{"product_id":"135481","title":"Other people don't know me ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYCUW2S9LLTGyBTThDwuS0Eo32XCp.png?v=1765055058\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Other people don't know me \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/51098712\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eThose who are confident in good intentions are in trouble.\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eIf you can't say \"No,\" you'll be unhappy.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Ayako Sono, the Japanese novelist who debuted in the literary world by being nominated for the Akutagawa Prize and author of the best-selling book \"Keeping a Little Distance,\" shares her advice on \"How to Become Comfortable in Relationships.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book also stands out for Sono Ayako's writing style, which expresses the essence of life in short but concise language, reminding us that we are different from others and can never be the same.\u003cbr\u003e This provides a foundation for being comfortable not only with pressure from others, but also with stress from those who do not accept my thoughts.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The way 『Others Don't Know Me』 addresses the difficulties of human relationships is quite different.\u003cbr\u003e Sono Ayako's experience is not expressed through good stories or lessons. \u003cbr\u003eIt only touches on the complex and subtle contradictions within human nature, such as, \"It is impossible to gossip about others without turning a blind eye to your own weaknesses,\" \"Even well-intentioned actions are not always right,\" \"Speak without resentment,\" and \"People tell the truth and lie when it benefits them.\"\u003cbr\u003e The author only provides clues, and the pleasure of solving the puzzle is left to the reader.\u003cbr\u003e The reason why depth can be added in such a seemingly indifferent way is because ‘human relationships’ were a topic that Sono Ayako constantly sought to address in her life and literature.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 1 is different\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A person with strong convictions\u003cbr\u003e childish person\u003cbr\u003e Goodwill is for one's own good\u003cbr\u003e Reasons for gossiping about others\u003cbr\u003e When you mock someone, you resemble that person.\u003cbr\u003e The Uselessness of Hatred\u003cbr\u003e A mind that ignores others\u003cbr\u003e Someone who knows me \u003cbr\u003eWhen you are hated by someone\u003cbr\u003e Human relationships are bound to be shaky.\u003cbr\u003e Doesn't actually act\u003cbr\u003e Not everyone is like me\u003cbr\u003e As you age, you become more childish.\u003cbr\u003e Malice and destructive passions are also part of being human.\u003cbr\u003e Human relationships are based on misunderstanding rather than understanding.\u003cbr\u003e Things happen because we are different\u003cbr\u003e To help\u003cbr\u003e See the virtue of others\u003cbr\u003e A style that leads to feelings of inferiority\u003cbr\u003e If you think you are doing a good thing,\u003cbr\u003e Human relationships and loneliness\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 2: Live at Your Own Pace\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e When you don't feel like it, refuse\u003cbr\u003e Don't complain, just say it\u003cbr\u003e Don't get angry first\u003cbr\u003e timid\u003cbr\u003e Drop the pretense\u003cbr\u003e Plants live entirely at their own pace.\u003cbr\u003e Do what needs to be done calmly\u003cbr\u003e Waiting\u003cbr\u003e Living diligently as you are is education.\u003cbr\u003e I get depressed even when my physical condition gets a little worse\u003cbr\u003e Everyone suffers from loneliness\u003cbr\u003e Live my own way\u003cbr\u003e We need all kinds of people\u003cbr\u003e There's a reason we don't know\u003cbr\u003e The weight of life is different for each person. \u003cbr\u003ePeople grow in old age\u003cbr\u003e You have to experience it yourself to understand.\u003cbr\u003e He lives a life worthy of that person and dies.\u003cbr\u003e The power of healing ultimately comes from within me.\u003cbr\u003e Don't try hard\u003cbr\u003e You can't fool others by pretending it's not like that\u003cbr\u003e Living in the gap between conflicts\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eThere is a third side\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Everyone has a shadow\u003cbr\u003e It's hard to get to know people\u003cbr\u003e Lie when you don't feel understood\u003cbr\u003e A person who is confident that he or she has good intentions\u003cbr\u003e Most people are neither good nor bad.\u003cbr\u003e Complex intelligence and transparent purity\u003cbr\u003e I want to live in a place where no one knows me\u003cbr\u003e There are many contradictions in the human mind.\u003cbr\u003e We learn from unpleasant experiences\u003cbr\u003e Tell the truth and lie when it benefits you.\u003cbr\u003e Adult sensibilities are developed\u003cbr\u003e People do stupid things to survive\u003cbr\u003e Like a kite floating in the sky\u003cbr\u003e Take it out carefully and savor it\u003cbr\u003e Anything has to have stress\u003cbr\u003e It is more comfortable to deal with a wicked person than with a gentleman.\u003cbr\u003e I want others to know\u003cbr\u003e Everything that exists is good \u003cbr\u003eThe other side of the hard work\u003cbr\u003e It's perfect because there's nothing there\u003cbr\u003e When times are tough, you become stronger\u003cbr\u003e Children learn from their parents in many ways.\u003cbr\u003e Only by being imperfect can we truly know.\u003cbr\u003e I hope for the unpredictable\u003cbr\u003e The desire to reduce unhappiness \u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eDate of publication:\u003c\/strong\u003e September 25, 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