prolog······
Professor Maekawa's One-Point Commentary

Case 1: Why can't I stop talking once I open my mouth?
Case 2: Conversely, why do people get angry when someone talks to them?
Case 3 Can you understand the meaning of kindness?
Case 4: Why can't I say 'I'm sorry'?
Case 5: Why do I always get in trouble at school?
Case 6: Can we understand other people's feelings?
Case 7 Why don't you study hard?
Case 8 Why can't I organize things?
Case 9: Why can't someone change their behavior even after being scolded?

Epilogue

A person with a developmental disability explains the reasons for their 'problem behavior'.
The repeated 'problem behaviors' were 'to protect oneself'!
'He gets angry and upset when you talk to him' → Let him rest alone!
'Panic and explosion' → Exhausted from hypersensitivity
'You don't know the hearts of others' → It's hard to know what has no form.
'It's not organized' → I feel anxious if it's not in a place I can see, etc.
My twenty-year-old son with developmental disabilities explains that the following situations are behind his 'problem behavior':
This book contains the long conversations between cartoonist Nyanko Kanashiro and her young son, and the valuable insights she gained from them.


one side,
'He gets angry when you help him clean up.'
Pointing out a mistake only leads to an explosion.
'I'm always annoyed at school'
'I can't stop talking'
'Unthankful'
'He doesn't know how to apologize'
'When I get angry, I can't stop.'
'I can't concentrate in class'
'I lose things all the time'
'It bumps into surrounding objects easily'
'No matter how much you scold them, they won't stop'
'Run out of the classroom', etc.
It is also full of tips and hints to help you resolve this kind of 'difficult behavior' in your child.
An expert with 40 years of clinical experience provides helpful tips that can be applied immediately at home and in educational settings.

This book was reprinted several times as soon as it was published in Japan due to the enthusiastic response.
Readers who picked up this book said:
"We needed a book like this, with the voices of the people involved."
“How can it be so similar to our child!”
"The frustration of wondering why things were like that has disappeared, and I can now parent by observing."
“Even non-custodial parties will find this helpful.”
“My fourth-grade son read it and said, ‘I know exactly what this feels like.’”