{"product_id":"135656","title":"As life flows ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYCU9YU6ARN2WyssYxMACBexHZE1U.png?v=1765105970\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e As life flows \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/133809722\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctbody\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdl\u003e\n\u003cdt\u003e A word from MD\u003c\/dt\u003e\n\u003cdd\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e The meaning of life discovered at the end of life\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e An essay by a thirty-two-year-old hospice nurse.\u003cbr\u003e I share my experiences and feelings while accompanying patients on their final journey.\u003cbr\u003e The conversations I had with those facing death make me ask myself what kind of heart we should hold dear and live with at this very moment.\u003cbr\u003e A book about the meaning of willingly letting go, a true record of healing that helps with the end of life through love.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cspan\u003eOctober 15, 2024.\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan\u003eEssay PD Lee Ju-eun\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/dd\u003e\n\u003c\/dl\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“I am the one who cares for them, sends them off, and remembers them.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A Hospice Nurse's Record of Tears and Love\u003cbr\u003e Important truths about life shared by those facing death\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e  \u003cbr\u003e★ New York Times Nonfiction Bestseller ★ #1 Wall Street Journal Bestseller\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Does death always come suddenly? Is death always horrific and painful? Is death a medical failure? One hospice nurse answers \"no\" to all these myths surrounding death.\u003cbr\u003e Hadley Vlahos, author of \"Life Flows,\" shares her experiences and feelings from her years as a hospice nurse in this book, which seeks to bring a deep and honest perspective to the socially taboo topic of death. \u003cbr\u003eThis book, which beautifully depicts the final journey of a thirty-two-year-old hospice nurse with her patients, and contains the wisdom and inspiration of life shared by those facing death, became a non-fiction bestseller on Amazon and the New York Times immediately after its publication, and was selected as the number one bestseller by the Wall Street Journal, receiving an enthusiastic response from all over the United States, leaving readers with an unforgettable impression.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Entering\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 1. Please say I love you one more time · Glenda\u003cbr\u003e 2 May the waiting not be only death · Sword\u003cbr\u003e 3 Everything passes eventually. · Wed\u003cbr\u003e 4 Each of us was someone's love · Sandra\u003cbr\u003e 5. Always eat cake · Elizabeth\u003cbr\u003e 6 The Impossible Happens · Edith\u003cbr\u003e 7 There are burdens that cannot be carried alone · Reggie  \u003cbr\u003e8 Some answers don't change with time · Lily\u003cbr\u003e 9 Life and Death Are Unpredictable · Babette\u003cbr\u003e 10 Things you love deeply never die · Albert\u003cbr\u003e 11. I hope no one is left to die alone. Frank\u003cbr\u003e 12 Everything happens for a reason · Adam\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Going out\u003cbr\u003e Acknowledgements\u003cbr\u003e Translator's Note\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate4784\/MidCate001\/478305039(1).jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e “Mom, it’s me.\u003cbr\u003e I'm sorry I was so harsh to you yesterday.\u003cbr\u003e It was because my mind was so complicated.\u003cbr\u003e Mom taught me everything I know, but she forgot the one most important thing.\u003cbr\u003e You never told me how to cope when the most important person in my life passes away.\u003cbr\u003e How can I live without my mother?\u003cbr\u003e --- pp.48~49 From \"Please Say I Love You One More Time\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"sorry.\u003cbr\u003e Grandma, I'm so sorry.\u003cbr\u003e “I have to comfort my grandmother,” I said, sobbing. \u003cbr\u003eMy grandmother pulled away, looked into my eyes, and spoke firmly.\u003cbr\u003e “We need to comfort each other.\u003cbr\u003e Don't apologize.\u003cbr\u003e How much we both love our teacher.\u003cbr\u003e It was like a gift from God to us.\u003cbr\u003e “I thought so too, Carl.”\u003cbr\u003e I nodded silently.\u003cbr\u003e Tears kept flowing and it was difficult to open my mouth.\u003cbr\u003e I was held in Grandma Mary's arms and remembered the first time I saw her and was scared.\u003cbr\u003e Now, that incident seems funny.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.79 From “I hope waiting is not just death”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Grandma Su had a smile on her face.\u003cbr\u003e Grandma said with her eyes still closed.\u003cbr\u003e “When the time comes for you to leave this world, there will be a long line of people waiting to greet you in heaven, but you will all have to get out of the way.\u003cbr\u003e “Because I’ll be the first to hug you, teacher.” \u003cbr\u003eFor months, I had tried with all my might to comfort Grandma Su, to let her know that I truly cared for her, and now she was comforting me instead.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.121 From “Everything Passes in the End”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Watching them made me realize every time that no matter what their circumstances, no one can escape death.\u003cbr\u003e No fence is strong enough to protect us from nature's forces.\u003cbr\u003e When death is imminent, everyone wants the same thing.\u003cbr\u003e It was about concern, comfort, and connection.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.146 From “Everyone was someone’s love”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “I wanted to tell you this because whenever I look at you, it feels like I’m looking at myself.\u003cbr\u003e I didn't know I would die at forty.\u003cbr\u003e I always thought there was still plenty of time.\u003cbr\u003e I regret not spending more time with my loved ones. \u003cbr\u003e“I guess I should have just eaten that damn cake then.”\u003cbr\u003e “That’s good advice,” I said quietly.\u003cbr\u003e “Eat cake.”\u003cbr\u003e “Yes, I definitely have cake,” Elizabeth repeated as she lay back down on the bed.\u003cbr\u003e --- pp.167~168 From \"Make sure to eat cake\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It wasn't just strangers who found my job difficult.\u003cbr\u003e Even some of my friends and family didn't understand how much this meant to me, no matter how much I told them.\u003cbr\u003e What really broke my heart was when my dad asked me when I planned to return to being a 'real nurse'.\u003cbr\u003e When I replied that I was still a real nurse, my father said this.\u003cbr\u003e “No, not the nurses who just let patients die, but the nurses who actually save lives.”\u003cbr\u003e --- p.231 From “There are burdens that cannot be carried alone”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e What was once deeply loved never fades away. \u003cbr\u003eBecause everything we love deeply becomes a part of us.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.321 From “What you love deeply never disappears”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Having cared for many terminally ill patients from diverse religious backgrounds, I have come to believe that what matters is not religion, but the life a person has lived.\u003cbr\u003e I've seen countless people live wonderful, fulfilling lives, whether they are religious or not.\u003cbr\u003e I don't think either is better.\u003cbr\u003e But if there is one thing that is most important, it is finding inner peace and happiness.\u003cbr\u003e Whatever that means to you.\u003cbr\u003e In my experience, the people who are happiest at the end of their lives are those who have made peace with their lives and found inner peace, those who are comfortable with their beliefs about the afterlife and who do not doubt them.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- pp.408~409 From \"Going Out\"\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eA moment of true healing discovered by a hospice nurse\u003cbr\u003e Embracing the end of life with love and solidarity\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Hadley Vlahos, twenty-two, just starting out on her career as a hospice nurse.\u003cbr\u003e One day, a patient she was in charge of developed severe difficulty breathing.\u003cbr\u003e Bewildered by the symptoms she had never experienced before, she asked her doctor what to do, but the answer she received was unexpected.\u003cbr\u003e “If the patient doesn’t feel pain, nothing needs to be done.\u003cbr\u003e “Just let them eat whatever they want and help them do whatever they want.” Hadley, who had learned from working as an emergency room nurse that treatment was the most important, stamped her feet in a strange sense of anxiety.\u003cbr\u003e The doctor, who read her mind, gave her this advice.\u003cbr\u003e “We are doing what we have to do. \u003cbr\u003eBecause grandma is already comfortable at home.\u003cbr\u003e Don't forget that you are doing important work, teacher.\u003cbr\u003e Even if the world doesn't acknowledge it.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Hospice, or end-of-life care, refers to activities in which patients with limited time left to live are surrounded by loved ones and receive comfortable care in their final days, instead of discontinuing treatment at hospitals or other medical institutions.\u003cbr\u003e Hospice nurses guide patients and their families through this process and help patients remain as pain-free and comfortable as possible.\u003cbr\u003e We believe that allowing patients to face death in their own way is the way to regain their life, and we help them prepare well for their final moments.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe author of this book, Hadley Vlahos, worked as a hospice nurse for many years and learned firsthand that sometimes giving up or doing nothing at all can help patients.\u003cbr\u003e After acknowledging this, I was able to build new relationships with my patients.\u003cbr\u003e In the past, she was busy going around the hospital wards handing out medicine without saying a word, but now, being there for the patients, comforting them, showing solidarity, and listening to their stories has become her most important job.\u003cbr\u003e Then, the patients gradually opened up and began to tell stories about their lives.\u003cbr\u003e They honestly shared what they regretted most in life, what values ​​in life became important as they faced death, and how they wanted to face their final moments. As the countless conversations they had accumulated, Hadley's life began to change little by little.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA young nurse who was unfamiliar with life and death,\u003cbr\u003e Turning SNS into a sea of ​​hot tears\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It was a very ordinary day, no different from any other day.\u003cbr\u003e The day my best friend suddenly passed away.\u003cbr\u003e At fifteen, Hadley was too young to understand the meaning of death, and this shocking loss changed her life forever.\u003cbr\u003e She believed that death came only at the end of life, and she asked countless questions about death, which she could not understand at all.\u003cbr\u003e 'Why did God allow pedophiles and murderers to live in this world, but take the life of my good friend so soon?'\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Hadley, who had been living with a deep sense of anger over death and loss, became a single mother at the age of 19, just before entering her second year of college. \u003cbr\u003eWhen she, an ordinary college student, decided to have a child on her own, everyone around her, including her close family, turned their backs on her.\u003cbr\u003e Hadley, who had to bear the burden of childbirth and childcare alone, was unable to return to school and had to immediately find a job to support herself and her child.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e At first, nursing was just a means of making a living, but for Hadley, who had so much to ask and say about life and death, it gradually became a calling.\u003cbr\u003e As time passed, the unfamiliar tasks gradually became familiar, and dealing with patients became natural.\u003cbr\u003e Even patients who had been holding onto their illness and had closed their hearts tightly began to open up to the warm and affectionate Hadley and share their innermost stories. As a nurse, I received even greater comfort and love from patients and their families than I could have given them. \u003cbr\u003eHowever, even as I gained more experience and years of experience, I never got used to seeing off patients I had grown attached to.\u003cbr\u003e Every time, Hadley consoled herself by taking to heart these words she had once heard in the hospital.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “What you once loved deeply never goes away.\u003cbr\u003e Because everything we love deeply becomes a part of us.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e As a hospice nurse, I wanted to share with more people the truths and inspirations I gained from spending time with patients.\u003cbr\u003e When Hadley first began to cautiously discuss death on social media, she was surprised by how many people wanted to hear it.\u003cbr\u003e Hadley and her patients' stories quickly spread across YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram, garnering empathy and support from over 3 million followers. \u003cbr\u003eI finally realized that talking about death, a topic that had long been taboo, could actually bring hope to people and comfort those who had lost a loved one.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003e“To let go and love more deeply,\u003cbr\u003e “I should have just eaten that damn cake…”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e On the value of life becoming clearer in the face of death\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e When people near death realize that their time is short, they often look back on their lives and eagerly share the lessons that have had the greatest impact.\u003cbr\u003e Hadley, who has been unable to fully enjoy life due to an eating disorder, is told by her patient, Elizabeth, that she feels like she has wasted too much of her life on the treadmill and that this is her biggest regret in life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “I can’t stop thinking about the time when my friends asked me to go to the beach, but I didn’t go because I was embarrassed by my belly fat. \u003cbr\u003eThere were birthday parties I couldn't attend because I was so obsessed with counting calories that I only ate food I made myself.\u003cbr\u003e Even my birthday, I skipped it without inviting my friends.\u003cbr\u003e I didn't want to force myself to eat cake.\u003cbr\u003e (…) Whenever I see you, it feels like I’m seeing myself, so I really wanted to tell you this.\u003cbr\u003e I didn't know I would die at forty.\u003cbr\u003e I always thought there was still plenty of time.\u003cbr\u003e I regret not spending more time with my loved ones.\u003cbr\u003e “I guess I should have just eaten that damn cake then.” (p. 168)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In this way, patients share their life stories in the face of death, and Hadley treasures the wisdom and lessons they willingly share.\u003cbr\u003e And you come to understand your own life more deeply.\u003cbr\u003e Perhaps that is why, despite being a story about death, this book makes you think deeply about the meaning of life. \u003cbr\u003eIn the stories of those nearing the end of their lives, as they face death, they reflect on their greatest regrets, the people they miss most, and the things they hold most dear, we are reminded of the question, \"What must we remember on the impermanent journey of life?\"\u003cbr\u003e In the end, we realize the truth of life that the things we will regret in the end are the things we should value most in this moment. \u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - 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