{"product_id":"135913","title":"A thousand empathy ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYCCJ4IA7njQ0trmlRzFij4gj5WWX.png?v=1765115586\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e A thousand empathy \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e This is a record of intimate feelings shared with readers through a media outlet.\u003cbr\u003e The author, who showed extraordinary understanding and love for humanity through his first psychological travel essay, “Human Landscape,” has stepped forward as a “guide” for “wounded souls” in “A Thousand Sympathies.”\u003cbr\u003e The author has read with deep insight the earnest desires of those of us who always dream of change, wanting to live happier lives and better relationships with others, but always wandering on the edge of that path.\u003cbr\u003e While fully empathizing with the feelings of loneliness, he does not spare bitter advice so that 'each person can look into their inner self and develop the power of healing themselves.'\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e  \u003cdiv\u003eChapter 1: Knowing Yourself\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Psychoanalysis is the second alchemy\u003cbr\u003e The problem and the solution are both within.\u003cbr\u003e Strengthen your self through love and support\u003cbr\u003e What you dislike about others is your own inner self.\u003cbr\u003e We must abandon the survival skills of childhood.\u003cbr\u003e Expresses repressed inner feelings\u003cbr\u003e Integrate the good and the ugly\u003cbr\u003e Erase your inner parent voice\u003cbr\u003e Let go of your inner illusions and see the outer reality.\u003cbr\u003e Learn how to live until you die\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 2 Family Relationships\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The relationship between mother and daughter is one of fundamental conflict.\u003cbr\u003e Father and son have a mythical murderous relationship.\u003cbr\u003e Brothers and sisters are jealous and envious.\u003cbr\u003e Toxic parents and dysfunctional families exist.\u003cbr\u003e Follow the voice of your own life, follow the blessings of heaven.\u003cbr\u003e Lead an independent life proactively\u003cbr\u003e I don't demand the fantasy of an 'ideal husband'.\u003cbr\u003e Addictions depend on addictions.\u003cbr\u003e As women change, so too must men.  \u003cbr\u003eIf you go through the grieving process well, your emotions will become richer.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 3: Achievement and Love\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Love is another alchemy\u003cbr\u003e Love comes with responsibility and obligation.\u003cbr\u003e When you love, your inner insecurities come back to life.\u003cbr\u003e I see the image of the 'ideal father' in my lover.\u003cbr\u003e Sadism and pain are not love.\u003cbr\u003e Sadistic and cruel love destroys oneself.\u003cbr\u003e Everything that is okay to break up with is inside you.\u003cbr\u003e Respect the other person's self-esteem when breaking up.\u003cbr\u003e Sexual dysfunction is related to a gap in identity.\u003cbr\u003e Desire is inherently unfulfillable\u003cbr\u003e The sexual desires of men and women are different in nature.\u003cbr\u003e Sexual assault is associated with the disintegration of identity.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 4 Building Relationships\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Love your flaws and shortcomings\u003cbr\u003e Inner anger stagnates life.\u003cbr\u003e The desire for survival and the desire for death are one and the same.\u003cbr\u003e I keep the anger I received inside me.\u003cbr\u003e There's an anxious child inside everyone.  \u003cbr\u003eGratitude cures envy.\u003cbr\u003e Narcissism is an extension of infantile omnipotence.\u003cbr\u003e Women also obey the 'Father's Name'\u003cbr\u003e Small accomplishments build confidence.\u003cbr\u003e I am a being who can be loved even if I reject you.\u003cbr\u003e We strive to build a win-win relationship\u003cbr\u003e Rethink your life goals at the threshold of middle age.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e 1.\u003cbr\u003e All good things, as well as the causes and solutions to problems, are within each of us.\u003cbr\u003e We all have within us the capacity to enjoy and share with others the same acceptance, support, love, happiness, and joy that Spring expects.\u003cbr\u003e Now, instead of expecting to receive them from outside sources, we must give them to ourselves.\u003cbr\u003e You must understand your own desires well and fulfill them appropriately through your own efforts.\u003cbr\u003e Then, try to put yourself in the other person's shoes. \u003cbr\u003eMy sister is just like Bom, a lonely and empty person, in need of love, and often hurt.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.28, Chapter 1, \"Knowing Yourself\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 2.\u003cbr\u003e In life, there is a reality principle and a pleasure principle.\u003cbr\u003e Babies who are not yet actively living in reality can pursue only things that are enjoyable, satisfying, and pleasurable.\u003cbr\u003e But even as elementary school students, we have to do things we don't want to do, things that are uncomfortable, and things that are painful.\u003cbr\u003e It's called the reality principle.\u003cbr\u003e It is said that our daily lives are made up of 85 percent of the tasks that fall under the reality principle and 15 percent of the tasks that fall under the pleasure principle.\u003cbr\u003e The ability to delay immediate gratification, to distinguish between what's important and what's not, and to care for the realities of life, even when it's painful, are all valuable life skills that must be learned.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.116, Chapter 2, “Family Relationships”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 3. \u003cbr\u003eEven if you are notified of a breakup like thunder, or if your lover leaves you like lightning, there is nothing to worry about.\u003cbr\u003e Through this love, I have enjoyed many things and experienced great growth.\u003cbr\u003e From love to breakup, thank your lover for allowing you to experience the full course of happiness and unhappiness, and wish him or her good luck.\u003cbr\u003e Then, you can welcome new love with an upgraded mind.\u003cbr\u003e The next love will be more fulfilling and stable.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.225, Chapter 3 \"Sex and Love\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 4.\u003cbr\u003e The first virtue needed to lead a life after middle age is to ‘reestablish one’s own identity.’\u003cbr\u003e Self-identity is first formed during adolescence.\u003cbr\u003e During this time, you begin to feel love and desire for the opposite sex outside of yourself, and you begin to form a concept of who you are, what you dream of in life, and what kind of person you want to become. \u003cbr\u003eDuring adolescence and young adulthood, we live according to the blueprint we created then.\u003cbr\u003e But when we reach middle age, we can no longer apply that picture to our lives.\u003cbr\u003e Because the appearance and responsibilities of our lives have changed, and the world we live in has also changed.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e ---p.353, Chapter 4 \"Building Relationships\"\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eEmpathy, the best way to reach others\u003cbr\u003e Novelist Kim Hyung-kyung's second psychological essay, \"A Thousand Sympathies\"\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e To those who struggle through life's lonely tug-of-war...\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Novelist Kim Hyung-kyung's second psychological healing essay, \"A Thousand Sympathies,\" is a record of her intimate feelings shared with readers through a media outlet.\u003cbr\u003e The author, who showed extraordinary understanding and love for humanity through his first psychological travel essay, “Human Landscape,” has stepped forward as a “guide” for “wounded souls” in “A Thousand Sympathies.” \u003cbr\u003eThe author has read with deep insight the earnest desires of those of us who always dream of change, wanting to live happier lives and better relationships with others, but always wandering on the edge of that path.\u003cbr\u003e While fully empathizing with the feelings of loneliness, he does not spare bitter advice so that 'each person can look into their inner self and develop the power of healing themselves.'\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eAuthor's Note\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I don't know when, but I've been mumbling the phrase, \"There are heartbreaking truths in everyone's life.\"\u003cbr\u003e I want to keep that thought for a long time and broadly, that he must have had his own desperate circumstances.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eA true “second journey to find myself!”\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In the second psychological healing essay, “A Thousand Sympathies,” following the psychological travel essay “People’s Landscape,”\u003cbr\u003e As you can feel from the title of the book, you can experience the warm comfort that comes from the author's heart.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003ePerhaps the writer Kim Hyung-kyung also experienced the wandering that we all experience, and spent time facing her own heart.\u003cbr\u003e This may be because it contains the love of the writer learned through the hardships of psychoanalysis.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Just as there are as many different types of life as there are people in the world,\u003cbr\u003e The hearts of the readers of this book are coming together to create “a thousand empathy” again.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePeople who choose too easily and quickly!\u003cbr\u003e Be brave or foolish~!\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Why are everyone's hearts different?\u003cbr\u003e The curiosity of readers who want to know about their own and other people's minds\u003cbr\u003e Even now, six years after the first publication of “A Thousand Sympathies,” it remains the same.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Even though I'm sick to death, I'm always worried about my family's wounds.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I want to change, but I don't know where or how to start.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e As I get older, I become more and more confused about work and love.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eI am struggling with workaholism, alcoholism, and gaming addiction.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Every time I go through a breakup, I fall into an abyss of despair from which I cannot escape.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It is the image of us all, and it is the story of us all.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eDiscovering the blessings within us.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author says that the way to regain the true life that has been lost is to remember the blessings of heaven.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Discover the virtues that belong to the realm of emotion, intuition, nature, and mysticism that have been suppressed and ignored.\u003cbr\u003e He adds that if you go out, it is something that touches your life and helps you realize your true self.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Through the empathy of “A Thousand Sympathies,” readers and writers also empathize with each other.\u003cbr\u003e It will be a matter of discovering the 'blessing' of good love within us.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eIf you were to ask me this right now...\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Is there any love that doesn't hurt?\u003cbr\u003e When you love, feel deeply and truly all the emotions that arise from within you.\u003cbr\u003e Relationship with others  \u003cbr\u003eAs I examine my inner self, I realize that I am such a suspicious person and that my anxiety is\u003cbr\u003e It's so deep, I'm such a jealous person... ... I realize it and experience it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It will be so painful that it will feel like your whole body will break and your heart will break.\u003cbr\u003e Even so, don't pour out those feelings on the other person, avoid them, ignore them, or seek solace from others. Just experience them.\u003cbr\u003e It's okay to explain your situation to the other person and ask for help.\u003cbr\u003e -175p\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eWhen will I be able to be happy?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Psychoanalysis always emphasizes the 'here and now'.\u003cbr\u003e It allows you to empty your mind of the distorted past that fills your heart, shed your rosy illusions about the future, and face and accept the reality of life.\u003cbr\u003e It teaches us that rather than wandering around looking for the ideal lover, we should nurture our current relationships to make them stable and rich. \u003cbr\u003eRather than dreaming of striking it rich through gambling or the lottery, we choose a life of honest work and savings.\u003cbr\u003e Rather than abusing yourself by skimping on food and sleep today for future happiness, find satisfaction and joy in life here and now by balancing work and rest.\u003cbr\u003e -82p \u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eDate of issue:\u003c\/strong\u003e April 15, 2012\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 359 pages | 530g | 153*224*30mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9788996773238\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 8996773239 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43893738668074,"sku":"135913","price":24.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/c396c6f6244acef29a9d01802d8f785e.jpg?v=1765413661","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/135913","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}