
Affectionate phrases to support a wavering teenager.
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Book Introduction
“Why do adults tell us that we can’t survive?
“We can live better than adults!”
Touching the hearts of teenagers in over 1500 lectures
A powerful message of comfort from Kim Hye-jeong, author of "Fifteen Years in Five Hundred Years."
Author Kim Hye-jeong, who has comforted the hearts of teenagers with warm and affectionate stories such as the 『Fifteen Years in Five Hundred Years』 series, 『The Thirteen-Year-Old's Walking Club』, and 『Time Gene』, has returned with a new youth essay.
This book delivers a message of encouragement once again, with solid sentences drawn from literary works that have touched the hearts of young people regardless of the era, and vivid stories of the author's own experiences as he grew into adulthood.
The author, who has met teenagers in over 1,500 lectures from elementary, middle, and high schools, has included in this essay the honest and vivid concerns of the teenagers he has met along with the stories he wanted to convey as a true adult.
The affectionate words of author Kim Hye-jeong will firmly support the anxiety of teenagers who feel daunted by the uncertain future that is not clearly depicted.
“We can live better than adults!”
Touching the hearts of teenagers in over 1500 lectures
A powerful message of comfort from Kim Hye-jeong, author of "Fifteen Years in Five Hundred Years."
Author Kim Hye-jeong, who has comforted the hearts of teenagers with warm and affectionate stories such as the 『Fifteen Years in Five Hundred Years』 series, 『The Thirteen-Year-Old's Walking Club』, and 『Time Gene』, has returned with a new youth essay.
This book delivers a message of encouragement once again, with solid sentences drawn from literary works that have touched the hearts of young people regardless of the era, and vivid stories of the author's own experiences as he grew into adulthood.
The author, who has met teenagers in over 1,500 lectures from elementary, middle, and high schools, has included in this essay the honest and vivid concerns of the teenagers he has met along with the stories he wanted to convey as a true adult.
The affectionate words of author Kim Hye-jeong will firmly support the anxiety of teenagers who feel daunted by the uncertain future that is not clearly depicted.
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index
Prologue: The Real Future Adults Don't Tell You
Part 1: Am I doing well right now?
The Expiration Date of Passion│For a Car to Move│Let's Do It First│To My Lovely Failures│Somehow It'll Work Out│I Make My Own Standards
Part 2: Getting to Know My Heart
Encouragement rather than worry│The one person who believed I would become a writer│What I like about myself = seat belt│The true meaning of growing up│The tunnel called puberty│If I could say just one thing
Part 3: Finding my own pace
Focus on Me│Why I Don't Go to the Bookstore│Why Do I Have to Work?│Limited Edition│Time to Underline│Find the Person You Want to Be Like
Part 4: We're Becoming Our Own Adults
You Don't Have to Listen to Everything Adults Say│I'm the Youngest in Our House│The World of Mangos│I Didn't Know How to Write Young Adult Novels│There Are Various Roles│The True Meaning of Average│How to Raise a Pheasant
Part 5 I'm still sketching
Remembering the Future│Three Futures I Remember│Unexpected Things - Corn and Ballet Fit in Seconds│The Joy of Waiting│Where Did All Those Curiosities Go│It's Okay to Regret
Part 6: Creating a Better World
It's okay to be tangled│When consideration accumulates│The power of affection│Let's say hello│May sanity increase│May good intentions prevail
Epilogue I'll live until 2100
Appendix: Sentence cards and handwriting cards to strengthen your anxious mind.
Part 1: Am I doing well right now?
The Expiration Date of Passion│For a Car to Move│Let's Do It First│To My Lovely Failures│Somehow It'll Work Out│I Make My Own Standards
Part 2: Getting to Know My Heart
Encouragement rather than worry│The one person who believed I would become a writer│What I like about myself = seat belt│The true meaning of growing up│The tunnel called puberty│If I could say just one thing
Part 3: Finding my own pace
Focus on Me│Why I Don't Go to the Bookstore│Why Do I Have to Work?│Limited Edition│Time to Underline│Find the Person You Want to Be Like
Part 4: We're Becoming Our Own Adults
You Don't Have to Listen to Everything Adults Say│I'm the Youngest in Our House│The World of Mangos│I Didn't Know How to Write Young Adult Novels│There Are Various Roles│The True Meaning of Average│How to Raise a Pheasant
Part 5 I'm still sketching
Remembering the Future│Three Futures I Remember│Unexpected Things - Corn and Ballet Fit in Seconds│The Joy of Waiting│Where Did All Those Curiosities Go│It's Okay to Regret
Part 6: Creating a Better World
It's okay to be tangled│When consideration accumulates│The power of affection│Let's say hello│May sanity increase│May good intentions prevail
Epilogue I'll live until 2100
Appendix: Sentence cards and handwriting cards to strengthen your anxious mind.
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Into the book
If you are having a hard time right now because your mind and emotions are fluctuating, don't worry too much.
There will come a time when things will stabilize.
Instead, I wish I had used my large heart.
Because one day, when that heart becomes small, you won't be able to do something even if you want to risk your life.
Passion doesn't accumulate.
If you don't use it in your teens, it won't remain in your twenties or thirties.
Anything you don't use in your teens will disappear.
---p.20
"Are you worried things won't work out? It's okay. It'll work out somehow." Find words that will protect you.
It's also fun to try making it yourself.
Rather than just thinking about it in your mind, I recommend writing it down in a diary or notebook every once in a while.
The moment I write it down, those words are engraved in my mind once again and become a milestone in my life.
---p.41
So, do you now understand the other meanings of "jaranda"? Still not? Then try saying "jaranda" ten times quickly.
How does it sound? Yes, it is.
It sounds like 'good job', right? The real meaning of 'growing up' is 'good job'.
Don't forget.
Just by growing up, you're doing well.
I'm working very hard.
You are doing a very difficult job.
If adults don't praise you, do it for yourself.
---p.64
When you feel lost, clench your right hand tightly.
And ask me on your right hand.
What should I do now?
Then my future self will give you a hint.
Another way is to ask your future self, not your current self.
This time, I, who am also your future, will speak on your behalf.
“I know it’s difficult and tough right now.
Just hang in there a little longer.
I'm proud and impressed by how well you're holding up.
Your future self is better than you worry about.
So don't worry too much and just walk slowly to where your future self is.”
---p.153
Waiting for something is like lighting a light for the future.
The future is unknown territory.
That's why I'm worried and anxious.
But the moment you meet something you've been waiting for, you can feel relieved and say, "I came to the right place."
And you can run harder to meet it.
There will come a time when things will stabilize.
Instead, I wish I had used my large heart.
Because one day, when that heart becomes small, you won't be able to do something even if you want to risk your life.
Passion doesn't accumulate.
If you don't use it in your teens, it won't remain in your twenties or thirties.
Anything you don't use in your teens will disappear.
---p.20
"Are you worried things won't work out? It's okay. It'll work out somehow." Find words that will protect you.
It's also fun to try making it yourself.
Rather than just thinking about it in your mind, I recommend writing it down in a diary or notebook every once in a while.
The moment I write it down, those words are engraved in my mind once again and become a milestone in my life.
---p.41
So, do you now understand the other meanings of "jaranda"? Still not? Then try saying "jaranda" ten times quickly.
How does it sound? Yes, it is.
It sounds like 'good job', right? The real meaning of 'growing up' is 'good job'.
Don't forget.
Just by growing up, you're doing well.
I'm working very hard.
You are doing a very difficult job.
If adults don't praise you, do it for yourself.
---p.64
When you feel lost, clench your right hand tightly.
And ask me on your right hand.
What should I do now?
Then my future self will give you a hint.
Another way is to ask your future self, not your current self.
This time, I, who am also your future, will speak on your behalf.
“I know it’s difficult and tough right now.
Just hang in there a little longer.
I'm proud and impressed by how well you're holding up.
Your future self is better than you worry about.
So don't worry too much and just walk slowly to where your future self is.”
---p.153
Waiting for something is like lighting a light for the future.
The future is unknown territory.
That's why I'm worried and anxious.
But the moment you meet something you've been waiting for, you can feel relieved and say, "I came to the right place."
And you can run harder to meet it.
---p.167
Publisher's Review
“At the end of my anxious mind,
To you who wants to trust me once again”
For teenagers going through the journey of puberty
Warm support and comfort
Teenagers who have just turned the first page of life find this journey unsettling and confusing.
The worries of those going through puberty are by no means simple: having to plan for the future despite not being particularly good at or interested in anything, having to make more choices and take responsibility for more things, and feeling frustrated because their worth seems to be determined by a single test.
This book speaks to teenagers who ask themselves, "Am I doing well?" amidst a wavering sense of self and anxiety about the future, with a gentle gaze that encourages them to regain the strength to believe in themselves, along with the message that it's okay to be impatient.
The author, who has met teenagers in over 1,500 lectures, has captured the vivid concerns of teenagers today in this essay.
For teenagers who are afraid of failure and do not dream of becoming adults, this book tells the story of countless failures, the journey to becoming a successful writer, and the wonderful days they have encountered as they face the future of adulthood in a fun and enjoyable way.
Not only that, it sharply criticizes adults who only want to teach us how to avoid failure, who say we should listen to them unconditionally, and who say that studying well is the most important thing, and it honestly tells the story that a true adult wanted to tell, touching the hearts of teenagers who were tightly closed off.
In order to successfully navigate adolescence, a time when we develop our minds, thoughts, and values, it is most important to believe in ourselves and not be swayed by others.
This book conveys the message that what we say to ourselves is more important than what others say to us, and helps teenagers who are swayed by many choices and advice to love themselves more.
Additionally, author Kim Hye-jeong's uniquely warm writing style and deep empathy soothe the hearts of anxious teenagers and build a strong immune system to move forward.
Current youth born around 2010 may live beyond the 21st century and even into the 22nd century.
The self-belief you have built now will give you the courage and strength to brighten your future journey.
“Don’t forget.
Just by growing up, you're doing well.
I'm working very hard.
You are doing a very difficult job.
“Adults don’t praise you, so do it for yourself.”
_From the text
Turning anxiety about the future into anticipation
The affectionate voices of teenagers in literature
Teenagers are busier than anyone else, competing with their friends, caring about other people's feelings, and meeting their parents' expectations, so they don't have time to take care of themselves.
Teenagers, who face countless shaky moments in life, need a way to take care of themselves, a solid sentence that will sustain them through life.
When I come across a good sentence in a book, I can stop everything for a moment and focus on the sentence and myself.
That time of pause, which can also be the beginning of a change in me, will guide us into a deeper and wider world.
The voices of teenagers in literature, such as 『The Secret Garden』, 『The Pilgrim House』, 『Alice in Wonderland』, and 『Fifth Lane』, open the door to each chapter of the essay.
Through the voices of teenagers in literature who share the same level of understanding, it evokes deep empathy from young readers and sustains their literary appreciation.
The message of hope, cultivated through proven literary works by the author, a youth literature writer, offers comfort to teenagers, who are in a period of shaping their minds and selves in various ways, that there is no set path to life.
Additionally, it contains encouragement for all those who are unable to sleep due to uncertainty and anxiety about the future, to take the first step toward turning their anxiety into small hopes by reading the sentences in this work.
Sentence cards and transcription cards made up of sentences from the text are included as an appendix so that you can directly transcribe sentences that impressed you and use them by cutting out the paper.
The book is filled with the affectionate heart of readers who have closed the book, encouraging them to write sentences that will support them, lean on those sentences to move on, and support their next steps, just like the message the work intended to convey.
The underlining carefully drawn while reading the work will become a small light for teenagers passing through a dark tunnel.
To you who wants to trust me once again”
For teenagers going through the journey of puberty
Warm support and comfort
Teenagers who have just turned the first page of life find this journey unsettling and confusing.
The worries of those going through puberty are by no means simple: having to plan for the future despite not being particularly good at or interested in anything, having to make more choices and take responsibility for more things, and feeling frustrated because their worth seems to be determined by a single test.
This book speaks to teenagers who ask themselves, "Am I doing well?" amidst a wavering sense of self and anxiety about the future, with a gentle gaze that encourages them to regain the strength to believe in themselves, along with the message that it's okay to be impatient.
The author, who has met teenagers in over 1,500 lectures, has captured the vivid concerns of teenagers today in this essay.
For teenagers who are afraid of failure and do not dream of becoming adults, this book tells the story of countless failures, the journey to becoming a successful writer, and the wonderful days they have encountered as they face the future of adulthood in a fun and enjoyable way.
Not only that, it sharply criticizes adults who only want to teach us how to avoid failure, who say we should listen to them unconditionally, and who say that studying well is the most important thing, and it honestly tells the story that a true adult wanted to tell, touching the hearts of teenagers who were tightly closed off.
In order to successfully navigate adolescence, a time when we develop our minds, thoughts, and values, it is most important to believe in ourselves and not be swayed by others.
This book conveys the message that what we say to ourselves is more important than what others say to us, and helps teenagers who are swayed by many choices and advice to love themselves more.
Additionally, author Kim Hye-jeong's uniquely warm writing style and deep empathy soothe the hearts of anxious teenagers and build a strong immune system to move forward.
Current youth born around 2010 may live beyond the 21st century and even into the 22nd century.
The self-belief you have built now will give you the courage and strength to brighten your future journey.
“Don’t forget.
Just by growing up, you're doing well.
I'm working very hard.
You are doing a very difficult job.
“Adults don’t praise you, so do it for yourself.”
_From the text
Turning anxiety about the future into anticipation
The affectionate voices of teenagers in literature
Teenagers are busier than anyone else, competing with their friends, caring about other people's feelings, and meeting their parents' expectations, so they don't have time to take care of themselves.
Teenagers, who face countless shaky moments in life, need a way to take care of themselves, a solid sentence that will sustain them through life.
When I come across a good sentence in a book, I can stop everything for a moment and focus on the sentence and myself.
That time of pause, which can also be the beginning of a change in me, will guide us into a deeper and wider world.
The voices of teenagers in literature, such as 『The Secret Garden』, 『The Pilgrim House』, 『Alice in Wonderland』, and 『Fifth Lane』, open the door to each chapter of the essay.
Through the voices of teenagers in literature who share the same level of understanding, it evokes deep empathy from young readers and sustains their literary appreciation.
The message of hope, cultivated through proven literary works by the author, a youth literature writer, offers comfort to teenagers, who are in a period of shaping their minds and selves in various ways, that there is no set path to life.
Additionally, it contains encouragement for all those who are unable to sleep due to uncertainty and anxiety about the future, to take the first step toward turning their anxiety into small hopes by reading the sentences in this work.
Sentence cards and transcription cards made up of sentences from the text are included as an appendix so that you can directly transcribe sentences that impressed you and use them by cutting out the paper.
The book is filled with the affectionate heart of readers who have closed the book, encouraging them to write sentences that will support them, lean on those sentences to move on, and support their next steps, just like the message the work intended to convey.
The underlining carefully drawn while reading the work will become a small light for teenagers passing through a dark tunnel.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: July 11, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 228 pages | 324g | 136*195*12mm
- ISBN13: 9791130668307
- ISBN10: 1130668304
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