Chapter 1 - Falling in Love You Were Afraid of

But I'm afraid of marriage
Fear meets love and returns to seed.
She had to break up and I had to get married.
I want to prepare a beautiful wedding
Does it matter if the newlywed home is a shack or a palace?
For people to meet and be happy
Proposal Story
I'm trying to hold back my heartbeat right now.
We had to wait until we acknowledged our differences.
You and I, living together
Honeymoon: Expanding the World Together

Chapter 2 - No one has ever been both husband and wife from the beginning.

To shake and sway back and forth
Will you accept 'waste' in life?
If you love, everything will work out, everything will work out?
If you're going to experiment with faith, it's better to start first.
I see my authority in my father's back.
What is a husband's authority?
We need training in praying together.
We always fall short of each other's expectations.
As Christ loved the church
Won't you love me?
Love is hard for everyone

Chapter 3 - I'm happy today because of you

Even today, full of gray, is good because of you
Don't you regret marrying me?
I still love you even though I don't understand
Please don't delay in saying sorry.
Saying Goodbye to You - A Wife's Story
Now I can't dream of a world without each other.
God gave an unforgettable answer
Even in the boring steps of everyday life, even in the stormy days
- My wife's spiritual diary
Please don't let me be ashamed of not being able to love.
I opened my bankbook and laughed for a long time.
I'm afraid of making choices that seem easy.
This is a life that cannot be lived without God's help.
My wife still tells me she respects me

Chapter 4 - We're Learning About Marriage Together

Does God not care about my marriage?
- A father's heart toward you

Q&A on Dating and Marriage

What kind of person would be good to meet?
- Would you be happy if you met someone who has good faith and is good at ministry?
- Will I be happy if I meet a good person unconditionally?
- So then, what kind of person should I meet?
Can marriage be an 'escape' from this tedious situation?
What questions should I ask myself before dating or getting married?
I gave up on marriage because of fear
How should I spend my time when I'm single?
The person who prayed for his spouse for one hour and the person who prayed for ten hours
What is the difference?
What effect do obscene thoughts or actions have?
What do you think about premarital sex?
Wouldn't you be happy if you married your ideal type?
Shouldn't Christians look for 'co-workers' rather than spouses?
Wouldn't it be better to meet a senior with good faith?
If possible, wouldn't it be better to meet someone with good conditions?
Even if it's not about looks, you should definitely look at the future prospects, right?
If looks aren't the criteria, then I don't need to take care of my appearance, right?
Why can't I confess my feelings even though I'm just flirting?
I got a confession but he's not my type. Should I date him?
I don't know if my choice is right.
Why do men try to solve problems rather than empathize?
Why don't men know if you don't tell them?
Do we have to save the world to please a woman?
Why don't you understand my heart?
Why isn't our relationship as romantic as in movies and dramas?
Since we started dating, he treats me rudely.
Is it wrong to be true to your instincts when loving?
I feel embarrassed after skinship
When dating, how much skinship is appropriate?
How can we break up beautifully?
If you propose and receive an answer from God, should you get married?
If you encounter a familiar situation in your love or marriage life,
Can I just act the same way I used to without any worries?
If you don't have feelings of love that are enough to kill you, you shouldn't get married, right?
I thought getting married would be the end of it.
Before marriage, it seemed like an advantage, but not anymore.
I live with someone I can't understand at all.
What should I do to fill the waiting time?
What is the right order and frequency of visits to my in-laws' and my wife's families?
Should I also burden my family with my mission?
Shouldn't we clearly distinguish between essence and non-essence as we live?
I seek the kingdom of God, but the reality is bleak and scary.

“If the Lord does not hold me,
“Can we be happy by meeting people?”

A book read face to face by you, me, and us and God
A story of learning about marriage before God, taking slow steps.

About love, family, and marriage
Traces of listening to and obeying God's word

This is an essay by author Lee Joseph, recording his struggles before God while preparing for marriage and living married life.
Rather than trying to teach us about marriage, he honestly shares his own experiences, which sometimes led to failure and breakdown.
And in it, we share our experiences of listening to and obeying the Lord's words.
This is not a specific guideline on how to get married or what kind of family to have.
Because each of us is different and we love in different ways.
The only answer to building, restoring, and reviving a family lies with the Lord.
The only way to find answers in a life without answers is to ask the Lord again and again.
We only get that direction through the Word.


Contains practical concerns and questions about love and marriage.

This book contains practical questions about love and marriage, along with advice on them, such as, "Will I be happy if I meet someone with good faith and good ministry?", "Wouldn't I be happy if I married my ideal type?", "Why isn't our relationship as romantic as in movies and dramas?", and "I'm living with someone I just can't understand."
The author says that he realized something while praying and pondering what many people mean by 'standards'.
The point is that God wants to know you better, not the problem, but the one who is beyond the problem.
When we know God and follow His guidance, His beautiful will will be fulfilled through the families we create.


For readers

- Those preparing for marriage
- Young people who are concerned about their spouse and relationship
- A believer who wants to have a married life that pleases God