The human relationships that had been so difficult began to unravel smoothly.
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Book Introduction
The first new book by YouTuber Beachy, who runs a practical self-development channel with 45 million cumulative views and 450,000 subscribers.
There are times in life when you feel that human relationships are everything.
Even if it's nothing serious, depending on how the other person takes it, sometimes my day becomes unpleasant. And even if it's something serious by my standards, if the other person smiles and says it's okay, the discomfort and unpleasantness melts away like snow.
In this way, human relationships can be said to be like homework that humans have to solve throughout their lives.
The book, "The Human Relationships That Were So Difficult Are Starting to Unravel" provides specific help to those of us who are struggling with human relationships.
Concise but practical, short but specific.
It goes beyond mere theory and provides practical, applicable methods to help readers achieve real change.
There are times in life when you feel that human relationships are everything.
Even if it's nothing serious, depending on how the other person takes it, sometimes my day becomes unpleasant. And even if it's something serious by my standards, if the other person smiles and says it's okay, the discomfort and unpleasantness melts away like snow.
In this way, human relationships can be said to be like homework that humans have to solve throughout their lives.
The book, "The Human Relationships That Were So Difficult Are Starting to Unravel" provides specific help to those of us who are struggling with human relationships.
Concise but practical, short but specific.
It goes beyond mere theory and provides practical, applicable methods to help readers achieve real change.
- You can preview some of the book's contents.
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index
Prologue · 6
1.
The Art of Conversation
Basic Principles of Speaking: Speech Techniques vs. Conversational Techniques · 12
Two of the Most Useful Practical Speaking Skills · 16
How to Speak Straightforward · 20
Two practical conversation techniques that will make you likeable without you even realizing it · 26
Three Practical Communication Skills That Will Engage People · 32
Two Conversational Skills Women Don't Know About · 38
Two Leadership Strategies That Will Increase Your Value · 45
Three Ways of Speaking Well · 51
Three Skills for Winning Arguments Without Raising Your Voice · 58
Three Ways to Talk to Awkward People · 65
Two Habits That Will Cost You a Lifetime If You Don't Fix Them Now · 71
Two Skills to Make Boring Conversations Interesting · 76
Two Topics for Intimate Conversation · 82
2.
human relationships
The Most Essential Secret of a Charming Person · 88
Three Traits of Ordinary People with a Touch of Atmosphere · 92
Three Traits of an Instinctively Attractive Person · 102
Two Ways to Look Confident · 109
Two Characteristics of a Kind, But Not So Easy-going Person · 114
Two Ways to Deal with a Braggart · 120
The Miraculous Art of Getting Everyone on My Side · 125
The Classic Apology That Forgives Any Mistake · 129
Three Ways to See Through Your Opponent's Mind · 135
Two Ways to Hear Good Reviews Wherever You Go · 139
How to tactfully decline someone's request · 145
Two Characteristics of Someone You Want to Spend Your Life With · 155
3.
Mental management
164 Facts You Should Know Before You're Even a Year Old
One Secret You Don't Know About Life's Hardships · 169
Two Characteristics of People with High Self-Esteem · 174
Three Ways to Overcome Inferiority Feelings · 179
Two Ways to Protect Your Mind When Being Cursed for No Reason · 185
A 3-Step Process to Eliminate Worry and Anxiety · 190
Two Ways to Support Someone Who's Depressed · 196
The Little Habits of People Who Seem Easy · 203
Characteristics of People Who Fall from the Bottom of Their Ponds with Minor Trials · 207
How to Improve Your Judgment · 211
How to Stop Being Struggling with People · 216
A Small Question That Will Change Your Attitude toward Life · 220
4.
Interpretation of men and women
A woman who talks back to a man who speaks rudely · 226
Why Men and Women Don't Communicate · 231
A woman rejects a man who tries to be intimate · 235
Male Sexual Fantasies Female Sexual Fantasies · 240
Why Men and Women Cheate · 246
Men's Manual · 252
Women's Manual · 258
How to Comfort a Man · 263
How to Comfort a Woman · 267
1.
The Art of Conversation
Basic Principles of Speaking: Speech Techniques vs. Conversational Techniques · 12
Two of the Most Useful Practical Speaking Skills · 16
How to Speak Straightforward · 20
Two practical conversation techniques that will make you likeable without you even realizing it · 26
Three Practical Communication Skills That Will Engage People · 32
Two Conversational Skills Women Don't Know About · 38
Two Leadership Strategies That Will Increase Your Value · 45
Three Ways of Speaking Well · 51
Three Skills for Winning Arguments Without Raising Your Voice · 58
Three Ways to Talk to Awkward People · 65
Two Habits That Will Cost You a Lifetime If You Don't Fix Them Now · 71
Two Skills to Make Boring Conversations Interesting · 76
Two Topics for Intimate Conversation · 82
2.
human relationships
The Most Essential Secret of a Charming Person · 88
Three Traits of Ordinary People with a Touch of Atmosphere · 92
Three Traits of an Instinctively Attractive Person · 102
Two Ways to Look Confident · 109
Two Characteristics of a Kind, But Not So Easy-going Person · 114
Two Ways to Deal with a Braggart · 120
The Miraculous Art of Getting Everyone on My Side · 125
The Classic Apology That Forgives Any Mistake · 129
Three Ways to See Through Your Opponent's Mind · 135
Two Ways to Hear Good Reviews Wherever You Go · 139
How to tactfully decline someone's request · 145
Two Characteristics of Someone You Want to Spend Your Life With · 155
3.
Mental management
164 Facts You Should Know Before You're Even a Year Old
One Secret You Don't Know About Life's Hardships · 169
Two Characteristics of People with High Self-Esteem · 174
Three Ways to Overcome Inferiority Feelings · 179
Two Ways to Protect Your Mind When Being Cursed for No Reason · 185
A 3-Step Process to Eliminate Worry and Anxiety · 190
Two Ways to Support Someone Who's Depressed · 196
The Little Habits of People Who Seem Easy · 203
Characteristics of People Who Fall from the Bottom of Their Ponds with Minor Trials · 207
How to Improve Your Judgment · 211
How to Stop Being Struggling with People · 216
A Small Question That Will Change Your Attitude toward Life · 220
4.
Interpretation of men and women
A woman who talks back to a man who speaks rudely · 226
Why Men and Women Don't Communicate · 231
A woman rejects a man who tries to be intimate · 235
Male Sexual Fantasies Female Sexual Fantasies · 240
Why Men and Women Cheate · 246
Men's Manual · 252
Women's Manual · 258
How to Comfort a Man · 263
How to Comfort a Woman · 267
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According to sociologists Eugene Weinstein and Paul Deutschberger, the word "we" is the most seductive word.
This is because the word 'we' implies that the other person and I are in an interdependent relationship.
Therefore, it is better to use the expression 'we' rather than 'you'.
--- From "Three Skills to Win an Argument Without Raising Your Voice"
The biggest reason we make mistakes in our speech is because we try to complete what the other person is trying to say.
Humans can speak between 120 and 150 words per minute.
But the mind can think of 600 to 800 words per minute.
In other words, humans think about 4 to 5 times faster than they speak.
That's why we make the mistake of interrupting and interfering in conversations while the other person is speaking.
--- From "Two Habits That Will Lose You Forever If You Don't Fix Them Now"
Albert Mehrabian, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of California, Los Angeles, published research in his 1971 book, The Silent Message, which revealed what factors determine a person's first impression.
When we first meet someone and have a conversation, we are generally influenced by the other person's voice by 38%, body language by 55% (facial expression by 35%, attitude by 20%), and the content of the conversation by 7%.
In other words, nonverbal elements such as voice, facial expressions, and gestures are important in attractive communication.
It means to do.
This is because the word 'we' implies that the other person and I are in an interdependent relationship.
Therefore, it is better to use the expression 'we' rather than 'you'.
--- From "Three Skills to Win an Argument Without Raising Your Voice"
The biggest reason we make mistakes in our speech is because we try to complete what the other person is trying to say.
Humans can speak between 120 and 150 words per minute.
But the mind can think of 600 to 800 words per minute.
In other words, humans think about 4 to 5 times faster than they speak.
That's why we make the mistake of interrupting and interfering in conversations while the other person is speaking.
--- From "Two Habits That Will Lose You Forever If You Don't Fix Them Now"
Albert Mehrabian, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of California, Los Angeles, published research in his 1971 book, The Silent Message, which revealed what factors determine a person's first impression.
When we first meet someone and have a conversation, we are generally influenced by the other person's voice by 38%, body language by 55% (facial expression by 35%, attitude by 20%), and the content of the conversation by 7%.
In other words, nonverbal elements such as voice, facial expressions, and gestures are important in attractive communication.
It means to do.
--- From "Three Characteristics of an Instinctively Attractive Person"
Publisher's Review
A must-read for those who are stressed out every day by interpersonal relationships.
Beachy's Key Secret to Successful Relationships
Q.
What should I do when I need to persuade someone who is not convincing?
A.
Try using 'Seeking Counter-Evidence'.
It's about making the other person think that maybe they're wrong.
Q.
There is someone I like.
How can I approach them without making them feel burdened?
A.
Take advantage of the 'Law of Similarity' and the 'Bandwidth Effect'.
It will definitely help you build relationships much more effectively.
Q.
It's really hard to give instructions to people.
How can we give wise direction?
A.
Try using 'additional questions'.
You can give clear instructions without demotivating the other person.
Beachy's Key Secret to Successful Relationships
Q.
What should I do when I need to persuade someone who is not convincing?
A.
Try using 'Seeking Counter-Evidence'.
It's about making the other person think that maybe they're wrong.
Q.
There is someone I like.
How can I approach them without making them feel burdened?
A.
Take advantage of the 'Law of Similarity' and the 'Bandwidth Effect'.
It will definitely help you build relationships much more effectively.
Q.
It's really hard to give instructions to people.
How can we give wise direction?
A.
Try using 'additional questions'.
You can give clear instructions without demotivating the other person.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 17, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 272 pages | 404g | 140*205*17mm
- ISBN13: 9791194293002
- ISBN10: 119429300X
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