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style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctbody\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e* 20 Books of the Century - The Wisdom of a Millennium Series NO.\u003cbr\u003e 07\u003cbr\u003e * Originally published in 1997\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cbr\u003e* According to The Daily Telegraph, a leading British media outlet, 25 million copies sold in 135 countries worldwide\u003cbr\u003e * New York Times bestseller for over 100 weeks\u003cbr\u003e * English, Spanish, Korean, Chinese, Japanese, Latvian, Polish, Icelandic,\u003cbr\u003e 45th revised edition published in 26 languages, including Serbian and Greek\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This book, \"Love Made of Little Things,\" is a 2024 revised edition of the 30th anniversary series of Don't Sweat The Small Stuff..., published simultaneously in many countries around the world.\u003cbr\u003e According to The Daily Telegraph, one of the UK's leading media outlets, it was published in 135 countries and ranked second in the best-selling books of the 1990s according to the USA.\u003cbr\u003e [PEOPLE] magazine named Richard Carlson one of the \"most notable people\" and he has become a regular guest on popular TV shows such as The Oprah Winfrey Show and CNN.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003eThis book seems to discuss the ideal love between a man and a woman in a large category, but it deeply resonates with the hearts of ordinary people in that it allows them to examine their relationships and their own personal character, and it has left many world-class records.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Author Richard Carlson died suddenly of a heart attack on a plane to New York in 2006, shortly after the book was published.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e A person who created a message that love between a man and a woman, especially between long-term lovers and married couples, can be lived happily and lovingly by focusing on the most human aspects.\u003cbr\u003e His wife, Christine Carlson, who unexpectedly lost her lifelong companion, who wrote that heartwarming message with him, has overcome her grief and, through a meticulously crafted process, has become the author of the 30th anniversary, exclusive revised edition of this book, \"The Little Things That Made Love.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e  \u003cbr\u003eThis book is filled with the message that by honing the beautiful theme of 'love' in the abyss, we can fill our lives with richer and happier times by cultivating a more beautiful human side.\u003cbr\u003e It is divided into 10 chapters and contains 100 case studies and the authors' realistic and simple advice.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Book Introduction\/Editor's Note\u003cbr\u003e Recommendation by Robin Sharma\u003cbr\u003e Before we begin, Christine Carlson\u003cbr\u003e Introduction Richard and Chris\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 1.\u003cbr\u003e I still dream of love with you\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 1.\u003cbr\u003e If we could be friends rather than lovers or couples\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 2.\u003cbr\u003e Let's stop grading our grades\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 3.\u003cbr\u003e The key to love is (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 4.\u003cbr\u003e Don't mix 'I love you' and 'but'\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 5.\u003cbr\u003e A gift package in a thorn box\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 6.\u003cbr\u003e If you don't do that, be prepared!\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 7.\u003cbr\u003e He has no mind control\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 8.\u003cbr\u003e When will she\/he change!\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 9. \u003cbr\u003eI've decided to become someone who knows my mistakes well.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 10.\u003cbr\u003e Could you think about it gently?\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 2.\u003cbr\u003e Maybe neither you nor I knew much about love.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 11.\u003cbr\u003e Don't think too much about your thoughts\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 12.\u003cbr\u003e There is no one on this planet with the same fingerprint as me.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 13.\u003cbr\u003e Pinwheel of Emotions\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 14.\u003cbr\u003e I can look at thoughts\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 15.\u003cbr\u003e Exactly, today is the day\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 16.\u003cbr\u003e Talking in silence\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 17.\u003cbr\u003e \"Thank you,\" \"Thank you\" fills life\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 18.\u003cbr\u003e Because we are all too busy\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 19.\u003cbr\u003e In the big picture\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 20.\u003cbr\u003e Is your lover human?\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 3.\u003cbr\u003e So that we don't become lonely 'togethers' even when we are together\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 21.\u003cbr\u003e One day in the future, what will you remember?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 22.\u003cbr\u003e Don't react to the reaction\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 23.\u003cbr\u003e What is the hardest thing about living with me?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 24.\u003cbr\u003e I just turn off the lights in my dressing room and walk around.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 25.\u003cbr\u003e Don't use extreme expressions\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 26.\u003cbr\u003e The one person who gives me unconditional support\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 27.\u003cbr\u003e A person who is easy and fun to be with \u003cbr\u003eChapter 28.\u003cbr\u003e sleep, poetry, stop, dance\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 29.\u003cbr\u003e Because both you and I blink\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 30.\u003cbr\u003e A little bit laid back, but not lax (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 4.\u003cbr\u003e So if we can be the happiest when we are together\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 31.\u003cbr\u003e Please laugh at me\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 32.\u003cbr\u003e Is that what happened now?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 33.\u003cbr\u003e That person I first met\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 34.\u003cbr\u003e The grass may seem greener on the other side,\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 35.\u003cbr\u003e Don't turn your partner into an emotional trash can.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 36.\u003cbr\u003e Whose problem is this anyway? (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 37.\u003cbr\u003e Talk to your foreign language\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 38.\u003cbr\u003e People who still want to fall in love\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 39.\u003cbr\u003e Mark your calendar (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 40.\u003cbr\u003e Share your insights\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 5.\u003cbr\u003e Will I ever love again like I did the first time?\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 41.\u003cbr\u003e Please make space for each other.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 42.\u003cbr\u003e Finding the right time to fight\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 43.\u003cbr\u003e I am a good person\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 44.\u003cbr\u003e The good in all the bad\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 45.\u003cbr\u003e Maybe because we're like mirrors (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 46.\u003cbr\u003e You idiot\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 47. \u003cbr\u003eIt's really good just to listen to it\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 48.\u003cbr\u003e A situation where dramatic change occurs\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 49.\u003cbr\u003e I don't want to be briefed on your day.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 50.\u003cbr\u003e Let them do what they want to do\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 6.\u003cbr\u003e Put down the heat and fill with warmth\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 51.\u003cbr\u003e Whales aren't the only ones who appreciate praise.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 52.\u003cbr\u003e Don't ask awkward questions in front of people\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 53.\u003cbr\u003e Could you please be quiet and warm?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 54.\u003cbr\u003e Work completed\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 55.\u003cbr\u003e Maintaining a warm gaze and heart\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 56.\u003cbr\u003e Rather than lukewarm\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 57.\u003cbr\u003e Become someone who doesn't need to be touched\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 58.\u003cbr\u003e It will only take 1 or 2 minutes\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 59.\u003cbr\u003e Criticism that gets smaller as you swallow it\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 60.\u003cbr\u003e Let's have fun, Chris\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 7.\u003cbr\u003e Once I stop blaming and understand you,\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 61.\u003cbr\u003e Please cut down on your talking\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 62.\u003cbr\u003e What if it's a little wrong?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 63.\u003cbr\u003e I create my own happiness.\u003cbr\u003e Without being swayed!\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 64.\u003cbr\u003e Real conversation\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 65.\u003cbr\u003e When you're depressed, you look hateful.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 66.\u003cbr\u003e Let's stop being defensive.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 67.\u003cbr\u003e Helping Someone Together (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 68. \u003cbr\u003eWhat Einstein said\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 69.\u003cbr\u003e If you had to choose between a lover and a spouse,\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 70.\u003cbr\u003e Like an idiot, I get angry at the people close to me\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 8.\u003cbr\u003e Our life is a happy life that continues slowly and peacefully, like breathing.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 71.\u003cbr\u003e The unchanging truth in this world\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 72.\u003cbr\u003e Analyze the analysis\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 73.\u003cbr\u003e Choose what you support (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 74.\u003cbr\u003e Because I'm happy if you're happy\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 75.\u003cbr\u003e What is his or her dream?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 76.\u003cbr\u003e If you can show your love in any case\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 77.\u003cbr\u003e Let's not let children stand in the way of our relationship.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 78.\u003cbr\u003e My home after a hectic day\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 79.\u003cbr\u003e Are you old enough to ask permission?\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 80.\u003cbr\u003e Good at receiving compliments\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 9.\u003cbr\u003e Will it not be connected again?\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 81.\u003cbr\u003e What can be predicted must be predicted\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 82.\u003cbr\u003e I don't think it's an emergency.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 83.\u003cbr\u003e letter\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 84.\u003cbr\u003e Feels like walking on thin ice\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 85.\u003cbr\u003e Let's make a 'plan' to become a more lovable person.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 86.\u003cbr\u003e Please accept my apology politely.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 87. \u003cbr\u003eI didn't know there were so many things you did for me\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 88.\u003cbr\u003e and many other things\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 89.\u003cbr\u003e Don't speak for others\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 90.\u003cbr\u003e Thinking about jealousy (Chris)\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePart 10.\u003cbr\u003e If you miss me as much as I miss you\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 91.\u003cbr\u003e basic human needs\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 92.\u003cbr\u003e Try unconditional love\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 93.\u003cbr\u003e sorry\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 94.\u003cbr\u003e Really, stop comparing\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 95.\u003cbr\u003e Learning love from teenagers\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 96.\u003cbr\u003e I don't cry\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 97.\u003cbr\u003e As your level of character increases, your happiness doubles.\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 98.\u003cbr\u003e Allow space for explosions sometimes\u003cbr\u003e Chapter 99.\u003cbr\u003e To the magical days of the first time I loved you\u003cbr\u003e 100 sheets.\u003cbr\u003e Cherish each other\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eDetailed image\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/momo\/TopCate4619\/MidCate008\/461873863.png\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Detailed Image 1\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e The surest way to ruin a relationship between a couple or a lover is to check every single thing you did and didn't do.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.36\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The most beautiful expression that can be shared between lovers is 'I love you.' \u003cbr\u003eWhat if we add the words 'but' and 'however' here?\u003cbr\u003e --- p.42\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The secret weapon to livening up a relationship is to find the 'gift' hidden in the difficulties or headaches.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.45\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Although he had many magical abilities, he didn't have the ability to read my mind.\u003cbr\u003e You have to tell the other person so they know.\u003cbr\u003e At that time, the love between the two people will become much softer.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.54\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Every relationship is unique in itself.\u003cbr\u003e The fact that no two fingerprints are the same in this world makes us realize that each individual has a completely different inner self.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.74\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Whether you're a long-time couple or a couple just starting out, I think it's beautiful and meaningful to pledge to start anew together.\u003cbr\u003e This is a new beginning in a relationship and it's about making today the most important day, a better day than yesterday.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.87\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eOne way to deepen the sense of fulfillment that comes from being together without getting tired of each other's company is to sit quietly together.\u003cbr\u003e It's something that takes practice.\u003cbr\u003e A relationship where you can give and receive silent warmth is a sustainable and reliable relationship.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.90\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The most important thing is, 'Do you both really know that you are just ordinary people?'\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.104\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"When we look back on our lives together, what will be your most memorable moment? And what will be the most important?\" This was a question he asked me over lunch one day.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.112\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Whether or not you ask, “What is the hardest thing about being with me?” there is clearly something about my existence that bothers others in some way.\u003cbr\u003e It is important to acknowledge this fact.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.120\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWhat I've come to realize is that couples who stay together with enduring love and respect inspire each other in their own unique way.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.133\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If you're really bothered by a certain recurring behavior from your loved one, before you start arguing, ask yourself, \"Whose problem is it?\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.169\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Reduce fighting over trivial actions.\u003cbr\u003e Then you will become much more attractive to your partner in every way.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.210\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e He said that 'doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results' is madness.\u003cbr\u003e I don't think turtles are crazy, but I think that definition could apply to humans.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.299\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e 'I love you because you are you.\u003cbr\u003e It means, 'You don't have to change to receive my love and keep my love.'\u003cbr\u003e Love has no conditions. \u003cbr\u003eThis is one of those strategies where you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e --- p.396\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “You are my most precious treasure.”\u003cbr\u003e This is a wonderful message to hear from your loved ones.\u003cbr\u003e Knowing that I am valued makes me happy just knowing that I am a valuable person.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.422\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eA letter from Christine Carlson\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e First of all, I would like to congratulate Richard on the revised edition, my beloved husband and a truly loving man.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e When you ask people, “How is your relationship with your partner?” you’ll often hear, “Well, it seems okay,” or a variety of indifferent or uncertain answers.\u003cbr\u003e For whatever reason, many people seem to think that settling for a \"good\" relationship is normal and completely acceptable. \u003cbr\u003eSometimes, even couples who report having a good relationship seem confused about what a \"good\" relationship means.\u003cbr\u003e Because it seems like there is a constant mix of irritation or dissatisfaction with your partner (lover or spouse).\u003cbr\u003e There may also be ongoing conflict or arguments, a lack of harmony and contentment, anger, a desire for the other person to change, and a lack of genuine joy and gratitude.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I believe that whatever state your relationship is in right now—whether it's problematic or just okay—with just a little effort, it can become a better relationship.\u003cbr\u003e Because no relationship is perfect and every relationship is different, I believe it can be improved with a few simple strategies that broaden your perspective.\u003cbr\u003e This book is about just that.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eHumans are remarkable in that when they have a vision or a goal, they can achieve that goal, or at least come close to it.\u003cbr\u003e This fact means that it is important to have as high a vision as possible in human relationships.\u003cbr\u003e It means that any shape of love can be created.\u003cbr\u003e You can be best friends, soulmates, true partners in every sense of the word.\u003cbr\u003e You can become more loving, cheerful, peaceful, generous, grateful, patient, accepting, and forgiving, both individually and as a couple.\u003cbr\u003e You'll also gain a greater perspective, a better sense of humor, and better listening skills.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Most importantly, you can develop the ability to take yourself a little more lightly.\u003cbr\u003e In addition to these traits, you can have many other virtues that you consider important. \u003cbr\u003eThe good thing is that when our own and the other person's flaws are revealed, we can be relaxed and not 'care' too much.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e My husband and I tend to be optimistic, but not unrealistic.\u003cbr\u003e I'm not saying that you can live without problems or issues if your loved ones don't mind the little things.\u003cbr\u003e I'm not saying we won't occasionally get annoyed with each other, or that we won't have moments where we doubt ourselves or our partner drives us crazy.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e What my wife and I are suggesting, however, is that whatever frustration you've experienced will lessen, and even your worries and problems can be approached from a more accessible and comfortable perspective.\u003cbr\u003e In other words, even if problems arise, you will gain the confidence that you can overcome them and resolve them, and in doing so, you will return to a loving connection.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWriting this book with Richard was a real pleasure and one of the highlights of our lives together.\u003cbr\u003e This has given us an opportunity to reflect carefully on the core of our loving and nurturing relationships.\u003cbr\u003e Neither of us consider ourselves relationship experts, but we can have a good relationship.\u003cbr\u003e All of this requires just willpower and a little practice.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Most of the time we loved each other, were kind and respectful, and considered each other best friends.\u003cbr\u003e We do get on each other's nerves sometimes, but fortunately, I would say that it's very rare.\u003cbr\u003e Looking back on our relationship, we had many flaws, but our biggest strength was that we didn't fight often over trivial things.\u003cbr\u003e For the most part, we have been tolerant of each other and focused on our strengths rather than our weaknesses. \u003cbr\u003eRather than blaming each other, we often just let things go.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e We've found that when we both choose kindness over insisting we're right and aren't so rigid, life becomes much easier and we experience more love.\u003cbr\u003e Life and all relationships certainly present tremendous challenges.\u003cbr\u003e Unfortunately, there are times in life when suffering becomes a reality.\u003cbr\u003e But it's really interesting to see how they handle big problems.\u003cbr\u003e You'll agree that many people tackle life's serious challenges with courage, dignity, and creativity.\u003cbr\u003e When one of our children is sick, everyone pulls together to help.\u003cbr\u003e Selfless acts of love continue through sharing, support, prayer, and strength.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e We've been married for 14 years, and over those 17 years, we've had to work together, make sacrifices, and be patient with creative ideas. \u003cbr\u003eFortunately, most of life isn't made up of just big things.\u003cbr\u003e In other words, it's not often that you get fired from your job, file for divorce, or end up in the emergency room every few hours.\u003cbr\u003e These things do happen, and when they do, they can be devastating.\u003cbr\u003e These types of incidents tend to occur infrequently and are scattered.\u003cbr\u003e Oddly enough, we feel like we cope better with big things than little things.\u003cbr\u003e We bring out the best in ourselves and each other because we know we must overcome.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Most of our lives are consumed by the everyday, mundane, and trivial—the routines of each other, the little hassles and frustrations, the traffic jams, the unanswered phone calls, more hassles, confusion, clutter, disagreements, responsibilities, lost things, noise, and so on.\u003cbr\u003e Therefore, it is very important to learn how to deal with the small problems that come your way. \u003cbr\u003eIf you learn to handle small things with composure, you will be better equipped to handle bigger things.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I hope the strategies in this book will help you deal with minor annoyances more easily and with a broader perspective.\u003cbr\u003e As the little distractions diminish, we'll find new and easier ways to care for and love one another. 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