{"product_id":"153084","title":"Things I only learned after it collapsed ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQt5mWweh76JqWmh18tfGp.png?v=1764956321\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Things I only learned after it collapsed \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/140241115\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eNot only those who are falling apart\u003cbr\u003e Living each day while enduring the weight of life\u003cbr\u003e A book that resonates gently with everyone\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Becoming Numb: Even as an Adult, I Cried Sometimes\u003cbr\u003e Essay by Tuego\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Some sorrows are temporary and pass, but some deepen over time, leaving people helpless and lonely.\u003cbr\u003e At the end of such a whirlwind of emotions, the author comes face to face with his true self. \u003cbr\u003eYou realize that the only way out of that place is for you and no one else, that you cannot live alone, but you must accept that you are ultimately alone, and that in order to live tomorrow, you must learn to embrace all that sadness and become numb to it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book contains the story and thoughts of the author who lived fiercely without losing himself in the midst of deep sorrow and loneliness.\u003cbr\u003e Life may be a journey of falling down and getting back up again.\u003cbr\u003e But as we go through this process, we develop the muscles of life that can withstand the weight of trials, and this becomes the strength that keeps us from falling into a deep swamp.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author put a lot of thought into preparing this revised edition of “When You Get Familiar.” \u003cbr\u003eBecoming accustomed to and numb to life, people, and emotions is ultimately an extension of things that can only be known through collapse, and it is something that can only be known by going through that process.\u003cbr\u003e Thus, the records of those emotions were reorganized and the depth of the writing was added, and it was reborn as “Things I Only Learned After Collapse.”\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eChapter 1: Living is different from the mind\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe right distance between you and me 016 Forced laughter 019 The door of the heart 022 What I only realized after losing it 024 Beautiful yet empty 027 Acknowledging the incomprehensibility 028 At the end of depression 030 About loneliness 034 The duality of 'us' 037 Self-pride 038 Our relationship was also a kind of music 040 Unspoken sincerity 044 How to forget something 046 The limits of being alone 048 The true meaning of an apology 051 The price of drunken time 054 As it is 057 Only me 058 Erasing what I wrote 060 When I get tired of dreams that don't inflate 062 A heart with a cold 064 Bluebird 067 Flowing gently 068 Such a day 071 If my heart becomes comfortable 072 Instant life 074 Living 076 The moment I become dull 079 Light 082 Pebble 083\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 2 Life is full of moments with different depths of emotion\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eRemembering that person's words 086 Words that protect me 088 Questions about nature 090 The tongue is sharper than a sword 093 Desire that gnaws at oneself 096 Sincere conversation 099 Picking stars from the sky 102 Desire and risk are proportional 104 Temperature of emotions 107 Butterfly dream 110 Despair also changes people 111 Life is ultimately completed by experience 112 Sea of ​​dreams 114 Moon of tears 117 Wounds touched unintentionally 118 When to get really angry 121 An ugly hair that has already taken root 124 The weight of lies 126 There is no heart that does not break 128 We need warmth 131 Don't pile it up, let it out 134 Embracing flaws 136 Adults' words that seep into children 139 Accumulating relationships 142 Words also have nutrients 144 A life of opposition 146 We need comfort 149 152 What Travel Doesn't Give Me: A Moderately Affectionate Taste 155\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eChapter 3: What the End Leaves Behind\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003eA sorrow worse than sorrow 160 True courage 162 Sometimes you have to make painful choices 164 An inescapable shackle 168 The heart of the moon illuminating the night 170 A will that only I can break 172 Beyond the truth 174 Double standards 176 Suppressing the strong and supporting the weak 178 Proteus the human 180 Catharsis 182 The illusion of hope and despair 184 Colorlessness 186 Time dulls emotions 187 Narcissus and Echo 188 Narcissism 190 Tolerance 192 Being careful with words 194 The betrayal of positivity and negativity 197 Why you can't abandon the sky 200 Sadness eats away at the soul 202 A day given to myself 204 I need time alone 206 Small happiness 209 A gift to myself 210 Each person's language, each person's value 212 Our Nostalgia 216 I decided to walk my own path.\u003cbr\u003e 218 If Life is a Mountain 221 What the End Leaves 224 My True Self 226\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate5044\/MidCate007\/504361756.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e I only found out after it happened. \u003cbr\u003eThe depression inside you\u003cbr\u003e That no one but you can face it.\u003cbr\u003e That no one but you can break it.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.33\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e All day long, I believed I was living a normal life in this world, but in reality, my soul was wandering, unable to settle down anywhere.\u003cbr\u003e No belief can break the loneliness that confronts us in the abyss.\u003cbr\u003e The imperfect human soul is lonely because it cannot help but wander.\u003cbr\u003e No one can escape loneliness, and no matter how much we suffer from it, we will eventually have to face it.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.35\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If our life is a process of flowing from a river to the sea, then the destination is the sea anyway.\u003cbr\u003e Wouldn't it be better to shake off some of your worries and let the river flow leisurely?\u003cbr\u003e ---p.70\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In the past, I would spend days trying to solve even the smallest puzzle, but now I'm more used to giving up easily. \u003cbr\u003eI think relationships and misunderstandings are like that.\u003cbr\u003e It's worse than not trying at all, because it often gets more tangled than it gets loose.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.80\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Perhaps we were born into this world as a single, rough pebble.\u003cbr\u003e Only after enduring countless rough waves of unknown magnitude does its once sharp and delicate shape become dull and transform into a smooth pebble that can be held in someone's hand.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.83\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e We live in 'time', but we live forgetting the important 'time'.\u003cbr\u003e No matter how tired or difficult it may be, sometimes just knowing that there is still time can be a great comfort.\u003cbr\u003e ---p.89\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If it doesn't work out, just quit.\u003cbr\u003e But rather than quitting because someone recommended it,\u003cbr\u003e I really want to give up when I'm tired.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 'This is not the way.'\u003cbr\u003e If you want 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