“In the end, I want to be a good father,
“That one heart is enough!”

Written by a father of triplets, who is extremely difficult to raise
For new and expectant fathers
Everything about pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare!

- Father of triplets who appeared on KBS's "Human Theater"
- 30 million views on SNS: "Why Career Opportunities Matter": The Reality of Parenting

This book is an all-in-one guide to pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare, filled with the author's experience as a father who has experienced everything from the ups and downs of raising triplets to the aerial battles.
This book contains everything about the worries, concerns, mistakes, and solutions that fathers often have.
It's okay to be clumsy, but you can't be clumsy forever.
From fundamental questions about what makes a good father to how to care for a crying child right now, one book is enough.

Theoretical talk is nothing more than a pipe dream in reality.
The author wrote a realistic parenting guide.
We talk about everything you need to prepare for during pregnancy, things you need to discuss and coordinate with your partner, information you need to know after giving birth, and even the role you need to play as your child grows.
It doesn't just cover methodology, but also speaks in a warm but firm tone about the sustainable and upright attitude of a husband and father.
"No parent is perfect from the start, so just having the right mindset is enough!" If you're a father-to-be, a new father, or someone considering a gift for a father-to-be or a new father, don't miss this book.
Above all, it will be a gift that is sturdy, practical, kind and warm.

This book is not about the answers of someone who knows everything perfectly, but about the journey of a father who started at the same starting line.
Through trial and error, questions, and small but clear moments of learning, he conveys the conviction that "dads can be good at parenting too!"
--- From the "Prologue"

It's okay if it's not perfect.
You are already a good enough dad.
And tomorrow I will be a better father than I am today.
Parenting is not a process of competing or comparing yourself to others.
What's important is that parents and children laugh, cry, and fill each day together.
--- From "It's Okay to Not Be Perfect"

Parenting is not just the mother's responsibility.
Mom is also a beginner.
Dad is also at the same starting line, and we can only get there if we learn together.
When the father takes a step back from childcare, the role ultimately falls solely to the mother.
And when that happens repeatedly, parenting becomes ‘mother’s work.’
One thing to remember is that now is the best time to learn together.
A postpartum helper is not just someone who helps the mother, but can also be the father's 'first teacher' who learns about childcare.
--- From "Where do you learn parenting?"

My wife has a dream too.
My wife's life is still a work in progress.
There is no reason why your life should stop just because you have a child or become a mother.
The dream just stops for a moment.
Just as I became a father, my wife also became a mother.
The word 'mother' does not erase the wife's name.
--- From "Mom Has a Dream Too"

Parenting is not synchronized diving.
It may not seem like it's going to happen at exactly the same time and cut through the water in exactly the same way.
It might seem ideal to have the same rhythm, but the reality is different.
This is because the environments, physical strength, emotions, and work hours faced by parents are all different.
Parenting is not a collaborative process that moves simultaneously, but rather a process of coordination over time.
--- From "Let's look at it for a long time, not now"

Growing up is a process of learning new things, but it is also a process of experiencing scenes that can no longer be seen.
In those days, I was just desperate to survive.
Just surviving the day was enough.
But what comes to mind now are the faces, expressions, and every single gesture from that time.
The moment when you were scrambling to find a piece of baby food that fell under the bed, the movement of trying to lay down a baby who was tossing and turning to change a diaper, and even the habit of putting a few drops of formula on the back of your hand to check the temperature.
All those moments will never come back.

--- From "Let's build memorable moments"