{"product_id":"134715","title":"Let's go to a better place ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYC5RtNQ2hBuoSVHfU9ENCjrnkysN.png?v=1765041846\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Let's go to a better place \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctbody\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdl\u003e\n\u003cdt\u003e A word from MD\u003c\/dt\u003e\n\u003cdd\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e How to Smile and Deal with Rude People, a new book by Jeong Moon-jeong\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e A new essay by Jeong Moon-jeong, author of “How to Deal with Rude People with a Smile.”\u003cbr\u003e If the previous work taught us how to build relationships without getting hurt, now it tells us not to stay there and to move on to something better. \u003cbr\u003eIt contains a manual for advancing nicely by adding tricks to your abilities with a mature attitude and emotions.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cspan\u003eMarch 19, 2021.\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan\u003eEssay PD Kim Tae-hee\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/dd\u003e\n\u003c\/dl\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“Just because you were an unhappy child doesn’t mean you have to be an unhappy adult.\u003cbr\u003e If you survive anyway, after you become an adult\u003cbr\u003e “You have to practice rewriting your life story for the better.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Recommended by announcer Lim Hyun-joo and Kim So-yeon, CEO of [Newnic]!\u003cbr\u003e Without getting tired or giving up\u003cbr\u003e A practical manual for moving forward\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"Let's Go to a Better Place\" is a new collection of essays by Jeong Moon-jeong, author of the 500,000-copy bestseller \"How to Deal with Rude People with a Smile.\" \u003cbr\u003eWhile the previous work focused on teaching people how to maintain a safe distance in relationships without getting hurt, this new work contains work and life tips for those who cannot even dream of a better life because they do not have access to even the basic manuals necessary for growth.\u003cbr\u003e The author honestly shares his experience of 'habitually choosing unhappiness' and extends a hand to break the cycle of self-pity and move together 'to a better place'.\u003cbr\u003e So, let's become people who leave behind resentment and sadness and take a brave step toward where we want to go.\u003cbr\u003e In a society where \"fairness\" has become a sensitive issue across generations, when we feel that the circumstances we have been given are insignificant, we easily blame the world or our own background. \u003cbr\u003eThis book contains a vivid, practical manual for moving forward confidently and proudly without getting tired or giving up.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e My previous work, \"How to Smile and Deal with Rude People,\" which was loved by many readers, was a book that taught timid newcomers to learn how to express themselves appropriately and to first establish a safe distance.\u003cbr\u003e So, what should you do after establishing a distance that minimizes harm? This book discusses steps you can take immediately afterward.\u003cbr\u003e We can't be the youngest forever, so we can't just stand there and protect what we have, but we have to carefully expand our territory.\u003cbr\u003e As we grow older, we become more vulnerable to the hurt we've been through, and as we learn more, we become more fearful, often leaving us helpless in the face of new endeavors.\u003cbr\u003e We've compiled a manual on adult attitudes and emotional management that you can refer to in such times.\u003cbr\u003e _From 'Prologue'\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e  \u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003eYou can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Prologue: Tips for Living a Better Life\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 1: Things You Hate Without Reason Leave a Wound\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e My own talisman that I want to believe is real\u003cbr\u003e How difficult it is to be generous when you are poor\u003cbr\u003e What if my parents are rude?\u003cbr\u003e Maybe you don't like it because you don't know\u003cbr\u003e The unrealistic reality needed to endure reality\u003cbr\u003e To you who did not inherit the cultural heritage\u003cbr\u003e The moment when you become evil without malice\u003cbr\u003e There is a wound in something that is hated without reason.\u003cbr\u003e Enduring the ambiguous me\u003cbr\u003e How to Live a Second Life\u003cbr\u003e To avoid being fooled by fake adults\u003cbr\u003e It wasn't abandoned, it was found\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 2: Hold the speed and balance like an egg\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Can you survive without being a company employee?\u003cbr\u003e Setting a daily mood threshold\u003cbr\u003e I'm not the only one who does this.\u003cbr\u003e There is no second chance in the company. \u003cbr\u003eThings you see when you accidentally become a team leader\u003cbr\u003e That person will never be above you\u003cbr\u003e Between 'We don't deserve to be tired' and 'What does this mean?'\u003cbr\u003e How to Handle Envy and Jealousy in a Mature Way\u003cbr\u003e A tender and lonely encounter\u003cbr\u003e I'll listen to everything, but I'll make the decision.\u003cbr\u003e If you tell me to be grateful, I won't be grateful\u003cbr\u003e You shouldn't raise a child\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 3: Let's Go to a Better Place\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Don't just live for today, you have to live for tomorrow and next year too.\u003cbr\u003e Talking about money without crying\u003cbr\u003e You have to buy time with money\u003cbr\u003e Practice distinguishing between good and bad\u003cbr\u003e A misfortune that fits the body perfectly\u003cbr\u003e Unfair adult relationships\u003cbr\u003e A person whose strengths outweigh his weaknesses\u003cbr\u003e Let's go to a better place\u003cbr\u003e Can an ordinary person create extraordinary content?\u003cbr\u003e Just as I have wounds, you too must have wounds in places you can't see.\u003cbr\u003e The darkness of the past is left behind in base camp\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003cdiv\u003eBecoming an adult is about developing your own perspective and making choices that fit that perspective, but this race is so brutal that even if you start out excited, you'll soon find yourself lost in the crowd and trying to find a comfortable path.\u003cbr\u003e If you don't want to forget your destination even if you're wandering around, you should keep the kind words you heard at least once, the words you want to believe to be true, in a conspicuous place.\u003cbr\u003e For people who have a lot of talismans filled with positive words, it is much easier to believe in their own choices.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.18~19\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e As we accumulate experience in judging based on our own feelings rather than vague guesses, we come to know ourselves better and learn how to deal with people better.\u003cbr\u003e Don't assume you like or dislike something without actually experiencing it, distinguish between opinion and prejudice, and don't judge others' experiences unless they are evil, but rather be curious. \u003cbr\u003eThrough these efforts, I want to properly like and clearly dislike.\u003cbr\u003e To deepen, broaden, and admire often.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.37~38\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e We live in a world where parents' information, connections, and manners are passed down, but I hope you don't just cry about not having them.\u003cbr\u003e There's no need to be overwhelmed, but don't try to ignore it either, thinking it's not important.\u003cbr\u003e If you repeatedly treat things that are not given to you as if you don't need them, a cynical attitude will become your overall attitude toward life.\u003cbr\u003e Just find it calmly and bring it near me.\u003cbr\u003e If there is no one around you who is like a book, then at least through a book.\u003cbr\u003e I still believe that even if it takes more time, I can broaden my horizons and add them to my emotional library.\u003cbr\u003e I want to believe that.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.50\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTalent isn't just for the gifted. It may also be found in the consistency to not give up on something you love, even if it means earning money by doing something you have to do, if you feel like you can't make money doing it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.69\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I learned that professionals don't show their feelings and don't bring them into their work and let it negatively affect them.\u003cbr\u003e Isn't there a book called \"Don't Let Your Mood Be Your Attitude\"?\u003cbr\u003e When I went to work, I tried to work in a good mood.\u003cbr\u003e But this was too difficult for me, a worldly person.\u003cbr\u003e It is nearly impossible to maintain peace of mind and be a considerate person while working for money.\u003cbr\u003e Incidents were happening here and there, but I couldn't keep my mind at peace.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.104\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Whether I had no money or just started to have money, I was hesitant.\u003cbr\u003e If you want it but hate it, you can't help but be in conflict.\u003cbr\u003e The desire to earn a lot of money, but not to be tied down by it. \u003cbr\u003eThe desire to envy the rich while dismissing them as nothing special.\u003cbr\u003e The mind that thinks money is important, but knows that it isn't everything.\u003cbr\u003e And yet, I have a suspicion that maybe that's not all, but maybe a significant portion.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.194\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Self-esteem is not a jewel that has been polished to a high purity, free from impurities such as inferiority complex, sense of entitlement, and victim mentality. Rather, it is more like bread that has been baked after a long time by fermenting the nature of a person.\u003cbr\u003e Because truly high self-esteem isn't about being ignorant of pain, it's about being victorious, having risen above what's been given and declaring that you won't dwell on those scars any longer.\u003cbr\u003e Because we are explorers who have decided to leave the darkness of the past behind at base camp and boldly walk towards the scenery where good things await us higher up.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.253\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“You work hard, but you have no talent.”\u003cbr\u003e I can't change the conditions given to me, but\u003c\/b\u003e  \u003cbr\u003eI can only choose my attitude toward that condition.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e There are some tips I wish I had known in advance.\u003cbr\u003e These are very simple tips, but if you know them, you won't have to go far.\u003cbr\u003e A small gesture that can ease difficult human relationships.\u003cbr\u003e But not everyone knows the tricks.\u003cbr\u003e Some people inherit cultural capital naturally, while others take a step forward without even knowing it.\u003cbr\u003e If you have many people around you who can share their experiences, a virtuous cycle of achieving new things based on the perspectives they've gained can be created. If not, you're likely to feel fear before taking on a challenge.\u003cbr\u003e There are complex reasons for the unfair starting line.\u003cbr\u003e The author persistently delves into the poverty and discrimination he experienced as a child, describing that time as one dominated by an “ambiguous unhappiness.” \u003cbr\u003eLiving expenses were tight, not enough to starve, but enough to pay for department retreats. I wanted to write and become a journalist, but I was surrounded by words that encouraged me to give up, disguised as realistic advice, like, “It’s hard to become a journalist if you don’t graduate from a university in Seoul,” and “The best women can be are just teachers or civil servants.”\u003cbr\u003e In an environment where spending is prioritized over investing in experiences that enrich our minds, the saying, \"With that money, I could rather do ○○\" becomes the standard for all spending.\u003cbr\u003e If you keep having to choose between equally good options, life itself becomes stagnant and you become resigned to the idea that no matter how hard you try, there is no room for improvement.\u003cbr\u003e Actually, many people do. \u003cbr\u003eHowever, the author says that although I cannot change the conditions given to me, I can choose my attitude toward those conditions.\u003cbr\u003e Along with the 'tough' life tips you need at that time.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e As I grew older, I realized that some people had easily acquired information that I either didn't know or struggled to find out.\u003cbr\u003e We were living in completely different worlds.\u003cbr\u003e The difference comes from the network of connections between people called social (relationship) capital.\u003cbr\u003e The size of your dreams can often be determined by whether you have people around you to ask for advice when you have questions and whether you can easily find role models.\u003cbr\u003e When you have abundant related capital, you gain more experience, gain insight, and take on new challenges, creating a virtuous cycle.\u003cbr\u003e Once you start making money, you need to invest in yourself to move to a better place. \u003cbr\u003eIt's about reducing the information gap by learning about the field you want and interacting with people who are already working in related fields.\u003cbr\u003e Pages 74-75\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eDon't be afraid to talk about money\u003cbr\u003e Let's talk about what we deserve\u003cbr\u003e Let's find something that we really like, not something that's just okay.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Writer Jeong Moon-jeong, who has worked for a long time at 『University Tomorrow』, a magazine that covers trends among people in their twenties, has been writing for a long time about 'money' and 'building relationships', which are the main concerns of young people.\u003cbr\u003e It was a concern for young readers, but it was also his main interest.\u003cbr\u003e Why don't people offer something without revealing the exact price they'll pay? Why is it so difficult to talk openly about money? Why do I always feel like I'm the \"eul\" (give-up) even in relationships?\u003cbr\u003e Dealing with this situation requires 'practicing what's not bad and what you really like.' \u003cbr\u003eThe habit of spending based on cost-effectiveness may console oneself with the idea that it is rational, but it can also result in missing out on opportunities to experience the best and the greatest.\u003cbr\u003e If you keep meeting people who are just okay, you will end up being pushed around by the situation without being able to look into your emotions carefully.\u003cbr\u003e It is actually not easy to distinguish between what is good and what is not bad at once.\u003cbr\u003e The practice begins with building self-esteem little by little by achieving small accomplishments.\u003cbr\u003e In an age where comparing factors like income, tastes, and appearance has become so commonplace and easy, the idea of ​​preserving self-esteem may sound like an empty cry.\u003cbr\u003e Self-esteem comes not from external recognition, but from a subjective belief in one's own potential, and grows through experiences of small accomplishments.\u003cbr\u003e As positive memories accumulate, I can turn my life in a better direction at the moment of choice.\u003cbr\u003e Author Jeong Moon-jeong says: \u003cbr\u003eIf I ever learn that I am worthy of love and acceptance, I can never go back.\u003cbr\u003e So let's move on to a better place.\u003cbr\u003e together.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Let's stop making bad predictions about our own lives.\u003cbr\u003e Just because you were an unhappy child doesn't mean you have to be an unhappy adult.\u003cbr\u003e Avoiding happiness, thinking that it will never be yours, or always thinking of the end before happiness and becoming impatient.\u003cbr\u003e To break this habit, you have to practice choosing between the unhappiness you know and the happiness you don't know.\u003cbr\u003e Let's stop with the ominous predictions, wear some nice new clothes, and meet someone who makes you feel good to be around.\u003cbr\u003e If you make these choices, there may come a day when happiness becomes as comfortable as a tailor-made suit.\u003cbr\u003e Page 216 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePublication date:\u003c\/strong\u003e March 10, 2021\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n \u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e- \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 256 pages | 318g | 130*200*14mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9788954677837\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 8954677835 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43891688603690,"sku":"134715","price":22.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/4dc4cd411da259c3cad5ca13442f864d.jpg?v=1765337957","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/134715","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}