
To you who is having a hard time loving
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Finding meaning in 'ordinary life',
The author, who sought to discover the truth in the 'Forest of Classics' Now, we talk about the ‘substance of faith’ through ‘love.’ Highly recommended by Kim Kwan-seong, Kim Sook-kyung, Kim Hyung-guk, and Jo Jae-wook! “More calmly, more subtly, more deeply “It is a lovely book that will lead you to love.” If you were to summarize Christianity in one word, it would be 'love.' Jesus summarized the numerous laws of the Old Testament and said, “Love the Lord your God and love your neighbor as yourself.” In this way, ‘love’ is the alpha and omega, the beginning and the end, for Christians. Of course, how wonderful it would be if love were only sweet. But it was because of that love that God sent His only Son to earth, and it was because of that love that Jesus died on the cross. In this way, love cannot be just good, and it cannot be thrown away because it hurts or given up because it is difficult. That is the definition of love that Christianity proclaims. This book tells the story of the depth of love through everyday scenes. In a conversation at a cafe, in a scene from a drama, in a passage from the Bible, we find it, think about it, share it, and explore it. The author is familiar with these everyday bumps in the road. Pastor Son Seong-chan, the author, founded the Yim Forest Church to serve as a bridge between God and the world, and to provide the true direction that truth points to those seeking meaning in life. We also strive to be with those who waver and doubt but do not give up on their journey of faith through Facebook and the podcast [Ttaram Deo]. In this book, the author does not easily define love as 'this is what love is'. Rather, it encourages readers to reflect on their own lives and think about what kind of love they have received as Christians and what kind of love they are conveying. I think this book will be a small comfort to you who struggles with giving love rather than just receiving it. I hope that through this book, you will find strength to love again. |
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Recommendation
prolog
I won't abandon you
Love is heavy.
And it's light
As we forgive those who have wronged us
A road I wouldn't have taken if I had known
God's friendship
Inner whispers
Call out a name
Things You Can't Love
What is it called?
Spring sunshine
Prepare for love
Every man is a part of Adam, and every woman is a part of Eve.
That was sympathy
Humans have two ears
What is Jesus' MBTI?
Learning through camping
Love is something that three people do
Believe in Jesus and go to heaven
Who is my neighbor
The mystery of breath
Live by your faith
For pain to become a path
People do not look like numbers.
What do people live by?
Why doesn't God intervene?
Those who are the hardest to love
Why should I love you?
Like your body
I don't have an ideal type
Hannah's Child
We never pushed away
In the swamp of separation anxiety
The opposite of love
poor people
Epilogue
prolog
I won't abandon you
Love is heavy.
And it's light
As we forgive those who have wronged us
A road I wouldn't have taken if I had known
God's friendship
Inner whispers
Call out a name
Things You Can't Love
What is it called?
Spring sunshine
Prepare for love
Every man is a part of Adam, and every woman is a part of Eve.
That was sympathy
Humans have two ears
What is Jesus' MBTI?
Learning through camping
Love is something that three people do
Believe in Jesus and go to heaven
Who is my neighbor
The mystery of breath
Live by your faith
For pain to become a path
People do not look like numbers.
What do people live by?
Why doesn't God intervene?
Those who are the hardest to love
Why should I love you?
Like your body
I don't have an ideal type
Hannah's Child
We never pushed away
In the swamp of separation anxiety
The opposite of love
poor people
Epilogue
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- Although he was someone everyone criticized, at the same time he was the son of a mother who held his hand and cried until the end.
In the mother's cries, 'Even if the whole world criticizes you, you are my child.
It contained the unspoken words, 'I will not abandon you!'
- As the weather gets colder, our luggage naturally increases.
'Clothes' are like that.
The more you wear it, the thicker it gets, and the heavier it gets.
But no one considers these to be 'burdens'.
That's because they protect me from the cold.
It's definitely heavy, but rather than ignoring it, I try to wear it more.
Isn't this what Jesus meant when he said, "My yoke is light, my burden is light"? The commandment to "love" is like that.
At first glance, it may seem like a heavy burden, but the commandment to “love” is the power that protects me from this world full of evil and suffering and from my still-present sinfulness, and it is the power that brings me victory from this world that forces countless false commandments.
So it is clear that it is not a burden, but the essence that gives us rest and life.
And I will try to love even though it hurts and is heavy, because I believe that is what keeps me alive.
- I misunderstood for a while.
The word 'love', which seems to embrace something, and the word 'justice', which seems to exclude something, seemed to be contradictory.
But in reality, love and justice are like two sides of a coin that exist together.
Only justice based on love is true justice, and only when justice is realized is the authenticity of love guaranteed.
- Just as there is an indescribable mystery in the union of a man and a woman, the 'connection' between humans is truly a mystery.
It is not something that can be achieved by human effort.
Of course, you can experience it temporarily through the mysterious tool called hormones, but it is just a connection that will soon disappear.
The mystery that leads us to Adam and Eve before they ate the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil is expressed only through ‘love.’
- Humans clearly have two ears.
Isn't this the Creator's intention to tell us not only to listen to our own voices, but also to those of our neighbors? It seems to be his intention to at least listen with one ear and not let his story, which should be connected to mine, go out the other.
Paul Tillich said:
“The first duty of love is to listen.”
- I heard that somewhere.
“Atheists are those who refuse to see the image of God in others.” If so, Christians can be said to be those who somehow try to see the image of God remaining in their neighbors.
People are beautiful when you keep looking at them like that.
And only when you see it that way will you want to love it.
Seeing someone as a living person comes before the act of loving them.
Why on earth do humans so desperately crave this mortal love, a love that can never be fully fulfilled? Christianity answers, "Because God is love."
The transcendent oneness of the three divine beings is called the 'Trinity' in theological terms, and 'love' in everyday expression.
That is the way of existence of the being called 'God'.
- Even as adults, we continue to fall.
So I keep getting hurt.
So even though we are adults, we still need mystery.
We too need someone who will run to us and hug us first, someone who will breathe on us first.
It's not that there are no hospitals, it's that there are no people.
That's human.
Albert Schweitzer's words come across poignantly.
“Even though there are so many people around us, we are dying of loneliness.”
- Love is the essence of human beings.
That love makes us fully human.
Love enables us to live in this world filled with evil and suffering.
And that love takes us to the kingdom of God.
- My father, who is approaching 7th grade, is having a bit of fun these days.
Whenever he sees our children, he tries to buy them something.
He was a miser to me, whether by choice or not, so I wonder how he can act like that.
Perhaps you want to do for your children's children what you couldn't do for them when they were growing up because you had nothing to do.
- To live a better life, you need to understand your own ‘body’.
And it takes practice to hone this.
The price of ignoring this is a life of lethargy.
Likewise, love is the minimum we need to live as human beings.
And every human being is born with the potential to love.
But as is always the case with potential, if you don't work hard to develop it, it will remain buried until the very end.
I hope it will be developed and become ours.
That love wants to save us in this time of emotional pandemic.
In the mother's cries, 'Even if the whole world criticizes you, you are my child.
It contained the unspoken words, 'I will not abandon you!'
- As the weather gets colder, our luggage naturally increases.
'Clothes' are like that.
The more you wear it, the thicker it gets, and the heavier it gets.
But no one considers these to be 'burdens'.
That's because they protect me from the cold.
It's definitely heavy, but rather than ignoring it, I try to wear it more.
Isn't this what Jesus meant when he said, "My yoke is light, my burden is light"? The commandment to "love" is like that.
At first glance, it may seem like a heavy burden, but the commandment to “love” is the power that protects me from this world full of evil and suffering and from my still-present sinfulness, and it is the power that brings me victory from this world that forces countless false commandments.
So it is clear that it is not a burden, but the essence that gives us rest and life.
And I will try to love even though it hurts and is heavy, because I believe that is what keeps me alive.
- I misunderstood for a while.
The word 'love', which seems to embrace something, and the word 'justice', which seems to exclude something, seemed to be contradictory.
But in reality, love and justice are like two sides of a coin that exist together.
Only justice based on love is true justice, and only when justice is realized is the authenticity of love guaranteed.
- Just as there is an indescribable mystery in the union of a man and a woman, the 'connection' between humans is truly a mystery.
It is not something that can be achieved by human effort.
Of course, you can experience it temporarily through the mysterious tool called hormones, but it is just a connection that will soon disappear.
The mystery that leads us to Adam and Eve before they ate the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil is expressed only through ‘love.’
- Humans clearly have two ears.
Isn't this the Creator's intention to tell us not only to listen to our own voices, but also to those of our neighbors? It seems to be his intention to at least listen with one ear and not let his story, which should be connected to mine, go out the other.
Paul Tillich said:
“The first duty of love is to listen.”
- I heard that somewhere.
“Atheists are those who refuse to see the image of God in others.” If so, Christians can be said to be those who somehow try to see the image of God remaining in their neighbors.
People are beautiful when you keep looking at them like that.
And only when you see it that way will you want to love it.
Seeing someone as a living person comes before the act of loving them.
Why on earth do humans so desperately crave this mortal love, a love that can never be fully fulfilled? Christianity answers, "Because God is love."
The transcendent oneness of the three divine beings is called the 'Trinity' in theological terms, and 'love' in everyday expression.
That is the way of existence of the being called 'God'.
- Even as adults, we continue to fall.
So I keep getting hurt.
So even though we are adults, we still need mystery.
We too need someone who will run to us and hug us first, someone who will breathe on us first.
It's not that there are no hospitals, it's that there are no people.
That's human.
Albert Schweitzer's words come across poignantly.
“Even though there are so many people around us, we are dying of loneliness.”
- Love is the essence of human beings.
That love makes us fully human.
Love enables us to live in this world filled with evil and suffering.
And that love takes us to the kingdom of God.
- My father, who is approaching 7th grade, is having a bit of fun these days.
Whenever he sees our children, he tries to buy them something.
He was a miser to me, whether by choice or not, so I wonder how he can act like that.
Perhaps you want to do for your children's children what you couldn't do for them when they were growing up because you had nothing to do.
- To live a better life, you need to understand your own ‘body’.
And it takes practice to hone this.
The price of ignoring this is a life of lethargy.
Likewise, love is the minimum we need to live as human beings.
And every human being is born with the potential to love.
But as is always the case with potential, if you don't work hard to develop it, it will remain buried until the very end.
I hope it will be developed and become ours.
That love wants to save us in this time of emotional pandemic.
---From the text
Publisher's Review
“Will we be able to recognize each other in heaven?” This is a question that everyone has probably thought about at least once.
Unfortunately, the Bible doesn't provide much information on this matter.
There is much talk about the Kingdom of God that has already come to this earth, but very little about the Kingdom of God that will be completed at the end of time, the so-called "heaven."
And even that is often described as a metaphor or symbol, so it is extremely difficult to make any assertions about it.
However, after much deliberation, theologians have come to this conclusion:
It is said that the relationship can continue depending on the love relationship that was had on this earth.
It means that while living on this earth, it depends on the color and density of love you have had, or the kind of love you have created.
Eventually, everything that is not love will be erased from our side, and only love will remain.
The same goes for the question, “What happens when my pet dies?”
I don't know if that pet will exist in heaven or not.
There is no further information.
However, Christian apologist C.
S. Lewis responded in the same vein as before:
If it is a pet that you have raised with love and communicated with enough, it will definitely exist together face to face even then.
But again, as I mentioned, the Bible clearly speaks overwhelmingly more about the kingdom of God that is already here and now than it does about the future.
But it doesn't matter.
Here or there, now or later, in the end, all these stories are about nothing other than 'love'.
In the end, it is because ‘love’ is what leads to the kingdom of God.
Those who are not in love will disappear, and those who are in love will last forever.
Just as God, who is love, is eternal.
So even if ‘people’ disappear, ‘love’ remains.
Even if the ‘world’ disappears, ‘love’ remains.
David G. Benner
Benner) says in his book Surrender to Love (translated by IVP):
“Christian conversion is not simply encountering love.
It is not about developing a new concept or value of love.
And it's not about trying to be a loved one.
“Christian conversion is becoming love.” Of course, the question remains.
That's because 'love' is so vague.
Of course, it can be defined in one sentence in dictionary terms.
But the actual 'love' is as difficult to understand as the expression 'God'.
But it is absurd to do something so difficult to even understand.
But if you are a Christian, as I am, then 'love' has already been internalized within us in some way.
I've heard it too many times to forget, and it's even harder to deny.
Perhaps that is why our reality is paradoxical.
I know love too well, but I don't know love at all.
Love is so familiar, yet nothing seems more distant.
There is nothing more difficult than having to do something you don't know how to do.
So it's a burden, and so it's very difficult.
To you who is having a hard time loving like this, I will quietly tell you about my stories so far.
Unfortunately, the Bible doesn't provide much information on this matter.
There is much talk about the Kingdom of God that has already come to this earth, but very little about the Kingdom of God that will be completed at the end of time, the so-called "heaven."
And even that is often described as a metaphor or symbol, so it is extremely difficult to make any assertions about it.
However, after much deliberation, theologians have come to this conclusion:
It is said that the relationship can continue depending on the love relationship that was had on this earth.
It means that while living on this earth, it depends on the color and density of love you have had, or the kind of love you have created.
Eventually, everything that is not love will be erased from our side, and only love will remain.
The same goes for the question, “What happens when my pet dies?”
I don't know if that pet will exist in heaven or not.
There is no further information.
However, Christian apologist C.
S. Lewis responded in the same vein as before:
If it is a pet that you have raised with love and communicated with enough, it will definitely exist together face to face even then.
But again, as I mentioned, the Bible clearly speaks overwhelmingly more about the kingdom of God that is already here and now than it does about the future.
But it doesn't matter.
Here or there, now or later, in the end, all these stories are about nothing other than 'love'.
In the end, it is because ‘love’ is what leads to the kingdom of God.
Those who are not in love will disappear, and those who are in love will last forever.
Just as God, who is love, is eternal.
So even if ‘people’ disappear, ‘love’ remains.
Even if the ‘world’ disappears, ‘love’ remains.
David G. Benner
Benner) says in his book Surrender to Love (translated by IVP):
“Christian conversion is not simply encountering love.
It is not about developing a new concept or value of love.
And it's not about trying to be a loved one.
“Christian conversion is becoming love.” Of course, the question remains.
That's because 'love' is so vague.
Of course, it can be defined in one sentence in dictionary terms.
But the actual 'love' is as difficult to understand as the expression 'God'.
But it is absurd to do something so difficult to even understand.
But if you are a Christian, as I am, then 'love' has already been internalized within us in some way.
I've heard it too many times to forget, and it's even harder to deny.
Perhaps that is why our reality is paradoxical.
I know love too well, but I don't know love at all.
Love is so familiar, yet nothing seems more distant.
There is nothing more difficult than having to do something you don't know how to do.
So it's a burden, and so it's very difficult.
To you who is having a hard time loving like this, I will quietly tell you about my stories so far.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: April 12, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 184 pages | 216g | 127*195*13mm
- ISBN13: 9788953144538
- ISBN10: 8953144531
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