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some delicacy
some delicacy
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Book Introduction
A word from MD
Lee Seok-won's delicate gaze that captures others
Lee Seok-won's essay about precious things he encountered in everyday life.
You can feel how soft and warm the author's simple sentences and photos become when they reach 'others' rather than yourself.
It is filled with a delicate heart that tries to understand others through Lee Seok-won's unique perspective without judging them rashly.
December 8, 2023. Novel/Poetry PD Kim Yu-ri
“With the warmth that others have given to my heart,
“I will be able to live in this world without a heavy heart for a while longer.”
Slices of life captured with warm and thoughtful eyes by everyday observer Lee Seok-won.


Lee Seok-won, who has consistently recorded his thoughts and daily life in his own honest and candid language, has published a new essay, "A Certain Delicacy," by Wisdom House.
As the author says, “In this book, I wanted to break away from a certain instinct and inertia that tries to center one’s thoughts on oneself, and talk not about my dreams but about other people’s dreams, not about my circumstances but about other people’s circumstances, not just about my pain but about other people’s pain,” the author’s gaze in this book is constantly turned outward.
In these times when we are so busy hating each other, the author's writing, which contains the author's perspective of not arbitrarily defining others and trying to see the other side of the world, feels even more precious.


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index
The story of an old couple

Part 1: It was all thanks to fear

5 minutes
Someone's dream
The truth of the landscape
It seems like everyone else is doing well except me
good person
A friend's legacy

Part 2 Life is not really simple

The power of understanding
some delicacy
What London Gave Me
I'm very careful, but I can say this
My language
Letter that cannot be sent
Eternal Calculation

Part 3: And so, I ended up crossing paths with someone else.

A story about trust, not fear - The Walking Dead
The Power of Parting
trust
small victories
small heart
Imagination and speculation

Part 4: Everyone Has Their Own Guidelines

A Short Essay on Horses
Preparation is more important than results
Sweet and cool
Guide to life
Emotions don't last long
Another way to love me
People who love trees

Closing remarks from the author

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Into the book
Even though it was something they had promised their guests, if only the 'Yuri Mom' they had been searching for so desperately had been there, the situation today would not have happened.
Moreover, as someone who has run a business, I couldn't help but feel even more concerned because I know how burdensome it is to have to constantly deploy additional staff in a store where the number of customers is not always constant.
I often do what I do in these situations and just do the best I can.
It was like saying thank you so loudly that it could be heard deep inside the kitchen, and then leaving the restaurant.
---From "5 minutes"

But, when I occasionally meet people like this, and the moments I spend with them are so overwhelmingly happy, the waves of emotion feel stronger than any moment I've spent alone at home, and I finally think, no matter how much I try to deny it, is friendship truly necessary? That's when I get sad.
Because friends aren't something you can have just because you want them.
---From "A Friend's Legacy"

As I began to understand my friend, the tangled thread between us began to unravel, and in the process of understanding and understanding someone, I felt, more than anything, my heart becoming at ease.
They say that if you stop hating someone, your heart will feel at ease, but the more you know, the more you realize how exquisitely and cruelly the principles of life can be.
In the end, as you come to understand someone, your heart becomes more tolerant, which leads to greater understanding, and as you understand more, your resentment continues to decrease, so a virtuous cycle begins where everyone becomes happy, right?
---From "The Power of Understanding"

For example, there are people in the world who think that it is better to just endure hardships rather than create an uncomfortable situation by saying to others, "I am having a hard time because of you."
For these people, not seeing the other person or avoiding contact is also a clear expression of intent, so it is equally difficult to do either.
I don't know why it's so hard for me to confess my pain to someone, but for some reason, there are people in this world who are born that way, and that's why so many people, including my friend, suffer alone, shed tears in front of their friends, drink until they're drunk, and then go home and make a fuss by writing letters they can't even send.
---From "The Letter That Cannot Be Sent"

As someone who loves conversations between people and makes a living by writing, this ambiguity and imperfection of language always troubles me.
But perhaps that is why I live, as if I were dreaming an impossible dream, trying so hard to use more precise words.
It's as if, no matter how much the world seems to be stagnant, humanity has never stopped striving for progress.
---From "A Short Essay on Horses"

For example, no matter how many times I decide on my own that I will not meet anyone anymore, that I will never date again, the future does not always go as I predicted.
Resolutions can be revised at any time.
Perhaps because life is so complex, ambiguous, and unpredictable, I'm even more inclined to have my own principles and find a center to my life, even if only to the extent that those principles apply.
What principles do you live by?
Everyone has their own guidelines for life.
And according to those guidelines, we each live different lives.
---From "Guide to Life"

Publisher's Review
“Because somewhere out there, there is definitely someone who wants me to live well.”
A story about everyday life and the many precious things we want to protect and must protect.


Living each day as an adult is not easy for anyone.
Because we each have precious things we must protect, the anxiety that comes with it is inherently embedded somewhere in our hearts.
We know all too well from what we see around us and sometimes from the news that even the smallest intrusion from others can easily shatter the precious daily life we ​​have built, like thin glass.
However, since we cannot avoid contact with others in life, author Lee Seok-won says that we cannot survive in this world without understanding others and being understood ourselves.
The author speaks of the virtue of delicacy in accomplishing the important and difficult task of understanding.
He says that delicacy is a constant concern and sincerity for others and the world, and he also confesses that he has learned about delicacy from the countless people he has met throughout his life.

Having an attitude of not dismissing other people's complaints as whining, and giving equal attention to everyone present when talking to others.
When someone is sick and collapses, instead of just helping them up, we need to look at their condition and provide them with the help they need.
In other words, don't forget that the main character is not the one giving help, but the one receiving help.
Therefore, the author's attitude of defining 'delicacy' as the mind that thinks first about what the other person needs and wants to receive rather than what I want to give is clearly revealed throughout the writings that cover a variety of topics.
The gaze gained through constant wounding and reconciliation with the world shines warmly.


“I hope you all are safe and peaceful until you finish this book.”
A collection of everyday prose written with a warm and unique style.


We spend quality time with our loved ones, eat delicious and healthy food together, make time to exercise, travel, and live each day faithfully as members of society.
All of this is an effort to become happy, but in reality, happiness is not easy for anyone.
Author Lee Seok-won says he wrote this book to talk about how we have become so fragile people who have so many things to protect and who crumble at the slightest intrusion, why it is so difficult for us to enjoy peace of mind these days and why we often feel anxious and stressed, and what we should truly consider important.


“I hope that through this book, we can talk about the anxieties and fears inherent in our lives as adults, as well as the daily lives and many precious things that we want to protect and must protect.
I hope that through this process, our lives can become a little simpler than before.
So, at least until I finish this book, I hope you all are at peace and free from anxiety….”

In this book, the daily life experiences encountered by author Lee Seok-won unfold like a short film, conveying the reader as vividly as if they were present there.
Additionally, the author has compiled photos of beautiful landscapes and small moments taken by himself, along with text, to create a book that is like a gift for ordinary but sensitive people.
Thanks to this book, we can look into other people's dreams rather than our own, into other people's circumstances rather than our own, and into other people's pain rather than our own.
The author's compassionate gaze, which allows us to see the other side of the world without prejudice, will delicately touch the hearts of readers.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Publication date: November 27, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 300 pages | 518g | 130*195*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791171710577
- ISBN10: 1171710577

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