{"product_id":"133716","title":"The Grief of Young ADHD ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYCU4oyYo79NRSfI1tSQi0Am8toRz.png?v=1765127954\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e The Grief of Young ADHD \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/102414347\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctbody\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eLiving through pure white nights and dark days\u003cbr\u003e A warm greeting to them\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e  \u003cbr\u003eA mess full of mistakes, I hated it\u003cbr\u003e A record of reconciliation from the past\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The 8th Brunch Book Award winner, author Ji-eum Jeong's \"The Sorrow of Young ADHD\" has been published.\u003cbr\u003e \"The Sadness of Young ADHD\" begins with a day when the author was 25 years old and diagnosed with adult ADHD.\u003cbr\u003e Accustomed to a life full of mistakes, forgetting things and losing things, he is overcome with complex emotions after the diagnosis.\u003cbr\u003e The futility and pain of realizing that the traits I thought were my personality traits were just symptoms of a disease, and the regret and longing that if I had received ADHD treatment as a child, I would have had a normal school life like everyone else.\u003cbr\u003e Seeking solace, the author sought out stories of ADHD patients struggling with similar concerns, but was only confronted with the cold 'facts' of medical textbooks. So, he decided to hold onto his 'fleeting concentration' and write his own story. \u003cbr\u003e\"The Sorrow of Young ADHD\" is a record of reconciliation that warmly embraces one's messy past and present.\u003cbr\u003e It is also a hand of comfort to all those who are lonely and suffering because of their own shortcomings.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Prologue 9\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 1: Being Diagnosed with ADHD\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I get sick of things I hate 15\u003cbr\u003e ADHD Self-Diagnosis and 20 Excuses\u003cbr\u003e Psychiatry Was Not a Magic Shop 29\u003cbr\u003e ADHD, borderline intellectual disability, depression 34\u003cbr\u003e About ADHD 39\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 2: Living with Adult ADHD\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e So what if I have ADHD? ㅑ용 42\u003cbr\u003e 50 students spinning around in a daze\u003cbr\u003e Reflecting on my 1999th binge drinking, 55\u003cbr\u003e I chose active insomnia 61\u003cbr\u003e Reflections on the \"She'll be late for her own wedding\" assessment (Part 66)\u003cbr\u003e Imperfect and Sustainable Cleanup Operation 70\u003cbr\u003e ADHD's Money Sense 78\u003cbr\u003e Too Noisy Solitude 84\u003cbr\u003e How to Use Self-Abuse 90 \u003cbr\u003e95 Frequently Asked Questions for 6-Year-Old ADHD Patients\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 3: Going to the Hospital\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 104 for those considering ADHD treatment\u003cbr\u003e ADHD Medication: Effectiveness and Side Effects 109\u003cbr\u003e About ADHD and Depression 118\u003cbr\u003e Psychiatric Episodes 124\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 4: The World I Met\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I wish you were a rich kid 134\u003cbr\u003e I like being the second of three sisters 138\u003cbr\u003e The World of Parents, the Wall of School 144\u003cbr\u003e The Immature Love Theory of \"Goldsmith\" 151\u003cbr\u003e A Breakup Story That Sounds Like a Love Story 157\u003cbr\u003e When will our daughter get married? 161\u003cbr\u003e The Perfect Cat 166\u003cbr\u003e We are the bundle of troublemakers from hell 173\u003cbr\u003e Residents of Warur Mansion 180\u003cbr\u003e DEAR ADHD 185\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 5: Me, Writing, and Others\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 190 days until ADHD writes\u003cbr\u003e Purpose of Reading 196\u003cbr\u003e I regret driving you crazy 205\u003cbr\u003e Should I Call It ADHD? 211\u003cbr\u003e I believe in writing more than antidepressants. 216\u003cbr\u003e Perfect Kindness 221\u003cbr\u003e Secret Genius and Genius Hunter 225\u003cbr\u003e Living with ADHD: Designing Happiness 230\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Epilogue 240\u003cbr\u003e Recommendation 244\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003ch5\u003e\u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Every time I asked myself the question of defining myself, the answer I always got was, \"an imperfect monster.\"\u003cbr\u003e The existence of a country seemed so destructively incompetent that it could only become perfect by destroying itself.\u003cbr\u003e I thought I would continue to fail as written in the book, living a life of impulse and depression, playing with air.\u003cbr\u003e Even Steve Jobs and Edison had ADHD, but that wasn't much of a consolation.\u003cbr\u003e Unless I invent something comparable to the iPhone or the lightbulb, I'll never be able to feel happy about being on par with them.\u003cbr\u003e Whenever my hopes faded, I wanted to read the writings of people who couldn't love themselves.\u003cbr\u003e It would be even better if the author were a single Korean woman with ADHD who was taking her first steps toward narcissism.\u003cbr\u003e But it wasn't there yet.\u003cbr\u003e There was a popular optimism in the world that said, \"Whatever you are, you are precious and beautiful,\" but it wasn't the right reassurance for me. \u003cbr\u003eIt seems that people who cry alone for a long time become wary of the easy way to laugh.\u003cbr\u003e Actually, I wasn't okay, I had been on the run for years, just hanging on to life.\u003cbr\u003e I wondered if other ADHD patients had white nights and dark days like me.\u003cbr\u003e To be friendly and polite, I wrote my story first.\u003cbr\u003e If I could send out my insufficient writings as an invitation, my old sense of defeat would become the host of a fun party.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.10~11\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The world is a more interesting place when viewed from both sides.\u003cbr\u003e I used to hate myself for always forgetting things, and for forgetting things that were either really happy or really sad as if they never happened.\u003cbr\u003e But now I think that forgetting is a gift from God, and I think I have received a little more of it than others.\u003cbr\u003e 'A life light without holding anything' became 'a life lightened by forgetting' when we changed our perspective. \u003cbr\u003eI will continue to feel privately hopeless, but I will eventually be happy because they don't last.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.19\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e At that time, my hidden future hope was simply to be a 'person'.\u003cbr\u003e Not the \"crazy, bewildered, and spinning-around-the-world\" life of Shin-chan, but the refined state of adulthood, where you have the power to decide whether to live a good or bad life. A major reason I felt such a sense of defeat after being diagnosed with ADHD was the belated realization that this crazy mental illness had completely stolen my teenage years.\u003cbr\u003e Although the regret of 'I lived badly' was minimal, the regret of 'I could have lived better' was serious.\u003cbr\u003e It was past and present, real, yet an illusion.\u003cbr\u003e For a long time, I couldn't accept or deny my illness because I felt that countless mistakes that had made my life unsatisfactory were due to my ADHD. \u003cbr\u003eWhen I meet people who have a child or teen with ADHD, I often ask them to help them understand the condition.\u003cbr\u003e Once they realize themselves, they can use themselves as a turning point in their lives.\u003cbr\u003e Just as I, who grew up with a childlike mind and body, eventually overcame the chaos and moved on with life.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.53~54\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e One of my acquaintances became even more depressed because he had no idea that he could be depressed.\u003cbr\u003e Some people wonder why they are so careless and continue to be careless.\u003cbr\u003e I couldn't be sure with my level of knowledge whether they had depression or ADHD, but it was rare for someone to hold it in for a long time and then have an emergency.\u003cbr\u003e My only regret about my treatment process now is that I was too late.\u003cbr\u003e I also had a deeply ingrained misconception that only severely pathological people should go to a psychiatrist. \u003cbr\u003eBut, after all, a hospital is a place you go to not to become a patient, but to not be a patient.\u003cbr\u003e This is a place where I go to accept that I am a patient now so that I can have a better future someday.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.122~123\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And surprisingly, I… …loved picking gum off the stains in the hallway.\u003cbr\u003e Removing gum was a task I had to perform after I finished writing my reflection paper in the hallway of the teacher's office.\u003cbr\u003e All my friends and seniors who were being disciplined together hated it.\u003cbr\u003e The good teacher gave us rubber gloves, but otherwise we had to handle the sponges, gum knives, and pom-poms with our bare hands.\u003cbr\u003e It was dirty work.\u003cbr\u003e But when I saw the hallway, which had been so clean that it was holy by my touch, I felt as happy as a farmer who had succeeded in growing three crops.\u003cbr\u003e Why would I, a lazy and weak-skinned person, like that?\u003cbr\u003e Sadly, I guess… … chewing gum was the only task I could do in school that gave me a sense of accomplishment. \u003cbr\u003eWhile other kids were scraping together possibilities for their future careers, I was finding solace in collecting chewed gum.\u003cbr\u003e The disadvantages I've experienced are largely my fault, but when I think about this point, I can't help but feel sad.\u003cbr\u003e Sometimes, whenever I hear people say that ADHD doesn't exist and that medication and treatment are just psychiatric tricks, I think back to that moment when I squatted down and chewed gum.\u003cbr\u003e I regretted that if I, who couldn't live in a group without offending others and who used self-loathing as a shield in my teens, had taken prescriptions instead of gum, my life might have been a little different.\u003cbr\u003e If the pill I'm swallowing now had been given to me then, I might have run inside instead of out.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.148\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e My desire to be perfect from the beginning eventually banished me from countless perfections. \u003cbr\u003eI'm learning that when you tolerate sloppiness, you gain the ability to execute, and that you need a start to make progress.\u003cbr\u003e If you're reading this and struggling with ADHD or another issue, I suggest you consider changing your goals rather than your abilities or work process.\u003cbr\u003e It's much easier to be perfect in your shortcomings than to just be perfect.\u003cbr\u003e Mojaram is a pretty good friend.\u003cbr\u003e It may not make me a master, but it will make me an amateur who may or may not become a master.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.195\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e*8th Brunch Book Award Winner\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I believe in Jeong Ji-eum's words, \"A person lacking is a pretty good friend.\"\u003cbr\u003e ─Moon Bo-young (poet and writer)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Rather than giving up in despair over the disease,\u003cbr\u003e It's like they're trying to pickle cabbage by extracting the saltiness from their tears.\u003cbr\u003e Lee Joo-hyun (author of \"Pippi Crossed the Desert of Manic Depression\")\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Spending dark days and pure white nights\u003cbr\u003e To my ADHD colleagues\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eNot much is still known about adult ADHD.\u003cbr\u003e The first image that comes to mind when you hear the word 'ADHD' is probably a boy running around the classroom during class time.\u003cbr\u003e The image of an adult with ADHD daydreaming during meeting time, forgetting important meetings, and constantly succumbing to the urge to smoke or drink is not well-drawn.\u003cbr\u003e The symptoms of adult ADHD not only appear differently from those of childhood ADHD, but are also easily understood as individual characteristics, so even the person with the disorder is often unaware of it.\u003cbr\u003e The prevalence of adult ADHD is approximately 4%, and it is estimated that 820,000 people in Korea are suffering from the disease, but the actual treatment rate is only 1%.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\"The Sorrows of Youthful ADHD\" is a candid report on the daily struggles faced by adults with ADHD, and a practical guide for those with ADHD, detailing the process from diagnosis to treatment. The book's descriptions of ADHD symptoms, testing, and treatment were reviewed by the author's attending physician, an ADHD specialist.\u003cbr\u003e What tests will I need if I go to the hospital? What are the effects and side effects of ADHD medication? What should I do if I suspect I have ADHD but hesitate to go to the hospital? Jeong Ji-eum shares her experiences with clarity for those who spend their nights pondering these questions.\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, it presents honest and pleasant solutions to the big and small problems of everyday life.\u003cbr\u003e How to get yourself to clean when you can't even start because you're too caught up in other thoughts, how to protect your wallet from the urge to spend money, etc. \u003cbr\u003eFor ADHD patients who are prone to criticism from those around them, such as, \"Why on earth are you doing that?\" or \"Are you doing that on purpose?\", we also share tips on minimizing problems and maintaining self-esteem.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eA record of reconciliation with the self I hated,\u003cbr\u003e Affirmation of inherent shortcomings\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e On the one hand, there is the half-joking, half-serious self-mockery of, \"Could I have ADHD too?\"\u003cbr\u003e Modern people, who cannot concentrate on a single book, a single movie, or even a short video clip, complain of frequent mistakes and impossibilities in the workplace and in daily life, and the resulting sense of deprivation.\u003cbr\u003e The thought of secretly taking an ADHD self-diagnosis test may be mixed with anxiety and frustration about not being able to do anything properly.\u003cbr\u003e This is why we cannot help but sympathize with the author's story, which is far from perfect.\u003cbr\u003e \"The Sadness of Young ADHD\" is a story for everyone who feels resentful of their imperfections.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eJeong Ji-eum, who honestly confesses her own 'lack' and mocks herself sharply, is the most cheerful representative of lack.\u003cbr\u003e The life of an adult with ADHD he portrays is tearfully sad, yet cheerful without any room for sadness.\u003cbr\u003e Longing for the past self who was called a 'problem child' and could not dream of any future, regret and gratitude toward family and friends who must have suffered due to mistakes that even he could not understand, and positivity and anticipation for the new possibilities that come with being lacking.\u003cbr\u003e Jeong Ji-eum melts all these emotions into her own humor.\u003cbr\u003e \"The Sadness of Youthful ADHD\" is a courageous step forward in discovering uniqueness in flaws and seeking new possibilities. \u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePublication date:\u003c\/strong\u003e June 25, 2021\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 248 pages | 386g | 128*188*17mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9788937472114\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 8937472112 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43893911027754,"sku":"133716","price":21.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/08180f7714a2d3dae5bfca1e5db87f40.jpg?v=1765423771","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/133716","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}