There are no problem children, only problem parents.
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Book Introduction
Problem children are gem children!
Even if the child is having a hard time and is sick
The children you gave me are my greatest jewels.
Our church's pastor Yangjae Kim's book, "There Are No Problem Children, Only Problem Parents," has been published in a revised and expanded edition.
This book offers advice to all parents struggling with child-rearing, on how to educate their children biblically and, furthermore, how to establish a sound family as parents of faith.
The thing that I have the most difficulty controlling in this world is my children.
We hope that our children will be good listeners, study hard, and become the pride of their family, but how many children end up acting as "problem children" and causing their parents to feel disappointed?
How should we raise these problem children?
Author Pastor Kim Yang-jae says that it is none other than 'problem parents' who make their children problem children.
'Problem parents' who pass on their own wounds to their children and idolize their children through ups and downs are what create 'problem children'.
So, paradoxically, it is the children who are having a hard time and the children who are sick who are the ‘jewel children.’
Because through difficult children, we move forward on our mission to bless and give birth to spiritual children.
Because through their sick children, they are transformed from parents who yearn for eternity to parents who break free from their longing.
If we only have good children, we cannot be concerned about spiritual successors.
Parents who buy their children expensive clothes and nice products are not good parents.
Parents who pass on their faith in Jesus are good parents.
The best education for children is not to teach them worldly wisdom and knowledge, but to first show and teach them how to walk with God.
This book contains testimonies from many problem parents and problem children around us.
They demonstrate in practice how they apply and share God's Word and the faith community, and how their values are transformed.
Through "There Are No Problem Children, Only Problem Parents," I hope you will come to understand the mystery of the gospel that God has hidden in our families.
Even if the child is having a hard time and is sick
The children you gave me are my greatest jewels.
Our church's pastor Yangjae Kim's book, "There Are No Problem Children, Only Problem Parents," has been published in a revised and expanded edition.
This book offers advice to all parents struggling with child-rearing, on how to educate their children biblically and, furthermore, how to establish a sound family as parents of faith.
The thing that I have the most difficulty controlling in this world is my children.
We hope that our children will be good listeners, study hard, and become the pride of their family, but how many children end up acting as "problem children" and causing their parents to feel disappointed?
How should we raise these problem children?
Author Pastor Kim Yang-jae says that it is none other than 'problem parents' who make their children problem children.
'Problem parents' who pass on their own wounds to their children and idolize their children through ups and downs are what create 'problem children'.
So, paradoxically, it is the children who are having a hard time and the children who are sick who are the ‘jewel children.’
Because through difficult children, we move forward on our mission to bless and give birth to spiritual children.
Because through their sick children, they are transformed from parents who yearn for eternity to parents who break free from their longing.
If we only have good children, we cannot be concerned about spiritual successors.
Parents who buy their children expensive clothes and nice products are not good parents.
Parents who pass on their faith in Jesus are good parents.
The best education for children is not to teach them worldly wisdom and knowledge, but to first show and teach them how to walk with God.
This book contains testimonies from many problem parents and problem children around us.
They demonstrate in practice how they apply and share God's Word and the faith community, and how their values are transformed.
Through "There Are No Problem Children, Only Problem Parents," I hope you will come to understand the mystery of the gospel that God has hidden in our families.
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index
In publishing this book 04
Part 1: There are no good children or bad children.
Chapter 1: Why Does My Child Have So Many Problems? 12
Parents whose children are stressed
The Current State of Faith Revealed Through Children
Why am I falling apart over my children's problems?
I am the problem
We must acknowledge the "5 p.m. child."
The distorted self-portrait created by successism
The reason you gave me a difficult child
Father's heart
Children are a gift from God
Chapter 2: Problem Parents Create Problem Children 44
Problem Parents in the Bible
The sin of idolizing children
What makes a good parent?
Problem children only suffer for their problem parents.
Parental wounds create problem children.
A marriage of distrust produces problem children.
I'm sorry for being a problem mom
Chapter 3: Child Problems Begin with Comparisons 76
The beginning and end of favoritism
The source of inferiority complex
Jesus came through a problem child
Children are raised to be betrayed.
Part 2: The Problem: Your Child Becomes Your Spiritual Heir
Chapter 4: Look at Your Child Objectively 104
I need to know that my child is possessed by a demon.
Whose responsibility is it?
Even if a famine comes, leave it to God.
Now is the time to put it down
The answer is in the Bible
Is there a confession of faith?
The power of discernment
The Secret to Raising 10 Children
The best way to raise children is to walk with God.
Chapter 5: Parents Change for Their Children 140
My mom has changed!
Words can't change things
Training in the empty fields
If you stick, repent, if you fall, be thankful!
The most important thing in child education is QT
Set an example with patience
Chapter 6: Teaching the Word from an Early Age 174
The child's name is the parents' confession of faith.
The secret to my parenting is only cutie
Even if you're young, you can still be cute
It's not too late even now
What parents should teach: obedience
obedience training
Don't provoke your children to anger.
Teach purity
Words of love and blessings
Chapter 7: Be patient, you will definitely have a spiritual successor 210
God has his time
When you dream of an impossible goal
Once the hardship is resolved, there is work to be done.
A spiritual successor who brings laughter
Carrying the cross is the only way to obtain spiritual succession.
He gives us a dark night to show us the stars.
The best legacy to leave your children
Part 1: There are no good children or bad children.
Chapter 1: Why Does My Child Have So Many Problems? 12
Parents whose children are stressed
The Current State of Faith Revealed Through Children
Why am I falling apart over my children's problems?
I am the problem
We must acknowledge the "5 p.m. child."
The distorted self-portrait created by successism
The reason you gave me a difficult child
Father's heart
Children are a gift from God
Chapter 2: Problem Parents Create Problem Children 44
Problem Parents in the Bible
The sin of idolizing children
What makes a good parent?
Problem children only suffer for their problem parents.
Parental wounds create problem children.
A marriage of distrust produces problem children.
I'm sorry for being a problem mom
Chapter 3: Child Problems Begin with Comparisons 76
The beginning and end of favoritism
The source of inferiority complex
Jesus came through a problem child
Children are raised to be betrayed.
Part 2: The Problem: Your Child Becomes Your Spiritual Heir
Chapter 4: Look at Your Child Objectively 104
I need to know that my child is possessed by a demon.
Whose responsibility is it?
Even if a famine comes, leave it to God.
Now is the time to put it down
The answer is in the Bible
Is there a confession of faith?
The power of discernment
The Secret to Raising 10 Children
The best way to raise children is to walk with God.
Chapter 5: Parents Change for Their Children 140
My mom has changed!
Words can't change things
Training in the empty fields
If you stick, repent, if you fall, be thankful!
The most important thing in child education is QT
Set an example with patience
Chapter 6: Teaching the Word from an Early Age 174
The child's name is the parents' confession of faith.
The secret to my parenting is only cutie
Even if you're young, you can still be cute
It's not too late even now
What parents should teach: obedience
obedience training
Don't provoke your children to anger.
Teach purity
Words of love and blessings
Chapter 7: Be patient, you will definitely have a spiritual successor 210
God has his time
When you dream of an impossible goal
Once the hardship is resolved, there is work to be done.
A spiritual successor who brings laughter
Carrying the cross is the only way to obtain spiritual succession.
He gives us a dark night to show us the stars.
The best legacy to leave your children
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“Even if my child is extremely ordinary, or worse than others, if he or she can enter heaven as a saved child of God, that is the greatest pride and blessing.”
--- p.28~29
“A good father is one who values God the most.
“Even if they can’t buy their children expensive clothes or nice things, and don’t have an inheritance to leave behind, the best parents are the ones who pass on their faith in Jesus Christ.”
--- p.53
“The suffering of my children is the conclusion of my life, a battle with myself, for which no one can make excuses or blame anyone.
If you blame your children for your fights and say, “It’s because of them,” you still have a long way to go.
Even when David was being chased by Absalom, he never blamed his sons.
“I was only fighting with myself.”
--- p.90
“If I offer my child as a burnt offering for Jesus today, that place will become a temple.
I become a temple.
“If you put your children down objectively, your home will become a temple.”
--- p.117
“Both parents and children should be QTs.
I can't do whatever I want with my life.
A child's life is even more difficult to control.
“Parents must be guided by God, and children must also be guided by God.”
--- p.147
“Even if they experience the same incident, children who are faithful and attached to the community of faith will be bound by the Word and will obey their parents on their own.
“We come alive every day through the Word.”
--- p.195
“We laugh a lot because of our children, but we are also ridiculed and laughed at.
But when I realize that such children are also my precious spiritual successors, I can only laugh.
“It’s a real laugh.”
--- p.28~29
“A good father is one who values God the most.
“Even if they can’t buy their children expensive clothes or nice things, and don’t have an inheritance to leave behind, the best parents are the ones who pass on their faith in Jesus Christ.”
--- p.53
“The suffering of my children is the conclusion of my life, a battle with myself, for which no one can make excuses or blame anyone.
If you blame your children for your fights and say, “It’s because of them,” you still have a long way to go.
Even when David was being chased by Absalom, he never blamed his sons.
“I was only fighting with myself.”
--- p.90
“If I offer my child as a burnt offering for Jesus today, that place will become a temple.
I become a temple.
“If you put your children down objectively, your home will become a temple.”
--- p.117
“Both parents and children should be QTs.
I can't do whatever I want with my life.
A child's life is even more difficult to control.
“Parents must be guided by God, and children must also be guided by God.”
--- p.147
“Even if they experience the same incident, children who are faithful and attached to the community of faith will be bound by the Word and will obey their parents on their own.
“We come alive every day through the Word.”
--- p.195
“We laugh a lot because of our children, but we are also ridiculed and laughed at.
But when I realize that such children are also my precious spiritual successors, I can only laugh.
“It’s a real laugh.”
--- p.219
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: April 30, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 232 pages | 150*220*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791194352136
- ISBN10: 1194352138
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