{"product_id":"157160","title":"Emotional dirt spoon and emotional gold spoon","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQt5m5UHS6nhph5CKh2m3Q.png?v=1764858748\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Emotional dirt spoon and emotional gold spoon \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"border-bottom:1px;border-bottom-style:dotted;border-color:;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable align=\"center\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\u003ctbody style=\"border:0px\"\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd align=\"center\" style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/57920892\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctbody\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eHealthy individuals and societies are rooted in secure attachments!\u003cbr\u003e Professors Choi Seong-ae and Jo Byeok, world-renowned psychotherapy and education experts,\u003cbr\u003e A scientifically-proposed path to a society of attachment!\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e South Korea, which has been relentlessly pursuing economic growth, is on the verge of achieving a per capita income of $30,000, but in reality, our self-image today is extremely precarious.\u003cbr\u003e The world's lowest birth rate, the highest divorce rate in Asia, 1 in 20 adults suffering from depression, 1 in 4 school-age children suffering from emotional instability, and increasing child abuse and neglect... While the 'golden spoon syndrome' is on the rise with economic value being the top priority, the number of 'emotionally dirt spoons' struggling with emotional emptiness and unstable interpersonal relationships is increasing.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003eThe root of these problems that threaten the very foundation of Korean society lies in the psychological theme of 'attachment.'\u003cbr\u003e 'Attachment' is a deep and lasting bond that connects people and is a survival instinct. In particular, a stable attachment to parents in the early stages of life has a profound influence on 'emotions' and 'relationships' throughout a person's life.\u003cbr\u003e Therefore, if attachment damage occurs during childhood, the destructive power is very great and can lead to social problems.\u003cbr\u003e In this way, attachment is the root of the individual and the foundation of a healthy society.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Accordingly, Dr. Choi Seong-ae and Professor Cho Byeok, who have been at the forefront of creating healthy families and societies in Korea, seek to raise awareness of the dangers of damaged attachment in their new book, “Emotional Dirt Spoons and Emotional Gold Spoons.” \u003cbr\u003eThe authors, world-renowned experts in the fields of psychotherapy and education, draw on over 30 years of field experience, cutting-edge theories, and diverse case studies to discuss the importance of attachment parenting, which is being neglected in today's society, and the responsibilities and roles of individuals, businesses, and the government in restoring it.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Prologue: Attachment is the seed of happiness for individuals and society.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 1: Shaking the Republic of Korea\u003cbr\u003e Golden spoon, dirt spoon syndrome\u003cbr\u003e Children with poor hearts in a wealthy country\u003cbr\u003e South Korea suffers from emotional poverty\u003cbr\u003e The one most important thing they don't have\u003cbr\u003e Emotional poverty leads to numerous problem behaviors.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 2: A Society That Recommends Attachment Damage\u003cbr\u003e Why did Britain's childcare policy fail?\u003cbr\u003e Children Hurt Between Extreme Control and Permission\u003cbr\u003e Children need tactile comfort.\u003cbr\u003e Children raised according to their parents' dreams  \u003cbr\u003eParents tired of single-parenting and hellish parenting\u003cbr\u003e What babies want most\u003cbr\u003e The Shadow Cast by Parental Divorce on Children\u003cbr\u003e Just give birth and the government will raise the child?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 3 Psychological Roots\u003cbr\u003e Children who can't get off\u003cbr\u003e Human survival instinct, attachment\u003cbr\u003e The belief and expectation that you will be on my side\u003cbr\u003e How Babies Form Attachments\u003cbr\u003e Adults who cannot respond properly to signals\u003cbr\u003e Attachment types between caregivers and children\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 4: Influencing a person's life\u003cbr\u003e developmental trauma\u003cbr\u003e DTD is more toxic than DDT\u003cbr\u003e Developmental trauma, which has been diagnosed as a number of 'disabilities'\u003cbr\u003e When attachment damage continues to occur\u003cbr\u003e The dangers of negative childhood experiences\u003cbr\u003e When connections are lost, healthy growth and development are difficult.\u003cbr\u003e Tune in with your baby like a dance\u003cbr\u003e The Impact of Developmental Trauma on Child Development\u003cbr\u003e Developmental trauma can present with a variety of symptoms.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 5: Everyone Needs a Safe Base\u003cbr\u003e Attachment relationships are important for adults too. \u003cbr\u003eWhat is my attachment style as a parent?\u003cbr\u003e The inheritance of motherhood and fatherhood\u003cbr\u003e Excessive attachment leads to solitude.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 6: How to Raise Your Child with an Emotional Silver Spoon\u003cbr\u003e Instead of fighting between couples, we should focus on harmony between couples.\u003cbr\u003e Let's raise them strictly, not oppress them.\u003cbr\u003e Let's keep our children under the warm gaze of their parents.\u003cbr\u003e Don't send them to the playground, be the playground.\u003cbr\u003e Discover your child's gold mine\u003cbr\u003e Let's be fathers, not 'dads'\u003cbr\u003e I just need one person who gives me unconditional love.\u003cbr\u003e Do 'emotional coaching', not 'behavioral coaching'\u003cbr\u003e Draw a big picture of a couple building work and family together.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 7 For a Healthy and Happy Future\u003cbr\u003e The path our society should take\u003cbr\u003e An attachment society where people connect with each other\u003cbr\u003e Let's secure family time, not work time.\u003cbr\u003e Build a social system that prioritizes the quality of attachment.\u003cbr\u003e A happy family is essential for business growth.\u003cbr\u003e Schools, the second line of defense for attachment, must also step up.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Epilogue: Dreaming of a society of attachment together \u003cbr\u003eAcknowledgements\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate1755\/MidCate002\/175419899.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Individuals lacking attachment, societies disconnected\u003cbr\u003e Above all, the authors emphasize that the problem of attachment damage in our society, which has reached a dangerous level, must be addressed at the social structural level, not at the individual level.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e With the rise of dual-income families and divorce, the traditional child-rearing environment and family structure surrounding children and parents are rapidly changing.\u003cbr\u003e In the process, the possibility of damage to children's attachment inevitably increases.\u003cbr\u003e Furthermore, the difficult child-rearing environment, which can be called hellish parenting and single-parent parenting, encourages the outsourcing of child-rearing, and in the competitive employment culture, parents are also engrossed in work, losing their evenings.\u003cbr\u003e Meanwhile, children are prone to being neglected.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The government attempted to overcome this crisis through policies such as free childcare, but failed to address the root of the problem and ended up only exacerbating attachment problems.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eSo why is attachment so important beyond the individual to society? A stable attachment with a caregiver instills a \"basic sense of trust\" in a child, forming the foundation for brain and physical development.\u003cbr\u003e Based on this, people can grow into \"emotionally rich people\" by successfully developing \"relationships,\" the core of social and emotional capabilities that are the first condition for happiness and an essential ability in the era of the Fourth Industrial Revolution.\u003cbr\u003e However, if attachment is damaged, the original anxiety and distrust can cause obstacles in forming self-identity and interpersonal relationships, and there is a high possibility of becoming an 'emotional dirt spoon'.\u003cbr\u003e This is not only personally unfortunate, but also causes social conflict, and the social costs of resolving it are also skyrocketing.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book, which broadly analyzes everything from the core of attachment theory to our current situation, is divided into seven chapters. \u003cbr\u003eChapter 1 explains the problematic behaviors prevalent in our society, such as violence, addiction, and divorce, by linking them to attachment, and looks into the other side of the \"golden spoon, dirt spoon syndrome.\"\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 2 shows the dangers of reckless policies that overlook the importance of attachment through the UK's 'Child Evacuation Project' and 'Free Childcare Policy for Infants and Toddlers', and addresses the reality in our country.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 3 provides a more in-depth explanation of attachment theory, including the stages and types of attachment formation, and Chapter 4 introduces the impact of developmental trauma that can occur when attachment damage persists on child development.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 5 shows attachment relationships in adulthood and warns that parental attachment impairment can be passed down to their children. \u003cbr\u003eChapter 6 presents specific methods for parents to raise their children with emotional silver spoons in their mouths, and Chapter 7 presents the parenting environment that schools, businesses, and the government should create to create an emotionally healthy society.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Now is the golden time to prevent attachment damage.\u003cbr\u003e The signs of attachment damage that are appearing throughout our society are very serious.\u003cbr\u003e However, the authors say that attachment damage can be repaired.\u003cbr\u003e Of course, it is by no means a simple process, so we emphasize that prevention is the best treatment.\u003cbr\u003e To this end, the authors provide scientific methods for preventing and recovering attachment damage through the latest research findings in psychology, brain science, sociology, and biology.\u003cbr\u003e The author also examines important lessons we should learn from through the examples of Western Europe and the United States, where attachment impairment has already reached its third generation.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe authors argue in this book that it is urgent to create a happy social environment for giving birth and raising children and to improve the quality of attachment.\u003cbr\u003e This environment is also connected to the method of solving the low birth rate problem, which is a national disaster.\u003cbr\u003e To achieve this, we urgently need to prioritize the importance of family and the value of parenting, and to improve awareness and the will to reflect this in the overall social system.\u003cbr\u003e Parents need to draw a big picture of balancing work and family and set priorities.\u003cbr\u003e Companies should care for the ecosystem and happiness of their members through a pro-family system, and the government should create an environment that enhances the quality of attachment through child-friendly policies.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThis book will inform parents who want to raise healthy and energetic children, companies who want to cultivate talented employees, and policymakers who want to create a bright future for Korea about the choices we must make now. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - 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