{"product_id":"134309","title":"Selfish Communication: A Wise Speaking Lesson for Myself ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYC5RuVOOFFCmywQhVO9NpgWTwhNP.png?v=1765097028\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Selfish Communication: A Wise Speaking Lesson for Myself \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/133904911\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctbody\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“Happy communication using emotional intelligence (EQ)!”\u003cbr\u003e “True communication skills for those who are hurt!\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book is written by an expert in speaking and communication who has taught wise communication methods for over 25 years. The author goes beyond simple communication skills and suggests ways to prevent conflict in interpersonal relationships and create healthy ones through 'affectionate communication' based on emotional intelligence (EQ). \u003cbr\u003eMany people get hurt by someone close to them and wonder whether they should continue the relationship.\u003cbr\u003e Nevertheless, the reason why we constantly live in relationships with others is because, above all, humans are beings who cannot survive alone, and we consider it essential for our own survival.\u003cbr\u003e In other words, the decision to get along well with others is a ‘selfish choice’ for ‘myself’, not for others.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Accordingly, the author proposed a 'selfish communication method' based on the idea that the purpose of getting along well with others is a selfish choice for 'myself' and no one else.\u003cbr\u003e It also includes practical advice on how to boldly decide to break up with someone who is difficult to communicate with. \u003cbr\u003eIt also provides step-by-step instructions on how to heal your own wounded heart, how to express empathy to repair tangled relationships with others, how to regulate and appropriately express your emotions, and how to utilize nonverbal communication elements that are as important as verbal communication.\u003cbr\u003e I hope this book will help those who struggle with interpersonal relationships because they lack confidence in their relationships and find it difficult to trust others' sincerity even when they approach them sincerely; those who want to boost their self-esteem and live a happy life; and those who struggle in various relationships, whether with lovers, family, friends, or coworkers.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Introduction_To you who are still wondering whether to break up or continue, even at this very moment\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 1.\u003cbr\u003e Is your heart aching so much that you can't stand it?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [1] Do I have to live like this? \u003cbr\u003eThe wounds exchanged within the fence of family\u003cbr\u003e I want to throw it away right now\u003cbr\u003e If you can't break up, you have to survive.\u003cbr\u003e [2] Why I Can't Give Up on the Relationship\u003cbr\u003e The most precious thing\u003cbr\u003e Give me a storm of compliments\u003cbr\u003e If you have high self-esteem, you won't be discouraged in any situation.\u003cbr\u003e ［3］ We cry because of people, but we live thanks to people.\u003cbr\u003e Understanding the Frontal Lobe, the Brain of Communication\u003cbr\u003e Flexibility to be selfish yet considerate of others\u003cbr\u003e We are happy when we are together\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 2.\u003cbr\u003e Looking into My Wounded Heart: How to Recover My Whole Self\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [1] To avoid being dominated by the ‘reptilian brain’\u003cbr\u003e Can snakes understand human speech?\u003cbr\u003e I bleed from the words I spit out\u003cbr\u003e ［2］ If you act according to your emotions, you will be a loser.\u003cbr\u003e What are my feelings right now?\u003cbr\u003e Tips for avoiding being swayed by unpleasant emotions\u003cbr\u003e In this case, it is better to use ARS\u003cbr\u003e ［3］ Moments of Communication: Reflecting on Your Goals \u003cbr\u003eThat's not what I really meant!\u003cbr\u003e Why You Can Resist the Temptation of Sweet Marshmallows\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 3.\u003cbr\u003e Stepping into the Other Person's Heart: Empathy Know-How to Unravel the Tangle of Relationships\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e [1] Selfish choice for myself, empathy\u003cbr\u003e A person who is always pretty no matter what they do\u003cbr\u003e Pretend to be considerate of others while being considerate of yourself\u003cbr\u003e Empathy, a step practiced to match the breathing of the dance\u003cbr\u003e [2] What the wounded need is not a 'teacher'\u003cbr\u003e I'm not asking because I don't know the answer\u003cbr\u003e Who would like a steamed bun without red bean paste?\u003cbr\u003e ［3］ Specifically, the more sincerity you put into it, the more your heart opens.\u003cbr\u003e As accurately as measured by a scale\u003cbr\u003e Draw a picture to empathize\u003cbr\u003e Following key words increases empathy.\u003cbr\u003e ［4］ Clever language expressions that neutralize negative emotions\u003cbr\u003e A pleasant splash of cold water on boiling emotions\u003cbr\u003e Respect and consideration that must be firmly pressed into the title  \u003cbr\u003eTwo Tips for Expressing Difficult Feelings Through Text\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 4.\u003cbr\u003e Softly, warmly, clearly\u003cbr\u003e _The art of selfish communication that embraces the heart and restores relationships\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ［1］ Emotional Control for Selfish Communication ①: Recognizing the Situation\u003cbr\u003e The Secret of Penguin Legs\u003cbr\u003e If you can see it clearly as it is\u003cbr\u003e ［2］ Emotional Control for Selfish Communication ②: Guessing the Situation\u003cbr\u003e Protecting My Heart with 'Familiar Pictures'\u003cbr\u003e ［3］ Emotional Control for Selfish Communication ③: Interpreting the Situation\u003cbr\u003e I can't change the world, but I can change my heart.\u003cbr\u003e ［4］ Things to consider before complaining about injustice\u003cbr\u003e If you have not fulfilled your responsibilities and duties\u003cbr\u003e [5] How to deal with questions about the other person's request\u003cbr\u003e Agree but ask why\u003cbr\u003e A reasonable alternative is better than a pumpkin rejection.\u003cbr\u003e [6] Affectionate conversation techniques that change a blunt personality into a kind one\u003cbr\u003e I know what you mean, but I feel bad.  \u003cbr\u003eA collaboration of titles and voices to equip affection\u003cbr\u003e A full-fledged ending for equipping affection\u003cbr\u003e ［7］ The leader's language habits of correcting mistakes while protecting feelings\u003cbr\u003e This is what leaders who develop their employees say:\u003cbr\u003e The power of the comma to improve concentration\u003cbr\u003e Even flower songs must be sung well to be pleasant to listen to\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 5.\u003cbr\u003e Nonverbal communication elements that are as important as verbal communication_so that you can understand without having to say anything\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ［1］ Everything the other person sees and hears is communication.\u003cbr\u003e Don't mind it, it's just between us.\u003cbr\u003e With the intention of having a conversation from head to toe\u003cbr\u003e The tail can wag the body, all the time!\u003cbr\u003e ［2］ Nonverbal Elements ①: Environment \u0026amp; Timing_The Optimal Moment for Communication\u003cbr\u003e Are you ready to listen?\u003cbr\u003e Avoiding the time and space that makes everyone sensitive\u003cbr\u003e ［3］ Nonverbal elements ②: Gestures_Friendly and serious\u003cbr\u003e The surprising effects of friendly skin contact\u003cbr\u003e It was only 10 centimeters  \u003cbr\u003e［4］ Nonverbal Element ③: Facial Expressions - People who make you feel good the more you look at them\u003cbr\u003e Saying with your face, 'I'm on your side'\u003cbr\u003e A smiling face drives away negative emotions.\u003cbr\u003e ［5］ Nonverbal Element ④: Eye Contact - Filled with Sincerity\u003cbr\u003e The reason why you can feel it with your whole body without saying anything\u003cbr\u003e When we meet eyes, my heart softens\u003cbr\u003e There are certain eyes that can appear aggressive?!\u003cbr\u003e ［6］ Nonverbal Element ⑤: Exclamations_Conveying emotions like fireworks\u003cbr\u003e A single word that is independent and free\u003cbr\u003e Start by admiring! Before analyzing and evaluating.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Unfinished Story_To those who want to continue a happy relationship even if it is awkward and clumsy\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate4866\/MidCate010\/486591644.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eTrue communication is possible only when you are emotional or not emotional!\u003cbr\u003e Prevent conflict with signals of affection, respect, consideration, and empathy!\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThis book contains the story of the author, who teaches communication, sharing the solutions to communication he found while listening to many stories while giving lectures with many people who are still contemplating whether to break up or continue their relationship.\u003cbr\u003e Many people get hurt by someone close to them and wonder whether they should continue the relationship.\u003cbr\u003e Even if you really want to break up, it's hard to decide to break up for various reasons, such as because you're blood relatives, because of your children, because it's hard to make a living, etc.\u003cbr\u003e Moreover, emotional wounds suffered during childhood affect interpersonal relationships as adults.\u003cbr\u003e I lack confidence when dealing with people, and even when someone approaches me with sincerity, I have a hard time trusting their feelings.\u003cbr\u003e When things don't go well, it feels like it's all my fault.\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003eThe author believes that the biggest reason why we suffer in relationships but cannot choose to break up is because humans are beings who cannot live alone.\u003cbr\u003e As can be seen from the proposition that \"humans are social animals,\" living with others is human nature, and living with others is, above all, an essential condition for \"my own survival.\"\u003cbr\u003e In other words, unless you are confident that you will live alone until you die, you should find a way to get along with someone, and the decision to get along with others is a 'selfish choice' for 'yourself', not for others.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book goes beyond simple communication skills and offers innovative ways to prevent conflict in interpersonal relationships and understand the true essence of communication through emotional intelligence (EQ). \u003cbr\u003eIt clearly explains how selfish communication can evolve into altruistic behavior based on emotional intelligence, and emphasizes that 'affection,' 'emotional regulation,' and 'self-awareness' are key factors in determining the success of relationships.\u003cbr\u003e It also includes practical advice on how to make the bold decision to break up, especially when you feel there is no need to stay in a relationship with someone with whom you have difficulty communicating.\u003cbr\u003e It also clearly explains how to specifically use the skills of respect, empathy, and understanding with your communication partners.\u003cbr\u003e Anyone who wants to improve their relationships—whether it's resolving issues in family, romantic relationships, or friendships, boosting self-esteem and living a happier life, or demonstrating effective leadership—will benefit from this book, taking their communication skills to the next level. \u003cbr\u003eI hope that through this book, you will gain a new understanding of communication and learn how to make human relationships more meaningful. \u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - 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