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Introduction: How to Give Good Sex Education
Prologue: For parents concerned about their children's safety

PART 1 Parents, how should we provide sex education?
Human sexuality is not sex
What is a surname?
When should sex education begin?
The golden time for sex education is in infancy and early childhood.
How should we provide sex education to young children?
'Personalized sex education' that's right for our children, not a formula for success.
Sex education should not judge right from wrong.
A balance of positivity and negativity is needed in sex education.
Expressing and accepting rejection is good boundary training.
Children learn the joys of life through sexual pleasure.
Forming 'attachment relationships' is also important in sex education.
Changes in sexual behavior begin with the formation of 'attachment relationships'.
A mysterious dictionary of (useful) things (you) should know (about)
A child's masturbation is never the parents' fault.
The boundary between children's 'sexual play' and 'sexual violence'
Sexual play requires separation between 'being' and 'action'.
When should you 'bath separate' your children?
What should I do with my son who is obsessed with his mother's chest?
Who makes parents 'sexually abusive'?
Be a parent who is willing to answer your child's questions about sex.
Ask your child questions and ask back, "Why are you curious about that?"
Please turn a sex scene into a parental "love story."

PART 2 How should I educate my children about sex?
To educate your children about sex, first examine your own perspective on sex.
Let your children know about sex life, not just sex education.
If a sex scene comes on TV with the whole family watching, do you cough?
Plan age-appropriate sex education for your children.
Parents' "old-fashioned" mentality hinders "sexual conversations."
The way to convey the 'life-giving nature' is through coaching, not teaching.
Becoming a Courageous Parent Who Pretends Not to Know About Their Son's Wet Dreams
Why are boys obsessed with penis size?
Pros and Cons of Circumcision? It's the children, not the parents, who decide.
I witnessed my teenage son masturbating.
My noise level has increased! Am I abnormal?
Should I absolutely throw my daughter a first period party?
There are four seasons in a woman's body.
What Parents Should Know About Contraception
I found pornography on my child's smartphone.
Giving children who are quickly addicted to pornography time to slowly recover
I didn't make it! Shameless fetishism
Metaverse: A Future Class Where the Virtual and Real Worlds Coexist

PART 3: How to do digital sex education?
A 'digital mentor' for digital natives
The digital age requires "digital parenting."
Parents should be able to communicate digitally with their children.
A prank can become a crime, not just a simple deviation.
Standards must be established through 'comparison' and 'difference'.
What is digital sexual violence?
Media literacy training is essential safety training.
The danger isn't a note from a stranger, it's a "talk" from someone you know.
Open chat rooms that buy and sell public attention
Starstagram, where only happy people exist
News literacy: seeing facts as they are
Parents' Generation Talks About Humanity in the Face of MZ Generation's Gender Conflict
The Juvenile Act on Sexually Explicit Content for Children and Adolescents ~ Clank Clank
Internet Novels Discover the Pornification of Fanfiction
Tips for Reporting Illegal and Harmful Websites for Parents to Practice
Adults accessing chat apps and random chat apps with minors
My son fell victim to a new type of body cam phishing scam.
My daughter sent a 'body photo' to her older brother, whom she knew through social media.
Between deepfakes and illegal synthetic digital sex crimes
Raise your child to endure and persevere through the digital storm.

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How to Effectively Provide Sex Education in the Digital Age

The golden time for sex education is infancy and early childhood.
A child learns the happiness of life through sexual pleasure.

A child acquires everything he needs for brain development from the care of his parents before the age of three.
That's why they say the golden time for sex education is infancy and early childhood.
This is because during infancy, the brain's foundation is formed to receive the wisdom that a child needs to acquire as he or she grows, such as cognitive, psychological, social, and moral abilities.
At this time, children form learned perspectives and attitudes through whether their parents treat sex secretly, playfully, or feel that it is dirty.
Sex education in early childhood, which can be considered the first step in life, requires parents' attitude and stance toward sex.

Most parents say that sex education is difficult, and they wonder about the teaching methods of parents who are good at sex education.
But just as not all methods of success work for everyone, it doesn't provide good sex education for our children.
It is necessary for each parent to find their own 'unique way' and find the method that suits their child.
In order for parents to find the right sex education method for their children, they must first find the 'easy way' and second, they must talk to their children about what they are curious about.
During this process, if there is something the parents do not know, they should honestly say that they do not know, and no matter what questions the child asks, they should respond seriously without ignoring or playing around.

A child is a being that feels sexual pleasure.
A child who has enjoyed pleasure before birth is born with a sexual nature.
And as soon as they are born, they suckle on their mother's breast and exchange sexual pleasure with their mother with their whole body.
The child appears to be in a state of ecstasy, filled with sex hormones, as if hit with 'natural mulberry'.
This is the sexual pleasure felt through sexual energy, or orgasm.
We cannot deny that there are beings who use sex hormones for sexual pleasure.
A child learns sexual pleasure and grows into a being who enjoys happiness.

From an early age, a child finds emotional stability by being held in his mother's arms and touching her chest.
It is about forming an attachment relationship with the mother.
So when a child feels anxious, he or she becomes attached to the mother's chest.
However, starting from elementary school, separate education should be implemented. This does not reduce attachment or parental stability, but rather fosters the child's independence and maturity.
This is where parental wisdom is needed.
If you consistently ask your child to do something for you because it makes you uncomfortable, your child will respect you.
This is sexual etiquette education.
Whether it's a son or a daughter, you should make sure that they ask permission before touching their mother's breast.
The mother must clearly communicate her intentions.

Before providing sex education to their children, parents should first examine their own views on sex.
In other words, in order to educate about sex, you must look back on your own sex.
That is the way to set the right direction for sex education.
When parents seriously consider the question, "How do I view sex?", self-reflection and philosophy emerge.
However, we have been teaching our children about sex in the most familiar and comfortable way.
Sex education should not be something that teaches children because they lack knowledge about sex, but rather a time for communication where you can comfortably share sex with your children.

Parents' 'old-fashioned mentality' hinders conversations about sex with their children.
Because we grew up with conservative sexual values, there is a 'sexual stereotype' in our sexual consciousness.
We hate to admit it, but we have to admit it, and we can be seen as overbearing parents by our children.
You should think about whether you always scold your child when you don't like his or her behavior, or whether you nag him or her by looking for something to point out rather than understanding his or her feelings.
If parents are not ready to accept their children's feelings, sex becomes difficult to talk about and children become emotionally hurt.

In the digital age, we need 'digital parenting methods.'

Our children are a 'digital native' generation who use digital devices freely from birth.
They can use smartphones and digital devices freely without anyone teaching them.
It's natural that cultural differences and conflicts will arise between digital natives and their children.
Therefore, in the digital age, we need ‘digital parenting methods.’
In particular, access to harmful websites has become easier through smartphones, and cybercrimes such as cyberbullying, voice phishing, and smishing may strike children at any time.
Recently, cyberbullying among youth has become so dangerous that countermeasures are urgently needed.
Additionally, bullying and ostracism both online and offline are expanding to social media and online.

Media literacy education is a skill our children need to develop as healthy "digital citizens" and an essential competency for leaders in the Fourth Industrial Revolution and the digital age.
Media literacy education is also connected to ‘digital sex education.’
Through "digital sex education," our children must acquire the rational and critical understanding and expression skills appropriate for the digital age, enabling them to communicate with others and collaborate with their communities.
This can become a safety rule for the digital age and an individual's ability to prevent digital sex crimes.