{"product_id":"153125","title":"Getting Seo Jae divorced ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQt5mXPRuC0PmpWIn5CgFZ.png?v=1764957005\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Getting Seo Jae divorced \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/122460003\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e『A Day That Never Ends』 『Miss the Boat and Get Off the Train』 by Lee Hwa-yeol\u003cbr\u003e A very special story about similarity and difference, independence and dependence.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Others are not salvation, but only comfort,\u003cbr\u003e “There is only one place in the world where you can entrust yourself”\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eEssayist Lee Hwa-yeol, who captures everyday life with her unique, delicate gaze and calm yet witty writing style, and who received praise from critic Shin Hyeong-cheol as “a truly masterful piece of writing, with the conventions of Korean essays completely eliminated,” and who gave comfort and courage to countless readers with “A Day That Never Ends,” has returned with her sixth essay, “Getting a Study Divorced.”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Anne Fediman, author of \"Marrying Your Study,\" has previously said that she truly completed her marriage by combining her husband and his study.\u003cbr\u003e Her husband also said, “To my beloved wife.\u003cbr\u003e This is your book too.\u003cbr\u003e He dedicated a heart-rending confession of love, saying, “My life is yours too.”\u003cbr\u003e On the other hand, writer Lee Hwa-yeol, sharing a study with her husband after 25 years of marriage, realizes that she had overlooked the reality of 'difference' because of her desire for 'similarity'. \u003cbr\u003eAnd in this book, \"Getting a Study Divorce,\" he talks about an independent life attitude that lives with others but ultimately does not lose one's self.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “If you don’t know how to properly own yourself, it is impossible to find happiness through others.\u003cbr\u003e Independence in marriage means not giving up control of your life while knowing that you are connected to the other person, and not letting others determine your desires and happiness.” _ From the “Opening Remarks”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e An independent lifestyle isn't just for those struggling in marriage with a spouse who is a permanent stranger with different temperaments and tastes.\u003cbr\u003e As children grow and become independent, it is essential for parents to develop warm attachment habits and grow together by cutting the emotional umbilical cord.\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, it is a virtue that is necessary for all of us to live strong, intelligent, and happy lives. \u003cbr\u003eThe author talks about a life where she discovers herself completely and fills herself with 'herself' instead of others through the warm and small moments of each day with her spouse Olbi, her children Danbi and Hyeonbi, her parents, and the people she encounters every day.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I recommend this book, \"Getting Yourself Divorced,\" to people who want to have healthy relationships with their spouses, parents, and children, people who are struggling and exhausted because of their relationships, and people who feel like they are missing \"themselves\" in their lives.\u003cbr\u003e You can learn to live with loved ones without losing your self and without being dependent.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Opening Note: How to Live with Others Without Losing Yourself\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e1.\u003cbr\u003e Between similarity and difference, independence and dependence\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Marriage with Seo Jae\u003cbr\u003e A man named Olby\u003cbr\u003e The illusion that the perfect sweater exists\u003cbr\u003e Group travel vs.\u003cbr\u003e Free travel\u003cbr\u003e A woman who is good at everything \u003cbr\u003eThe island called 'Just in Case'\u003cbr\u003e The Stupid Side of Marriage\u003cbr\u003e What to fix and what to throw away\u003cbr\u003e The World of the Married\u003cbr\u003e birthday cake\u003cbr\u003e What to Learn from a Breakup\u003cbr\u003e Other people's tastes\u003cbr\u003e selective memory\u003cbr\u003e A secret to take to the grave\u003cbr\u003e Reading Outing\u003cbr\u003e Travel Dreams\u003cbr\u003e Passing through airport security checkpoints\u003cbr\u003e Butcher's gossip\u003cbr\u003e Incarnation of positivity\u003cbr\u003e How to Get Out of the Hamster Wheel\u003cbr\u003e middle-aged habits\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e2.\u003cbr\u003e Cutting the umbilical cord\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Practice breaking up with affectionate habits\u003cbr\u003e The meaning of family\u003cbr\u003e Best parents\u003cbr\u003e Time to break up\u003cbr\u003e Even disappointment is something that should not be intercepted\u003cbr\u003e Louvre drawing class\u003cbr\u003e sad happiness\u003cbr\u003e The art of not being dull to pleasure\u003cbr\u003e Happy trading\u003cbr\u003e A journey with someone who resembles me\u003cbr\u003e The habit of love\u003cbr\u003e Parents and apartment\u003cbr\u003e The desire to share joy\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e3.\u003cbr\u003e Meeting oneself completely\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The wisdom of leisure\u003cbr\u003e Eiffel Tower and ferns\u003cbr\u003e A gift received as a bonus\u003cbr\u003e A woman like wine, a man like a soap opera\u003cbr\u003e happy age\u003cbr\u003e Rolling Stones tickets\u003cbr\u003e About the end\u003cbr\u003e Old age isn't fair either\u003cbr\u003e Danbi and Nose\u003cbr\u003e Ramdan, the butcher\u003cbr\u003e Perfect vacation \u003cbr\u003eMadame Peru\u003cbr\u003e Romance and Music\u003cbr\u003e The table prepared by mom\u003cbr\u003e Evening walk\u003cbr\u003e Missed train journey\u003cbr\u003e Ready to grow old happily\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate4295\/MidCate007\/429461331.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Nietzsche says that because we do not understand ourselves, we misunderstand ourselves and cannot help but be strangers to ourselves.\u003cbr\u003e Menopause, which begins with insomnia, is a time to find one's own identity while considering not only hormonal changes but also life values, tastes and desires, marriage and relationships.\u003cbr\u003e As you open your eyes to yourself, you gain a new perspective on others.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.17\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e We agree to divorce Seo Jae after 25 years of marriage.\u003cbr\u003e The books in the study are divided into individual spaces, and I try to watch indifferently as the two thousand or so Olby books are taken to the free collection and the basement storage.\u003cbr\u003e As we divided the bookshelf, we counted the books we had in common, and surprisingly, there were no more than twenty. \u003cbr\u003eHis bookshelf is mainly filled with futuristic and fantasy literature, while mine is mainly filled with classics and philosophy.\u003cbr\u003e J., which he owns in four versions.\u003cbr\u003e RR\u003cbr\u003e I read Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings once and gave it to someone else, and he admires Montaigne's Essays, which I keep by my bedside, but he has no curiosity about it whatsoever.\u003cbr\u003e Perhaps the study not only knows our individual tastes and mental worlds, but also what we will seek in the future.\u003cbr\u003e In that it reflects oneself like a mirror, a study is similar to marriage.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.18\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The reason people have a hard time loving themselves is because they don't properly understand their own desires.\u003cbr\u003e Being there for each other also means respecting each other's desires.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.52\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If there's one thing to learn from a breakup that ends in disaster, it's to gain confidence in yourself. \u003cbr\u003eWe have no control over the actions of others, but we can at least take control and focus on our own lives.\u003cbr\u003e As Nietzsche said, a person who is not satisfied with himself is constantly ready for revenge.\u003cbr\u003e But the best revenge is to be completely free from your opponent.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.66\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Understanding other people's tastes is ultimately impossible unless you are born as another person.\u003cbr\u003e But the most troublesome of other people's tastes is not your sister-in-law or your friend's, but your spouse's.\u003cbr\u003e Romantic feelings are a strong desire for a plural being to become singular, so they identify with the other person's tastes.\u003cbr\u003e Because we see what we want to see and interpret things as we want, we make the strong mistake of thinking that we have similar tastes.\u003cbr\u003e Marriage is a harsh awakening to such illusions.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.70~71\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I remember an interview with actress Carole Bouquet. \u003cbr\u003eWhen I arrived at the airport returning to Paris after helping my son settle in Barcelona after finishing his baccalaureate, I was so shocked that I ate twenty-two ice creams.\u003cbr\u003e I've read stories of people raising their children while reminding them of the \"taste of independence\" and helping them leave, only to find that when that moment actually came, they were incredibly violent. I've imagined what that must feel like.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.140\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e There are things you have to live to know.\u003cbr\u003e It's not just children who grow and become independent.\u003cbr\u003e We are no longer the same beings.\u003cbr\u003e My soul, nourished by love, also becomes independent.\u003cbr\u003e It was a happy and fair transaction, where we gave what we could and received what we could.\u003cbr\u003e It will not keep me in the habit of attachment.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.168~169\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The ultimate measure of life is not great wealth or the success of one's children.\u003cbr\u003e It is just a habit and attitude of the mind as we spend each day.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.226\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eTrue independence means not letting others determine your desires and happiness.\u003cbr\u003e In a rehabilitation hospital where her husband has passed away and even flying is now permanently impossible, she revisits the dreams that have turned into regrets.\u003cbr\u003e But old age makes even regrets fade.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.229\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e You have to face the pain head on and look inside yourself.\u003cbr\u003e If you experience despair with your whole self, you can find your own meaning even in death.\u003cbr\u003e Ultimately, it's about finding yourself.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.240\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eIf you feel lonely even when you're together, it's time to break away from your affectionate habits and stand alone again!\u003cbr\u003e How to live with others without losing yourself\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The closer the relationship, the more difficult it is to acknowledge differences and the more likely it is to become dependent.\u003cbr\u003e The more intimate you become with your loved one, the more difficult it becomes to live an independent life.\u003cbr\u003e Because in the meantime, ‘I’ am missing. \u003cbr\u003eIf you lose your 'self' in a relationship, you will feel lonely even when you are together, and it will be even more difficult to stand alone in life.\u003cbr\u003e The bigger problem is that it's easy to make the same demands on others.\u003cbr\u003e The author says that we live with a blurred view of objects and the world because we do not properly understand our own desires and selves.\u003cbr\u003e And it is also said that coexistence is impossible without understanding the differences and differences.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “My friend talks about being alone, and I talk about standing alone.\u003cbr\u003e People fall in love and break up.\u003cbr\u003e They may choose to get married or have children.\u003cbr\u003e Sometimes they get divorced and send their spouse away first.\u003cbr\u003e It's okay wherever you are, as long as you don't get lost within yourself.\u003cbr\u003e The narrative of tragedy is one of expecting others to take responsibility for oneself.\u003cbr\u003e You are not a heavy bag to be thrown away. \u003cbr\u003eOthers, including God, are not salvation but only comfort, and the only place in the world where you can entrust yourself is yourself.\u003cbr\u003e Some people run away without courage or live with vague hopes, despairing at the gaze of others.” _ From the text\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e It is more important than anything else to encounter your inner self in everyday life, rather than the borrowed desires of others.\u003cbr\u003e Only then can we both become healthier and our relationships healthier, and discover and name the countless happinesses that exist within us.\u003cbr\u003e If you feel lonely even when you're together, it's time to break free from your affectionate habits! In this book, author Lee Hwa-yeol reminds us that the moment we shake off dependence in relationships and stand alone, we can clear the glass window of life a little more clearly. \u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eDate of issue:\u003c\/strong\u003e September 20, 2023\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 272 pages | 308g | 120*200*20mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9791190710640\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 1190710641 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e \n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43894432858154,"sku":"153125","price":24.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/9ce90285386fe965c338c4a981b66416.jpg?v=1765433292","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/153125","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}