{"product_id":"134539","title":"A person who is good to me rather than a person who is good to others ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQtU4fhq56RIqywp02DeEx.png?v=1764950667\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e A person who is good to me rather than a person who is good to others \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/123666231\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“It’s okay to let go of an uncomfortable relationship.”\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA message of support for you who are hurting alone while being cautious of others.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Although relationships may seem to depend on how I behave, they cannot be resolved through my own efforts.\u003cbr\u003e In the end, we end up acting according to other people's standards, and our hearts are swayed here and there.\u003cbr\u003e Even though I know that I have to end the relationship, I can't make the decision easily.\u003cbr\u003e In this book, author Wonhee Jo consoles us with the sighs and worries entangled in relationships, and makes us realize that the most important thing to protect in life is ourselves.\u003cbr\u003e This book gives you the courage to end an uncomfortable relationship.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In particular, it is noteworthy that this is a new book from Film, a so-called \"essay hotspot\" that has produced various essay bestsellers, including \"You Are the One Who Can Do Anything,\" which has sold over 200,000 copies. \u003cbr\u003eIf you are curious about why Film, which has had a string of bestsellers this year, including “When the Time Comes, Flowers Will Bloom in Your Garden,” “Kim’s Fruit,” “Emotions Fade Away, Results Remain,” and “To Me Who Will Grow From Today,” has chosen “A Person Who Is Better to Me Than a Person Who Is Better to Others” as the essay to wrap up 2023, then I urge you to open the book right now.\u003cbr\u003e Expectations are rising for the meeting between film, which has always been loved by readers for its surprising records, and rising essayist Wonhee Cho.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Part 1 Spring\u003cbr\u003e Time to look at things anew\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Part 2 Summer\u003cbr\u003e Time to have courage\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Part 3 Fall\u003cbr\u003e Time to discover you\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Part 4 Winter\u003cbr\u003e Time to put it down for a moment\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Part 5 Spring Again\u003cbr\u003e Time to say enough\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Interview\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate4354\/MidCate004\/435337924.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003cdiv\u003eHave you ever thought deeply about what it means to be happy?\u003cbr\u003e If someone were to ask me what true happiness is, I would say that happiness is not born only from laughing and having fun.\u003cbr\u003e When I can be honest with the feelings I have right now without going against them.\u003cbr\u003e Only when I finally had enough time to fully focus on myself as a person.\u003cbr\u003e I think that when that time comes, I will be able to be happy.\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Part 1 Spring, a Time to See It Newly\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I love the word 'nevertheless'.\u003cbr\u003e Life doesn't always go as planned, but there are many times when I feel left alone in the vast world, and days when I can barely take care of myself. But I'm still a little proud of myself for holding on.\u003cbr\u003e Sometimes I feel proud of myself for constantly working hard, thinking that tomorrow will be better. \u003cbr\u003eI keep thinking that things will get better soon.\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Part 2 Summer, Time to Be Courageous\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If you're crying, I want to be the person who hugs you without saying anything.\u003cbr\u003e Rather than telling you to live without getting hurt, I want to tell you that your value doesn't change even if others hurt you.\u003cbr\u003e Rather than forcing you to do something like this without any plan or pretending to know, I want to ask you more affectionately than anyone else, “This is what I think, what do you think?”\u003cbr\u003e Rather than giving you a hundred words that anyone can hear, I want to give you just one sentence that suits you well.\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Part 3 Autumn, the Time to Discover You\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I wish I could live a life where I could stop more often.\u003cbr\u003e I hope my life will be one of deep reflection, action, and study to make good choices that are right for me.\u003cbr\u003e To live each day without wasting it and to protect the things I love. \u003cbr\u003eEven though it's hard, I think that everything is for my own good.\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Part 4 Winter, a Time to Put It Down for a Moment\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If you're having a hard time holding on right now and things are constantly frustrating you, think of it as proof that you're living well.\u003cbr\u003e Just because it's not hard doesn't mean you're not trying hard enough.\u003cbr\u003e Being shaken by something means that we are living and working hard.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e ---From \"Part 5 Again, Spring, Time to Say Enough\"\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“I will become a person who seeks the standard for correct answers from ‘myself’ rather than ‘others’!”\u003cbr\u003e A book that gives you the courage to end an uncomfortable relationship.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book began when the author was tired of relationships and feeling listless about life. \u003cbr\u003eWhen I entered college, I suddenly found it difficult to cope with the expanded network of people I had become close with. I thought I had become close to some people, but it turned out that I had only considered them close to me. As I began to believe that the cause of the problem was my own timidity, my helplessness grew uncontrollably.\u003cbr\u003e He had a hard time accepting why he had to change his personality to fit other people's perspectives, so whenever his thoughts became complicated, he wrote down and found answers in it.\u003cbr\u003e We have come to the conclusion that the anxiety and pain that arise in relationships can vary depending on where we set our standards.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The more I think about why that person said that to me and why he acted that way, the more I feel like I'm living someone else's life instead of my own.\u003cbr\u003e If you care about others, you will become unhappy.\u003cbr\u003e Conversely, if you take interest in me, I become happy.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e _P.\u003cbr\u003e 83 From “Simple Facts”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003ePeople endure life with wounds in their relationships.\u003cbr\u003e The author speaks decisively about the troubles of relationships that sometimes require patience and sometimes tears.\u003cbr\u003e It's okay if you don't get along with everyone, and if you're interested in others, you'll be unhappy.\u003cbr\u003e So, I emphasize that even if unexpected problems or misunderstandings arise in a relationship, it is necessary to look back at yourself rather than others.\u003cbr\u003e If you want to break free from a shaky relationship and re-establish a happy one, this is a must-read.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Even when I make mistakes, I want to be someone who gives myself the kindness of “That can happen,” and even when I seem to be moving slower than others, I want to be someone who gives myself the warmth of “That person is that person, and you are you.”\u003cbr\u003e Rather than living a life that is proud of the approval of others, I hope to live a life that deepens with my own approval and support.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e _P.19 From “True Self-Esteem”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eIn this book, the author precisely explains why we should focus on ourselves rather than others in life and how to find our priorities in life.\u003cbr\u003e When someone tells you that you shouldn't live like that, I declare that I will go my own way and tell you to go yours too.\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, it conveys that happiness is not affirmation but recognition, unhappiness is not poverty but giving up, and regret is not the pain of failure but the glory of challenge.\u003cbr\u003e The book is filled with a new perspective on life and a warm voice of encouragement. \u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePublication date:\u003c\/strong\u003e November 22, 2023\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 244 pages | 304g | 120*188*20mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9791193262061\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 1193262062 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43893952708650,"sku":"134539","price":24.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/45b291fc0077c3e46de56e79436af2b7.jpg?v=1765426107","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/134539","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}