{"product_id":"164531","title":"Becoming a parent Becoming a person ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/3jYFtwh5KzDH3tYElqNP5hG6fHkgUV.png?v=1764974053\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Becoming a parent, becoming a person \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/91412894\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eThere is no manual for raising children.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eSince its inception, the bimonthly [Dandelion] has promoted itself as an ‘educational magazine for parents who study.’\u003cbr\u003e This is because I thought that parental growth was more important than anything else for children's education and for changes in education.\u003cbr\u003e Books and magazines for parents often tell parents to do this or not do that in a firm yet kind way, but instead of providing a kind manual, Dandelion has followed in the footsteps of those who have walked the path of parenthood first, wavering.\u003cbr\u003e The direction of that path seems to be not about what to do with 'the child', but ultimately, how 'I' will live.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003eThey say children come into the world to make their parents human.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The wisdom of the sages of the East and the West, past and present, seems to boil down to not what to do with 'children', but how 'I' should live. \u003cbr\u003eAs the saying goes, \"All children come into this world to become parents,\" perhaps becoming a parent means deciding to grow yourself through your child.\u003cbr\u003e We've gathered together various stories about how people are wisely navigating this difficult \"parenting\" that seems like it requires a license.\u003cbr\u003e I hope this book can provide comfort and empathy to those striving to be good parents and good people, and that it can convey the enlightenment and wisdom of those who have been shaken first.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Editor's Note_Wise Parenting\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 1 Living as a Parent\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Having Children, Becoming an Adult | Lee Im-ju\u003cbr\u003e Fathering: The Joys and Pains of Being a \"Reborn\" | Shin Dong-seop\u003cbr\u003e It's Okay to Be Last | Choi Kyung-sook\u003cbr\u003e The Dizzying Tightrope Walk Between Parenting and Education | Jeong Su-jin \u003cbr\u003eWhen I Decided to Become a Parent | Lee Hyun-joo\u003cbr\u003e The Difficulty of Being a \"Good Mom\" ​​| Ahn Soon-ah\u003cbr\u003e Filling the Parental Position While Shaking | Isulgi\u003cbr\u003e Raising Children, Living with Children | Ryu Seung-yeon\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003ePart 2: Being a parent\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The World Dreamed of by \"Moms in Politics\" | Baek Woon-hee\u003cbr\u003e We Need Mothers' Language | Lee Sung-kyung\u003cbr\u003e That's how you become a human being | Nam Ki-woong\u003cbr\u003e Education is a team effort between parents and teachers | Lee Cheol-guk\u003cbr\u003e Don't worry about raising your children well | Lee Hyun-joo\u003cbr\u003e Parental environment is more important than genes | Go Byeong-heon\u003cbr\u003e Beyond Me: The Educational Significance of \"Becoming a Parent\" | Seo Deok-hee\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Compared to the countless possibilities children possess, not being able to study is a very small part of it.\u003cbr\u003e It's the same even if you're last in the whole school.\u003cbr\u003e Children are sensitive. \u003cbr\u003eI know like a ghost whether the parents' thought of 'It's okay to be last in the school' comes from a feeling of giving up after much heartache and thinking, 'Okay, since my child is bad at studying, let's make them do something else' or from a sense of free-spirited values.\u003cbr\u003e The moment we stop lining up and have faith, every child will grow to their full potential in their own innate way.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"It's Okay to Be Last\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Even mothers who used to say without any greed, “I just want my child to be happy,” often become like wavering candles in front of their children’s ‘study’ as they get older.\u003cbr\u003e Even when plots to further inflate my desires arise within me without my knowledge, I mistake them for love and push my child towards them.\u003cbr\u003e When it becomes embarrassing to say that a parent's love for their child is 'unconditional', it is precisely when these desires creep up. \u003cbr\u003eEven those who emphasize a frugal lifestyle, saying that luxury bags are unnecessary, want to be included in the ranks of parents who have raised their children better than anyone else.\u003cbr\u003e If you think about it, the criteria for success are actually no different from 'the luxury bag that everyone wants'.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"The Difficulties of Being a Good Mother\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"Don't overthink it, don't overthink it.\" This simple principle is the right amount of distance to keep my mother's identity from overwhelming me.\u003cbr\u003e Parenting is a natural process, and it's a belief that I'm a \"good enough mother\" (Donald Winnicott), and a commitment to looking beyond my child to the world my child belongs to.\u003cbr\u003e After much deliberation, I decided to send my child to a regular daycare center, but I am still not free from worry and anxiety.\u003cbr\u003e New mothers will continue to be shaken.\u003cbr\u003e Still, I decided to believe two things. \u003cbr\u003eEven if the environment seems inadequate, the child will learn from his peers, and I will learn from the time I am away from the child.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"The Parents' Seat, Filled While Swaying\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e I was unable to acknowledge the characteristic of a ‘developmental disability’ and struggled to make my son become a ‘different person’. In reality, I was nothing more than a ‘bad mother’ who did not want to accept my child as he was, while I was packaging myself as a good mother who sacrificed for my son.\u003cbr\u003e The very idea that I had to raise my son well so that he could catch up to his twin sister even a little was a mistake.\u003cbr\u003e I shouldn't have raised my son well.\u003cbr\u003e I just had to live well with my son.\u003cbr\u003e happily.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"Raising Children, Living with Children\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Our society focuses too much on children.\u003cbr\u003e The child's health, the child's happiness, the child's growth.\u003cbr\u003e A mother exists only for her child. \u003cbr\u003eA mother is not a special being, she is just a person who gave birth.\u003cbr\u003e It's not like you're instantly equipped with 'mom mode' just because you gave birth, but it's as if you're a different person from yesterday, and they give you an excessive amount of responsibility to handle with the words, \"Because you're a mom, because you're a mom, because you're a mom.\"\u003cbr\u003e As with any job, mothers need to adjust, but there is little understanding or concern for the confusion, frustration, challenges, and inexperience that comes with becoming a mother.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ---From \"We Need Mothers' Language\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Children learn by watching how their parents learn, work, love their neighbors, and live happily in this world.\u003cbr\u003e It's better to be an imperfect mother than an unhappy mother.\u003cbr\u003e Also, a child has the responsibility and right to forge his or her own unique destiny without being bound by either the mother's or the father's genes. \u003cbr\u003eThere are many parents who feel sorry for giving so much to their children, but there are no perfect parents in this world.\u003cbr\u003e Don't feel sorry for not being a perfect parent.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e ---From \"Education is a team effort between parents and teachers\" \u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e GOODS SPECIFICS \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eDate of issue:\u003c\/strong\u003e July 25, 2020\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003ePage count, weight, size:\u003c\/strong\u003e 176 pages | 202g | 127*188*20mm\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN13:\u003c\/strong\u003e 9788988613900\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:100%;margin-bottom:5px;line-height:1.6em;font-size:14px\"\u003e - \u003cstrong\u003eISBN10:\u003c\/strong\u003e 8988613902 \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/center\u003e","brand":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43891379109930,"sku":"164531","price":17.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0683\/2750\/5962\/files\/4f985da8f8b36dbeaac802c8247081c1.jpg?v=1765323868","url":"https:\/\/librairie.coreenne.fr\/en\/products\/164531","provider":"LIBRAIRIE COREENNE","version":"1.0","type":"link"}