change ourselves.
That is, let's do well Nana. (August 8th)
▶Don't ask for unconditional love from anyone.
Don't expect from others what you can't do for yourself.
The driving force of the relationship is labor.
If you haven't done anything, don't expect anything. (October 13)
▶Let's live as good people for ourselves, not good people for others.
Let's practice loving myself today too.
(December 16)

How to Use the 365-Day Self-Confidence Calendar: "Talk to Me Like Handing Over Flowers"

①Every morning, right after I get to work, I read the message for the day.
② Try saying out loud any message that touches your heart.
③Write down the message you want to remember on paper.
④ Start your morning work energetically.
⑤I will create something good today with my own strength.