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Shikoku over marriage
Shikoku over marriage
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Book Introduction
“We chose to travel instead of having a wedding.”
A two-week stay in Shikoku, a time when I needed to move on to something more than just love!
A couple in their 11th year of marriage travels all over Shikoku
Between familiarity and unfamiliarity, a journey through small Japanese cities in search of "something uniquely our own."


Shikoku, the smallest of the four islands that make up Japan.
And this journey, which begins in Takamatsu, the representative city of Kagawa Prefecture, the smallest prefecture in Shikoku, actually began a very long time ago.
About eight years ago, when writer Kim Hwan first brought up the topic of marriage, writer Kim Ja-ram half rejected him and half proposed, saying, “Let’s do it when we’re forty.”
During their 11 years of relationship, the two constantly searched for their own 'something'.
It was unclear whether that 'something' was a wedding, a marriage registration, or living together.
However, I just felt that ending a relationship with marriage wasn't 'our way'.

Now is the time to come up with an answer that may not be the right answer, but is closest to it.
As they reached their 'wonderful forties', which was predicted eight years ago, they tried to ask about their 11-year long-term relationship through 'travel' in their own familiar way, and wrote an answer sheet to the question, "Aren't you going to get married?" as a record.
The beginning is this two-week trip to Shikoku, which is tied together with “Shikoku over Marriage.”
Before embarking on this special trip, the couple pledged to "immerse themselves" in the local area.
So, I booked almost all of my accommodations on Airbnb during my trip.
I rode my bike through the residential area of ​​Takamatsu to do some grocery shopping at a convenience store, went crazy over olives in Shodoshima, and suddenly headed to the Bikan Historical Quarter in Kurashiki, a neighboring town in the Chugoku region. I also visited six udon restaurants in eight days, just like the locals who eat five bowls of udon a week.
In the meantime, we thoroughly visited the must-see tourist spots in Shikoku, including Ritsurin Garden, Ozu Castle, and the Naoshima Art Museum.

Even after completing the short yet long journey of two weeks, the 'something' that the two were looking for beyond love was still unclear.
The couple, still full of question marks, decided to continue their trip in Korea rather than Shikoku.
I decided to compile the travel process into a book.
For the next four months, we met every week to write about our trip and read each other's writings to understand each other's feelings at the time.
Let's take a look at the deep relationship between the small towns of Shikoku Island, Japan, and the long-time lovers through 『Shikoku, More Than Marriage』, the first record of the couple's entry and exit, written in anticipation of a 'something' that will one day become clear, while still being vague, as they embarked on a journey to find 'our own way' that was barely visible.
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index
prolog
: The reason we started our journey_Growth
depart
1.
It may be our illusion that airports welcome travelers.
start
2.
There was a bicycle there_Hwan
3.
Each person had their own morning_Jaram
challenge
4.
Today's final score is 1:1_Jaram
5.
Power J also allows for unplanned travel_Hwan
recall
6.
Episode 2 of Romance: Summoning a Legendary Figure_Jaram
7.
A woman riding a motorcycle and a man riding behind her_Hwan
change
8.
Even though eating habits are different, the dining table is the same_Hwan
9.
Suffering from the 40-year-old syndrome, which is more frightening than the 8th grade syndrome_Growing up
find
10.
You are my style_Jaram
select
11.
1 udon a day possible vs impossible_return
12.
Yoga vs. Weight Training_Growth
crisis
13.
We're stuck in a cycle of check-in and check-out_Jaram
14.
We chose to travel instead of getting married_Hwan
reversal
15.
Today_Hwan, the brightest star we've ever seen together
16.
Today was the most beautiful day of the 100,000km we ran together_Jaram
rest
17.
I am Sen and you are Kaonashi_Zaram
conflict
18.
Please let me pay the price of silence_Hwan
19.
Please prescribe us a cat too_Jaram
In place
20.
When I go down this castle, my side is waiting for me_Hwan
Epilogue
: Shikoku and Beyond_Growth
supplement

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Into the book
Shikoku is the smallest of the four islands that make up Japan, and Takamatsu is the representative city of Kagawa Prefecture, the smallest prefecture in Shikoku. This is the first destination of our trip.
... Argentina, India, Mexico... Why was I drawn to a destination whose name is so unfamiliar, overtaking such formidable candidates that even the mere mention of them conjures up a panorama of dynamic travel scenes? Familiar Japan, yet unfamiliar, small towns?
Could it be that the strange combination resembled our relationship, which felt comfortable yet somehow distant?
--- 「Departure _1.
It may be our illusion that the airport welcomes travelers.

There was a time when articles about 'things you must buy at Japanese convenience stores' were popular.
It used to be at the top of my travel to-do list, even taking notes and saving them, but these days, it's easy to buy similar products in Korea, so the anticipation isn't what it used to be.
Still, I couldn't pass up the triangle kimbap and egg sandwich! I grabbed the pollack roe triangle kimbap, and the grandmother next to me grabbed the plum triangle kimbap.
The spicy pollack triangle kimbap was specially selected with Hwan-i's sleeping face in mind.
--- 「Start _3.
From "Everyone had their own morning there"

For Hwan, Shodoshima will be remembered for its high-speed ferry and bus schedules.
On the other hand, for me, Shodoshima will be remembered for its olives and sunsets.
What will Hwan-i say when he revisits Shodoshima in the distant future? Will this place still be "in the middle" then? Had he taken the regular ferry early in the morning and the Olive bus on time, the day might have been easier, but he would have returned without seeing the sunset over Shodoshima.
Thanks to a big commitment to breaking the travel pattern, we were able to see the best sunset of my life together.
--- 「Challenge _4.
Today's final score is 1:1"

The Kotoden is a small, three-car train that you will most often ride when traveling around Takamatsu City. We will take the Kotoden from Yashima to Kotohira, the final stop.
In Japan's administrative division classification, Takamatsu is a city and Kotohira is a town under Nakatado District.
It means a much smaller rural area.
However, it is a hot spring tourist destination with a famous shrine called Kotohira-gu, so even though it is administratively small, it is a place that many tourists visit.
In fact, you can tell just by looking at the fact that the official name of the Kotoden train we rode was Takamatsu-Kotohira Electric Railway.
--- 「Crisis _13.
We are now caught in the shackles of check-in and check-out.

Strangely, I just wanted to hurry back.
Because today is our last night at the dolphin house.
I wanted to quickly go to the house filled with blue skies and blue seas that were full of Omori's tastes.
If you lie down and stare at the ceiling, you'll wonder if you're in space or the ocean. I wanted to go to a fairytale-like house, not think about coins or stocks and just enjoy the happiness in this space we're in now.
--- 「Comma _17.
From "I am Sen and you are Kaonashi"

Publisher's Review
A tour of small towns scattered throughout the landscape of Shikoku Island, Japan!
The two of them traveled around every corner of Shikoku Island together and asked about their relationship.
The first entry/exit record where you fill out the answer sheet to the age-old question, “Aren’t you getting married?”


Japan, a travel destination that has become so familiar to us now.
So many tourists visit Japan every year that it might feel a little cliche.
To make Japan less unfamiliar, many travel agencies and airlines are developing new travel products, introducing lesser-known small cities as travel destinations, and creating direct flights.
As always, the place names of unfamiliar small Japanese towns sound familiar, but also not.
Argentina, India, Mexico… Just mentioning them conjures up a panorama of dynamic travel scenes. Why were writers Kim Hwan and Kim Jaram drawn to a small Japanese town, a place whose name is often forgotten? The reason lies in the couple's long history.

The couple's first trip abroad was in 2015, and the destination was, of course, Fukuoka, Japan.
During their 11 years of relationship, the two traveled together a lot.
This trip to Shikoku began with the boomerang of a saying from about eight years ago: "Let's get married when we're around forty."
At the point when I was in my 'wonderful forties', I wanted to travel to check in on my 11-year long-term relationship and write an answer sheet to the question, "Aren't you getting married?"
It was a decision that was based on a commitment to making it a kind of turning point.
In this book, author Kim Ja-ram says that until then, they had thought of 'travel' as a common hobby, but the more they traveled, the more they realized that the things they learned together and from each other were coming together to complete 'our own trip.'

This travelogue, which meticulously records the travel points of Shikoku's small towns so well that you could even set off right along the route written in the book, is filled with laughter, arguments, and reconciliation.
Through this book, readers will experience the vivid life of a small town on Shikoku Island and, while touring its tourist attractions, will be able to feel the depth of the relationship between the two people, their mutual understanding, and the affection that overflows beneath, just as they spend time together.
Travel and love are similar in that they gradually change people and provide rest.
If you need a warm break from your daily life, I confidently recommend this book, "Shikoku Over Marriage."
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: May 9, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 192 pages | 306g | 145*210*15mm
- ISBN13: 9791169780537
- ISBN10: 1169780539

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