Younger children who are going through early puberty often have immature expressive skills and vocabulary.
I don't know how to put into words the frustration I feel right now.
Sometimes, people express their anger and frustration through tears.
In situations where you have to say something difficult, you may get angry or irritated.
In these cases, instead of raising their voices, parents should ask questions to help their children find the language that corresponds to their feelings.
And we must wait for the child to find the appropriate language to express his or her worries, pain, and frustrations.

---From "Falling into a Black Hole of Frustration"

As smartphone use increases and reading time decreases, adolescents are not only more vulnerable to fake news, but are also a major factor in relationship difficulties.
Reading is an important activity that allows children to indirectly experience various relationships in advance.
The book features many characters, including parents and children, teachers and students, and friends, and the various events that unfold between them unfold into an interesting story.
By seeing conflicts between characters resolved and problems solved, children can think about how they would handle similar situations in real life.
You can also learn what socially desirable behaviors are by looking to role models.
Before entering puberty, children who need to acquire the ability to view relationships through sufficient reading should be busy with school academies and smartphones, but if they rarely find time to read, they will eventually enter the world of school with weakened relationship immunity.

---From "Relationship Addiction? Breaking Up Addiction?"

One way to help build rapport is to allow your child to choose at different times.
As children progress through preschool, elementary, and teenage years, we need to move toward expanding their autonomy by listening to their voices, respecting their choices, and encouraging them to do so.
However, it is not good to give young children too many choices.
Especially during the preschool years, it is necessary to clearly explain and confirm what is permissible and what is not permissible, such as manners, rules, and social norms that must be observed.
As your child progresses to higher grades, empathize with their emotions, which become increasingly sensitive, and ask them what choices they want to make and why they made those choices.
Even when a child doesn't know what to choose, it's better to give the child a chance to decide for themselves by presenting several appropriate options rather than making the choice for them.
---From "Building Rapport with Your Adolescent Child"

Firm parents are not bad parents.
You have to endure the moment when your child's eyes turn cold.
Only then can we guide our children to grow into good adults.
When Mom takes a step back, peace comes in that moment.
The child's cold eyes will turn into smiles and the child will have a happy expression on his/her face.
But only for a moment.
If the child's needs are not met, he will again yell, throw tantrums, and become violent towards his mother.
This pattern should not be repeated.
Remember that if you give in to your child at a time when you shouldn't compromise, your authority as a mother will be undermined.
Puberty is not a time to act on one's own desires.
It's time to learn how to regulate your desires in a healthy way.
If your child exhibits immature behaviors to satisfy his or her own desires, be sure to firmly explain what needs to be controlled and by what standards he or she should live.
---From "Parents who fight well with their adolescent children"

At least, there is a certain level of safety in children becoming immersed in celebrities.
If you have self-control, you can maintain a realistic life while maintaining an appropriate distance.
However, if you fall for a middle school, high school, or college student who is not a celebrity, it is often difficult to guarantee safety.
More elementary school children than you might think meet each other through social media and share photos of their body parts with each other.
This means that it doesn't just happen through threats.
When someone says something like, "If you don't do this for me, then you don't like me," children don't think that their behavior is problematic, but rather that they need to do that to prove that their feelings are genuine.
To prevent online grooming sexual crimes, children should be warned not to disclose personal information (age, address, school, ID, phone number, etc.) to strangers, and suspicious messages should be left unanswered or deleted or blocked from the start.

---From "Kids Who Are Serious About Idol Fandom"

Increasing a child's stress resistance before puberty also helps with emotional stability.
Stress resilience develops when you are exposed to slightly uncomfortable situations.
When a child wants something, if you don't give it to them immediately but wait a little while, the child's stress resistance will increase during the waiting time.
In fact, the more you try to solve problems right away, the more easily you become irritated and anxious even in small stressful situations.
Habits that boost your stress resilience can be a great way to avoid emotional instability.
Another way is to provide a space where the child can feel secure.
Children find psychological security in warehouse-like spaces.
If you make a small Indian tent-like thing in the room, they will like it and crawl into it.

---From "The Quiet Depression That Swallowed School"

When we first become aware of our emotions, make proactive choices, and then take responsibility for those choices, we become mentally stable and healthy.
On the other hand, a child who is addicted to recognition perceives other people's emotions first and reacts accordingly.
That's why, no matter how many positive reviews I receive from others, I never feel satisfied deep down in my heart.
As time goes by, we reach a point where we are completely unaware of our own feelings and we consider the other person's feelings as our own needs.
Before our children enter early puberty, they must first learn to naturally recognize their emotions.
That way, no matter what you choose and what responsibilities you take on, you will have no regrets or resentment.
And crucially, it's not empty.

---From "Living as an Imperfect Me"