
The absolute formula for raising children
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Book Introduction
The country's top education expert, the most trusted by all parents Education's No. 1 Big Data Channel: 300,000 Viewers "Education Reporter TV" Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im presents Korea's unique education roadmap. “If you just stick to the basics, raising your child will become easier and the burden will disappear!” As parents, we often find ourselves feeling anxious and worried about our children. Parents are burdened with tens of thousands of worries, such as, 'Is my child growing well?', 'Is his/her learning ability lacking?', or 'Is my child becoming clumsy due to a lack of educational information?' However, Bang Jong-im, the editor-in-chief who has been active for 17 years as a reporter specializing in the education section of the Chosun Ilbo and the host of the YouTube channel "Education Reporter TV" with 300,000 subscribers, says that many education experts are 'worried about parents' worries.' The more parents worry and feel anxious about their children, the more difficult it is for the children to spread their wings of growth. This book teaches parents how to let go of their worries and build their own firm principles. This book contains the core of education proven by Korea's top education experts on 'parenting, learning, and college entrance exams', along with editor-in-chief Bang Jong-im's unique insights gained through these efforts. |
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index
prolog.
Can you raise a child without worry or regret?
Step 1.
Parents, Get Rid of This First (Theory)
(1) Worry: Parents' worries ruin their children.
01.
What Happens When Parents Are Worried
02.
The swamp of anxiety that begins after entering elementary school
03.
What's more important than a desire for a good school district?
04.
You need to know the temperament to see the child.
#Simple Interview Notes: A Parent's Attitude Changes a Sensitive Child's Fate (w. Choi Chi-hyun)
(2) Identification: Am I connecting my problem to my child?
01.
The illusion that what happened to me will happen to my child
02.
Now is the time to become independent from your parents.
03.
I feel like it's hard to raise my child alone.
#Simple Interview Notes: The Secret to Building Parent-Child Cognitive Strength (w. Daehyun Yoon)
(3) Perfection: There are no perfect parents in the world.
01.
Can you perfectly fulfill a child's life?
02.
The Meaning of Private Education Expenses to Parents in Korea
03.
How to Use Private Education Without Wasting Money or Time
04.
Consistency shouldn't be sacrificed due to parental greed.
05.
Focus on your child's strengths rather than their weaknesses.
#Simple Interview Notes: This is what you need to do to avoid wasting your tuition fees (w. Jang Deok-jin)
Step 2.
What Unwavering Parents Need (Practical Edition)
(1) Faith: Unwavering faith requires effort.
01.
How is trust formed with a child?
02.
Why a Top Student's Mom's Words Can't Be the Answer
03.
Parents are not the only absolute beings for a child.
04.
What you gain from reading parenting books
#SimpleInterviewNotes: Parents Who Changed Their Children! (w. Kim Seon-ho)
(2) Observation: Constantly observe the flow of the child and the world.
01.
You already have a lot of data about your child.
02.
A child who is good at understanding the present and detecting changes
03.
We need child education that is appropriate for today's times.
04.
Go with the flow
#SimpleInterviewNotes: Why Parents' Mistakes Should Be Caught by Their Kids (w. Lisa Son)
(3) Change: Small changes in parents that raise their children
01.
Let's teach our children 'values'
02.
A critical time for parents to change themselves
03.
How to avoid instilling negative thoughts
04.
The most effective way to shake off your college entrance exam worries
#SimpleInterviewNotes: What a Mother Who Sent Three Daughters to Harvard Never Missed (w. Shim Hwal-kyung)
Step 3.
Effective Study Methods Proven by Masters (Applied)
Interviews with Five Experts on the Essence of Studying
01.
The Power of Self-Study_Shin Jong-ho (Professor, Department of Education, Seoul National University)
02.
The Effects of Immersion on Efficiency_Hwang Nong-moon (Professor, Department of Materials Science and Engineering, Seoul National University)
03.
Eliminate Bad Study Habits First_Kim Kyung-il (Professor of Cognitive Psychology, Ajou University)
04.
Breaking Free from the Idea That "Studying" Is a "Test"_Choi Jae-cheon (Professor Emeritus, Department of Eco-Science, Ewha Womans University)
05.
The Correlation Between Studying and the Mind_Noh Gyu-sik (Brain Education Expert)
#SimpleInterviewNotes: How to Address the Elementary Learning Gap (w. Lee Sang-hak)
#Simple Interview Notes: How to Change Your Child Who Doesn't Study (w. Lee Byung-hoon)
Epilogue.
Believe in your child's potential to grow into a wonderful adult.
Can you raise a child without worry or regret?
Step 1.
Parents, Get Rid of This First (Theory)
(1) Worry: Parents' worries ruin their children.
01.
What Happens When Parents Are Worried
02.
The swamp of anxiety that begins after entering elementary school
03.
What's more important than a desire for a good school district?
04.
You need to know the temperament to see the child.
#Simple Interview Notes: A Parent's Attitude Changes a Sensitive Child's Fate (w. Choi Chi-hyun)
(2) Identification: Am I connecting my problem to my child?
01.
The illusion that what happened to me will happen to my child
02.
Now is the time to become independent from your parents.
03.
I feel like it's hard to raise my child alone.
#Simple Interview Notes: The Secret to Building Parent-Child Cognitive Strength (w. Daehyun Yoon)
(3) Perfection: There are no perfect parents in the world.
01.
Can you perfectly fulfill a child's life?
02.
The Meaning of Private Education Expenses to Parents in Korea
03.
How to Use Private Education Without Wasting Money or Time
04.
Consistency shouldn't be sacrificed due to parental greed.
05.
Focus on your child's strengths rather than their weaknesses.
#Simple Interview Notes: This is what you need to do to avoid wasting your tuition fees (w. Jang Deok-jin)
Step 2.
What Unwavering Parents Need (Practical Edition)
(1) Faith: Unwavering faith requires effort.
01.
How is trust formed with a child?
02.
Why a Top Student's Mom's Words Can't Be the Answer
03.
Parents are not the only absolute beings for a child.
04.
What you gain from reading parenting books
#SimpleInterviewNotes: Parents Who Changed Their Children! (w. Kim Seon-ho)
(2) Observation: Constantly observe the flow of the child and the world.
01.
You already have a lot of data about your child.
02.
A child who is good at understanding the present and detecting changes
03.
We need child education that is appropriate for today's times.
04.
Go with the flow
#SimpleInterviewNotes: Why Parents' Mistakes Should Be Caught by Their Kids (w. Lisa Son)
(3) Change: Small changes in parents that raise their children
01.
Let's teach our children 'values'
02.
A critical time for parents to change themselves
03.
How to avoid instilling negative thoughts
04.
The most effective way to shake off your college entrance exam worries
#SimpleInterviewNotes: What a Mother Who Sent Three Daughters to Harvard Never Missed (w. Shim Hwal-kyung)
Step 3.
Effective Study Methods Proven by Masters (Applied)
Interviews with Five Experts on the Essence of Studying
01.
The Power of Self-Study_Shin Jong-ho (Professor, Department of Education, Seoul National University)
02.
The Effects of Immersion on Efficiency_Hwang Nong-moon (Professor, Department of Materials Science and Engineering, Seoul National University)
03.
Eliminate Bad Study Habits First_Kim Kyung-il (Professor of Cognitive Psychology, Ajou University)
04.
Breaking Free from the Idea That "Studying" Is a "Test"_Choi Jae-cheon (Professor Emeritus, Department of Eco-Science, Ewha Womans University)
05.
The Correlation Between Studying and the Mind_Noh Gyu-sik (Brain Education Expert)
#SimpleInterviewNotes: How to Address the Elementary Learning Gap (w. Lee Sang-hak)
#Simple Interview Notes: How to Change Your Child Who Doesn't Study (w. Lee Byung-hoon)
Epilogue.
Believe in your child's potential to grow into a wonderful adult.
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Into the book
Over the years, I have met many students from prestigious universities.
Among them, there were some who were obviously outstanding talents.
Clearly, there were types that others could not follow.
But the vast majority were ordinary students who had their own firm determination to study.
Either you enjoyed studying, or you thought about it earnestly, or you knew clearly why you had to do it.
They all had one thing in common: positive feelings about studying.
That's why I didn't blame anyone or force myself to study.
---p.
36 From "What's More Important Than the Desire for a Good School District"
No parent in this world can be perfect at raising a child.
Everyone makes mistakes and experiences trial and error as a parent.
The same goes for children.
The important thing is that it is a natural and expected process.
When we acknowledge this, we can free ourselves from the burden of perfection.
And you can enjoy the process itself.
---p.
From 76-77 "Can I Completely Fill a Child's Life?"
When raising a child, I think it is more important to be consistent with the parents' educational views or educational philosophy than to have them match.
This means that the parenting and educational philosophies of the father and mother must be the same.
Consistency is paramount.
If something that is allowed with the father is forbidden with the mother, the child will experience internal conflict.
Moreover, if parents scold their children, the children will start to watch their parents' expressions and eventually become conscious of all their actions.
---p.
95 From “Consistency Should Not Be Lost Due to Parental Greed”
It is important to remember that the purpose of reading parenting books is to develop your own educational philosophy.
Rather than accepting it uncritically, you should develop your own philosophy through it.
Remembering that you have never properly studied child education before becoming a parent, you should try to understand your child properly through books and establish your own parenting views and philosophy.
---p.
143 From “What You Gain by Reading Child Education Books”
If you want your child to make educationally advantageous choices, take an interest in education and study hard.
That way, you can provide timely help when your child makes a choice.
If you want to achieve the results you want in college, you need to study for the entrance exam.
This way, you won't be dragged around by those around you and won't easily fall for the temptation of private education.
However, you don't need to know every single detail.
Because you can make a plan just by knowing the general direction.
Understanding the main trunk can help children branch out from that trunk and effectively approach public and private education.
---p.
218 From “The Most Effective Way to Get Rid of College Entrance Exam Anxiety”
The power to study comes from knowing why you need to study.
If you don't know why you need to study and don't have the motivation to do it, you will never be able to continue studying for a long time.
When you know why you are studying and it is clear, you can continue studying.
Among them, there were some who were obviously outstanding talents.
Clearly, there were types that others could not follow.
But the vast majority were ordinary students who had their own firm determination to study.
Either you enjoyed studying, or you thought about it earnestly, or you knew clearly why you had to do it.
They all had one thing in common: positive feelings about studying.
That's why I didn't blame anyone or force myself to study.
---p.
36 From "What's More Important Than the Desire for a Good School District"
No parent in this world can be perfect at raising a child.
Everyone makes mistakes and experiences trial and error as a parent.
The same goes for children.
The important thing is that it is a natural and expected process.
When we acknowledge this, we can free ourselves from the burden of perfection.
And you can enjoy the process itself.
---p.
From 76-77 "Can I Completely Fill a Child's Life?"
When raising a child, I think it is more important to be consistent with the parents' educational views or educational philosophy than to have them match.
This means that the parenting and educational philosophies of the father and mother must be the same.
Consistency is paramount.
If something that is allowed with the father is forbidden with the mother, the child will experience internal conflict.
Moreover, if parents scold their children, the children will start to watch their parents' expressions and eventually become conscious of all their actions.
---p.
95 From “Consistency Should Not Be Lost Due to Parental Greed”
It is important to remember that the purpose of reading parenting books is to develop your own educational philosophy.
Rather than accepting it uncritically, you should develop your own philosophy through it.
Remembering that you have never properly studied child education before becoming a parent, you should try to understand your child properly through books and establish your own parenting views and philosophy.
---p.
143 From “What You Gain by Reading Child Education Books”
If you want your child to make educationally advantageous choices, take an interest in education and study hard.
That way, you can provide timely help when your child makes a choice.
If you want to achieve the results you want in college, you need to study for the entrance exam.
This way, you won't be dragged around by those around you and won't easily fall for the temptation of private education.
However, you don't need to know every single detail.
Because you can make a plan just by knowing the general direction.
Understanding the main trunk can help children branch out from that trunk and effectively approach public and private education.
---p.
218 From “The Most Effective Way to Get Rid of College Entrance Exam Anxiety”
The power to study comes from knowing why you need to study.
If you don't know why you need to study and don't have the motivation to do it, you will never be able to continue studying for a long time.
When you know why you are studying and it is clear, you can continue studying.
---p.
237 From “The Power of Self-Study”
237 From “The Power of Self-Study”
Publisher's Review
“It is not natural for parents to worry about their children!”
The key to raising children is to empty them of worry and fill them with confidence.
"Education Reporter TV" has 300,000 subscribers and 27 million cumulative views.
Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im's "Absolute Formula for Child Education"
As parents, we often find ourselves feeling anxious and worried about our children.
Parents are burdened with tens of thousands of worries, such as, 'Is my child growing well?', 'Is his/her learning ability lacking?', or 'Is my child becoming clumsy due to a lack of educational information?'
However, some have questioned the common belief that 'it is natural for parents to worry about their children.'
This is Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im, who has been active for 17 years as a reporter specializing in the education section of the Chosun Ilbo and host of the YouTube channel "Education Reporter TV" with 300,000 subscribers.
Many of the country's top education experts he's met actually say, "I'm worried about parents' worries."
The more parents worry about their children and try to provide them with perfection in everything, the more difficult it is for the children to spread their wings of growth on their own.
The most important role of parents is to help their children become independent, but parents' 'worries' actually hinder their children's growth and independence.
If you know just this, you are already a good enough parent!
Principles of Child Education for Unwavering Parents
Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im has been working as an education reporter for many years and has written the insights he has gained through numerous interviews with education experts into this book, “The Absolute Formula for Child Education.”
The author emphasizes that raising a child well is not an easy task for anyone, and that no one in this world can be perfect at raising a child.
The feeling that as a parent you are not fulfilling your child's life perfectly ultimately makes both you and your child unhappy.
And to break this cycle of misfortune, the author says that there are 'principles of child education' that parents must adhere to, and that simply adhering to these core principles is sufficient.
In the book, the author lists 'worry', 'identification', and 'perfection' as three keywords that parents should abandon when raising their children, and suggests 'faith', 'observation', and 'change' as three keywords that parents must fulfill.
In other words, putting aside worries and impatience about children, we are putting faith and continuous interest at the core of child education.
If you just stick to these key points, you're doing a good job as a parent.
“If you have to read just one book on parenting, read this one!”
The most trusted by all Korean education experts and parents
The only book that lives up to the reputation of "Education Reporter TV"
Whether you live an ordinary life or a socially successful one, many people are still unsure about their children's education.
Parents who don't know how to make the most of private education, parents who are constantly deceived by the words of mothers of top students, parents who can't sleep because they worry about their children's future, etc. are at a loss due to the overheated education market, misinformation, and advice from those around them.
"The Absolute Formula for Child Education" is a book that lives up to the reputation of the "Education Reporter TV" YouTube channel, which is considered big data in the education world.
In-depth interviews with five experts on educational information and study methods that parents must know, as well as key content from videos that became hot topics on YouTube channels, have been newly organized into 'Simple Interview Notes.'
We will also teach parents practical ways to let go of excessive worry and build their own strong principles.
This book contains the core of education proven by Korea's top education experts on 'parenting, learning, and college entrance exams', along with editor-in-chief Bang Jong-im's unique insights gained through these efforts.
The key to raising children is to empty them of worry and fill them with confidence.
"Education Reporter TV" has 300,000 subscribers and 27 million cumulative views.
Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im's "Absolute Formula for Child Education"
As parents, we often find ourselves feeling anxious and worried about our children.
Parents are burdened with tens of thousands of worries, such as, 'Is my child growing well?', 'Is his/her learning ability lacking?', or 'Is my child becoming clumsy due to a lack of educational information?'
However, some have questioned the common belief that 'it is natural for parents to worry about their children.'
This is Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im, who has been active for 17 years as a reporter specializing in the education section of the Chosun Ilbo and host of the YouTube channel "Education Reporter TV" with 300,000 subscribers.
Many of the country's top education experts he's met actually say, "I'm worried about parents' worries."
The more parents worry about their children and try to provide them with perfection in everything, the more difficult it is for the children to spread their wings of growth on their own.
The most important role of parents is to help their children become independent, but parents' 'worries' actually hinder their children's growth and independence.
If you know just this, you are already a good enough parent!
Principles of Child Education for Unwavering Parents
Editor-in-Chief Bang Jong-im has been working as an education reporter for many years and has written the insights he has gained through numerous interviews with education experts into this book, “The Absolute Formula for Child Education.”
The author emphasizes that raising a child well is not an easy task for anyone, and that no one in this world can be perfect at raising a child.
The feeling that as a parent you are not fulfilling your child's life perfectly ultimately makes both you and your child unhappy.
And to break this cycle of misfortune, the author says that there are 'principles of child education' that parents must adhere to, and that simply adhering to these core principles is sufficient.
In the book, the author lists 'worry', 'identification', and 'perfection' as three keywords that parents should abandon when raising their children, and suggests 'faith', 'observation', and 'change' as three keywords that parents must fulfill.
In other words, putting aside worries and impatience about children, we are putting faith and continuous interest at the core of child education.
If you just stick to these key points, you're doing a good job as a parent.
“If you have to read just one book on parenting, read this one!”
The most trusted by all Korean education experts and parents
The only book that lives up to the reputation of "Education Reporter TV"
Whether you live an ordinary life or a socially successful one, many people are still unsure about their children's education.
Parents who don't know how to make the most of private education, parents who are constantly deceived by the words of mothers of top students, parents who can't sleep because they worry about their children's future, etc. are at a loss due to the overheated education market, misinformation, and advice from those around them.
"The Absolute Formula for Child Education" is a book that lives up to the reputation of the "Education Reporter TV" YouTube channel, which is considered big data in the education world.
In-depth interviews with five experts on educational information and study methods that parents must know, as well as key content from videos that became hot topics on YouTube channels, have been newly organized into 'Simple Interview Notes.'
We will also teach parents practical ways to let go of excessive worry and build their own strong principles.
This book contains the core of education proven by Korea's top education experts on 'parenting, learning, and college entrance exams', along with editor-in-chief Bang Jong-im's unique insights gained through these efforts.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: January 4, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 288 pages | 480g | 148*210*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791168125643
- ISBN10: 1168125642
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