66-Day Self-Esteem Conversation Method
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A single word that determines a child's self-esteem66 Self-Esteem Conversation Methods by Humanities Education Mentor Kim Jong-won.
It contains detailed, step-by-step, situation-specific conversation solutions, starting with practical conversations that help children increase their self-esteem during their growing years.
Ten minutes a day, a small conversation habit, will help your child discover his or her own worth and provide the foundation for growing into a solid adult.
October 24, 2023. Home Life PD Lee Joo-eun
“Children raised with self-esteem conversation methods grow into strong, unwavering adults!”
Determines a child's lifelong self-esteem
10 Minutes a Day, 66 Days a Year Project to Improve Parents' Speaking Habits
A parenting book containing 66 self-esteem conversation techniques from Kim Jong-won, a humanities education mentor loved by 300,000 parents.
Author Kim Jong-won, who has written over 90 books over the past 20 years and researched the essence of humanities and child education, focuses on children's self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the result of one's own evaluation of one's own worth, and has a particularly important influence on children during their growing years.
This is because the decisions a child makes about all the values surrounding him or her, including his or her disposition, personality, appearance, and attitude, will continue throughout his or her life.
This is why no matter how expensive the education or the good stories, they are useless in the face of a child's low self-esteem.
"66-Day Self-Esteem Conversation Method" is a book for parents who want to raise their children's self-esteem, filled with 66 practical conversation methods, written with Kim Jong-won's signature warm perspective and delicate language.
First, Chapter 1 introduces the basic words of self-esteem conversation under the title, “Conversation that Raises a Child’s Self-Esteem.”
Chapter 2 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that reduce anxiety and strengthen the inner self', and Chapter 3 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that allow them to express their thoughts clearly.'
Next, Chapter 4 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Take on Challenges Without Being Swayed by Failure', and Chapter 5 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Are Independent and Social', explaining how to expand the strength built up inside outward.
Finally, Chapter 6 introduces 'a conversation that discovers a child's hidden values and opens up infinite possibilities', enabling children to use and demonstrate their own values in various aspects of life by using strong self-esteem as a weapon.
Let's follow the self-esteem conversation method with this book for 10 minutes a day for 66 days.
The self-esteem that develops through small conversations with parents will serve as a solid foundation for the child's future life.
Determines a child's lifelong self-esteem
10 Minutes a Day, 66 Days a Year Project to Improve Parents' Speaking Habits
A parenting book containing 66 self-esteem conversation techniques from Kim Jong-won, a humanities education mentor loved by 300,000 parents.
Author Kim Jong-won, who has written over 90 books over the past 20 years and researched the essence of humanities and child education, focuses on children's self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the result of one's own evaluation of one's own worth, and has a particularly important influence on children during their growing years.
This is because the decisions a child makes about all the values surrounding him or her, including his or her disposition, personality, appearance, and attitude, will continue throughout his or her life.
This is why no matter how expensive the education or the good stories, they are useless in the face of a child's low self-esteem.
"66-Day Self-Esteem Conversation Method" is a book for parents who want to raise their children's self-esteem, filled with 66 practical conversation methods, written with Kim Jong-won's signature warm perspective and delicate language.
First, Chapter 1 introduces the basic words of self-esteem conversation under the title, “Conversation that Raises a Child’s Self-Esteem.”
Chapter 2 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that reduce anxiety and strengthen the inner self', and Chapter 3 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that allow them to express their thoughts clearly.'
Next, Chapter 4 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Take on Challenges Without Being Swayed by Failure', and Chapter 5 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Are Independent and Social', explaining how to expand the strength built up inside outward.
Finally, Chapter 6 introduces 'a conversation that discovers a child's hidden values and opens up infinite possibilities', enabling children to use and demonstrate their own values in various aspects of life by using strong self-esteem as a weapon.
Let's follow the self-esteem conversation method with this book for 10 minutes a day for 66 days.
The self-esteem that develops through small conversations with parents will serve as a solid foundation for the child's future life.
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Prologue - 10 Minutes a Day: A Small Conversation Between Parents Builds Lifelong Self-Esteem in Our Children
Chapter 1: 11 Days of Conversations to Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem
01 9 Things Parents Say That Determine Their Child's Lifelong Self-Esteem
02 Poor consideration destroys a child's self-esteem.
03 Words that will boost confidence when said to a small child
04 Questions to ask a child who says, “I don’t know how to do anything.”
05 Good things to say to a child who is always hesitant and cautious
06 Things to say instead of “Why are you so sensitive!”
07 10 Positive Words That Bring Self-Confidence and Happiness to Your Child
08 Why You Should Be Careful When Using the Word “No!”
09 5 Surprising Things You Should Know That Destroy Your Child's Self-Esteem
10 Words to Change a Timid and Fearful Child
11 Children inherit their parents' self-esteem.
Chapter 2: 11 Days of Conversations That Reduce Anxiety and Strengthen Your Inner Self
01 Words that will calm your child's emotions if you tell them every day
02 Five Words to Boost Your Child's Emotional Intelligence
03 The power of 'rephrasing' to strengthen a child's inner self
04 A 3-step questioning method to help children who frequently make mistakes grow internally.
05 Three emotional words to use instead of saying “You’ve worked hard” or “You’ve done well”
06 Words that can help children develop a strong inner self when told to them in their early childhood.
07 8 Things to Say That Will Make Your Child Feel Intimidated
08 The impact of the word “I’m proud” on a child’s mind
09 Words to help children navigate the turmoil of adolescence
5 Parental Habits That Destroy Your Child's Emotions and Self-Esteem
11. 6 Good Words to Give You the Strength to Get Through the Day
Chapter 3: 11 Days of Conversation That Allow You to Express Your Thoughts Clearly
01 Things children who know how to express their opinions and thoughts often hear
02 'Horse Play' to Instill Confidence in Shy Children
03 Words to raise a child who is dignified and does not cry while getting an injection
04 The negative impact of 'too much' on children
05 You need to know the spelling to speak accurately
06 To help your child express his or her thoughts without getting angry, develop an emotional pocket.
07 A conversation that helps children realize the value of everyday life and express gratitude.
08 The weaker the child's assertiveness, the more likely he or she is to be unreasonable and throw tantrums.
09 Words to help you think while watching TV with your child
10 Words of Faith to Raise Your Child to Be Self-Confident and Always Speak with Confidence
15 Loving Words to Help Your Child Speak Correctly and Kindly
Chapter 4: Raising Children to Challenge Without Being Shaken by Failure: 11 Days of Conversation
01 What a child who makes a mistake needs is not blame.
02 When you get out of the "seat of anger," you can understand the mind of a child who made a mistake.
03 8 Things You Must Say to a Child Who Has Experienced Failure
04 Saying, “You’re so much better than that guy” will only make your child more frustrated.
05 Words to comfort a child who has made a mistake and boost their self-esteem
06 Words of adventure that inspire courage in children who are afraid of challenges
07 Good words for parents to say to a child who repeats the same mistake
08 Children who grow up hearing these words will distrust themselves for the rest of their lives.
09 The power to live one's own life while overcoming given circumstances
10 Tell your child, “I can’t do it,” this:
11 A good 'encouragement' is more powerful than any praise.
Chapter 5: Raising Independent and Social Children: 11 Days of Conversation
01 Words of Independence that Change Children Who Are Dependent on Their Parents
02 Words from parents who raise children who can do anything on their own
03 The power of positive words that help children grow into independent individuals the more they hear them.
4 Reasons Why "Ttaejji" is Worst for Your Child's Growth
05 Why is my child rude and doesn't greet others?
06 Words to tell your child during vacation that will make the new school year wonderful
07 Three Questions You Shouldn't Ask Your Child After an Argument with a Friend
08 Things to Say to a Child Who is Having Trouble with Friends
09 When your child experiences injustice outside, say this:
10 'Three Principles of Sibling Conversation' that Boost Self-Esteem and Deepen Friendship
11 The most important thing is always the emotional stability of the parents.
Chapter 6: 11 Days of Conversation to Discover Your Child's Hidden Values and Unlock Infinite Possibilities
01 'Words that Find a Way' Changes Children Who Blame the Environment
02 Possibility of Speaking Habits that Develop Children's Talent and Luck
03 How to find value in the little things in everyday life
04 The Negative Impact of Saying “You’re Too Young to Do It” on a Child’s Life
05 Six Words to Discover Your Child's Hidden Talents and Values
06 Words from parents who raise their children to walk their own path without yielding to any temptation
07 Don't tell your child, "You are the main character of this world!"
08 How to Make Weekends "Intellectual Time" to Unleash Your Child's Potential
09 A child who has done nothing and a child who has no limits are different in 'this'.
10 The power of parents to believe in their own potential
11 Children grow as much as their parents believe in them.
Chapter 1: 11 Days of Conversations to Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem
01 9 Things Parents Say That Determine Their Child's Lifelong Self-Esteem
02 Poor consideration destroys a child's self-esteem.
03 Words that will boost confidence when said to a small child
04 Questions to ask a child who says, “I don’t know how to do anything.”
05 Good things to say to a child who is always hesitant and cautious
06 Things to say instead of “Why are you so sensitive!”
07 10 Positive Words That Bring Self-Confidence and Happiness to Your Child
08 Why You Should Be Careful When Using the Word “No!”
09 5 Surprising Things You Should Know That Destroy Your Child's Self-Esteem
10 Words to Change a Timid and Fearful Child
11 Children inherit their parents' self-esteem.
Chapter 2: 11 Days of Conversations That Reduce Anxiety and Strengthen Your Inner Self
01 Words that will calm your child's emotions if you tell them every day
02 Five Words to Boost Your Child's Emotional Intelligence
03 The power of 'rephrasing' to strengthen a child's inner self
04 A 3-step questioning method to help children who frequently make mistakes grow internally.
05 Three emotional words to use instead of saying “You’ve worked hard” or “You’ve done well”
06 Words that can help children develop a strong inner self when told to them in their early childhood.
07 8 Things to Say That Will Make Your Child Feel Intimidated
08 The impact of the word “I’m proud” on a child’s mind
09 Words to help children navigate the turmoil of adolescence
5 Parental Habits That Destroy Your Child's Emotions and Self-Esteem
11. 6 Good Words to Give You the Strength to Get Through the Day
Chapter 3: 11 Days of Conversation That Allow You to Express Your Thoughts Clearly
01 Things children who know how to express their opinions and thoughts often hear
02 'Horse Play' to Instill Confidence in Shy Children
03 Words to raise a child who is dignified and does not cry while getting an injection
04 The negative impact of 'too much' on children
05 You need to know the spelling to speak accurately
06 To help your child express his or her thoughts without getting angry, develop an emotional pocket.
07 A conversation that helps children realize the value of everyday life and express gratitude.
08 The weaker the child's assertiveness, the more likely he or she is to be unreasonable and throw tantrums.
09 Words to help you think while watching TV with your child
10 Words of Faith to Raise Your Child to Be Self-Confident and Always Speak with Confidence
15 Loving Words to Help Your Child Speak Correctly and Kindly
Chapter 4: Raising Children to Challenge Without Being Shaken by Failure: 11 Days of Conversation
01 What a child who makes a mistake needs is not blame.
02 When you get out of the "seat of anger," you can understand the mind of a child who made a mistake.
03 8 Things You Must Say to a Child Who Has Experienced Failure
04 Saying, “You’re so much better than that guy” will only make your child more frustrated.
05 Words to comfort a child who has made a mistake and boost their self-esteem
06 Words of adventure that inspire courage in children who are afraid of challenges
07 Good words for parents to say to a child who repeats the same mistake
08 Children who grow up hearing these words will distrust themselves for the rest of their lives.
09 The power to live one's own life while overcoming given circumstances
10 Tell your child, “I can’t do it,” this:
11 A good 'encouragement' is more powerful than any praise.
Chapter 5: Raising Independent and Social Children: 11 Days of Conversation
01 Words of Independence that Change Children Who Are Dependent on Their Parents
02 Words from parents who raise children who can do anything on their own
03 The power of positive words that help children grow into independent individuals the more they hear them.
4 Reasons Why "Ttaejji" is Worst for Your Child's Growth
05 Why is my child rude and doesn't greet others?
06 Words to tell your child during vacation that will make the new school year wonderful
07 Three Questions You Shouldn't Ask Your Child After an Argument with a Friend
08 Things to Say to a Child Who is Having Trouble with Friends
09 When your child experiences injustice outside, say this:
10 'Three Principles of Sibling Conversation' that Boost Self-Esteem and Deepen Friendship
11 The most important thing is always the emotional stability of the parents.
Chapter 6: 11 Days of Conversation to Discover Your Child's Hidden Values and Unlock Infinite Possibilities
01 'Words that Find a Way' Changes Children Who Blame the Environment
02 Possibility of Speaking Habits that Develop Children's Talent and Luck
03 How to find value in the little things in everyday life
04 The Negative Impact of Saying “You’re Too Young to Do It” on a Child’s Life
05 Six Words to Discover Your Child's Hidden Talents and Values
06 Words from parents who raise their children to walk their own path without yielding to any temptation
07 Don't tell your child, "You are the main character of this world!"
08 How to Make Weekends "Intellectual Time" to Unleash Your Child's Potential
09 A child who has done nothing and a child who has no limits are different in 'this'.
10 The power of parents to believe in their own potential
11 Children grow as much as their parents believe in them.
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Into the book
What's the first thing you need to do to build a building? Level the ground.
You could say that self-esteem is that flat state.
Tall and magnificent buildings are built on a solid foundation of self-esteem.
However, no matter how expensive the building materials are, if the ground is weak or uneven, the building will inevitably collapse during construction.
This is why a child with low self-esteem's day is like a 'bottomless bucket'.
The reason why there is no change in your child no matter how many times you read parenting books is the same.
No matter how much you put in, it never accumulates, so the more you try to fill it, the more you feel shaken and empty.
--- p.5~6, from “Prologue”
A parent's words are the best legacy they can give their child.
No one can forcibly steal it, and no matter how much time passes, it will not disappear and will remain to cherish and protect the beloved child.
It's a miracle that you can speak now and your child can hear you.
--- p.18, Chapter 1.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Raise Your Child's Self-Esteem"
The child takes the parent's expressions and asks them back to himself.
Because the parent said, “Who do you take after to be like that?” the child was able to think of the question, “Why am I like this?”
The questions a child asks cannot go beyond the level of language of the parent.
--- p.79~80, Chapter 2.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Reduce Anxiety and Strengthen Your Inner Self"
There are children in the world who look sturdy even though they are small in stature, and there are children who look weak even though they are large in stature.
The important thing is ‘positive aggression’.
This may be the first time you're hearing this expression.
This is what I've discovered through 20 years of teaching and research: Children with positive aggression who are able to express themselves clearly and confidently are able to communicate their current state and emotions without being rude.
--- p.117, Chapter 3.
From "11 Days of Conversation That Let You Express Your Thoughts Clearly"
Fear of being ‘below average’, anxiety of being ‘smaller and weaker than your peers’.
I also know that it breaks your parents' hearts.
But the more this happens, the better it is to speak to children about growth rather than comparison.
Because in the end, everything has to get better through your own decisions.
--- p.180~181, 「Chapter 4.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Reduce Anxiety and Strengthen Your Inner Self"
When a child cries and clings to his parents, it is not because he loves them too much, but because he has a weak heart that wants to depend on them.
…It's a good idea to convey to your child the value of the time you spend away from him or her, and the value of the time he or she spends alone, waiting patiently for you.
Then your child will learn that everyone eventually becomes independent, that everyone needs time alone, and that countless things can be accomplished when they do so.
--- p.217, Chapter 5.
From "11 Days of Conversation on Raising Independent and Socially Proficient Children"
Parents' words and questions are in touch with the possibilities of life that a child will encounter.
The depth and breadth of a child's speech determines his or her potential.
So, when speaking to children, we need to move the language that approaches the 'impossible' into the space of 'possible'.
Just by shifting language in this way, every parent can give their child words of growth and possibility.
You could say that self-esteem is that flat state.
Tall and magnificent buildings are built on a solid foundation of self-esteem.
However, no matter how expensive the building materials are, if the ground is weak or uneven, the building will inevitably collapse during construction.
This is why a child with low self-esteem's day is like a 'bottomless bucket'.
The reason why there is no change in your child no matter how many times you read parenting books is the same.
No matter how much you put in, it never accumulates, so the more you try to fill it, the more you feel shaken and empty.
--- p.5~6, from “Prologue”
A parent's words are the best legacy they can give their child.
No one can forcibly steal it, and no matter how much time passes, it will not disappear and will remain to cherish and protect the beloved child.
It's a miracle that you can speak now and your child can hear you.
--- p.18, Chapter 1.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Raise Your Child's Self-Esteem"
The child takes the parent's expressions and asks them back to himself.
Because the parent said, “Who do you take after to be like that?” the child was able to think of the question, “Why am I like this?”
The questions a child asks cannot go beyond the level of language of the parent.
--- p.79~80, Chapter 2.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Reduce Anxiety and Strengthen Your Inner Self"
There are children in the world who look sturdy even though they are small in stature, and there are children who look weak even though they are large in stature.
The important thing is ‘positive aggression’.
This may be the first time you're hearing this expression.
This is what I've discovered through 20 years of teaching and research: Children with positive aggression who are able to express themselves clearly and confidently are able to communicate their current state and emotions without being rude.
--- p.117, Chapter 3.
From "11 Days of Conversation That Let You Express Your Thoughts Clearly"
Fear of being ‘below average’, anxiety of being ‘smaller and weaker than your peers’.
I also know that it breaks your parents' hearts.
But the more this happens, the better it is to speak to children about growth rather than comparison.
Because in the end, everything has to get better through your own decisions.
--- p.180~181, 「Chapter 4.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Reduce Anxiety and Strengthen Your Inner Self"
When a child cries and clings to his parents, it is not because he loves them too much, but because he has a weak heart that wants to depend on them.
…It's a good idea to convey to your child the value of the time you spend away from him or her, and the value of the time he or she spends alone, waiting patiently for you.
Then your child will learn that everyone eventually becomes independent, that everyone needs time alone, and that countless things can be accomplished when they do so.
--- p.217, Chapter 5.
From "11 Days of Conversation on Raising Independent and Socially Proficient Children"
Parents' words and questions are in touch with the possibilities of life that a child will encounter.
The depth and breadth of a child's speech determines his or her potential.
So, when speaking to children, we need to move the language that approaches the 'impossible' into the space of 'possible'.
Just by shifting language in this way, every parent can give their child words of growth and possibility.
--- p.282, Chapter 6.
From "11 Days of Conversation to Discover Your Child's Hidden Value and Open Infinite Possibilities"
From "11 Days of Conversation to Discover Your Child's Hidden Value and Open Infinite Possibilities"
Publisher's Review
“A child’s self-esteem begins with a single word from a parent!”
Humanities Education Mentor Chosen by 300,000 Parents
Author Kim Jong-won's 66-Day Self-Esteem Dialogue Method
Many parents seek out good lectures or diligently read parenting books in hopes of raising their children well, but their hearts become suffocated when they see no change in their children.
I also don't know what the right way to talk to a child is to do what they need most without hurting them.
I am careful not to let my child's heart be broken by careless words, but I am also worried that if I only tell them kind and pretty words, they will grow up to be spoiled.
Why doesn't my child learn anything? And what should I say to him?
Author Kim Jong-won, who has written over 90 books over the past 20 years, conveying the essence of humanities and child education, found the answer in children's self-esteem.
He says that the most important thing in any child's education is to 'build a strong foundation', or in other words, to strengthen the child's self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the result of one's own evaluation of one's own worth and is a set of beliefs about oneself, which has a particularly decisive impact on children's growth and potential.
Just as a good building cannot be built on weak and shaky ground, children's humanistic qualities such as intelligence, creativity, and social skills can never develop without a foundation of self-esteem.
"66-Day Self-Esteem Conversation Method" consists of six chapters, each containing 66 self-esteem conversation methods that will enhance a child's humanities knowledge and develop their potential.
First, Chapter 1 introduces the basic words of self-esteem conversation under the title, “Conversation that Raises a Child’s Self-Esteem.”
Chapter 2 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that reduce anxiety and strengthen the inner self', and Chapter 3 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that allow them to express their thoughts clearly.'
Next, Chapter 4 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Take on Challenges Without Being Shaken by Failure', and Chapter 5 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Are Independent and Social', explaining how to expand the strength built up inside outward.
Finally, Chapter 6 introduces 'a conversation that discovers a child's hidden values and opens up infinite possibilities', enabling children to use and demonstrate their own values in various aspects of life by using strong self-esteem as a weapon.
From practical everyday conversations to step-by-step conversation solutions!
Miraculously changing a child's life
10 minutes a day, 66 days of small conversation habits
The right way to have a conversation is only effective when you make it your own.
So how can we make positive conversations that boost a child's self-esteem a habit? Many neuroscience and self-help books claim that if you continue a behavior for 21 days, the brain changes, and if you continue that behavior for 66 days, you're 90% likely to have successfully formed a habit.
In other words, the minimum period of time needed to create a habit that will change a person's life is 66 days, and if you repeat anything for 66 days, you will naturally do it in your daily life without even trying.
This book is designed to be repeated over 66 days using everyday language that all parents can easily follow.
The minimum period required for forming a habit, '66 days', and author Kim Jong-won's unique 'self-esteem conversation method' are combined into one, making it very practical and specifically usable.
Additionally, the book includes parental words that reflect author Kim Jong-won's characteristically delicate perspective, allowing readers to read and transcribe the sentences themselves.
Children may appear tough on the outside, but they are actually fragile.
Therefore, rather than parents unilaterally conveying words, it is necessary for parents to use delicate and affectionate words to slowly guide their children so that they can understand their own emotions and organize and express their thoughts.
A single word from a parent has the special power to change a child's life.
The ability to start over after countless failures, the ability to believe in and love yourself regardless of the circumstances, the power to build bright and healthy social relationships…
It all starts with self-esteem.
While reading this book, let's follow along, one by one, for 10 minutes a day for 66 days.
Through small conversations that occur in everyday life, children can grow into strong adults, and parents can experience the great miracle of their faith in their children becoming stronger.
Humanities Education Mentor Chosen by 300,000 Parents
Author Kim Jong-won's 66-Day Self-Esteem Dialogue Method
Many parents seek out good lectures or diligently read parenting books in hopes of raising their children well, but their hearts become suffocated when they see no change in their children.
I also don't know what the right way to talk to a child is to do what they need most without hurting them.
I am careful not to let my child's heart be broken by careless words, but I am also worried that if I only tell them kind and pretty words, they will grow up to be spoiled.
Why doesn't my child learn anything? And what should I say to him?
Author Kim Jong-won, who has written over 90 books over the past 20 years, conveying the essence of humanities and child education, found the answer in children's self-esteem.
He says that the most important thing in any child's education is to 'build a strong foundation', or in other words, to strengthen the child's self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the result of one's own evaluation of one's own worth and is a set of beliefs about oneself, which has a particularly decisive impact on children's growth and potential.
Just as a good building cannot be built on weak and shaky ground, children's humanistic qualities such as intelligence, creativity, and social skills can never develop without a foundation of self-esteem.
"66-Day Self-Esteem Conversation Method" consists of six chapters, each containing 66 self-esteem conversation methods that will enhance a child's humanities knowledge and develop their potential.
First, Chapter 1 introduces the basic words of self-esteem conversation under the title, “Conversation that Raises a Child’s Self-Esteem.”
Chapter 2 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that reduce anxiety and strengthen the inner self', and Chapter 3 helps children develop inner strength that will strengthen their self-esteem through 'Conversations that allow them to express their thoughts clearly.'
Next, Chapter 4 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Take on Challenges Without Being Shaken by Failure', and Chapter 5 contains 'Conversations to Raise Children Who Are Independent and Social', explaining how to expand the strength built up inside outward.
Finally, Chapter 6 introduces 'a conversation that discovers a child's hidden values and opens up infinite possibilities', enabling children to use and demonstrate their own values in various aspects of life by using strong self-esteem as a weapon.
From practical everyday conversations to step-by-step conversation solutions!
Miraculously changing a child's life
10 minutes a day, 66 days of small conversation habits
The right way to have a conversation is only effective when you make it your own.
So how can we make positive conversations that boost a child's self-esteem a habit? Many neuroscience and self-help books claim that if you continue a behavior for 21 days, the brain changes, and if you continue that behavior for 66 days, you're 90% likely to have successfully formed a habit.
In other words, the minimum period of time needed to create a habit that will change a person's life is 66 days, and if you repeat anything for 66 days, you will naturally do it in your daily life without even trying.
This book is designed to be repeated over 66 days using everyday language that all parents can easily follow.
The minimum period required for forming a habit, '66 days', and author Kim Jong-won's unique 'self-esteem conversation method' are combined into one, making it very practical and specifically usable.
Additionally, the book includes parental words that reflect author Kim Jong-won's characteristically delicate perspective, allowing readers to read and transcribe the sentences themselves.
Children may appear tough on the outside, but they are actually fragile.
Therefore, rather than parents unilaterally conveying words, it is necessary for parents to use delicate and affectionate words to slowly guide their children so that they can understand their own emotions and organize and express their thoughts.
A single word from a parent has the special power to change a child's life.
The ability to start over after countless failures, the ability to believe in and love yourself regardless of the circumstances, the power to build bright and healthy social relationships…
It all starts with self-esteem.
While reading this book, let's follow along, one by one, for 10 minutes a day for 66 days.
Through small conversations that occur in everyday life, children can grow into strong adults, and parents can experience the great miracle of their faith in their children becoming stronger.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: October 13, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 320 pages | 498g | 148*210*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791168271432
- ISBN10: 1168271436
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