{"product_id":"164799","title":"Ordinary married life ","description":"\u003ccenter\u003e\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/tmgdisk01.cafe24.com\/images\/vs\/4172\/sv\/WQt5W83y09qRB8PFrMgTDV.png?v=1764964327\" style=\"max-width:100%;max-height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\u003ccenter\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:center;font-size:30px;font-weight:bolder;line-height:1.6em\"\u003e Ordinary married life \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd 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style=\"line-height:1.2em;text-align:center;font-size:18px;color:black;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px;\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"text-align:center\"\u003e\u003cimg src=\"https:\/\/image.yes24.com\/goods\/97702661\/XL\" style=\"max-width:100%;height:auto\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003ccenter\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\u003ctd style=\"height:10px\"\u003e\u003c\/td\u003e\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/table\u003e\u003c\/center\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"width:95%;{split_style6}padding-top:20px;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;padding-bottom:20px\"\u003e Description \u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align:left;word-break:break-all;font-size:14px;line-height:1.6em;\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eBook Introduction\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdl\u003e\n\u003cdt\u003e A word from MD\u003c\/dt\u003e\n\u003cdd\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e Marriage is both complicatedly happy and complicatedly unhappy.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e A sudden proposal just three weeks after meeting, a short three-month relationship, and then 20 years of marriage that followed. \u003cbr\u003eAuthor Im Kyeong-seon has published a collection of essays containing stories about married life she experienced while living with a man for 20 years.\u003cbr\u003e It honestly captures the various emotions of a complicatedly happy and complicatedly unhappy marriage.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cspan\u003eMarch 12, 2021.\u003c\/span\u003e \u003cspan\u003eEssay PD Kim Tae-hee\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/dd\u003e\n\u003c\/dl\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003e“Marriage is complicatedly happy and complicatedly unhappy.”\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Author Lim Kyeong-seon, who has consistently published novels and prose works such as 『Names Called Quietly』, 『On Attitude』, and 『To Us Living as Women』, has now published prose on the topic of ‘married life.’\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Anyway, I’ve been married to the same man for 20 years,\u003cbr\u003e “I think I am now qualified to say a word or two about him.”\u003cbr\u003e _From the text\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e March 11, 2021, the date when 『Ordinary Marriage』 was published, marks the author's 20th wedding anniversary. \u003cbr\u003eA sudden proposal after only three weeks of meeting, a brief three-month relationship, and then 20 years of marriage.\u003cbr\u003e What on earth happened to them in the meantime?\u003cbr\u003e The author decided to write about the most honest 'truth about married life' based on her experience of living with a man for 20 years.\u003cbr\u003e He believes that this is the most perfect way to celebrate their 20th wedding anniversary, and in the process of completing this book, he finally comes to one of the most important realizations about marriage.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cul\u003e\u003cli\u003e You can preview some of the book's contents.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cspan\u003ePreview\u003c\/span\u003e\n\n\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eindex\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e 1~50\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003eInto the book\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e I think deeply about “what is married life?”\u003cbr\u003e To me, married life is, above all, 'living with someone who doesn't suit me.' \u003cbr\u003e“It was a day of discovering, ‘How could they be so different from me?’ – their lifestyles, eating habits, hobbies, habits and mannerisms, their sensitivity to heat and cold, their travel habits, and even their sexual preferences.”\u003cbr\u003e --- p.6\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “I want to be free.”\u003cbr\u003e When I mutter to myself as if talking to my husband's back while he is lying on the bed with his back turned, he turns around and looks at me with an embarrassed expression.\u003cbr\u003e As if to ask how one can become more free than that.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.25\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Who on earth describes married life as a symbol of 'stability'?\u003cbr\u003e Marriage should rather be a symbol of 'instability'.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.75\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Recklessness is something that is only allowed to those who have courage and confidence.\u003cbr\u003e I think I envied that crazy passion that made people declare that they had nothing to lose, that they would only look at that one person, even though they had a lot to lose. \u003cbr\u003eWhile a wise man is thinking of how to cross the river, a madman has already crossed it.\u003cbr\u003e --- p.79\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If you listen carefully to the stories of married people, you will find that most of them are having sex lives that are unsatisfactory in both quantity and quality.\u003cbr\u003e So, it's not just you and your spouse reading this right now who have a problem.\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e --- p.94\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003ch5\u003e \u003cb\u003ePublisher's Review\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/h5\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e \u003cb\u003eThe most private confession about the truth of married life\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e If there are 100 people, there are 100 stories.\u003cbr\u003e But if you look closely at those 100 stories, there is a common element that runs through them all.\u003cbr\u003e So people are interested in other people's stories and look at themselves in the light of those stories.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author, who had only three months from their first meeting to their wedding, was surprised to discover in 2020 that she would be celebrating her 20th wedding anniversary the following year. \u003cbr\u003eAnd to commemorate him, she decides to write her own wedding story.\u003cbr\u003e About the truth about married life without an inch of embellishment or censorship.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e This couple clashes from the first day of their honeymoon.\u003cbr\u003e Because of our ‘incompatibility’ with each other.\u003cbr\u003e The author says that all couples, regardless of their relationship length, will experience this 'incompatibility' and that the process of adapting to and adjusting to this 'incompatibility' is a 'normal' thing that all couples go through.\u003cbr\u003e And just like the 'ordinary life' that people in the world talk about, an ordinary married life is also possible through fierce struggles to cultivate one's character.\u003cbr\u003e But the author who says this also had nothing but reckless passion while in love.\u003cbr\u003e The writer and her husband, who fell in love helplessly and decided to get married, were so plagued by questions from people around them that they ended up creating a diary-like wedding invitation filled with the things people were curious about. \u003cbr\u003eWe know how childish people become when they fall in love, how their judgment becomes clouded.\u003cbr\u003e This invitation perfectly captures the image of a man and woman in love and the spirit of the times.\u003cbr\u003e By revealing these traces of the past rather than hiding them, the author shows us the differences between love and marriage, how the times, the world, and ourselves are evolving.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e Along with the invitation, the author also shows the times through the prism of 'dividing household chores between couples.'\u003cbr\u003e The author, who claims that 'the division of housework between a couple' is a representative subject of adjustment in married life, has consistently revealed the division of housework between his couple through the first and revised editions of 'On Attitude', and is reporting the trend closely again in 'Ordinary Married Life'. \u003cbr\u003eIn addition, this book contains surprisingly honest stories about how she sweetly imagines herself becoming the tragic protagonist of a plane crash whenever her husband goes on a business trip abroad, how she is shocked to find her husband by chance at the subway station as a \"street man,\" and how she loses her sexual desire to her husband who spends all year round in poor clothes.\u003cbr\u003e The heartbreaking and poignant story of a woman willingly rescuing her husband from a horde of middle-aged zombies on Gwanghwamun Street in the middle of the night, and then running back like a yo-yo toward him who was left behind because of her slow pace, makes it impossible to put the book down.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e The author also examines various forms of marriage, including contract marriage, polyamory, and polygamy, and argues that marriage should be a symbol of instability. \u003cbr\u003eFor those curious about married life and the human relationship between husband and wife, I recommend this book, which is serious yet humorous, weighty yet not heavy. 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