{"product_id":"134379","title":"Raising a child who is slow to develop and has a busy mind ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYC5RuTUye3Q7HqfY50jBPiOIC2Yf.png?v=1765030877\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Raising a child who is slow to develop and has a busy mind \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/146036348\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eAutism spectrum disorder, ADHD, and borderline intelligence\u003cbr\u003e Raising a child who is a little special\u003cbr\u003e An Ordinary Mom's Struggles and Growing Up Diary\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eA parenting essay by an elementary school teacher and mother of three sons, calmly sharing the episodes and emotions she experienced while raising her second child, who has autism spectrum disorder, ADHD, and borderline intelligence.\u003cbr\u003e Author Jeong So-yeon, who seemed to be living a sparkling and happy life forever, said that after learning that her child was on the autism spectrum, “it felt like the toad house of my life suddenly collapsed.”\u003cbr\u003e Although we face sudden despair and are sometimes crushed by a sense of victimization, we gradually come to accept our child's characteristics and even reach the point of hoping that our child, too, will have a role to play in this society.\u003cbr\u003e The author's colorful emotions, alternating between frustration and hope, and the entire journey of enduring each day are fully captured in \"Raising a Child Who is Slow to Develop and Busy at Heart.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The thought occurred to me, 'Let's give it a try.' \u003cbr\u003eLet's face it head-on, without denying the new identity that suddenly emerged: 'mother of an autistic child.'\u003cbr\u003e Let's try to get through this without mortgaging our lives to sadness or despair.\u003cbr\u003e Let's accept the new variables presented to our lives with dignity, rather than premeditating them as a tragedy.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e - “It’s not a tragedy, it’s a new variable!”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Although this may be a distant story for those living in this irregular and busy world, it resonates deeply with us because it honestly expresses even negative emotions without hiding them.\u003cbr\u003e That is why it will provide empathy and comfort to parents raising children with disabilities, and to those who have not had the same experience, it will provide 'understanding of an unknown world' and inspiration.\u003cbr\u003e As you read this book, you will find yourself rooting for Daon, a child with a slow development and a busy mind, and the author, her mother.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e  \u003cli\u003eYou can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Prologue _ A Child Living in Two Worlds\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 1.\u003cbr\u003e A child living in two worlds\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A child who was a little different and had a particularly difficult time\u003cbr\u003e It's not a tragedy, it's a new variable!\u003cbr\u003e Finding Daon's therapist\u003cbr\u003e Autism spectrum disorder + borderline intelligence + ADHD = a trifecta of despair?\u003cbr\u003e be diagnosed with a severe disability\u003cbr\u003e Actually, I was mistaken in thinking that he might be a genius.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 2.\u003cbr\u003e How to live with a child on the autism spectrum\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Between Peace of Mind and Pain, the World of Routine\u003cbr\u003e Do you know delayed echo?\u003cbr\u003e Whose house is the brick house?\u003cbr\u003e Open your eyes to the outside world\u003cbr\u003e Look up, the sunset is rainbow-colored\u003cbr\u003e What do you want to do for a living when you grow up?\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 3.\u003cbr\u003e Mom, this is your first time in the world too.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Practicing living with a victim mentality\u003cbr\u003e Psychiatric medication is like whack-a-mole\u003cbr\u003e Raising a non-disabled child with a disabled sibling\u003cbr\u003e Living as a tree with many branches \u003cbr\u003eMy child is also disabled, but I don't want him to hang out with other disabled children.\u003cbr\u003e The lie that you love them just the way they are\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 4.\u003cbr\u003e A new world a child encounters\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e To be honest, can you accept my child?\u003cbr\u003e A miracle named Teacher\u003cbr\u003e The blessing of being called a friend\u003cbr\u003e My child is a relay runner?\u003cbr\u003e Sports Day for Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders\u003cbr\u003e Because moms are human and teachers are human too\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 5.\u003cbr\u003e To you, the precious ones who have been by our side\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e As we live, there are more difficult days than good days.\u003cbr\u003e Such foolish sincerity\u003cbr\u003e Why Grief Isn't Pain\u003cbr\u003e I was able to live as a mother because I had a mother.\u003cbr\u003e When you come home wearing those shoes\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Epilogue _ What will I live for?\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate5313\/MidCate004\/531239759.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e He was right.\u003cbr\u003e Whether or not he was diagnosed with autism, nothing changed for Daon. \u003cbr\u003eHaving a child on the autism spectrum wasn't a death sentence or a terminal diagnosis.\u003cbr\u003e A new chapter called \"rehabilitation\" has been added to the realm of parenting, and new challenges have been thrown into our lives, but the essence remains unchanged.\u003cbr\u003e What's the point? Daon is our son, and we have a responsibility to him.\u003cbr\u003e We love our children no matter what they look like.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- pp.26-27\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Some parts of Daon's ability are sharp like the tip of a star, and some parts are sunken like the area between the two tips of a star.\u003cbr\u003e What I'm going to do is not to carve off the tops to make smaller circles, but to fill in the hollows to make bigger circles.\u003cbr\u003e Not to make Daon 'normal', but to enable Daon to live with others without losing his true self.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eAlthough Daon's 'corner of the star' keeps him in his own world now, it may one day play a role in opening up a path for him in life.\u003cbr\u003e I hope to become a star that draws a beautiful orbit with its own light along that path.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.59\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It finally occurred to me.\u003cbr\u003e My child sometimes lives in a different world from me, but he is constantly trying to find commonalities between his world and his mother's world.\u003cbr\u003e We will find more and more common ground.\u003cbr\u003e We are not each running on our own parallel curves.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e One drawing is enough.\u003cbr\u003e Yes, just a 1 degree incline is enough.\u003cbr\u003e So, no matter how late it is, no matter how long it takes, our world is getting closer.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.95\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Let me say I'm sorry for not being considerate of you.\u003cbr\u003e After rolling and polishing the words with the tip of his tongue, he squatted down and brought his shoulders together with the child's. \u003cbr\u003eIn that moment, Dajun's tear-filled eyes and Daon's unfocused, clear eyes met at the same time.\u003cbr\u003e My suppressed emotions burst out like a shaken, popped cola.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Dajun, Daon… doesn’t have any friends outside of our family.\u003cbr\u003e If you say you don't want to play with Daon too... Daon has no one to play with.\u003cbr\u003e “For Daon… For Daon, there is no one else but us.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I was going to say, 'Okay,' and that I'll only take you with me when I meet your friends from now on... but strangely, something completely different came out of my mouth.\u003cbr\u003e Bad mom.\u003cbr\u003e I am a bad mother.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- pp.126-127\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e You did it.\u003cbr\u003e You practiced so hard... and you finally did it.\u003cbr\u003e How nervous he must have been.\u003cbr\u003e How anxious must he have been?\u003cbr\u003e It must have been hard to resist the urge.\u003cbr\u003e But you overcame all that and did it. \u003cbr\u003eAs soon as Daon finished his turn, he stood on tiptoe and looked around for his mother.\u003cbr\u003e Daon, who met my eyes, ran to his mother with a happy and proud expression, as if he had scored the winning goal.\u003cbr\u003e The child's bright smile, the blue vest he was wearing, his arms outstretched toward me, his booming \"Wow!\" shout, the sight of him running toward me with confidence in his own success seemed to be in slow motion.\u003cbr\u003e He held Daon in his arms and poured out countless words of love.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.197\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I thought.\u003cbr\u003e The reason my sorrow is not pain and my misfortune is not misfortune is because of you.\u003cbr\u003e We live a life that is too sad to be called frugal, but too sorry to be called poor.\u003cbr\u003e Every day is like laundry that has been thrown into a washing machine, wrinkled and then ripped out again.\u003cbr\u003e My share of labor never seems to lessen. \u003cbr\u003eA life where I keep forgetting who I am, what I like, and what makes me happy.\u003cbr\u003e Daily life with a slow child is a cycle of bending like a reed, crumpling like a newspaper, and crumbling like a fallen leaf.\u003cbr\u003e Still, I can find happiness in it.\u003cbr\u003e Because there is someone next to you who says, 'The gift I want to receive is your health.'\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.233\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eParenting a child with autism: Aiming for the best, not the average.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e Autism spectrum disorders are already well known through numerous media contents such as movies and dramas.\u003cbr\u003e Stereotyped behavior (repeated actions with unclear meaning), restricted and repetitive interests, and self-imposed rules and routines.\u003cbr\u003e Because of these characteristics, people with autism are often described as being 'locked in their own world.'\u003cbr\u003e However, the world of Daon that the author experienced was not as frustrating as he thought. \u003cbr\u003eThe child lived in a world that was orderly, colorful, safe, and full of interesting things.\u003cbr\u003e In the process, the child realizes that he or she is also trying to live in the same world as his or her mother.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e My child is not trapped in his own world, but lives in two worlds.\u003cbr\u003e So that's why I'm having a hard time in my world.\u003cbr\u003e So, there is a lot to learn.\u003cbr\u003e - From the 'Prologue'\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e And the author decides to think of the characteristics of the autism spectrum that Daon shows as Daon's unique identity, rather than as 'characteristics of a child with autism.'\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, I pledge to follow the development of my peers and aim to be the 'best' that Daon can be, rather than being 'average'.\u003cbr\u003e That's because only then can you run a race without a finish line to the end.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eWhy sadness is not pain, and misfortune is not misfortune\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe reason why I can ride to the child's treatment center every day, live a life of financial constraints, and experience emotional ups and downs without feeling any pain or unhappiness is because there are people who help Daon and the author.\u003cbr\u003e In every moment of crisis, it was her husband who raised her up by advocating the saying, “A person should do what he has to do, and the rest is up to Heaven.”\u003cbr\u003e Sometimes, there were mothers who did not offer any advice or criticism to authors who resented their children, but instead told them to “go and get some sleep.”\u003cbr\u003e Even the author, an elementary school teacher, is impressed by the love and sense of mission of Daon's daycare teacher.\u003cbr\u003e The therapist, my first child, my third child, my friends, my neighbors, and sometimes even Noel and Ant helped me.\u003cbr\u003e Because there were good people around him, the author also decided to try to live as a 'good person'. \u003cbr\u003eBecause I realized that rather than hoping for happiness without a guarantee, that is the way to get closer to happiness.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It's like blowing dandelion seeds, spreading small acts of kindness everywhere in the world.\u003cbr\u003e I hope that one of the countless flower seeds will travel around the world and land in my child's heart again.\u003cbr\u003e - 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